Escort/GogoDancer Roommate

[Mili2323]

I'm moving to Brooklyn very soon. I want some excitement and someone with connection to the gay nightlife. I really want a roommate who is an escort or go-to dancer. Its kind of like a dream for me. I'm young. In my late 20s. Of course, i need them to have stable income. Amy advice on how to find such a roommate or advertise that I want one? I'm not asking them for their services. I just want that roommate so I can have someone who is fun, sex positive, can give me info on the scene. If I get in better shape I may even strip. 

[AdamSmith]

First, YOU have to be the ‘stable income’ source.

Second, haunt the strip clubs and take a bunch of them home until you find one — or several — you fall in love with.

Not so complicated!

[MsGuy]

That's very good advice from AdamSmith, Mili, but before you set things in motion, you might want to consider that the life-style to which you seek to be introduced may induce cash flow difficulties and 'income instabilities'  beyond your current experience.

A not inconsequential complication AS should have drawn to your attention, IMHO.

[Mili2323]

10 hours ago, AdamSmith said:

First, YOU have to be the ‘stable income’ source.

Second, haunt the strip clubs and take a bunch of them home until you find one — or several — you fall in love with.

Not so complicated!

I'm not looking for the services or companiomship. I'm looking for the cohabitation and the excitement/personality accompanied with the occupation. 

[Mili2323]

1 hour ago, MsGuy said:

That's very good advice from AdamSmith, Mili, but before you set things in motion, you might want to consider that the life-style to which you seek to be introduced may induce cash flow difficulties and 'income instabilities'  beyond your current experience.

A not inconsequential complication AS should have drawn to your attention, IMHO.

It's hard to explain. I'm not looking for the services. I'm looking for the friendship of an escort. I wanna hear their stories and offer them support and ultimately see the world they see. 

[kjun12]

Good luck in finding what you want but, also, be cautious.  Many, if not most, escorts are not the most stable guys around and not above stealing, borrowing money they forget to repay etc.

[Mili2323]

Just now, kjun12 said:

Good luck in finding what you want but, also, be cautious.  Many, if not most, escorts are not the most stable guys around and not above stealing, borrowing money they forget to repay etc.

Thanks for the feedback. This is something I perceived as beings possibility but this is a risk I'm considering taking. I am intrigued with gay men working in the sex industry. 

[AdamSmith]

5 minutes ago, Mili2323 said:

Thanks for the feedback. This is something I perceived as beings possibility but this is a risk I'm considering taking. I am intrigued with gay men working in the sex industry. 

There are many very good people doing this. There are also many bad people. Keep your eyes wide open.

[Mili2323]

11 minutes ago, AdamSmith said:

There are many very good people doing this. There are also many bad people. Keep your eyes wide open.

I shall. I will follow my gut. Honestly, I can't begin to describe how much I really wanna try this. I will make informed decisions about who I interact with in this profession. I'll take a close look at there characters. 

[AdamSmith]

13 hours ago, MsGuy said:

That's very good advice from AdamSmith, Mili, but before you set things in motion, you might want to consider that the life-style to which you seek to be introduced may induce cash flow difficulties and 'income instabilities'  beyond your current experience.

A not inconsequential complication AS should have drawn to your attention, IMHO.

PS Indeed.

Oneself has had to file Chapter Seven precisely because thereof.

[AdamSmith]

11 hours ago, Mili2323 said:

It's hard to explain. I'm not looking for the services. I'm looking for the friendship of an escort. I wanna hear their stories and offer them support and ultimately see the world they see. 

You cannot have one without the other.

[TotallyOz]

Finding an escort roommate is easy. Finding one that shares with you and includes you in their life the way you want is a job. There are tons of guys that look for roommates with no expectations outside of a room to share.  When other expectations are required, to me, that says services rendered. Thus, will your share of the rent be the same as theirs or higher because of your expectations?

[Mili2323]

3 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

Finding an escort roommate is easy. Finding one that shares with you and includes you in their life the way you want is a job. There are tons of guys that look for roommates with no expectations outside of a room to share.  When other expectations are required, to me, that says services rendered. Thus, will your share of the rent be the same as theirs or higher because of your expectations?

Here are my expectations for our relationship. They be an escort. Occasionally bring clients for in-calls. Maybe tell me about events around the city. after they move in and if we are friendly, tell me stories about what they do. Primary responsibility will be paying their rent and apartment-related expenses. Will I wanna fuck them? Probably. But what im looking for is an unconventional roommate who is sex positive and hypersexual, I think. 

