TO THE FRIENDS AT DADDY'S

[Buddy2]

1 hour ago, SexyAsianStud said:

not to state the obvious, but.... what a bunch of clowns! (Do you think they all know he is an escort hiring "fag"?)

at least he has found an audience which is more receptive to his hate.

Shocking. Even Trump might be surprised by Bozo's lies and distortions 

[SexyAsianStud]

17 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

Shocking. Even Trump might be surprised by Bozo's lies and distortions 

although, truth be told, Bozo's sheer lunacy did make reading that politics forum fun. augustus may have tried to outdo him for pure zaniness, but, regretfully his senility made reading his stuff more sad than funny.

[lookin]

15 hours ago, AdamSmith said:

lookin and I know and have visited with and like each other in person; not just here virtually.

More than you know, though the return of a couple of missing pages would not go unnoticed. 

Edited July 3, 2020 by lookin

[AdamSmith]

10 hours ago, lookin said:

More than you know, though the return of a couple of missing pages would not go unnoticed. 

‘Paracelsus!’

If one has to be somebody here...

[AdamSmith]

Funny thought, but that:

When we bitch among ourselves here, much less denouncing the stupidities Over There, it probably is more constructive than destructive.

And broadly, insofar as who reads such a site as this, in these messed-up social times.

[Buddy2]

On 7/3/2020 at 10:30 AM, SexyAsianStud said:

not to state the obvious, but.... what a bunch of clowns! (Do you think they all know he is an escort hiring "fag"?)

at least he has found an audience which is more receptive to his hate.

BOZO is religious when it furthers his personal likes and goals. 

[SexyAsianStud]

12 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

BOZO is religious when it furthers his personal likes and goals. 

So then, from what I understand about religion and about faith, he is in bed with the devil -- either a literal or figurative one.

[Buddy2]

1 hour ago, SexyAsianStud said:

So then, from what I understand about religion and about faith, he is in bed with the devil -- either a literal or figurative one.

BOZO is Jewish and loudly reminds folks when Trump is called a racist, even when nobody has called the president anti Jewish.

[Buddy2]

14 hours ago, AdamSmith said:

Funny thought, but that:

When we bitch among ourselves here, much less denouncing the stupidities Over There, it probably is more constructive than destructive.

And broadly, insofar as who reads such a site as this, in these messed-up social times.

It's personally destructive when one cannot get over a long time grevance and move on. It is one thing to be upset privately, another to complain for years in public 

 

And for those unaware of all the details, after a while it is very, very frustrating because Daddy's side is vague also.

Edited July 4, 2020 by Buddy2

[SexyAsianStud]

42 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

BOZO is Jewish and loudly reminds folks when Trump is called a racist, even when nobody has called the president anti Jewish.

having said that.... i found a post in which Bozo called for law and order using the exact language of the Nazis, so I find little credible in any of his claims on any subject at all. 

but, clearly, as has been said here ad nauseum, Bozo and His Ilk find a place of great comfort on the DreadedPatheticDaddy site, so it is nice to know that our community had a place for all strands of thought, no matter how abhorrent they may be to right thinking people.

(and, yes, I know I am bringing up old stuff here but, remember, I got banned for showing off my butt while Bozo and his Kapos happily spewed hate speech. just saying.)

[Buddy2]

6 minutes ago, SexyAsianStud said:

having said that.... i found a post in which Bozo called for law and order using the exact language of the Nazis, so I find little credible in any of his claims on any subject at all. 

but, clearly, as has been said here ad nauseum, Bozo and His Ilk find a place of great comfort on the DreadedPatheticDaddy site, so it is nice to know that our community had a place for all strands of thought, no matter how abhorrent they may be to right thinking people.

(and, yes, I know I am bringing up old stuff here but, remember, I got banned for showing off my butt while Bozo and his Kapos happily spewed hate speech. just saying.)

BOZO was not popular on the other site, especially after he started idolizing Trump. Although I agree you were treated badly, it probably doesn't justify always blaming Daddy. I was posting there at that time.

[SexyAsianStud]

2 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

BOZO was not popular on the other site, especially after he started idolizing Trump. Although I agree you were treated badly, it probably doesn't justify always blaming Daddy. I was posting there at that time.

If Bozo truly IS jewish, all the more shameful of him.

There is a thread "over there" in which a lively discussion of educating NYC high school kids about the holocaust was taking place. Bozo totally sabotaged the discussion because of some bizarre personal grudge he held against one of the posters.

Truly - which side IS he on?

[Buddy2]

23 minutes ago, SexyAsianStud said:

If Bozo truly IS jewish, all the more shameful of him.

