Guest viewing porn on phone when we fucking--not polite right?

[zombie]

Recently over the last month or so a few Thai/Asian guests(mb) --not most of them -want to view porn on their phones when we are "at it".

I find this very impolite and rude and in future will stop anyone doing this.

what do others here think of this practice?

[kokopelli3]

Seems there are some boys who cannot get off unless they watch porn that excites them.

Or maybe, their partner is not very exciting or they are not doing what  the money boy likes.

[reader]

I agree it can be a bit off-putting but some guys need it to climax. 

I try not to take it personally  They’re trying to fulfill both your and their fantasies. 😊

[Travellerdave]

I have had a few boys over the years watching porn on their phones whilst in bed with them. If it’s quality gay porn I’ve run it on my large iPad, and watched myself. 

[zombie]

1 hour ago, Travellerdave said:

I have had a few boys over the years watching porn on their phones whilst in bed with them. If it’s quality gay porn I’ve run it on my large iPad, and watched myself. 

Yes thank u Dave..but this thread is not about watching porn per se, its' about the MB watching porn when he should be concentrating on being fucked or doing a fuck with the customer who is paying him.

At least the first 2 responders above understood the question.😃

But maybe as "reader"  astutely and succinctly says above:

"I try not to take it personally  They’re trying to fulfill both your and their fantasies. "

Now that does answer the question even though it may be as kokopelli suggests :

"maybe their partner is not very exciting or they are not doing what  the money boy likes."

 

 

 

 

[Olddaddy]

Your dealing with service providers who maybe straight and are gay4pay most probably.

If you want a straight guy to fuck your old butt and stay hard he may have to watch straight porn ,he isn't personally into you ,of course he can put a act on 

Don't take it personally 

[iendo]

1 hour ago, zombie said:

Yes thank u Dave..but this thread is not about watching porn per se, its' about the MB watching porn when he should be concentrating on being fucked or doing a fuck with the customer who is paying him.

At least the first 2 responders above understood the question.😃

 

 

 

 

 

How did Dave not answer your question? He said that he didn't mind and if it was good porn he would watch too.

I agree with him!

[zombie]

Yes on reflection I can maybe  say Dave did answer the question in his own way so I apoligise for that and maybe I am-- as Olddaddy says --taking it (too) personally...

😃

[gayinpattaya]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

If you want a straight guy to fuck your old butt and stay hard he may have to watch straight porn

Exactly this. It's not rocket science. 

[Mavica]

5 hours ago, reader said:

I agree it can be a bit off-putting but some guys need it to climax. 

I try not to take it personally  They’re trying to fulfill both your and their fantasies. 😊

What?  Surely you’re joking. 

[Latbear4blk]

All of the above answers are correct, from the perspective of the responders.

From the OP's perspective, he is obviously upset and disappointed at the experience. To me, the solution for his problem is quite obvious: do not hire again any MB who watches porn when he is having sex with you. Look for and keep the MBs who meet your expectations.

 

[iendo]

8 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said:

All of the above answers are correct, from the perspective of the responders

From the OP's perspective, he is obviously upset and disappointed at the experience. To me, the solution for his problem is quite obvious: do not hire again any MB who watches porn when he is having sex with you. Look for and keep the MBs who meet your expectations.

To elaborate, I am top and never have this with bottoms. Sometimes, I take home tops (for whatever reason)  and on occasion they watched videos. Not a big deal at all.

For OP it might be better indeed to discuss this before taking the boy home if it is something he finds important. Just like you would ask other important things, like kissing, bottoming etc.

I can see why it could bother someone.

[floridarob]

5 hours ago, iendo said:

To elaborate, I am top and never have this with bottoms.

And I'm a bottom and my back has been used so many times to hold a phone while in doggie position, I'm used to it....if it helps them perform better, better for both of us 😝

[vinapu]

16 hours ago, zombie said:

Recently over the last month or so a few Thai/Asian guests(mb) --not most of them -want to view porn on their phones when we are "at it".

I find this very impolite and rude and in future will stop anyone doing this.

what do others here think of this practice?

Like many others responding I don't see much problem with it, if it helps guy , in  a sense helps me too. Doesn't happen too often though.

On the last trip one of my guys  turned out to have serious social  media addiction problem . Practically whole time he was with me he was on Facebook and other media and we are talking long time arrangement. When at one point I pointed it out,  he calmly announced he is going home if I don't let him to watch it and we are talking  beginning of 4 day arrangement so he threw away knowingly at least 12000, in reality probably 16000 as I was planning bonus if everything would go ok.

Since I believe in giving second chance,  I did about week later. he managed to shed that addiction  for a 2 nights and day in between but on second morning it was stronger than him so I sent him away for 2nd time. Not sure it ever will be 3rd chance although otherwise I like him very much 

[Olddaddy]

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

Like many others responding I don't see much problem with it, if it helps guy , in  a sense helps me too. Doesn't happen too often though.

