Moved here from the other side :)

[RockHardNYC]

3 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

I sent a contribution to the owner of the other site four or five days before I was banned last week.

OUCH! That's a hurt I'm thrilled and delighted I've never had to feel. I'm not looking for special treatment when I do donate to a favorite site, but if you blatantly disrespect me after I make a donation, my wallet NEVER forgets.

[Buddy2]

I wasn't contributing to get on anyone's good side. Come on. I hadn't contributed for a while. And it was meant as a small Christmas donation. Another point, as of a few days ago, the owner of the other site was strongly anti-Trump. I took the comment about Melania at face value: he was trying to stop negative comments about Trump's immediate (White House) family.

Edited December 26, 2019 by Buddy2
Make more clear

[RockHardNYC]

32 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

I wasn't contributing to get on anyone's good side. Come on.

Did someone suggest you did? I don't think so. Perhaps you misread something?

34 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

he was trying to stop negative comments

Control-freak board owners are such a bore. If a man has difficulty allowing or encouraging members, especially gay men, to speak their minds with honest fervor, then perhaps the man is misguided by trying to own an internet forum. Some sandbox owners are really bad at this game. And they won't last forever.

[Buddy2]

5 minutes ago, RockHardNYC said:

Did someone suggest you did? I don't think so. Perhaps you misread something?

Control-freak board owners are such a bore. If a man has difficulty allowing or encouraging members, especially gay men, to speak their minds with honest fervor, then perhaps the man is misguided by trying to own an internet forum. Some sandbox owners are really bad at this game. And they won't last forever.

Given that the owner of the other site has expressed his dislike of Donald Trump over and over, I understand his attempt to lower the heat on Trump's wife. 

[AdamSmith]

7 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

I sent a contribution to the owner of the other site four or five days before I was banned last week. So color me confused.

I post under the name WilliamM there

Very, very warm welcome. Extremely glad to have you here.

The owner there is a psychopath. Here, we have owner and participants who try not to  be.

We usually succeed. 

[RockHardNYC]

1 hour ago, Buddy2 said:

I understand his attempt to lower the heat on Trump's wife.

There are smarter, more respectable, convivial ways to "lower the heat" on any subject. Threatening to ban is no way to encourage me to donate or offer support of any kind. I despise controlling assholes, especially those who happen to be gay.

Edited December 27, 2019 by RockHardNYC

[Buddy2]

Why are you so confrontational, RockHard? Calm down.

Edited December 27, 2019 by Buddy2
More focused response

[Europeanman]

6 hours ago, RockHardNYC said:

There are smarter, more respectable, convivial ways to "lower the heat" on any subject. Threatening to ban is no way to encourage me to donate or offer support of any kind. I despise controlling assholes, especially those who happen to be gay.

So he is banning his customers. No wonder he is constantly begging for money.

[caeron]

 

Everybody's got a story about the local dive bar, those other forums, including me. It's just that most of them aren't that interesting.

[Latbear4blk]

20 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

 

Edited December 27, 2019 by Latbear4blk
duplicated

[Latbear4blk]

20 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

I sent a contribution to the owner of the other site four or five days before I was banned last week. So color me confused.

I post under the name WilliamM there

William? You banned? What did you do?

[Latbear4blk]

20 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

I sent a contribution to the owner of the other site four or five days before I was banned last week. So color me confused.

I post under the name WilliamM there

William? You banned? What did you do?

[RockHardNYC]

13 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

Why are you so confrontational, RockHard?

Confrontational? That's funny.

13 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

Calm down.

If I get any calmer, I'll be writing in my sleep.

Telling someone to "calm down," especially when the person is as calm as can be is just one more example of rude, controlling behavior. Now who is being confrontational? Perhaps you asked to be banned at the other site?

[Buddy2]

34 minutes ago, RockHardNYC said:

Confrontational? That's funny.

If I get any calmer, I'll be writing in my sleep.

Telling someone to "calm down," especially when the person is as calm as can be is just one more example of rude, controlling behavior. Now who is being confrontational? Perhaps you asked to be banned at the other site?

No 

[RockHardNYC]

16 minutes ago, Buddy2 said:

No 

Perhaps Daddy grew tired of your confrontational and controlling style.

[Buddy2]

I am not a "big personality" member of the other site. I doubt that Daddy has any opinions about me at all. I have been a member there since 2011, and this is my first "time out."

[RockHardNYC]

1 hour ago, Buddy2 said:

I have been a member there since 2011, and this is my first "time out."

I'm confident if you wrote him and asked nicely, someone would tell you why you were timed out. Daddy is not the only admin member to issue time outs. AFIK, they're not in the habit of timing members out for no reason. Clearly, you did something. Or a mistake was made. If someone made a mistake, why not give them an opportunity to clear it up? With no communication, you don't accomplish much.

