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Argentina and Rio de Janeiro July 2019

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10 hours ago, ncc1701d said:

Did you see Carlos? Heading to BA in a few months and have minimal play time so looking for sure bets...let me know

I will see him this Saturday. But I have bad news for you. He is retired and you will not be able to contact him. Even if you have his old number, he has a new one now.

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I am in Corrientes, and my Grindr is melting. The pos is the abundance of young guys of all kinds interested in an older bear. The con is to find them amongst the even more abundant closeted guys with no pictures. And they are so fucking insistent! I hope there is no limits for blocking profiles. 

Yesterday I hooked up with a 30 y.o. hottie who invited me to his apartment, four blocks away from my mother's place, where I am staying while here. Great time, I will see him again at least one more time before flying back to Buenos Aires.

Prices here are so much better than in Buenos Aires. Margaritas are $AR 130. And they are huge and strong. Last night I had two and got as drunk as I do with 4 or five American drinks. Today I am inviting my family to eat to a Brazilian style parrilla. $AR 400 per guest and you eat delicious meats and sides with a regional touch (besides the standard ones things like chipas, mandioca (yuca), mbaipu) until you stop.

Once again I am missing this year an annual event that started in Buenos Aires after I emigrated. This year was the 5th edition of the "Night of the Philosophy". It is an amazing festival where the local thinkers and artists merge art and philosophy, and is a quite popular middle class event. You will need to translate if you  do not read Spanish, but here you have a nicely written report:

https://www.lanacion.com.ar/cultura/la-noche-filosofia-le-puso-calor-del-nid2263100

The translator may give you non sense some times, the report is full of regionalisms.

A thing that caught my attention was one of the author's remarks. In one of the night events, students from Schools of Philosophy present in four minutes the topics of the papers they are working on. The author highlights as "disturbing" the topic Why do we fight, out of a list that includes Sexual Diversity, Photography and Memory, Game and Justice, and Theater and performance.

The whole event seems very representative of the Buenos Aires I experienced in the 80s and 90s, and I am terrible sorry that I missed it AGAIN. If you can schedule your travels to coincide with the next edition, you should. I will be more careful next year if my fucking bad memory allows me.

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Monday, cloudy, and everyone is working. Perfect time for some catch up with my writing. Let's share a little bit more detail on my Grindr adventure.

I am going to call him the Baker. He is actually not a baker, but does work at the counter of a bakery. For those who know Argentina, you are familiar with the ubiquity and centrality of bakeries in our culture. I have always fantasized with the guys wearing aprons and working in the ovens behind the counters, and I liked imagining this guys as one of those. Let's me share a few pictures.

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His face is clearly visible in the other pics, so I am keeping those private, he is not a professional. I had my doubts about the second pic, but later learned it was real and taken where I sat when I came to his place. What decidedly made my mind was the weed. My nephew got me some, but it looked like a great idea to supplement my tiny supply.

The Baker is 36 years old, but looks like in his 20s. When I arrived to his place he was waiting for me at his door. We had to climb five floors through stairs, no elevator. The situation was weird without being uncomfortable. He would not chat with me but just walk fast forcing me to keep my pace and distance from him. Once at his apartment, I tried to make conversation but it was awkward, I was mostly asking questions and getting short answers, and he would not follow up after my answers to the few questions he did ask. He rolled a joint, we smoked it, and then I suggested to start playing, as we were sitting not at physical contact distance.

We left our chairs, and started to explore our bodies standing up. I tried to kiss him, but he would avoid my mouth, apparently he was more interested in my dick. I asked whether he was into kissing, and he would avoid a direct answer. Soon we were naked and stepping into his bedroom. His body looked just like the pictures, his skin was perfectly smooth and hairless, his face was more telling of his age than his body. He had piercing in his nipples. We did a lot of 69, but he would still avoid kissing although the interaction was very passionate and his dick was rock hard. He was not easily submissive, we would wrestle for control and I liked that.

