Review of my last year's trip to Santo Domingo, and Plans for Another in Feb--How does this Sound?

[Axiom2020]

1 hour ago, Latbear4blk said:

With the right escort, there is no difference with unpaid sex. The best ones know how to find something attractive on anyone, and make it feel not transactional. It happens a lot to me, and I am almost 60.

I fully concur, for over the years that I've engaged the services of escorts, the majority of them have given me a very wonderful and memorable time.  In fact, one escort and I saw each other over a four or five year period at different times.  During our latter times, it was I who decided not to contact him anymore, for I wanted to explore in other areas.

My suggestion to Slvkguy: you are at a different period in your life.  Play without analyzing for pay vs pay.  Try to enjoy yourself in either situation.

I am much older than you and Latbear4blk, and my "go-to-guy" in San Francisco has been seeing me for over 5 years now; each timed that we've been together has gotten better and better.  Because of covid, I have yet to meet him for sex although we've communicated in RentMen's chat.  Last May or June I arranged to see him.  

He arrived at the hotel and waited for me in the lounge.  When I arrived there and looked at him, he looked hotter than ever.  When we strolled to the entrance/exit area, I stopped him and relayed that because of covid, I was not too comfortable and would have to cancel.  During this exchange, I grabbed his hand and discreetly placed his fee.  My guy thanked me profusely and invited me to join him outside for our "420 ritual."  That I did.

We conversed; we smoked; he continued to thank me for the two or three reviews that I'd written on his behalf on RM (Mine were his first.), and he invited me to call him whenever if only to have a conversation.

I am hoping to see him within the next few months once I obtain my new Prep prescription, for I am yearning to have one quite, quite memorable "fuck down," something that he definitely knows how to render

[Guest]

actually - when I’m with escorts or in a sauna situation, I don’t analyze anything at all - I’m focused on having a good time & being in the moment.

when I see these discussions about the great friendships established w paid companions, I have no doubt those feelings are real.  just never forget that if you aren’t paying these guys, they wouldn’t be around.  so, there are conditions on the “friendship” or whatever you want to call it.

I have zero shame about paying for sex and don’t need to create some illusion that they are really into me or that we are somehow friends outside of the paid encounter.  that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t socialize in the right context or occasionally text back/forth about something unrelated to sex.  But at the end, I am the client and the provider is the sex worker - and they’re in it to make money.

for anyone who thinks differently - try maintaining a long term “friendship” with a professional escort where no money is exchanged - expect them to have sex with you, or meet you with w no payment and see how long that lasts.   There may be an outlier here or there that someone can cite anecdotally , but vast majority just won’t waste their time

 

[babybear2]

great report, enjoyed reading it

[12is12]

Canadian, I join in thanking you for these reports.

They lead to what seems to be an obvious conclusion: Grindr is better than Manny, because you get what you want and for a lower price.

Am I mistaken?

[Guest]

@Canadianbtmguy
Apologies in advance if you’re not a troll or fake account - but your trip reports/posts sure have all the typical signs of a troll:

1. Inconsistency describing your age from one post to the next 

2. a specific ask for referrals/contact information for escorts in Santo Domingo

3. an obsession w bareback sex with escorts

4. references to numerous “planned trips” yet brief vague trip reports or recycled information from other members. 

5. all of the fakes reference “free” sex on Grindr vs paid escort - always 

6. Mexico City, Santo Domingo, Istanbul and Rio all within first 5 months of 2022 ?  Possible but highly improbable.  Barebacking with escorts at every stop ?  just doesn’t make sense 

I’m not buying it.  Sorry. There’s more that doesn’t add up, but I think you get the point 

 

On 2/7/2022 at 9:07 AM, Canadianbtmguy said:

If any of you guys have any feedback of what to expect with Manny and Ezequial's guys (especially if tall muscular guys are available), much appreciated

 

On 1/28/2022 at 4:31 PM, Canadianbtmguy said:

Are there any must-haves that I should definitely not miss??