There is a thread "over there" in which a lively discussion of educating NYC high school kids about the holocaust was taking place. Bozo totally sabotaged the discussion because of some bizarre personal grudge he held against one of the posters.

Truly - which side IS he on?

BOZO believed visiting the Holocaust Museum was a lie. But, he foolish claimed going there and demanding to see the attentance information for that day.

[SexyAsianStud]

3 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

BOZO believed visiting the Holocaust Museum was a lie. But, he foolish claimed going there and demanding to see the attentance information for that day.

tragic fool-clown... serves him right.... serves him a large helping of humble pie. 

but the end result is that this "jew" destroyed a substantive discussion about holocaust education in order to further his personal psychotic agenda. even though he may typify sick right-wing behavior, he is just a classic case, and others follow in his footsteps.

Edited July 4, 2020 by SexyAsianStud
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[seaboy4hire]

You were a very good contributer to the other site. It's the owner of the other sites loss and this sites gain. Not to take away from your post but I too am leaving the other site. Glad I'll be able to enjoy your posts over here.

[AdamSmith]

2 hours ago, seaboy4hire said:

You were a very good contributer to the other site. It's the owner of the other sites loss and this sites gain. Not to take away from your post but I too am leaving the other site. Glad I'll be able to enjoy your posts over here.

Very warm welcome here. Your voice and thoughts have always been valued.

[axiom2001]

I've been here since its inception, and I have been at the now "Message-Forum," daddy's site, for more than three decades. 

The other day I posted about my second dining inside experience at one of my favorite restaurants in Monterey, CA and solicited short adventures of the like from others.  Well, one writer posted about his jury duty experience.  In huge red letters, I wrote that he'd hijacked my thread.   Well, lo and behold, a few of the so-called loyals attacked me for having written that acknowledgment; they acted as if I'd violated the rights of the hijacker; they acted (from their words) as if the guy was "God's gift to humanity."   My words were obvious, for I have been a positive person at that site as well as this one who has refrained from a senseless tit-for-tat in disagreeing as well as attacking any of the writers.  My actions spoke for themselves.

A day later there was a flood of off-topics affixed to my commenting about the guy's being off topic or having hijacked my post.  I fired back: "KEEP ENJOYING YOURSELVES" or some such wording.  The guy who'd hijacked had apologized three or four posts up from the aforementioned; then today I saw that he'd written that I'd hijacked my own post.

Currently, I am all right and have concluded that there are some really bizarre males who post and read and interact over there, and I WILL NOT have any part in it.  I don't need them in any way, and I really don't need that site as an outlet but will find it somewhat strange if I were to leave and forget it all together since I've been there for such a long time. For the most part, I have enjoyed reading and writing and posting in the various forums.  ...have met about five to ten guys over the years (in person) when I've traveled to Brazil.  ...even met my gay Brazilian (now deceased) travel agent and a couple of legitimate gay travel guides as well.  Have enjoyed meeting a few guys in parts of Europe and the guidance that I have received as well prior to my travel adventures.

So, in the future, I'll continue to read and view and post and ignore any bizarre actions/comments on the part of some of the posters at "Message Forum," "at the other site."

[TotallyOz]

On 7/9/2020 at 11:27 AM, seaboy4hire said:

You were a very good contributer to the other site. It's the owner of the other sites loss and this sites gain. Not to take away from your post but I too am leaving the other site. Glad I'll be able to enjoy your posts over here.

I hope to see you more as well seaboy4hire. I remember you from so very long ago.

53 minutes ago, axiom2001 said:

I've been here since its inception, and I have been at the now "Message-Forum," daddy's site, for more than three decades. 

The other day I posted about my second dining inside experience at one of my favorite restaurants in Monterey, CA and solicited short adventures of the like from others.  Well, one writer posted about his jury duty experience.  In huge red letters, I wrote that he'd hijacked my thread.   Well, lo and behold, a few of the so-called loyals attacked me for having written that acknowledgment; they acted as if I'd violated the rights of the hijacker; they acted (from their words) as if the guy was "God's gift to humanity."   My words were obvious, for I have been a positive person at that site as well as this one who has refrained from a senseless tit-for-tat in disagreeing as well as attacking any of the writers.  My actions spoke for themselves.

A day later there was a flood of off-topics affixed to my commenting about the guy's being off topic or having hijacked my post.  I fired back: "KEEP ENJOYING YOURSELVES" or some such wording.  The guy who'd hijacked had apologized three or four posts up from the aforementioned; then today I saw that he'd written that I'd hijacked my own post.

