Are you getting it in your own country?

[Olddaddy]

Wherever you live are you having sex in your own country?

Do you go cruising or pay4play or go on Grindr and invite guys over?

Do you go to gay saunas in your own country?

Do you have great gay saunas ?

Here in Sydney Australia we have a few one in particular very popular with bisexual guys called 357 in the heart of Sydney City out of the gay district and it's very popular,over 5 levels 

Love to know about other Cities gay saunas ,not sure if they have gay saunas in Texas ?,but luv a cowboy to fuck my daddy ass

Im too shy in the gay sauna I end up just walking around 

I can't go to Asia now until February and I'm certainly not going to go pay for it 

On Grindr I end up attracting guys of middle eastern background and their  bottoms for some reason 🙂

 

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

,not sure if they have gay saunas in Texas

in Dallas:

http://www.clubsaunas.com/

I wouldn't expect to see a top in there, never mind a cowboy, lol

[t0oL1]

One guy asked if I was "Gen" on Grindr. I heartily replied "yes".

Now and then I set my profile to say "GENtleman" and occasionally

send pics of cash to certain hotties.

I also note this rarely works

on any profiles listed as "bottoms"

[WelshGuyUK]

I don't get anything in Wales, but that said I do get offers on Grinder off guys that are usually way off my radar 😬

 

I now have 2 holidays per year to Asia /'Jomtien in order to get what I fancy.......nice young twink Asian boys.......in fact I think that's all that does it for me now. I really don't want overweight, old or hairy lol, as I'd rather go without ☺️

 

I do have an Indonesian friend here in Wales that I play only badminton with ( sadly nothing else) and one day we did go together to a gay Sauna in Northwich, Cheshire, UK. That was my first experience of a gay Sauna so clearly I was nervous and didn't know anything. My friend certainly attracted a lot of attention though 😜

 

Since that time, I've frequented a few Saunas in BKK and Jomtien and I am pleased I stayed at Babylon when it was open. Brilliant time there and similarly at Sansuk, Jomtien where I've had a few great times. 

 

I return in a couple of weeks and hope Sansuknhas reopened in order to enjoy the experience once again post- covid. 😜

 

 

 

 

[gerefan]

Sansuk has reopened. See the thread on here and the one on Sawatdee.

[Wynter11]

Also Australian but from a smaller city. I’m admittedly picky but have a broad range of taste from twinks to muscly types but it’s been grim the past 12 months. Prices on rentmen keeping going up and the guys often ugly or old. Most have no professionalism either, communication is like pulling teeth. 
 

Grindr is likewise useless unless you’re hot enough to have gotten their attention without money anyway. Clearly the economy can’t that bad yet 😂 So many catfish too. 50% of the twinks are just people fishing for pics to wank to. 
 

My local scene has never been great but damn has it gotten worse since Covid. 

[TMax]

26 minutes ago, Wynter11 said:

Also Australian but from a smaller city. I’m admittedly picky but have a broad range of taste from twinks to muscly types but it’s been grim the past 12 months. Prices on rentmen keeping going up and the guys often ugly or old. Most have no professionalism either, communication is like pulling teeth. 
 

Grindr is likewise useless unless you’re hot enough to have gotten their attention without money anyway. Clearly the economy can’t that bad yet 😂 So many catfish too. 50% of the twinks are just people fishing for pics to wank to. 
 

My local scene has never been great but damn has it gotten worse since Covid. 

I find myself in a similar situation as you do (small city), my tatses are very simple, my #1 preference is for Asian guys and where I live there are very few gay or bi Asians here and those that are prefer guys closer to their age. Looking at the apps there really isn't much at all in my area that takes my interest and not a lot on offer anyway, maybe I'm just too picky. Maybe if there was a good Asian masseur in Perth that offered full service I would visit there more often. It all makes my trips to Thailand more enjoyable and I am very much looking forward to my 2023 trip. 

[Wynter11]

7 minutes ago, TMax said:

I find myself in a similar situation as you do (small city), my tatses are very simple, my #1 preference is for Asian guys and where I live there are very few gay or bi Asians here and those that are prefer guys closer to their age. Looking at the apps there really isn't much at all in my area that takes my interest and not a lot on offer anyway, maybe I'm just too picky. Maybe if there was a good Asian masseur in Perth that offered full service I would visit there more often. It all makes my trips to Thailand more enjoyable and I am very much looking forward to my 2023 trip. 

I feel your pain. I’d love to go back, thinking of January, but money is tighter thanks to rate rises and the cost of flights these days. 

