Bisexual Guy Traveling Soon to Rio w GF, Advice?

[moonwalker]

I'm bi (I'll explain soon why this is relevant). Traveling soon to Rio after Carnaval. Been reading the forum/curious to try this for a while.

I'll be coming with my girlfriend. We're both 25 and she's adventurous. Basically she likes Brazilian/Latin guys (we both do lol) so we're looking for a guy around our age or younger, who fits the bill of what she likes. Which is basically tan/brown skin, muscular/fit/sixpack handsome and a big dick. Sounds clicheed I know it, but it's what we want/like. I'd be looking mainly to watch while my gf has fun with him, at least to start with. We'll be spending six weeks there so an ongoing arrangement would be great if first time works out.

What I wanted to ask was advice, first of all, is this normal/common in Brazil now or will it be seen as weird of us as a thing to look for? In America it's definitely something that's not so unusual right now, especially among young couples to try out, and a relatively normal "kink." But I'm not sure how it is in Brazil or if we'd be seen as weirdos to try it out/ask/look for it.

Second, I was thinking of finding a guy for her from club 117? Not sure if this is the best way, so I wanted to get advice. I think it would definitely be possible (I think?) to find a guy on the beach to do this (she's quite attractive/fit so it's not like she'd have trouble getting a guy lol) but given all our requirements it might be more convenient to try to find someone at 117 from what I've seen. I'm asking if you think this is a decent idea and I mean also in regards to SAFETY and also doability, in all ways.

I know my question is somewhat unusual for this forum maybe but I thought there might be posters here who could give advice or if we'd be going about this the wrong way.

[Badboy81]

31 minutes ago, moonwalker said:

What I wanted to ask was advice, first of all, is this normal/common in Brazil now or will it be seen as weird of us as a thing to look for? In America it's definitely something that's not so unusual right now, especially among young couples to try out, and a relatively normal "kink." But I'm not sure how it is in Brazil or if we'd be seen as weirdos to try it out/ask/look for it.

Is is unusual in Brazil but Im sure you would be able to find somebody to accommodate you and your girlfriend...I havent seen any female just hanging out in the saunas ever so you would probably have to recruit the guy with pics and telling them what you hare looking for....use google translate if you don't speak Portuguese...

Not sure how many guys would be open to a 3some but Im sure you can persuade somebody from the saunas to do it....you may be able to find somebody off the apps...

Just use your best judgement and make sure what you are looking to do is stated clearly so you wont have any issues...

Have a great time...

[moonwalker]

44 minutes ago, Badboy81 said:

Is is unusual in Brazil but Im sure you would be able to find somebody to accommodate you and your girlfriend...I havent seen any female just hanging out in the saunas ever so you would probably have to recruit the guy with pics and telling them what you hare looking for....use google translate if you don't speak Portuguese...

Not sure how many guys would be open to a 3some but Im sure you can persuade somebody from the saunas to do it....you may be able to find somebody off the apps...

Just use your best judgement and make sure what you are looking to do is stated clearly so you wont have any issues...

Have a great time...

Thanks. Just to clarify we're not looking for a classical 3some, at least to start with, but specifically for the fantasy where he fucks her and I watch. I think this should be easier?

[Kevie770]

I envy you! If I could find a beautiful black woman to have Bi sex with. I would marry her and have freaky sex trips all the time.  But unfortunately Bi is the same thing as gay in the black community. Enjoy your time I’m sure you won’t have any trouble finding a guy that would be delighted to fuck your young wife with or without you; rather than an old loose booty queen lol! I would go to the sauna so you know exactly what you're getting. I hope you both find that perfect guy or guys!  

[SolaceSoul]

2 hours ago, moonwalker said:

I'm bi (I'll explain soon why this is relevant). Traveling soon to Rio after Carnaval. Been reading the forum/curious to try this for a while.

I'll be coming with my girlfriend. We're both 25 and she's adventurous. Basically she likes Brazilian/Latin guys (we both do lol) so we're looking for a guy around our age or younger, who fits the bill of what she likes. Which is basically tan/brown skin, muscular/fit/sixpack handsome and a big dick. Sounds clicheed I know it, but it's what we want/like. I'd be looking mainly to watch while my gf has fun with him, at least to start with. We'll be spending six weeks there so an ongoing arrangement would be great if first time works out.