However, my dick was getting soft without kissing. Eventually, I scaled down his passion to tell him that he was hot but we were not really a match, as I do need kissing to enjoy sex. He laughed and roll his eyes making some kind of comment about kissers, and immediately started kissing me passionately. My dick was back. He also had a piercing in his tongue. We kept playing for a while and busted jerking off and kissing. Although we did not fuck, it was a sexually satisfactory meeting.

It was funny that in some moment, I do not know exactly when, I switched to English. I noticed it because he was responding to me also in English. This happens to me often when I am having sex, specially if I am stoned, which I am usually when fucking. We finished late, he had to work the following morning (bakeries here open every day), so we quickly got dressed and I left after a little more of conversation.

He was not talkative, I was left with the clear filing that he is saving for himself a lot of who he is and where he is coming from. The little bit he showed was very interesting to me. Not only he was fluent in English, but also in French. I did not get to talk about his education background, but he obviously has one much more advance than most guys I know in this area of the country. His tattoos, his piercings, his talent to roll a joint, all speak to me of an urban culture that did not exist in Corrientes when I was living here 40 years ago. 

We said goodbye with the promise of keeping in touch. My hope is that he will slowly open up and share more about him. He is just 4 block away from my place, and I am confident we will meet again.

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On 6/29/2019 at 7:49 AM, Latbear4blk said:

I will see him this Saturday. But I have bad news for you. He is retired and you will not be able to contact him. Even if you have his old number, he has a new one now.

Oh no...any other recommendations...kissing is essential for me too and I only have one free evening to play ;-(

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5 hours ago, ncc1701d said:

Oh no...any other recommendations...kissing is essential for me too and I only have one free evening to play ;-(

https://ilikepinga.com/2018/07/13/douglas/

Douglas is an outstanding kisser. Of course, he is Carioca. I am not sure what your preferences are, but he is 100% bottom. Plus, he is significantly more affordable than Carlos, and a talented masseur. 

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9 hours ago, ncc1701d said:

That should work for me...thought I read in your review that he was a bit distant and mechanical about it...will give him a shout as time gets closer

It was his birthday and I was the third client of the day. Besides my experience, his services are consistently praised in the local forums. I will see him at least one more time during this trip.

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12 hours ago, ncc1701d said:

That should work for me...thought I read in your review that he was a bit distant and mechanical about it...will give him a shout as time gets closer

In case you are having second thoughts about Douglas, I have been doing some research as I wanna try new boys in the second half of July, when I will be man hunting in Buenos Aires. In this just published article I am unfolding my plans. If you do not want to read it all, scroll down until the section where I addressed Erik, Fran, and Luciano. I am very hopeful about those three boys. I may also reach out to Luka and Renzo. Check them up. Enjoy your trip and do not forget to sample the local food and culture!

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19 hours ago, ncc1701d said:

That should work for me...thought I read in your review that he was a bit distant and mechanical about it...will give him a shout as time gets closer

I just talked to Randisan. I mention him in my post, and I strongly recommend him. His fee published in Rentmen is U$S 100, which is considerable more expensive than what Douglas would charge you. 

He is leaving Buenos Aires this Sunday, so I will not be able to see him in this trip.

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Back to Buenos Aires, leaving tomorrow to Rio.

My trip to Corrientes finished great. I saw the Baker a second time, and this time he greeted me with a wonderful kiss. He is also a top, so we ended having another hot session of oral sex. I got his WhatsApp, this guys really wakes my curiosity, He is completely atypical for Corrientes, and when I tried to learned about his background, he would always respond with evasive jokes. I only learned that he speaks English better than I do (yeah, I am setting a low standard, I know) and some French, and he is originally from San Luis del Palmar, a small town not too far away from Corrientes. I wanna know more.

I met another hot boy through Grindr, 22 years old, student in the local School of Architecture. Like many of the guys I interacted on line over there, he was very closeted and concerned about being discrete. He even deleted his pictures as soon as I viewed them, so I have nothing to show. He did not have a place and neither I did, but he did have a car. We ended fucking in his car, parked in the Parque Mitre, right across the street where I was staying. Hot but uncomfortable.

