zombie Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 Olddaddy writes after telling his doctor about rimming: "he sat in his seat ...looking like he was shocked...😳😳😳he didn't speak like for a few seconds staring at me . he didn't say anything then said loudly...almost urgently..." We need to give you a full sexual health check up immediately!!!!!" -Seems you in a clinic or with a doctor who ( quite wrongly )dissapproves of your lifestyle. Its not for him to judge. Can you not go to a place or a clinic that is more welcoming? Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 19, 2022 Author Posted August 19, 2022 1 hour ago, zombie said: Olddaddy writes after telling his doctor about rimming: "he sat in his seat ...looking like he was shocked...😳😳😳he didn't speak like for a few seconds staring at me . he didn't say anything then said loudly...almost urgently..." We need to give you a full sexual health check up immediately!!!!!" -Seems you in a clinic or with a doctor who ( quite wrongly )dissapproves of your lifestyle. Its not for him to judge. Can you not go to a place or a clinic that is more welcoming? I do, but I wanted to seek a second opinion and that was a large medical centre, but that young Egyptian doctor turned out actually good. He gave me yesterday every test ,and I think he was right about glandular fever as the medication he gave me seems to be working. Never have I heard about this Glandular fever ..it's called Epstein Barr virus ...how did I get this if I have it ???? Kissing 👄 rimming 👅? I ate a lot of ass ,it's my fetish ,i luv putting my tongue in their asshole especially straight guys and hearing them moan My throat seems to be much better after these Cilicaine VK tablets , Glandular fever / Epstein Barr virus seems to have the same symptoms as Covid so many of you guys may have had this disease already without knowing it 😳 I will still pay the (forced no other option) $500 to see a throat specialist next week though just to make sure it's not HPV lurking in my throat,I can't afford $500 that's half the airfare to Thailand but I have no choice ,do you guy really think I want to pay some rich doctor $500 to choke me with a camera for 5 minutes,I have no other option,I could go in a public waiting list for the next year or so and wait for it under the public health system where it could be HPV in my throat and it would of spread so I have to pay a private doctor .😟 a normal GP cannot put a camera down my throat so I'm forced to pay a specialist , I don't want to I could use that money for other things !!!😣😣 That could turn to cancer if it 😭a avid poster on here years ago handle (LMTU) died from this this !!! I remember him posting he had sore throat etc then it spread to his back and neck., He was getting treatment but apparently it was too late He must of left it too long? I met him many times in person,a lovely man ,he looked very fit to for his age so was quite surprised when I heard he had HPV in his throat that had spread 💜💜💜 Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 19, 2022 Author Posted August 19, 2022 5 hours ago, colmx said: I caught Mono/EBV around 10 years ago and had similar symptoms to yourself. My doc didn't think that it was possible for a guy in his 30s to catch it as most "normal" people catch "kissing disease" when they are in their teens but that's what the blood tests showed up. Perhaps (like me?) you were too busy being a nerd or closet boy when in your teens to get caught with mono. Also back on their subject of poppers, they do tear the throat out of you when huffed persistently so it could have helped cause damage that helped the infection get hold Finally it seems that the gay Thailand forums have an obsession with bacterial infections due to rimming. Completely unlike other similar forums, where this is never mentioned, I grant that the SEA diet is different to most countries, but it does seem like rimming gets an unfair deal on the gay Thailand forums! Yes I think the poppers did cause a infection in my throat ,what's in them ? It's a leather cleaner apparentlyI stopped using them,I can't with this burning throat anyway the GP I saw yesterday a young guy on exchange from Egypt was great,he seemed to know or think it was Glandular fever and gave me this medication called Cilicaine VK which seems to have helped my throat . I'm going to have to do things a bit different when going to Thailand 🔵I need to be honest, I sucked many guys in nice boys and winner boys ,I'm thinking could they have been sucked also by other farang before I got there and didn't wash properly ?🔵😳😳😳is that possible??? I sat on the bench opposite the stage sucking 3 or 4 guys and saw other farangs in their deep kissing boys Then their saliva exchanged with mine getting me this Epstein Barr virus❓❓?