[scott456]

I can get sex where I live(even for free), but I am not interested in anyone over 35 years old, ugly, or out of shape.  I have the money to burn at this point in my life and I enjoy traveling, so why not go abroad.

[PeterRS]

On 9/28/2022 at 8:29 AM, Olddaddy said:

Wherever you live are you having sex in your own country?

You didn't offer a committed partnership as an option!!

[floridarob]

1 minute ago, PeterRS said:

You didn't offer a committed partnership as an option!!

Because we're all whores here.....I have a partner, he's a whore too, lol

[PeterRS]

14 minutes ago, floridarob said:

Because we're all whores here.....I have a partner, he's a whore too, lol

Ha! Well I guess it takes all sorts  🤣🤣

[Olddaddy]

2 hours ago, PeterRS said:

You didn't offer a committed partnership as an option!!

My relationship with my Filipino boy is open 

[a-447]

I used to find rent guys advertising in the personal columns of the newspapers in Perth.

I had a list a mile long to choose from and for years I'd get in my car and drive all over town whenever I felt horny.

As I grew up in an Asian country it was only natural for me to prefer Asian guys but most of those advertising were Western. I got really excited when one day I found a guy who was Thai. I got into my car and rushed over to his apartment but was shocked to see he was a ladyboy!

I tried to escape but he somehow managed to cut me off at the pass and before I knew it I was lying down on the massage table.  He gave me a quick hand job and I then got up and rushed out the door.

I found a few guys who said they were Japanese but strangely enough, they didn't understandca single a word of what I was saying in Japanese. Turns out they were Chinese. Unfortunately, they were rather pushy, just wanting to get the deed over as quickly as possible, so the sex was barely acceptable. There's nothing worse than a guy looking back at you over his shoulder asking "Have you finished yet?"

I've lost count of the number of guys I've contacted through their newspaper ads, but again, the sex was very mechanical.

However, I did actually meet 3 guys who I really liked. Not only did they have the necessary attributes - handsome, swimmer's body, friendly personality and big, fat cock - they were also awesome in bed and best of all, they were versatile. 

These 3 guys became my regulars and we have spent a lot of time together. One is now off the scene but the other 2 are available.

The routine is, I'll call one over in the late afternoon or early evening. He has his own room on the far side of the house. We'll have sex then sit out on the balcony and watch the sunset while we have a drink or two. Then we go out for dinner. After dinner we'll sit and chat or get into the jacuzzi or have a swim. We then have sex again and he goes off to his room to sleep. He comes back to my room in the morning and we lie in bed for a while just chatting and planning the day before we have some more fun - usually just a wank, sometimes just a cuddle.

Both guys are into cars so we often go for a drive out in the country. In winter we go to the movies and in summer we go to the beach. Then it's back home after lunch and I like to just sit on the sofa and play with my Ipad and he might go to his room for a while. There's heaps of things at home to keep him busy - I've got a gym and I've also bought an xbox with some car racing games, compete with driver's seat, steering wheel, etc. All this is just to make sure that he doesn't get bored when he comes over.

Even though this arrangement is almost perfect for me, I wonder how long it will last as sooner or later the 2 guys will have to move on. That means I'll have to try and find someone else and that might be very difficult to do. 

The other problem is, they are not Asian. If they were, my life would be perfect.

Oh well, you can't have everything.

[Olddaddy]

2 hours ago, a-447 said:

I used to find rent guys advertising in the personal columns of the newspapers in Perth.

I had a list a mile long to choose from and for years I'd get in my car and drive all over town whenever I felt horny.

As I grew up in an Asian country it was only natural for me to prefer Asian guys but most of those advertising were Western. I got really excited when one day I found a guy who was Thai. I got into my car and rushed over to his apartment but was shocked to see he was a ladyboy!

I tried to escape but he somehow managed to cut me off at the pass and before I knew it I was lying down on the massage table.  He gave me a quick hand job and I then got up and rushed out the door.

I found a few guys who said they were Japanese but strangely enough, they didn't understandca single a word of what I was saying in Japanese. Turns out they were Chinese. Unfortunately, they were rather pushy, just wanting to get the deed over as quickly as possible, so the sex was barely acceptable. There's nothing worse than a guy looking back at you over his shoulder asking "Have you finished yet?"

I've lost count of the number of guys I've contacted through their newspaper ads, but again, the sex was very mechanical.

However, I did actually meet 3 guys who I really liked. Not only did they have the necessary attributes - handsome, swimmer's body, friendly personality and big, fat cock - they were also awesome in bed and best of all, they were versatile. 

These 3 guys became my regulars and we have spent a lot of time together. One is now off the scene but the other 2 are available.