On the last trip one of my guys  turned out to have serious social  media addiction problem . Practically whole time he was with me he was on Facebook and other media and we are talking long time arrangement. When at one point I pointed it out,  he calmly announced he is going home if I don't let him to watch it and we are talking  beginning of 4 day arrangement so he threw away knowingly at least 12000, in reality probably 16000 as I was planning bonus if everything would go ok.

Since I believe in giving second chance,  I did about week later. he managed to shed that addiction  for a 2 nights and day in between but on second morning it was stronger than him so I sent him away for 2nd time. Not sure it ever will be 3rd chance although otherwise I like him very much 

My bf the same , on this Facebook all the time, but you see it in cafes too,. 🤣2 people at same table on social media 

[vinapu]

8 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

My bf the same , on this Facebook all the time, but you see it in cafes too,. 🤣2 people at same table on social media 

in café I can tolerate  guys being on the phone but not in my own bed  and not when I hired them to help me with stamp collection

[BiggusDikkus]

13 hours ago, zombie said:

taking it (too) personally

I don't know if anyone is taking anything too personally, but I can share a story that might show it works both ways. I once took a guy back to my hotel and was not very turned on by him. I lost my hard-on. It was embarrassing to me and I'm sure very insulting to him, but he still wanted some action and so pulled out his phone and started sharing some videos with me to help get me hard again. It was awkward but I thought since young people have grown up with smartphones and have lived their lives through their smartphones, maybe this is how many of them have sex. So we watched porn together while he caressed my cock until it stood erect again. He could have shown his disappointment when I lost my hard-on but instead came up with a solution, however awkward for me it may have been. And when I allowed myself to accept the situation, watching videos on his phone turned out to be a solution to better sex.

[zombie]

vinapu writes:

"in café I can tolerate  guys being on the phone but not in my own bed  and not when I hired them to help me with stamp collection"

Agree entirely.

Lendo writes above he is a top and " never have this with bottoms"

 

-Well we are all creatures of our own experience and the few times it has happened to me it is only with bottoms.

 

Some very good advice in the replies generally so I thank everyone for that. It ain't a big deal I realize and will try not to make it one ; I can as Lendo suggests discuss with the boy before offing him or simple politely though firmly  tell him -when back to my home- to turn off his phone when we do it or leave the phone in another room in my apartment.

 

And BiggusDikkus shares an interesting story above.

 

😊

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Latbear4blk]

6 minutes ago, BiggusDikkus said:

So we watched porn together while he caressed my cock until it stood erect again.

With your screen name, I guess getting a full erection is a challenge deserving of a blood transfusion. 😇

[pong2]

Hmm-was the original maybe meaning it was str8 poh to watch? I had that once in that Barcelona sauna.

My biggest fear in such a case would be if guy was not stealthily making a tiny movie to sent to justfans or whatever channel for a few bt extra.

[BiggusDikkus]

1 hour ago, Latbear4blk said:

With your screen name

It's a joke name, sir. 

 

[gingerbeef]

Lol, I can't lie, it would be a turn-on for me if he needs to watch straight porn. Right or wrong my fetish is straight men. 

[t0oL1]

Had a friend staying with me watching "gay" porn!

I was amazed.

But he was my honored (and paid) friend and I was estatic to have him stay.

[Baska]

Once at the Paradise Complex in Phuket I had the same experience with MB - I was looking for a straight looking MB and he warned me that he was a "boy boy". And so when he took out the phone and began to watch natural porn on it, while I was on my knees giving him a blowjob - I decided that I could play this game. After all, don't expect a hot guy to have a good erection before the bar closes.
Although I can understand the hurt pride of the top in a similar situation.

[Travellerdave]

Reading these various experiences of fellow members about boys watching porn whilst in bed  , I’m  taken back to some years ago by something rather different. I was in a king bed with a very hot twink and was woken up in the middle of the night in the pitch darkness by  noises (beeps, buzzes and clicks) coming from under the bed sheets, from which there was also a faint glow. I gradually came to and slid over to his side of the bed and whispered “what you do “ to which the reply was “play game”. . I was amused by this and asked him to show me. It was in the early days of smart phones and I did not possess one, only a basic mobile phone with few extras. He demonstrated the game and showed me how to play and for a while I forgot about sex in my efforts to master the skill. However I gradually focussed more on his delicious  body and commenced sucking his cock whilst he gradually ceased play and put the phone aside and we commenced “normal service”. In the morning and over room service breakfast we  Laughed about the experience and the game which I think was some sort of early version of Candy Crush. It was One of my boy “adventures” which remains in my memory bank and causes me to smile as I reminisce about times gone by.