Currently, I am all right and have concluded that there are some really bizarre males who post and read and interact over there, and I WILL NOT have any part in it.  I don't need them in any way, and I really don't need that site as an outlet but will find it somewhat strange if I were to leave and forget it all together since I've been there for such a long time. For the most part, I have enjoyed reading and writing and posting in the various forums.  ...have met about five to ten guys over the years (in person) when I've traveled to Brazil.  ...even met my gay Brazilian (now deceased) travel agent and a couple of legitimate gay travel guides as well.  Have enjoyed meeting a few guys in parts of Europe and the guidance that I have received as well prior to my travel adventures.

So, in the future, I'll continue to read and view and post and ignore any bizarre actions/comments on the part of some of the posters at "Message Forum," "at the other site."

You are always welcome here!

[Suckrates]

6 hours ago, axiom2001 said:

I've been here since its inception, and I have been at the now "Message-Forum," daddy's site, for more than three decades. 

The other day I posted about my second dining inside experience at one of my favorite restaurants in Monterey, CA and solicited short adventures of the like from others.  Well, one writer posted about his jury duty experience.  In huge red letters, I wrote that he'd hijacked my thread.   Well, lo and behold, a few of the so-called loyals attacked me for having written that acknowledgment; they acted as if I'd violated the rights of the hijacker; they acted (from their words) as if the guy was "God's gift to humanity."   My words were obvious, for I have been a positive person at that site as well as this one who has refrained from a senseless tit-for-tat in disagreeing as well as attacking any of the writers.  My actions spoke for themselves.

A day later there was a flood of off-topics affixed to my commenting about the guy's being off topic or having hijacked my post.  I fired back: "KEEP ENJOYING YOURSELVES" or some such wording.  The guy who'd hijacked had apologized three or four posts up from the aforementioned; then today I saw that he'd written that I'd hijacked my own post.

Currently, I am all right and have concluded that there are some really bizarre males who post and read and interact over there, and I WILL NOT have any part in it.  I don't need them in any way, and I really don't need that site as an outlet but will find it somewhat strange if I were to leave and forget it all together since I've been there for such a long time. For the most part, I have enjoyed reading and writing and posting in the various forums.  ...have met about five to ten guys over the years (in person) when I've traveled to Brazil.  ...even met my gay Brazilian (now deceased) travel agent and a couple of legitimate gay travel guides as well.  Have enjoyed meeting a few guys in parts of Europe and the guidance that I have received as well prior to my travel adventures.

So, in the future, I'll continue to read and view and post and ignore any bizarre actions/comments on the part of some of the posters at "Message Forum," "at the other site."

Being a member  "over there" for so long, this conduct should NOT surprise you Ax.....  there is always a bandwagon there, and there is always a group jumping on it...  I think it makes them feel "cool" to join the "attack" club  once an attack starts ?    And THAT place is all about Drama , and to be certain, you will always find Marylander somewhere in there....  But in reading thru, it was Charlie that introduced the jury duty sidetrack, but I think it looked to the masses like you were attacking Sam for it, and THAT was what they were objecting to ?    I would chalk this one off to a "his-understanding"......  Stay well & Safe.  

[Buddy2]

Threads evolve over time.  I doubt many people  set out to hijack a thread.

 

More important, people who just join a forum have the exact same statue as those who have posted for decades. 

[caeron]

 

Welcome.

To me, Thread drift is just a natural part of the conversations. If people are interested in the fork in the road, they take it, otherwise it turns into a side or related comment. If you don't want  the conversation to take the side road, you post more about the main thread and try to bring it back.

But once you've posted, you're inviting everyone to speak. You don't really get to tell them what they're allowed to say. 

But your post is a good example of why I don't hang out over there. A disagreement about thread direction turns into a drama fest because almost everything turns into a drama fest.

[Lucky]

On 7/8/2020 at 9:27 PM, seaboy4hire said:

You were a very good contributer to the other site. It's the owner of the other sites loss and this sites gain. Not to take away from your post but I too am leaving the other site. Glad I'll be able to enjoy your posts over here.

Happy birthday, Greg.

[Pete1111]

Imagine family gatherings of siblings, aunts, uncles and so on, gathered around sharing memories, how those conversations drift.  That's part of the nature of conversation.

That said, the OP might give some thought to their goal for the thread and be mindful how well their first post might frame the intent of the discussion.

If folks decide to go off on a tangent, others might politely reign in the dialogue back on track.  

Or wave a white flag and move on.

[mikegaite]

Back to the OP's original post, I agree with him. Starting a thread to say BLM is racist then repeatedly defending it, is revolting. I want to join a forum about sex work, not read Breitbart. When the site moderator misrepresents everything Patrice, Alicia, and Opal have written, it's revolting.  I built a stellar reputation on that other site, but black lives matter, and BLM is not a racist organization.