WARNING FOR VISITORS TRAVELING TO AEROPARQUE JORGE NEWBERY.

I flew back to Buenos Aires yesterday afternoon. I had not noticed this is a long week end here. July 9th is Independence Day, and the government made also Monday a non work day to encourage tourism. Local flights do not use Ezeiza, the international airport out of the city, but Aeroparque Jorge Newbery, right in the middle of it. When we arrived and I wanted to take a cab, the line was about 200 ms. (I am in the metric system, guys). If I wanted a remise instead, I had to wait 2 hours and pay twice the fee. Uber was sowing no available cars in the area. So I got in the line.

In Buenos Aires, taxi drivers have a powerful Union and several mafias around transportation hubs. Most times the danger is not for the passengers, but to other taxi drivers who are not paying their mafia fee. However, quite frequently drivers would attempt to scam their passengers by not running the taximeter and asking for abusive fees. Until last year, to fight against this, city police set cameras to film the cars licenses and the drivers faces. This year they added an extra lier of security. Before getting in the line, passengers have to go to automatic stations pretty much similar to the check in stations in all airports. You enter your destination address and name, and the station prints a duplicated receipt with a price estimate for the trip. When you get in the car, you handle one copy to the driver and keep the other one. 

After 55 minutes in the line, I finally got in a car. My driver was great, he was the one who told me about the mafias. The ticket estimated $AR 270 for the trip, the taximeter marked only AR$ 210 (from the airport to Recoleta).

Even if this weekend traffic was exceptional because of the national holiday, I am told that the line to take a cab is always ridiculously long. My warning and advise to travelers is: if you are arriving to Aeroparque Jorge Newbery you should rent a remise service before departing from your place of origin. It is going to be more expensive than taking a cab, but you will avoid a line that, I am told, is never shorter than 30'.

 

This morning I woke up early and took advantage of the sunny day to walk around. Buenos Aires looks more beautiful than ever, at least this privileged area does. It may be a good idea to bring some cash to avoid paying the fees for withdrawing from ATMs (about U$S 10). I am using my CC and DC has much as I can, but in some places they do not accept them. 

In a few hours I am meeting with Carlos Aleman. As he is retired now, he does not live alone anymore, and have to kick out his two room mates to see me. When I return from Brazil I will have my own place.

Tonight I am meeting (if I have any stamina left after Carlos) with a 24 y.o. boy, also Venezuelan, who hit me in Grindr. All the pictures in his profile and in his IG have his face, so I am not going to share, but he is very attractive. His headline is "No Flacos!" ("no skinny guys!"), perfect for a daddy bear like myself. The boy is hot enough for me to pay, but this is a for free hook up.

For a while, very often, the guys I am hooking up with or hiring tell me I look younger in person than in my pictures. I just decided to change my profiles in Grindr and Scruff. I am not lying, but I am not sharing my age. I also changed my picture. In the previous one my goatee was visibly full of grey hair. I trimmed it to make the hair very short,  look now remarkably younger, and took new pics. New pictures are up.

My Grindr is quite active, of course I am a novelty. So far only one guy has contacted me asking for money, AR$ 1,500. He is cute, but not cute enough for me to pay.

Tomorrow at noon I am leaving to Rio from Ezeiza. If you read the post in my blog that I shared above, I have already booked Italo Andrade and Estevão Olivera.

See you all soon.

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I am so fucking out of shape. I really need to start doing cardio or swimming regularly. I met Carlos today and left his place exhausted, I do not think I have energy to meet the other Venezuelan boy tonight.

Carlos was great, although the whole situation was weird. He is now living with other two students I could hear getting in and out of the apartment while we were making out and fucking, and that lack of privacy took a lot away from the experience. We will keep meeting once I am back from Rio, and I hold a full report until then, as I want to give specifics about his availability or lack of. Right now, it looks like he shut down escorting for the locals, but it may be interested in finding a way of being reachable for visitors. We will work on that once I am back. 

