Indiscrete question about how many boys you have had a day?

[Sgoleon]

In Colombia or Brasil?  Would someone venture to talk about it.  I had safe sex with many boys on a two day trip i recently made to Colombia.  I am planning to go back and would like perhaps to find a travel partner to cover expenses and share experiences.  i am a 42 year old american guy.   Leo

[SolaceSoul]

20 minutes ago, Sgoleon said:

In Colombia or Brasil?  Would someone venture to talk about it.  I had safe sex with many boys on a two day trip i recently made to Colombia.  I am planning to go back and would like perhaps to find a travel partner to cover expenses and share experiences.  i am a 42 year old american guy.   Leo

“Boys”? I hope you are referring exclusively to young men that are over the age of 18. Because a “boy” is a child.

In Brazil, the term “boy” is used (in both its Portuguese “garoto” and the English “boy”) to refer to an adult male who prostitutes himself, whether at a sauna, as a “kept man”, or as a self-contractor through ads or on the streets. I am not familiar with the term “boy” used that way in Spanish-speaking (as is Colombia) or in English-speaking countries. But in the USA, calling a black or brown man a “boy” is considered offensive and can be fighting words.

Regarding the question of how many working adult-age MEN (or garotos) I have had in one day in Brazil, my record might be five in one day (separately). Non-working, three.

[Tartegogo]

When you are over 40 it is natural to refer to guys under 25 as boys, there was no underage sex insinuation intended. 

And in Britain “I am going for a drink with the boys” just means you go out with you male friends, not that you are giving alcohol to minors. 

Boys doesn’t just mean “children” it is also frequently used to say “not girls”.

To answer the question, i once had 7 different boys in Rio saunas on one day, but I only came 6 times. I was 44. Not sure I could do the same again! 

[SolaceSoul]

5 minutes ago, Tartegogo said:

 

When you are over 40 it is natural to refer to guys under 25 as boys, there was no underage sex insinuation intended. 

And in Britain “I am going for a drink with the boys” just means you go out with you male friends, not that you are giving alcohol to minors. 

Boys doesn’t just mean “children” it is also frequently used to say “not girls”.

 

I am over 40 and don’t refer to sexual partners as boys. Sorry.

Also, there is a big difference between someone using the term “boys” with a group of adult guys they are already familiar or friendly with (“hanging out with the boys”, “having drinks with the boys”, etc.”), and staying, in clear language and in print, “having sex with boys”.

 

 

 

[pauleiro]

Oh, boy. Controversy ! 

[Sgoleon]

I wanted to say, how many men have you had in a day?  Sorry for the confusion...  

[Sgoleon]

3 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

“Boys”? I hope you are referring exclusively to young men that are over the age of 18. Because a “boy” is a child.

In Brazil, the term “boy” is used (in both its Portuguese “garoto” and the English “boy”) to refer to an adult male who prostitutes himself, whether at a sauna, as a “kept man”, or as a self-contractor through ads or on the streets. I am not familiar with the term “boy” used that way in Spanish-speaking (as is Colombia) or in English-speaking countries. But in the USA, calling a black or brown man a “boy” is considered offensive and can be fighting words.

Regarding the question of how many working adult-age MEN (or garotos) I have had in one day in Brazil, my record might be five in one day (separately). Non-working, three.

I wanted to say, how many men!!!  thanks 

[Sgoleon]

3 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

“Boys”? I hope you are referring exclusively to young men that are over the age of 18. Because a “boy” is a child.

In Brazil, the term “boy” is used (in both its Portuguese “garoto” and the English “boy”) to refer to an adult male who prostitutes himself, whether at a sauna, as a “kept man”, or as a self-contractor through ads or on the streets. I am not familiar with the term “boy” used that way in Spanish-speaking (as is Colombia) or in English-speaking countries. But in the USA, calling a black or brown man a “boy” is considered offensive and can be fighting words.

Regarding the question of how many working adult-age MEN (or garotos) I have had in one day in Brazil, my record might be five in one day (separately). Non-working, three.

How many men!!!  this is what i wanted to say... sorry. 

[Sgoleon]

3 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

“Boys”? I hope you are referring exclusively to young men that are over the age of 18. Because a “boy” is a child.