What I wanted to ask was advice, first of all, is this normal/common in Brazil now or will it be seen as weird of us as a thing to look for? In America it's definitely something that's not so unusual right now, especially among young couples to try out, and a relatively normal "kink." But I'm not sure how it is in Brazil or if we'd be seen as weirdos to try it out/ask/look for it.

Second, I was thinking of finding a guy for her from club 117? Not sure if this is the best way, so I wanted to get advice. I think it would definitely be possible (I think?) to find a guy on the beach to do this (she's quite attractive/fit so it's not like she'd have trouble getting a guy lol) but given all our requirements it might be more convenient to try to find someone at 117 from what I've seen. I'm asking if you think this is a decent idea and I mean also in regards to SAFETY and also doability, in all ways.

I know my question is somewhat unusual for this forum maybe but I thought there might be posters here who could give advice or if we'd be going about this the wrong way.

Your situation is definitely do-able, as long as you conduct your business intelligently and discreetly. Almost every working garoto and casually non-working one that I know prefers to have sex with women (or at least publicly does).

Many advertising working garotos de programa indicate that they are open to both men and women, knowing damn well that women rarely if ever peruse those gay escort ads. If you aren’t a Portuguese speaker, when you see ads, look for “homens e mulheres” — which means men and women. Also, the word for couples is “casais” (“travesti” means trans, for what it’s worth). Look at many garoto de programa, or “boy” ads and you’ll see one or more of these phrases. You can easily try a garoto out from an ad or an app like Grindr or Planet Romeo / Hunqz.

Re: saunas, of course, your girlfriend cannot enter (and for this, I shall be eternally grateful). But most of the working guys in there will probably be interested in your arrangement, granted the pay is right (remember that they are there to make money, and often what the client looks like is of little concern). Offsite programas will most likely cost you more, as well as the costs of two clients in one who are present during the session (whether male/female or male/male), and the transportation costs to and from your hotel/apartment. Your GF being attractive to them might sweeten the deal a little. But, the sauna would be a good place for you to sample the goods yourself first, and show him photos of your GF,  as well as get a feel if you are comfortable with him and introducing him to your girl.

Re: the beach, this may be the riskiest move with the least opportunity for reward. Unless you already know the guy is a working guy, and know someone who knows his reputation, I would avoid this one without someone to guide you along on your first trip. I actually know several beach guys who somewhat clandestinely work the beaches for either men or women, but that takes a great deal of time and effort. FYI: One of my beach favorites (who definitely fits your desired description) met two of my visiting very hot lipstick lesbian friends with me on the beach, and literally spent the entire next week trying to fuck them (they weren’t about that life, however). I never asked but I got the strong feeling that he is the type that would be very uncomfortable with a woman knowing he also does guys. This is NOT a situation you’d want to get into in an unfamiliar environment.

Good luck and exercise good judgment and caution.

 

 

Edited February 10, 2019 by SolaceSoul

[moonwalker]

25 minutes ago, SolaceSoul said:

Your situation is definitely do-able, as long as you conduct your business intelligently and discreetly. Almost every working garoto and casually non-working one that I know prefers to have sex with women (or at least publicly does).

Many advertising working garotos de programa indicate that they are open to both men and women, knowing damn well that women rarely if ever peruse those gay escort ads. If you aren’t a Portuguese speaker, when you see ads, look for “homens e mulheres” — which means men and women. Also, the word for couples is “casais” (“travesti” means trans, for what it’s worth). Look at many garoto de programa, or “boy” ads and you’ll see one or more of these phrases. You can easily try a garoto out from an ad or an app like Grindr or Planet Romeo / Hunqz.

Re: saunas, of course, your girlfriend cannot enter (and for this, I shall be eternally grateful). But most of the working guys in there will probably be interested in your arrangement, granted the pay is right (remember that they are there to make money, and often what the client looks like is of little concern). Offsite programas will most likely cost you more, as well as the costs of two clients in one who are present during the session (whether male/female or male/male), and the transportation costs to and from your hotel/apartment. Your GF being attractive to them might sweeten the deal a little. But, the sauna would be a good place for you to sample the goods yourself first, and show him photos of your GF,  as well as get a feel if you are comfortable with him and introducing him to your girl.

