Is he gay ?

[forky123]

I don’t ask questions any more. I almost always go by whether they have a smile that reaches their eyes. My first couple of years I asked questions but my interpretation of the answers didn’t always tally with the result and I quickly realised it was futile being disappointed by issues caused by language and word interpretation. 
 

Some of my best experiences have been with boys who I would almost certainly would have counted out with honest answers to questions I would previously have asked. In fact, probably 4 of my favourite 5 offs would never have happened. Not only that but I’d have absolutely no clue how to ask for what has been my favourite off ever. Now I go with the flow, get some disappointments but am generally on the plus side.

[TotallyOz]

I prefer to ask many questions. I base my tip on honest answers. I don't want just a smile. I want more and often it is a quick guess as to whether or not they will do what they say. But, I also like to tell how much I pay in advance so there are no questions at all.

[Guest]

A smile is certainly important when picking lads face to face, such as in a bar.  

Obviously that aspect is more difficult when dating on line.  Most manage to smile when first meeting, which must be hard work if meeting someone about 30 years older. 

I do recall one arriving at my room in Mae Sot, looking particularly miserable.  This wasn't a good sign.  However,  he'd also forgotten his ID despite me reminding him twice, so I had to send him away for that reason.

[reader]

Smiling always seemed to come naturally to the guys I've met from any SE Asian country, and I'm 30 plus years their senior for sure.

I never ask if they're gay for all the reasons others have described above. I do try to pick up on non-verbal cues but I don't waste time trying to over think what the pending encounter has in store. Like Forky123, I've found it best to go with the flow and recall few disappointments.

[ggobkk]

On 9/2/2021 at 5:27 AM, vinapu said:

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Betty White is 99 years young!

[vinapu]

2 hours ago, ggobkk said:

Betty White is 99 years young!

Good to hear !!!

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[Primeone385]

I haven’t had the pleasure of going out of the country like some of y’all. But the guys that escorted in the states. We’re everything from gay-bi-straight. I was looking on Craigslist( I know I’m oldish)  I responded to an add and there was a sexy black 22 male slightly darker but could of been an exact replica of Johnathan Major. If you don’t know who that is. Believe me when I tell you this man has a perfect ass chiseled body with enough meat to fill every hole you want filled. Trae was exactly that perfect. I remember emailing him asking him if he was available. He said he was between these times. I didn’t want to let this opportunity pass me by . He wasn’t expensive and was verse ( as I later found out no so much verse). I arrive at his apartment early too early in fact. Because as his girl was getting in the car with her friend she asked me who is this. He replied a friend coming over to looking to buy the Xbox. She was like okay but gave me a look that I have only gotten from someone who could smell bullshit in any story. She had to go get her hair done and couldn’t stay to grill me and him any more. When we got in the house I asked him “wow you have a girlfriend?” He was like she don’t know this is my side hustle.” “It’s fucking expensive leaving in San Jose.” So I didn’t say anything else . So I was like we’re are we doing this. He was ex military and had battle scars all over his body. Just made him hotter to me. He didn’t kiss and didn’t like to be cuddle. Atleast not at 1st.  So I sat on the chair. He started to strip. I asked him to wait I like to instruct him on what I want to see. So I can dictate and demonstrate some power and authority.  I told him take off everything but your t shirt and underwear. He did as instructed I stood up circled this prize stud . Gently touching and groping his body. I helped him remove his shirt and started sucking on his nipples. He said he didn’t like that. It made him uncomfortable. I ignored it and said it turns me on. I licked his chest and started playing with his cock. I could tell he was getting turned on. I worked my way down and pulled his boxers off. It was a pleasant sight to be hold. I took my clothes off as I told him stroke his dick for me. I sat down and said come here and sit on my lap facing me . My dick is hard as a rock. Precum just dippin down my black dick. I stroke his cock while sucking his nipples. I tell him to get on all 4’s he gets on the bed and faces the head board . I’m like no turn around and face me and suck my dick. I am determined to get my moneys worth out of this interaction. He sucks my dick and I grab his as a I gently thrust my dick into and out of his mouth . I finally feel like I’m to close so I pull him off my dick. Push him back on the bed so I can suck his dick, balls, and eat him out. I suck him good got him hard his body is super tense. I start to lick his booty he gets a little soft . I told him don’t worry I’m going to let you know when I’m gonna fuck you. I continue to delight is firm small bubble butt. Slapping my dick on his hole. Finally i believe I got him loose enough. Like some in these forums I like to fuck on my side so I can nibble on your necks and ear. I go slow . He has issues taking my dick. He’s bigger than me thicker than me. But I ain’t about to let his gripes stop me. Because I fucking straight-ish ex-military high school quarterback . He is asking me to take a break but I’m like naah bruh we gonna keep going. He’s using the “ I gotta shit excuse” I’m like nah that’s my dick . I’m close just submit to me. This black ass is mine. As he roles over on his stomach he literallys does a push up but I’m still in . I start to get that feeling like I’m about to cum. I pull out and bust all over his ass cheeks. He complained that he doesn’t like to get fucked. And he’s only doing this because he really need $125 . I gave him a tip and with my windows phone took a couple of pictures. Damn phones back then were crap. 
He told me he ain’t ever doing this again. But guess what I fucked him for 8 more years. So the gay for pay straight boys can get turned out. It’s a taboo turn on for me. Relationship wise he like to fuck. Always wanted to fuck me. I am not a bottom. Barely verse. In fact the only guy ever to fuck me was DaddyCream. But I believe for some of us. The fantasy of straight getting used for our pleasure is stimulating. But I do think you find some people who say anything to get you to pick them.  Also look at love country hbo original series. To see Johnathan majors ass . Bubbly .