[Buddy2]

13 minutes ago, RockHardNYC said:

I'm confident if you wrote him and asked nicely, someone would tell you why you were timed out. Daddy is not the only admin member to issue time outs. AFIK, they're not in the habit of timing members out for no reason. Clearly, you did something. Or a mistake was made. If someone made a mistake, why not give them an opportunity to clear it up? With no communication, you don't accomplish much.

I wrote a political parody of another member's sudden interest in all things British (and relatively recent  prejudiced postings). The only time I contacted adminstration there is on behalf of forum friends, never ever ever myself.

[paulsf]

Rock hard is pretty much on point.    You are absolutely a big personality over there.  You post 10 hours a day in the political forum.  You spend half that time telling everybody how much you know about politics and that know body else knows it like you.    
Political forum is pretty nasty place.  Daddy just asked for everyone to tone it down thru the holidays.   Several decided  NO.     Daddy said enjoy the holidays ...elsewhere.   Pretty simple 

[Deadlift]

I call his nosey bodies Gladys kravitz.  

[Deadlift]

I got banned from an altercation with the grammar police.

[Buddy2]

1 hour ago, paulsf said:

Rock hard is pretty much on point.    You are absolutely a big personality over there.  You post 10 hours a day in the political forum.  You spend half that time telling everybody how much you know about politics and that know body else knows it like you.    
Political forum is pretty nasty place.  Daddy just asked for everyone to tone it down thru the holidays.   Several decided  NO.     Daddy said enjoy the holidays ...elsewhere.   Pretty simple 

 

I am  critical of Daddy's posts which emphasis how little money he has in the bank. And he is barely paying rent and grocery bills.  Some of the people who post often may never contribute. Different to know: Benjamin Nicholas is"listed" as making no contributions.

Edited December 27, 2019 by Buddy2

[Buddy2]

On 12/24/2019 at 8:43 AM, RockHardNYC said:

One always has to be very careful around Christmas. For some very strange reason, the guy with the barrel gut is SUPER sensitive around this holiday. Perhaps a decorated tree fell on him as a child and he was asphyxiated by toxic tinsel. It's been downhill ever since.

I took a quick glance at some Rudy posting in Politics and quickly found this: "Trash talk the wife of the president and you'll be Grinched."

LOL! There is nothing worse than a board owner imposing his own ASSHOLE politics on his members. The cowards need to stand up and tell this fat ass to go fuck himself. The gall of the man to spend his donations by forcing members to bend to his will.

Melania Trump is a vanity CUNT. She married a mob boss for money and fame, and she got her parents a U.S. citizenship. It's a disgrace to this country to call this third wife "First Lady," whose husband was cheating on her while she was delivering their first child.

Now go ahead and ban me, Daddy. LOL!

Melania Trump’s Parents Become U.S. Citizens, Using ‘Chain Migration’ Trump Hates

 

There are much bigger Trump Administration villains than Melania Trump. 

[Buddy2]

20 hours ago, AdamSmith said:

Very, very warm welcome. Extremely glad to have you here.

The owner there is a psychopath. Here, we have owner and participants who try not to  be.

We usually succeed. 

Thank you. Means a lot. Truly.

[RockHardNYC]

4 hours ago, paulsf said:

You are absolutely a big personality over there.  You post 10 hours a day in the political forum.  You spend half that time telling everybody how much you know about politics and that know body else knows it like you.

There's always a second side to every story. I like to give the OPs I don't know the benefit of any doubt, but that doesn't mean the OP is always telling the whole truth. I no longer read Daddy's forum. I seldom if ever visited his Politics page. So I can't speak to anyone's "truth" on this one.

4 hours ago, Deadlift said:

I got banned from an altercation with the grammar police.

Considering that Daddy is one of the worst writers in the gay community, that's actually very funny. And sad.

2 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

I am  critical of Daddy's posts which emphasis how little money he has in the bank.

That's a no no. Daddy has no tolerance for anyone being openly critical of his financial status. His nerves are near the surface around every Christmas. We old timers remember how much angst he went through before he allowed someone to announce the board's accepting of donations. If I remember correctly, the sentiment went something like this: "Daddy is a proud man, who would never consider asking anyone for money." I have no idea who was writing the stuff, but it all was poorly written, explained, and executed. Bad Business 101.

3 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

he is barely paying rent and grocery bills

Yet, he's trying to keep a poorly run, gay escort review site alive. He's lucky he can count on a small group of gay guys who for some reason feel the need to donate and remain supportive. I guess the whole thing has aspects to it that make some people feel better about themselves in some way. You get the leader you deserve. They can have him. He does nothing for me.

3 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

Benjamin Nicholas is"listed" as making no contributions.

That would be very funny if someone could prove it to be true. I'm smart enough to not trust the listings. I'm dubious of people who long for donating credit in public. If BN is donating, BN strikes me as a man who would want to be silent about it. If I were donating, that's the way I would want it.

2 hours ago, Buddy2 said:

There are much bigger Trump Administration villains than Melania Trump.

That goes without saying. But who else among them is sucking Trump's ugly-ass mushroom cock? And who is smelling his farts under the sheets? The things you do for power and money.