[TotallyOz]

1 hour ago, Mili2323 said:

Here are my expectations for our relationship. They be an escort. Occasionally bring clients for in-calls. Maybe tell me about events around the city. after they move in and if we are friendly, tell me stories about what they do. Primary responsibility will be paying their rent and apartment-related expenses. Will I wanna fuck them? Probably. But what im looking for is an unconventional roommate who is sex positive and hypersexual, I think. 

You are actually looking for more than that is you expect them to bring in clients and tell you about it. Nothing wrong with that. But, it is a service.

[TotallyOz]

PS: Notice you also said relationship expectations. That is not a roommate.

[Mili2323]

2 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

PS: Notice you also said relationship expectations. That is not a roommate.

I'll keep this in mind..

[mvan1]

7 hours ago, Mili2323 said:

Here are my expectations for our relationship. They be an escort. Occasionally bring clients for in-calls. Maybe tell me about events around the city. after they move in and if we are friendly, tell me stories about what they do. Primary responsibility will be paying their rent and apartment-related expenses. Will I wanna fuck them? Probably. But what im looking for is an unconventional roommate who is sex positive and hypersexual, I think. 

You are expecting almost the impossible -  It seems you want more than a roommate - rather a lot more 

 

[Mili2323]

39 minutes ago, mvan1 said:

You are expecting almost the impossible -  It seems you want more than a roommate - rather a lot more 

 

Love the video. Lol. I understand. I think I just want a roommate who is a whore and brings home men all the time. I wanna be an escort on some level. I think that's the real reason I want one as a roomie. 

[mvan1]

6 hours ago, Mili2323 said:

Love the video. Lol. I understand. I think I just want a roommate who is a whore and brings home men all the time. I wanna be an escort on some level. I think that's the real reason I want one as a roomie. 

1

Now the exchange of words back and forth makes sense.  

You are interested in escorting. 

Living with or associating with  escorts will be a teaching lessons for you as well as fulfilling a fantasy.

Good luck and glad you liked the video.   

[Mili2323]

6 hours ago, mvan1 said:

Now the exchange of words back and forth makes sense.  

You are interested in escorting. 

Living with or associating with  escorts will be a teaching lessons for you as well as fulfilling a fantasy.

Good luck and glad you liked the video.   

Thanks for the feedback. Yeah, I admire them on some level. They seem liberated and I'm attracted to them because of what they do. You are correct. It's all about fulfilling a fantasy for me. Who knows where it will go from there. 

[AdamSmith]

1 hour ago, Mili2323 said:

Thanks for the feedback. Yeah, I admire them on some level. They seem liberated and I'm attracted to them because of what they do. You are correct. It's all about fulfilling a fantasy for me. Who knows where it will go from there. 

Curious.Have you ever hired? If so, how did it go?

[Mili2323]

I have never hired in the US. I have visited a brothel overseas. No, it was not Thailand lol. It was legal there. Honestly, my ex was from that country and his friends were sex-positive people and a few were prostitutes. We meshed well. i realized through talking with them how much I was intrigued by the profession. I am curious about how they operate in the US. I know about the cultural perception of the job and I have read research on the lives of prostitutes and I am conscious of many of the positive and negatives of the experience. I just wanna make friends with some rentboys here so I can explore the sexual part of me and get to know how rentboys here live per se. 

[numerito]

I can understand your fantasy, @Mili2323 A long time ago, when I lived in NYC, I had a breathtakingly beautiful escort who was visiting the city stay with me for about one month. We agreed that he could continue working, but not at my place. He came home every night after seeing his customers, showered, and went to my bed naked, to talk, sleep next to me, kiss, make out, and cuddle. We often had sex as well: he gave fantastic blowjobs, his dick was always hard, and he was an awesome top. He needed a roof over his head, some human touch, a sympathetic ear, and affection. It was a very exciting and different experience: I gave him what he was looking for, and I learned a lot from him.

[boiworship]

20 hours ago, numerito said:

I can understand your fantasy, @Mili2323 A long time ago, when I lived in NYC, I had a breathtakingly beautiful escort who was visiting the city stay with me for about one month. We agreed that he could continue working, but not at my place. He came home every night after seeing his customers, showered, and went to my bed naked, to talk, sleep next to me, kiss, make out, and cuddle. We often had sex as well: he gave fantastic blowjobs, his dick was always hard, and he was an awesome top. He needed a roof over his head, some human touch, a sympathetic ear, and affection. It was a very exciting and different experience: I gave him what he was looking for, and I learned a lot from him.

That sounds so sweet!

[numerito]

5 hours ago, boiworship said:

That sounds so sweet!

It was, @boiworship, it was. And he was sooooo damn gorgeous, you couldn’t believe.