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[Canadianbtmguy]

On 5/25/2022 at 4:34 PM, Slvkguy said:

@Canadianbtmguy
Apologies in advance if you’re not a troll or fake account - but your trip reports/posts sure have all the typical signs of a troll:

1. Inconsistency describing your age from one post to the next 

2. a specific ask for referrals/contact information for escorts in Santo Domingo

3. an obsession w bareback sex with escorts

4. references to numerous “planned trips” yet brief vague trip reports or recycled information from other members. 

5. all of the fakes reference “free” sex on Grindr vs paid escort - always 

6. Mexico City, Santo Domingo, Istanbul and Rio all within first 5 months of 2022 ?  Possible but highly improbable.  Barebacking with escorts at every stop ?  just doesn’t make sense 

I’m not buying it.  Sorry. There’s more that doesn’t add up, but I think you get the point 

 

 

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Whoa. I'm not sure why I really care, but I will take time out of my Rio Saturday (because, yes, I am in Brazil) to respond and disprove this. I had found this forum and hope it could be a sort of community as I attempt the transition from the thrill of Grindr hookups to acceptance of paying for it with escorts.

Someone needs to envision a greater diversity of experience than he is used to in his own life (Perhaps I should say he or she; there was indeed a female client--not sure if cis or trans--in 117 twice this week, so we should be open to welcoming that diversity of experience to the community of well. But yes, I have been to Mexico City, Santo Domingo, Istanbul and Rio all within first 5 months of 2022. Not only that, I've also been to Miami, San Francisco, Paris, Lille, Bruxelles and Milan. Maybe unlikely for some people, but I am sure there are people who have been to as many destinations in a single month. 

So here are my passport stamps for Dominican Rep, Turkey and Brazil last friday. I don't see Mexico (do they stamp?) If any doubt remains, I can upload my Aadvantage statement. For good measure, I also throw in France, Belgium and Italy. So thank you for the "apologies in advance" but I would welcome an apology now.

I am the first to admit I have an obsession with sex. This is a forum about sex, so it would not be surprising if the participants skewed toward particular interest in sex. If I was really into gardening you would probably find me on gardenweb. For me, in 2022, sex means condomless sex, with condoms an unwelcome intrusion from the past that I attempt to navigate around. Certainly I view it as the highest form of sex and so I talk about it and the way I attempt to navigate my experiences in order to get it, whether they be paid or sex. If I was on gardenweb, I would be talking about how to maximize my roses and minimize my dandelions. If my strong preference for condomless sex is really so idiosyncratic I can refrain from talking about it, as of no interest to others, but my inkling is I may not be alone in this.

I thought my trip report on Santo Domingo was pretty good frankly. It included recommendations for a gym and for fried chicken near the cine lido, as well as my struggles with accepting paid sex vs the thrill of getting it from a guy who wants to fuck you because he's into you, not for money. None of these topic were "brief, vague or recycled" I apologize I have not written an Istanbul report yet, as I have not been home in between Turkey and Brazil and frankly revisiting the experience (it sucked) is not so appealing. But I will. My report so far from Brazil has mentioned things like 2 gyms and a pharmacy for a covid test, topics that are both specific and non-salacious. Note too, that I am careful to refer to condomless sex, not only because I believe this is the correct non-judgmental term nowadays, but also to avoid sexier terms that may suggest I am somehow getting off on talking dirty. And really, I must note that as I've well disclosed, I have trouble getting off on sex with a hot hung guy who is wearing a condom, what really seems unlikely is that by writing supposedly fictional accounts of travels would be satisfying for me....

So, I would hope to find in these forums both useful information on how to make my sextravels better and also, intangibly, a bit of support and community, as we are engaging in something that, let's face it, is pretty high on the social disapproval scale. In doing so, I would suggest, let us err on the side of kindness and inclusion.

As a final thought, if any of the posters are in Rio until thursday or in SP june 2-9, I would welcome the chance to have a wingman at the saunas

 

 

[12is12]

I really dont undrstnd:

Why do u feel the need to prove urself to anyone?

[Canadianbtmguy]

When someone calls me a liar (except maybe for my age on Grindr) I feel a need to respond

[12is12]

I don't know u Canadian, and it's a bit presumtuous on my part, but I humbly submit the following thought.

In 'real' life, in front of all kinds of acquaintences, I too wld feel the need to rspnd.