In Brazil, the term “boy” is used (in both its Portuguese “garoto” and the English “boy”) to refer to an adult male who prostitutes himself, whether at a sauna, as a “kept man”, or as a self-contractor through ads or on the streets. I am not familiar with the term “boy” used that way in Spanish-speaking (as is Colombia) or in English-speaking countries. But in the USA, calling a black or brown man a “boy” is considered offensive and can be fighting words.

Regarding the question of how many working adult-age MEN (or garotos) I have had in one day in Brazil, my record might be five in one day (separately). Non-working, three.

I wanted to say 'men',sorry... for the confusion. 

[Sgoleon]

3 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

“Boys”? I hope you are referring exclusively to young men that are over the age of 18. Because a “boy” is a child.

In Brazil, the term “boy” is used (in both its Portuguese “garoto” and the English “boy”) to refer to an adult male who prostitutes himself, whether at a sauna, as a “kept man”, or as a self-contractor through ads or on the streets. I am not familiar with the term “boy” used that way in Spanish-speaking (as is Colombia) or in English-speaking countries. But in the USA, calling a black or brown man a “boy” is considered offensive and can be fighting words.

Regarding the question of how many working adult-age MEN (or garotos) I have had in one day in Brazil, my record might be five in one day (separately). Non-working, three.

Sorry, I wanted to say 'men".... sorry for the confusion. 

[Kevie770]

It’s okay @Sgoleon EVERYONE knew what you meant he is just extra af lol!  If you read the forum enough, you will find a clear pattern.  I’ve never done Rio or Colombia, but I have done a 5some in Santo Domingo, so that was my most at once.  It cost me about $160.

Edited August 2, 2019 by Kevie770

[matt4twinks]

Not in Brazil but....

Only thrice in my life.... threesome's....Mykonos, Greece, SoBe Miami and Pattaya,Thailand.....don't like them really.

Only 3 different guys in one day....I prefer a guy for an entire day....Thailand.

10 years ago, in Thailand, the guy was so "my type" I fucked him 9 times one day.....now I'd settle for 5 times, lol.

Edited August 2, 2019 by matt4twinks
location and number of threesome error

[Tomcal]

8

[TotallyOz]

36 minutes ago, Tomcal said:

8

I do not believe you Tomcal. I have traveled with you and seen at least 5 and you were just starting you day.  Come on, tell us the real number! LOL

For me, it use to be about 3-5 when traveling. My greatest number was 40 for my 40th birthday. Not all fucking but about 1/2 fucking and the rest oral. Now I am older and the max is 1 per day. So, I have slowed down quiet a bit. (I didn't count sex parties in this number as I could not even remember most of them.

 

[pauleiro]

My maximum was ar FickStutenMark in Berlin a few years ago. I was part of the "stallions" and there were around 150 mares which were ready to be fucked. Mares had a blindfold and cannot refuse to be fucked (they can refuse to suck). Since there were approximately 150 stallions, the permanent fucking scenes keep you hard and you can keep fucking during long time. I fucked more than 20 mares that night. It is a voyeur's and fucker's paradise. Now I am more romantic and prefer threesomes, particularly in Brazil : with a versatile buddy, we select a bottom and take turns fucking him, eventually DPing him, then we ask him to leave and I end up fucking my buddy.

So :

Absolute maximum : > 20

Current maximum : 2

current average : 1 a day (fucking days only which are not 365 in a year). In Brazil and Bogota I had only "fucking days" so far.

 

[SolaceSoul]

9 hours ago, Tomcal said:

8

Is that at once or total in one night?

[SolaceSoul]

16 hours ago, Kevie770 said:

It’s okay @Sgoleon EVERYONE knew what you meant he is just extra af lol!  If you read the forum enough, you will find a clear pattern.  

Huge sigh.

It’s not about what “EVERYONE” here knew what the poster meant, but about what it states in plain language to those who may read / monitor the site.

Asking a question in print about “having sex with boys” — in an age of FOSTA / SESTA where websites are being shut down for promoting underage sex and pornography with minors is a really, really bad idea. 

Under the sweeping new FOSTA / SESTA federal law, the feds are looking for ANY reason to shut down websites that they view promote child sex trafficking. Therefore, precise language regarding consensual sex with adults is very important. 