😳😳 I mean what about the farangs who went in AFTER me and sucked those boys? It's possible you now have the Epstein Barr virus lurking in your body too or HPV ! I'm not going to lie ,it 99% I have HPV in my body maybe not active ( hope not ) but I'm sure you would agree So guys please think before doing this with boys inside the bar who haven't washed ,I'm not even sure but this Epstein Barr virus is caused by kissing so I deep kissed a boy in a bar you then deep kiss him❓ In that last 2 Months in Asia , I had a different mindset , at 62 I just thought enjoy it so had many times without condom( I'm bottom) But some of you seem to have no empathy for me in your comments which is very sad ,I'm going thru a tough time right now with not knowing about my throat . I agree I made some wrong decisions back in June & July in Thailand and Philippines, at 62 I wanted to live life to the fullest and have sex with as many guys as possible Quote
thaiophilus Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 1 hour ago, Olddaddy said: Yes I think the poppers did cause a infection in my throat ,what's in them ? It's a leather cleaner apparently Two minutes on Google would tell you what's in them. They are alkyl nitrites. Used medicinally they are a treatment for angina. Some are safer than others, but when they are mislabelled as leather cleaner, who knows what's in them? The "leather cleaner" nonsense is part of the pretence that they are not for human consumption and therefore not subject to medicines legislation. Mavica, Olddaddy and vinapu 3 Quote
Shonen Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 3 hours ago, Olddaddy said: Yes I think the poppers did cause a infection in my throat ,what's in them ? It's a leather cleaner apparentlyI stopped using them,I can't with this burning throat anyway the GP I saw yesterday a young guy on exchange from Egypt was great,he seemed to know or think it was Glandular fever and gave me this medication called Cilicaine VK which seems to have helped my throat . I'm going to have to do things a bit different when going to Thailand 🔵I need to be honest, I sucked many guys in nice boys and winner boys ,I'm thinking could they have been sucked also by other farang before I got there and didn't wash properly ?🔵😳😳😳is that possible??? I sat on the bench opposite the stage sucking 3 or 4 guys and saw other farangs in their deep kissing boys Then their saliva exchanged with mine getting me this Epstein Barr virus❓❓?😳😳 I mean what about the farangs who went in AFTER me and sucked those boys? It's possible you now have the Epstein Barr virus lurking in your body too or HPV ! I'm not going to lie ,it 99% I have HPV in my body maybe not active ( hope not ) but I'm sure you would agree So guys please think before doing this with boys inside the bar who haven't washed ,I'm not even sure but this Epstein Barr virus is caused by kissing so I deep kissed a boy in a bar you then deep kiss him❓ In that last 2 Months in Asia , I had a different mindset , at 62 I just thought enjoy it so had many times without condom( I'm bottom) But some of you seem to have no empathy for me in your comments which is very sad ,I'm going thru a tough time right now with not knowing about my throat . I agree I made some wrong decisions back in June & July in Thailand and Philippines, at 62 I wanted to live life to the fullest and have sex with as many guys as possible I think you’re getting good advice from the members here. If you were on another gay board you would be given a harder time, and maybe even be accused of being a troll. if $500 you can’t afford, how can you pay all these boys. And not knowing you can get an std from a dick or ass would make me wonder where you think you can get an std, your belly button? im real sorry to mention this, and I assume you’re very sincere. I really want you to get the proper treatment. Please don’t worry about hpv, it takes years to develop and Epstein bar is very common. I believe it’s related to herpes. Many have it and don’t know it or have no symptoms. I would like to think that in the future you’ll be more cautious and try to stick to the same boys. I know it’s tempting to be very promiscuous, I am at times also. Now we possibly have Monkey virus to worry about, so be extra vigilant,lol. Sorry to sound like a Debby downer. keep going, we’re here for support and encouragement. vinapu and Olddaddy 2 Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 19, 2022 Author Posted August 19, 2022 Thankyou Shonen for your support 💜💜💜 it's just getting annoying for me waiting for appointments I'm starting to get sick of this, I wish someone could just identify what's wrong with my throat, and I can move on to sex again. Quote