Here, in the digital anonymous life, there's no need to.

Furthermore, even in real life there's no need to rspnd to an insult if the insultor is unworthy. If an F student tells me I m an idiot, he doesnt rate an answer.

This Slvk likes to pick on guys here with similar-identical accusations; its not only u. He once told someone he wasn't in Colombia, when that guy was sending me pics of himself from there. Just ignore these harassments by a self-appointed troll police.

[Guest]

I said there’s a very clear pattern of trolls in these forums.  And I stand by that statement.  

@Richard265 was an obvious troll - a picture proves nothing.  A member of this forum was going to Medellin & offered to meet w @Richard265 - that’s when he disappeared and deleted his account.  His posts were full of inconsistencies & lies. 

  @iveryhotijake00is another confirmed troll who was outed in another way.

if someone wants to indulge the bareback fantasies, then BarebackRT.com might be a better forum.  When it happens here,  it means troll.

 

[Guest]

On 5/28/2022 at 9:53 AM, 12is12 said:

I don't know u Canadian

*the Canadian w an American passport 

[Riobard]

1 hour ago, Slvkguy said:

*the Canadian w an American passport 

Dunno … 4 heads MOUNT Rushmore page 27 one national passport format; 4 MOUNTed police page 27 the other. Def a connection there, if not a convincing explanation. 

[Guest]

48 minutes ago, Riobard said:

4 MOUNTed police page 27 the other

excellent catch - I missed it.  everyone I know carries multiple passports, don’t you ??  
 

 

[Half-vaccinated]

On 5/28/2022 at 10:08 AM, Slvkguy said:

 

if someone wants to indulge the bareback fantasies, then BarebackRT.com might be a better forum.  When it happens here,  it means troll.

 

Slvkguy, they Barebacking more than they are using Condoms.  This includes the so-called "straight" guys.  This is happening everywhere, and I mean EVERYWHERE. 

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Half-vaccinated said:

Slvkguy, they Barebacking more than they are using Condoms.  This includes the so-called "straight" guys.  This is happening everywhere, and I mean EVERYWHERE. 

I get it - and you’re right.  there’s no moral judgment attached.

my point is that the trolls come here and barebacking is one of their very favorite topics.

it’s always the same pattern w the trolls: asking for sex-worker contact info, barebacking discussion & “free Grindr” tricks  

it’s what gets them off & allows for harassment offline - they’re not here for anything else 

[joizy]

On 2/21/2022 at 2:03 PM, Canadianbtmguy said:

I was there last month, and for one of the world's largest cities, it was pretty ho-hum

I met one escort from mileroticos who was from Uruguay/Argentina. Beautiful face, very tall, great body, nice big dick, nice guy, terrible in bed could barely get hard enough to insert. Seems to be a lot of escorts from Colombia. From the best looking guys online I would get very sporatic replies, like days later, or not really answer my questions. Some that did reply would kiss, only one would bbk. I have a WhatsApp from Croatia and then a few days into the trip I got a Mexican cell number that I sent texts. Prices were about 100usd for the real good ones although there was one that wanted 350usd. The $5 Mex SIM yielded lower price quotes. I stayed half the trip closer to downtown, (free) guys on Grindr noticeably darker there than the second half of the trip when I stayed in Polanco. In 10 days I got diarrhea twice (which certainly dampen's a bottom's sex trip, and one of the 2 times became so ill I was in bed a day and a half. C'mon Mexico--it's 2022. Much poorer countries (e.g. Egypt) while not advisable for long term drinking at least have solved acute problems. And no I didn't drink the water per se, so it mustve been even small amounts on lettuce or something. I too have been casting about for closer and safer alternatives to Brazil (and by Brazil, really, I mean Rio) but CDMX despite other appeals seems not the best for that.

 

On 5/28/2022 at 6:23 AM, Canadianbtmguy said:

 

Sorry you fell victim to the number one troll as well. I just joined last week and he has made my experience here hell. Reading through other threads, I see this is a pattern with him. People post trip reports and for some reason he decides to target them, saying they are not really where they are, and accusing them of a) being other people and b) having some nefarious plot to collect information about sex workers so they can harass them. It seems he has had a bad experience and that has made him super paranoid and perhaps delusional. I can totally understand why you'd want to post photos of your passport. It does not feel good to be called a liar, especially when you know you are telling the truth. I hope you reported his harassment. He needs to be shut down.