The routine is, I'll call one over in the late afternoon or early evening. He has his own room on the far side of the house. We'll have sex then sit out on the balcony and watch the sunset while we have a drink or two. Then we go out for dinner. After dinner we'll sit and chat or get into the jacuzzi or have a swim. We then have sex again and he goes off to his room to sleep. He comes back to my room in the morning and we lie in bed for a while just chatting and planning the day before we have some more fun - usually just a wank, sometimes just a cuddle.

Both guys are into cars so we often go for a drive out in the country. In winter we go to the movies and in summer we go to the beach. Then it's back home after lunch and I like to just sit on the sofa and play with my Ipad and he might go to his room for a while. There's heaps of things at home to keep him busy - I've got a gym and I've also bought an xbox with some car racing games, compete with driver's seat, steering wheel, etc. All this is just to make sure that he doesn't get bored when he comes over.

Even though this arrangement is almost perfect for me, I wonder how long it will last as sooner or later the 2 guys will have to move on. That means I'll have to try and find someone else and that might be very difficult to do. 

The other problem is, they are not Asian. If they were, my life would be perfect.

Oh well, you can't have everything.

Are they paid guys ? 

 

[vaughn]

I'm in my mid-30s and into twinks so usually it's not easy to get the guys on Grindr where I am in Australia. The hot Australian bottom twinks are difficult to get because there is an overabundance of attractive tops in their 20s that I'm competing with. The top to bottom ratio makes it a bottoms-market where I am, the apps are filled with guys wasting time for attention, catfishing, or have the kind of personalities you want nothing to do with no matter how hot they are.

This year has been pretty remarkable though, I have been with the two hottest guys I've ever been with in my home city. One of them I dated for a month before it all fell apart and the other was just a horny onlyfans twink I messaged on Grindr that wanted to be used for a night.

I've had a few paid regulars over the years, but they are usually pretty disappointing compared to the guys I meet overseas. The international students doing freelance massage here have been the best options, but there are not many of them.

There is a gay sauna or two but I've never been to a sauna, I would probably be more willing to try a sauna overseas than at home because I don't want to run into anyone I know.

[PeterRS]

16 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

My relationship with my Filipino boy is open 

What I meant was a long-term committed partnership in one's home city. From what I read, I believe your Filipino boy is probably in a different country. If that's correct "getting it" must be pretty intermittent throughout the year.

[a-447]

7 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

Are they paid guys ? 

 

Yes.

When I was going over to their place I was paying the standard rate. After they became my go-to guyd and started coming to my house they dropped their asking price, based on the fact that they'd have a regular income from me.

I'm quite generous and I have always believed that in life you get what you pay for, generally speaking. Apart from the money they can have a good time at my place with lots of activities available apart from sex. They also have use of my credit card at the liqour store and are free to buy whatever they want to drink. They have  never abused the privilege. Like me,  they are not big drinkers and just enjoy a few drinks at night so although the alcohol is expensive, we don't drink a lot of it.

In return they are very generous with their time and like my 2 regulars in Thailand they are very enthusiastic in bed. And they never ask for anything.

When I'm on an Asian sex trip I have sex every day - once in the afternoon and once (sometimes twice) at night. It feels like I need to get off so often because I've come all this way. Plus, the Asian guys are a real turn-on for me; I need to make up for the lack of Asians available in Perth. There are lots of Asian students at the universities here but they tend to come from wealthy backgrounds so don't need to sell their bodies. 

Unlike my sex trips, at home I don't need to have sex day after day and in any case I'd wear myself out very quickly. On a trip, I can only last a couple of weeks before I have to come home and have a rest. 

As I said, I don't know how long this set-up can continue. When it does I'll just have to visit Asia more often.

At the moment, the Myannmar spa guys are looking very attractive!

[kokopelli3]

On 9/28/2022 at 8:29 AM, Olddaddy said:

Wherever you live are you having sex in your own country?

Do you go cruising or pay4play or go on Grindr and invite guys over?

Do you go to gay saunas in your own country?

 

 

Never, ever have I had commercial sex in my own country.

[Boy69]

My short answer to the OP is :

NO !!!!

[Shonen]

No.

[Guest]

yes

 

[Olddaddy]

Did many of you go without sex during the lockouts from Thailand?

What did you do for sex during the 2 years pandemic? 😳😳

 

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

Did many of you go without sex during the lockouts from Thailand?

What did you do for sex during the 2 years pandemic? 😳😳

 

I live in Mexico, have a Mexican bf, we do 3-ways here and I travelled to Brasil ALOT during Covid....

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

 

What did you do for sex during the 2 years pandemic? 😳😳

 

I watched Thai BL series