Some more flippant and cavalier posters may not care if this website — like others already have — gets shut down and the webmaster catches a federal charge that he will have to spend all his resources defending. I happen to like the place and want it to stick around 

The OP seemed to understand this when it was pointed out to him.

Edited August 3, 2019 by SolaceSoul

[paborn]

@Kevie770: please understand, unlike your final argument about safety in Santo Domingo, this truly can be a matter of "perspective" Sadly, the new laws gave the perspective of the Federal prosecutors far greater weight than any of us. Persecution of minorities , and we are a minority, is not based on a consensus of opinion of what you meant but rather your actual words are twisted to support the outcome they want. 

Is it really so terribly hard to use terms like "guy" or make clear that you are speaking about young men who are over 18?  There are forums devoted to Gay Thailand were, after long discussion, we all began to use the term "guy" 

Edited August 3, 2019 by Paborn1340

[Tomcal]

58 minutes ago, SolaceSoul said:

Is that at once or total in one night?

Total in one night

[SolaceSoul]

4 minutes ago, paborn said:

@Kevie770: please understand, unlike your final argument about safety in Santo Domingo, this truly can be a matter of "perspective" Sadly, the new laws gave the perspective of the Federal prosecutors far greater weight than any of us. Persecution of minorities , and we are a minority, is not based on a consensus of opinion of what you meant but rather your actual words are twisted to support the outcome they want. 

Is it really so terribly hard to use terms like "guy" or make clear that you are speaking about young men who are over 18?  There are forums devoted to Gay Thailand were, after long discussion, we all began to use the term "guy" 

Thank you, @paborn! Finally, some common sense. 

[SolaceSoul]

12 minutes ago, Tomcal said:

Total in one night

I bow to Thee.

 

[AdamSmith]

I turned 60 three days ago.

Any guy younger than me is a ‘boy’.

[Lucky]

Several years ago I tried to get posters to use the word guys or men instead of boys. It was a lost cause.  So, I became one of the boys who used "guys,"  then with an atta-boy I just gave in. The word boy literally means child, but colloquial use differs. . A night out with the boys will convince you of that!

[SolaceSoul]

6 minutes ago, Lucky said:

Several years ago I tried to get posters to use the word guys or men instead of boys. It was a lost cause.  So, I became one of the boys who used "guys,"  then with an atta-boy I just gave in. The word boy literally means child, but colloquial use differs. . A night out with the boys will convince you of that!

You were a pioneer. Online, this clear adult phrasing is appropriate and necessary in a FOSTA/SESTA world (for any US-based or US-operating website or message board).

Adult-oriented websites and message boards are now being shut down for MUCH less!

”Previous to the bill, individual web users were legally responsible for what they posted. Now, any number of company employees could face up to 10 years in federal prison if their platform hosts anything that “facilitates sex work or sex trafficking.”

It’s a broadly written law that could affect any adult-oriented businesses, including those that market sexual films (another form of “sex work”) and forums advocating sex work legalization. The law essentially allows state and federal governments to shut down any sites it doesn’t like in the name of preventing trafficking.

Companies don’t have the time or technology to effectively filter out all of this potentially illegal content. It would take an expensive and powerful form of artificial intelligence to detect it, and teams of lawyers to handle any potential lawsuits if anything slips through.

Instead of paying for these exorbitant costs, most businesses have just opted to shut down any forums for sex or dating. Others have banned any and all “adult content” (including discussion boards) and created rules forbidding sexual comments.”

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2019/03/sesta-fosta-turning-web-g-rated-minefield-dan-savage-pals-know-2-ways-destroy/?amp

[Kevie770]

If you are not touching children, then you should have nothing to worry about!  The FBI isn't looking at this forum that has no child porn or talks about child porn or talks about sex trafficking.  If you are talking about it, then the Law should shut this shit down and take your ass to jail. But what it won’t be for is someone using the term “boy.”  The secondary definition of Boy is -used informally or lightheartedly to refer to a man.  Which is obviously what the poster was saying.  But being extra as you have proven to be you take to another level! Lol

Edited August 3, 2019 by Kevie770