As I have decided not to go out again (well, I may change my mind), I am packing right now. It looks like I am going to have a quite cool Carioca weather next week.

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I do not have much time to write, I am going to be brief, and later give more details. 

The beach day was cancelled, it was too cold. Instead I spent the day with Diego, from 10:30 to 5, we had sex twice, good sex, his fee was R150, I gave him 250.

I just met Italo Andrade, $200, check link to his ad in my blog. The meeting was amazing, if he was not leaving tomorrow I would be renting him for every day for the rest of my stay. He busted three times during our date. So much better than anything I have gotten so far from saunas in Salvador, and my one time in a sauna here.

See you all later.

 

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Regarding the Grindr guy ... some of us know his identity but we have no intention of alerting him, though the impression is that he values discretion. There is no point creating anxiety for a GdeP and it is his responsibility to manage the occupational hazards. 

I actually follow his IG. And I limit to 100 guys!! However, there are likely others on the Board who see it differently. We have been through this. You have barely begun posting photos and already the world is small enough that a guy can be identified. 

It also depends on how explicitly he advertises. He obviously sent the nude photos personally thru the text function. Maybe he posted his IG handle in the upfront profile; that also makes a difference, particularly if not private account. Maybe he told you to go ahead. 

I do not want to get into another argument about photos. I can say I do not need to see pics. However ... 

Whether or not the Grindr ad upfront denotes his MO, consider this. Somebody alerts him (without telling you) that a visting Argentinian American from DC has splashed his pics and role within the public domain, you then unwittingly book him, and somebody who considers you to be Public Enemy #1 of the day is face-to-face with you in a private space.

I'm just saying think it through and whether and when you actually need to post photos. How many of 32,000 members are encouraging this? It seems to me there is only a handful and that there are other ways to share this information with a small group of trusted sympaticos.

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15 minutes ago, Riobard said:

I do not want to get into another argument about photos. I can say I do not need to see pics. However ... 

Whether or not the Grindr ad upfront denotes his MO, consider this. Somebody alerts him (without telling you) that a visting Argentinian American from DC has splashed his pics and role within the public domain, you then unwittingly book him, and somebody who considers you to be Public Enemy #1 of the day is face-to-face with you in a private space.

I'm just saying think it through and whether and when you actually need to post photos. How many of 32,000 members are encouraging this? It seems to me there is only a handful and that there are other ways to share this information with a small group of trusted sympaticos.

Exactly.

This might be the most sensible (and easy to read) piece of advice you have ever posted here. 

In short, one day, somebody's gonna get their ass kicked, or worse yet, killed for doing this (public posting of face / identifiable photos of working boys, along with their sexcapades). 

Personally, @Latbear4blk, I don’t understand the payoff or thrill that you or others get from continually doing this — but if you won’t think about the respect of sexual privacy these guys need in their culture, at least consider the harm you might be placing yourself in when (not if) it gets back to an embarrassed or shamed young man who (rightly or not) feels he must defend his honor, manhood and reputation.

 

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5 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

 

Personally, @Latbear4blk, I don’t understand the payoff or thrill that you or others get from continually doing this — but if you won’t think about the respect of sexual privacy these guys need in their culture, at least consider the harm you might be placing yourself in when (not if) it gets back to an embarrassed or shamed young man who (rightly or not) feels he must defend his honor, manhood and reputation.

 

I did not see the problem when I posted, assuming he was a GP offering himself, but I see now after reading @Riobard post what the problem is. However, I am not afraid but sorry for violating his privacy.

I was wrong at posting those pics. If you follow my history you will see that I am evolving to a more respectful for privacy stand. Thank you for confronting me. If @TotallyOz is reading this and want to delete the Grindr pictures, I would appreciate it. My apologies to everyone, it will not happen again.