[joizy]

On 1/28/2022 at 1:31 PM, Canadianbtmguy said:

Also went to Cine Lido twice

I was wondering if Cine Lido survived the pandemic. It is one of my favorite places in the world - hot, rundown and full of big dicks waiting to be sucked. I've always had fun there! On my last trip, I stopped at that little Chinese place and bought a bottle of water before going to the cine. Had a great time there, as always. Your report makes me want to go back to the DR - my last trip was right before the pandemic and I had the best time. Thanks for posting.

[guessposting]

I was in Rio for two  month during May and June 2022, I think I saw canadianbottomguy one time at Point, let me describe you is it you or not, a white guy about 45 to 50 with blonde hair not too fat, who is tall, maybe used to be an aging flight attendant . I saw you one time with an black guy looks to be in his 30 with gridlocked , shorter than you making out at the center of the lounge , both sitting on the chair and eat each other face out like there is no tomorrow, 

I talked to the black garoto the following week, because I know him, he said you were from France ? am I right?

[SolaceSoul]

6 hours ago, guessposting said:

I was in Rio for two  month during May and June 2022, I think I saw canadianbottomguy one time at Point, let me describe you is it you or not, a white guy about 45 to 50 with blonde hair not too fat, who is tall, maybe used to be an aging flight attendant . I saw you one time with an black guy looks to be in his 30 with gridlocked , shorter than you making out at the center of the lounge , both sitting on the chair and eat each other face out like there is no tomorrow, 

I talked to the black garoto the following week, because I know him, he said you were from France ? am I right?

Wow. Just wow.

If I had a dollar for every time I have seen someone that I think is a board poster at one of the establishments abroad…

However, I have the decency and the discretion not to post about it publicly and put them on blast. 

[Latbear4blk]

9 hours ago, guessposting said:

I was in Rio for two  month during May and June 2022, I think I saw canadianbottomguy one time at Point, let me describe you is it you or not, a white guy about 45 to 50 with blonde hair not too fat, who is tall, maybe used to be an aging flight attendant . I saw you one time with an black guy looks to be in his 30 with gridlocked , shorter than you making out at the center of the lounge , both sitting on the chair and eat each other face out like there is no tomorrow, 

I talked to the black garoto the following week, because I know him, he said you were from France ? am I right?

Why did you post this in the public forum instead of sending a PM to him?

[guessposting]

oh so sorry , i should have send him a pm, I just thought he needed someone to confirm that he was in Rio sorrry sorry

[guessposting]

i tried to delete my post cannot do it, please delete it for me

[Riobard]

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[Guest]

10 hours ago, guessposting said:

was in Rio for two  month during May and June 2022, I think I saw canadianbottomguy one time at Point, let me describe you is it you or not, a white guy about 45 to 50 with blonde hair not too fat, who is tall, maybe used to be an aging flight attendant . I saw you one time with an black guy looks to be in his 30 with gridlocked , shorter than you making out at the center of the lounge , both sitting on the chair and eat each other face out like there is no tomorrow, 

I talked to the black garoto the following week, because I know him, he said you were from France ? am I right?

I agree this should not have been posted publicly.

two points -

first: we are rightly quick to condemn posting anything to ID another member.  But many here freely post information to ID the boys. Not good in either direction, unless the boy (or member) agrees with posting the ID information online.  Who would agree to that in this type forum ?  Maybe some of the online rentboys or pornstars who are out professionally, but probably not many of the boys working the saunas in Rio or SP.

second: if you think you have any confidences or secrets w the sauna working boys, you are mistaken.  they openly discuss clients and will tell you just about anything.  among themselves, of course they gossip and share everything about clients.  after a visit or two to the same sauna, they know exactly what you like & how you tip. you are not anonymous.  proceed accordingly.
 

 

[Riobard]

Good points, @Slvkguy

BTW, though, if the guesst’s post is removed I am not sure if it will disappear from the expandable quotation of it.