reader Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 Although some may find this discussion distasteful, it's proving to be an education. Better we become aware of the risks before we acquire an infection, particularly at at time when more re-emerging diseases are making themselves known. As mentioned above, we don't have to become hermits and refrain from all activities. It's a matter of making sensible choices. I've been keeping in touch with a massage worker from BKK since my last trip. He tells me that he and his mates are very much aware of monkeypox and its symptoms. They've become adept at scanning clients for signs as they undress in the room. Fortunately none have yet to be spotted. Olddaddy and vinapu 2 Quote
vinapu Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 6 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I can't afford $500 that's half the airfare to Thailand but I have no choice ,do you guy really think I want to pay some rich doctor $500 to choke me with a camera for 5 minutes,I have no other option, just pay him and chalk it off, your piece of mind knowing what's going on is worth more that stupid 500 $ 6 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I need to be honest, I sucked many guys in nice boys and winner boys ,I'm thinking could they have been sucked also by other farang before I got there and didn't wash properly ? that's rather sure thing 2 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I wish someone could just identify what's wrong with my throat, and I can move on to sex again. don't be to impatient, you still young . First they must identify problem , then cure you . Then you go back, carefully to your old ways. In meantime hand holding session with favorite guys will be your reward and I'm serious. There are many ways of enjoying boys barebacking and baresucking. reader and Mavica 2 Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 19, 2022 Author Posted August 19, 2022 7 minutes ago, vinapu said: just pay him and chalk it off, your piece of mind knowing what's going on is worth more that stupid 500 $ that's rather sure thing don't be to impatient, you still young . First they must identify problem , then cure you . Then you go back, carefully to your old ways. In meantime hand holding session with favorite guys will be your reward and I'm serious. There are many ways of enjoying boys barebacking and baresucking. I'm 62 not young, probably another 15 -20 years left if I don't have health problems Quote
vinapu Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 1 hour ago, Olddaddy said: I'm 62 not young, probably another 15 -20 years left if I don't have health problems eh, to be 62 again, sigh ! Londoner 1 Quote
floridarob Posted August 19, 2022 Posted August 19, 2022 6 hours ago, Olddaddy said: probably another 15 -20 years left Or not....we never know 😞 Mavica 1 Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 19, 2022 Author Posted August 19, 2022 2 hours ago, floridarob said: Or not....we never know 😞 That's why my motto is " Grow old disgracefully" 😂 floridarob and PeterRS 2 Quote
vinapu Posted August 20, 2022 Posted August 20, 2022 4 hours ago, floridarob said: Or not....we never know 😞 that's consolation indeed, lol floridarob 1 Quote
Shonen Posted August 20, 2022 Posted August 20, 2022 12 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I'm 62 not young, probably another 15 -20 years left if I don't have health problems You said you were overweight before. Better eat less, I don’t know of any overweight people who made it to 80. Mavica 1 Quote
Popular Post Mavica Posted August 20, 2022 Popular Post Posted August 20, 2022 14 hours ago, reader said: Although some may find this discussion distasteful, it's proving to be an education. Yes, I'm hoping some readers will become better informed. But it has to be said that any unapologetic boasting of dangerous sex practices ... which clearly can have a negative and health-threatening impact not only the boys but some of us who post here and travel to Thailand or elsewhere - should remind us that when we sleep, have sex, with money boys or Grindr dates, etc. we are potentially sleeping with the others they've slept with. Let's remember the threats we ourself can present to so many other people by our own bad behaviors. Ok, enough said. If I posted what I really think I'll likely be reprimanded by the Moderator. But there are comments in this discussion that do call out for repeated reminders of our responsibilities. alvnv, PeterRS, bangdom and 2 others 4 1 Quote