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20 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said:

If @TotallyOz is reading this and want to delete the Grindr pictures, I would appreciate it.

Thanks ... good to know.

I think you have to make the request to TotallyOz thru PM. The administrators need some kind of URL info for the photos. I cannot recall the procedure, or if the info that pops up when you click and hold on the photo is sufficient. 

Here is an example, but after the last hyphen is the name of the topic, something like that. I don't know if it only shows for you as the poster.

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Here you go ... provide your topic URL and specify what you want the administrators to delete. I believe that all of the text information in the single post has to be deleted along with the photos, so if you had additional running text such as meals or a day's recap, or other OK pics in the same post (not the entire thread) they will have to disappear. You get the URL by click and hold on the topic title in the Latin Amer topic list. 

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I've noticed that my typos and mistakes have increased. Gladly, I am quite busy and writing in a rush. As my health is doing great in this trip, I do not have all the extra time I had in Salvador, when my back was acting up.

Diego is a wonderful companion. Not only is 100% reliable and honest, but also very aware of budgets and look after me paying the best prices when we are going around. Yesterday he took me to Praia de Grumari (in some places it is called Praia de Abricó), about one hour and R$80 in Uber. The views are paradisiacal and it is a nudist beach. According to Diego, you must be naked on weekends, but nudity is optional during the week. After hanging up around we had a generous lunch in the beach restaurant, the most expensive check I had to pay so far, but eating and drinking with that view worths it.

I am told you can easily have sex in the many discrete little corners in between the rocks. I was not looking for doing anything and just relaxed and enjoy the sun with Diego. A guy not far away from us was jerking off, I am not sure whether he was looking at Diego or at a group of women working in a nude photo shot. Here you have some pictures.IMG_3249.thumb.jpg.9c46becc4904ce17ce03910b19563679.jpgIMG_3250.thumb.jpg.3b49e628c15fdbd6dc16cca6e3156b10.jpgIMG_3260.thumb.jpg.07cd9bf36f36acc9385f9c195105f7e8.jpg

Back in Rio in the afternoon, we relaxed at my place. As the sex he is able to give me is not what I am looking for, I was not really interested in doing anything, but Diego insisted that he wanted sex. He insisted a lot. So we played for a while, took a shower, and went to 202. 

It was a big night in the sauna, many GPs of all sizes and kinds. Surprisingly, the A/C was on and the feeling was very comfortable despite the crowd. There was a lot of people but not enough to make the place feel full. A beautiful drag performed a few songs lip singing and two strippers did a show. I loved the drag, I was underwhelmed by the strippers. Hot guys, one of them a very good dancer, but in my opinion they were not sexy performers. 

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I made a mistake that is not helping my appreciation of saunas. Instead of following my guts like @numazu1 advises me, I went with a friends recommended by Diego. He was not able to take my dick. It was the day that cabins are free, and we had a long wait to go in. Once the fiasco sex was over, I felt like everyone was leaving and went home horny, frustrated, and hating saunas. I am better now and will keep trying.

However, I must say that out of my several visits to the three saunas en Salvador, and my two visits to 202, I am only getting class C sex. My experiences with GPs out of saunas are much, much better. I am not ready yet to definitively judge that saunas are not for me, but I am close. Probably if I had more time to explore the offer and find the guys who truly enjoy bottoming, I would have a better outcome from my visits. I am not quitting yet.

I went to sleep horny, and I woke up horny very early. My plan was devoting the morning to writing, but I was hit in Grindr by this:

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Wagner, carioca, 25 y.o., GP two blocks away from my place, R200 in calls, 250 outcalls. We quickly established compatibility and made the appointment. The guy was dynamite. Without reaching the highs of Italo, but indeed excellent outstanding sex. He may start publishing his escort services and you may have a full review in that case. We are planning a second meeting on Sunday. I have to check out at 10am and my flight departs at 9PM, so I will probably stopped by his very nice apartment for a last farewell.

See you all later.

 

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