PeterRS Posted August 20, 2022 Posted August 20, 2022 Glandular fever/Epstein Barr virus can easily be spread through a carrier handling food like salad which you then eat. The difference between this and covid is, I believe, the possibility that glandular fever often has a slight effect on the liver. In a serious case, this can result in jaundice and a slight yellowing of the whites of the eyes. The good thing is that a great many people all around the world get glandular fever in their late teens/early 20s, are virtually unaware of it and it then becomes inactive in the body. I believe it is rare for it then to reappear in one's later life. The major problem is that the period between infection and symptoms being felt is measured in weeks. During this time the infected person can easily infect others. The virus is present in saliva and so kissing an infected person will almost certainly transmit the virus to you. But as with all illnesses, this information should be checked with a recognised medical professional. As for poppers, I have never used them but as I travel regularly I have occasionally brought them in for friends. When I have done so, I usually try to strip the labelling off the bottle and then either put it in my toiletries bag or stuff it into a shoe along with some dirty socks! Olddaddy 1 Quote
gerefan Posted August 20, 2022 Posted August 20, 2022 Im currently on a months holiday in Thailand. What an utterly depressing thread. Im out of here! WelshGuyUK 1 Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 20, 2022 Author Posted August 20, 2022 8 hours ago, Shonen said: You said you were overweight before. Better eat less, I don’t know of any overweight people who made it to 80. I will ask the throat specialist this week on behalf of all of us if it's ok to get the HPV vaccine at our age ,and if you can get this vaccine if you already have/had HPV.I imagine about 95% of us have HPV,would that be correct ??I don't want the end up with this HPV turning into something,so I think we ALL need to find out about this vaccine! I'm not sure if you can get it if you already have HPV ,I'm not sure if it's any beneficial. Here is a copy that is interesting There are many different HPV types, only some of which can potentially cause serious illnesses including cancer. The Gardasil 9 vaccine protects against the most frequent types that can cause disease. Sometimes HPV does not clear the body naturally – usually when the infection is with one of the more serious types. We call this 'persistent' HPV infection. Sadly many of you have never heard of HPV 😟😟😟 vinapu 1 Quote
floridarob Posted August 20, 2022 Posted August 20, 2022 2 hours ago, Olddaddy said: it's ok to get the HPV vaccine at our age ,and if you can get this vaccine if you already have/had HPV no and no Olddaddy 1 Quote
Shonen Posted August 20, 2022 Posted August 20, 2022 11 hours ago, floridarob said: no and no My doctor gave it to me when I was 52. He got it also around that time and I’d say he was about 45. Olddaddy 1 Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 21, 2022 Author Posted August 21, 2022 22 hours ago, Shonen said: You said you were overweight before. Better eat less, I don’t know of any overweight people who made it to 80. I am now 110kg but I used to live weights everyday ( up till last month when I got sick ) Your right though ,many guys our age let their bodies go . I saw so many guys middle-aged and above trying to cram their bellies into economy class Is it overeating or less exercise? I know many blame it in slowing metabolism? Quote
vinapu Posted August 21, 2022 Posted August 21, 2022 1 hour ago, Olddaddy said: I saw so many guys middle-aged and above trying to cram their bellies into economy class Is it overeating or less exercise? overeating Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 21, 2022 Author Posted August 21, 2022 2 hours ago, Shonen said: My doctor gave it to me when I was 52. He got it also around that time and I’d say he was about 45. I will ask the HPV specialist when I see him this week whether it's still works if you already have it. They say 95% of anal cancers are caused by HPV and so many throat cancers . It's best to get the anal swabs every year ,I know it's embarrassing but better to be safe Quote
Olddaddy Posted August 21, 2022 Author Posted August 21, 2022 3 minutes ago, vinapu said: overeating And drinking alcohol too I guess Quote
floridarob Posted August 21, 2022 Posted August 21, 2022 2 hours ago, Shonen said: My doctor gave it to me when I was 52. He got it also around that time and I’d say he was about 45. https://khn.org/news/federal-experts-advice-on-hpv-vaccine-could-leave-adults-confused/#:~:text=The vaccine won't protect,impact in this age group. Quote