Re: the beach, this may be the riskiest move with the least opportunity for reward. Unless you already know the guy is a working guy, and know someone who knows his reputation, I would avoid this one without someone to guide you along on your first trip. I actually know several beach guys who somewhat clandestinely work the beaches for either men or women, but that takes a great deal of time and effort. FYI: One of my beach favorites (who definitely fits your desired description) met two of my visiting very hot lipstick lesbian friends with me on the beach, and literally spent the entire next week trying to fuck them (they weren’t about that life, however). I never asked but I got the strong feeling that he is the type that would be very uncomfortable with a woman knowing he also does guys. This is NOT a situation you’d want to get into in an unfamiliar environment.

Good luck and exercise good judgment and caution.

 

 

 Hey dude thanks for the nice reply. This is all good to know! Just to clarify, when I said the possibility of a guy on the beach I didn't mean a guy for pay. Most or at least many young straight guys, presented with the opportunity to bang a pretty hot girl (which my gf is lol) would take it even if it meant her boyfriend watching (some may even like that, as it's become a little more popular as a fetish in the USA lately. I guess I also wanted to ask if this is done/relatively normal in Rio right now? Or if we'd be seen as total weirdos even suggesting it. Assuming of course we were going to do it being discreet/smart/polite, I just want to know if it's something guys there are familiar with more or less).

The advantages of the two of us hooking up with a guy on the beach are that it would be free and more "natural" I guess. The disadvantage is that we don't know ahead of time how hung he is (lol I know clichee but it's part of our thing). I guess this could be solved with her using Tinder, through which a guy could send a shot by text, but again, I'm wondering if "my boyfriend would be there" would spook a lot of guys off. Also they could lie or send a false photo.

In the sauna I'm thinking the advantage is exactly what you say. I'd be able to see exactly what I'm getting beforehand. Also to sample it myself lol (the idea of blowing a hot tan or dark skinned Brazilian stud before he fucks my gf is as you might imagine a major turn on for me). The disadvantage, aside from paying (which isn't a big deal, I'd def be willing to pay for the right guy) is that it's "less natural" and maybe if he's a garoto for pay, maybe also less safe? And I mean less safe in all kinds of ways, including health? I don't know, sorry if I'm making assumptions.

I'd imagine also though that if I hired a sauna guy to "sample" for myself first he might be willing to agree to a longer-term (over the weeks) arrangement where I do pay him when I'm involved or suck him off or whatever, but maybe he'd be with her for fun? I mean assuming some of these guys are straight or prefer girls like you say. And again it's not about me being cheap, but more like she might like it more and it might be more "natural" if he likes to hook up with her for fun and not for pay.

But anyway sorry to go on but just wanted to clarify. It's not in general hard to get a guy eager to do this for free, but there are advantages and disadvantages to both sides of things. And I AM very curious about the sauna guys. But wondering if you think even a sauna guy would be willing to lower or get rid of the rates (for her) altogether for a longer-term arrangement.

Also since you say you know a guy who fits the bill, would be curious to hear about him lol (or about any other guy, at sauna or not, who you think might be right for this. Again paying is not a problem).

[moonwalker]

1 hour ago, Kevie770 said:

I envy you! If I could find a beautiful black woman to have Bi sex with. I would marry her and have freaky sex trips all the time.  But unfortunately Bi is the same thing as gay in the black community. Enjoy your time I’m sure you won’t have any trouble finding a guy that would be delighted to fuck your young wife with or without you; rather than an old loose booty queen lol! I would go to the sauna so you know exactly what you're getting. I hope you both find that perfect guy or guys!  

Thanks lol. May I suggest sir that if a beautiful black queen won't do this with you, you also consider a freaky white girl. Some like my gf are into this kind of thing. We're just a polite educated white couple with a fetish for young tall strong tan guys, nothing to see here lol.

I'm going to check out the saunas for sure. I thought the advantage on the beach or in a bar might be that it's for free/and also more "natural." But I guess a sauna guy could maybe be enticed into a longer-term thing too.

[BlkSuperman]

Yassssssss. You and your gf sounds like my kind of couple. Living life on your terms and carefree. There are a ton of bisexual guys in the saunas with families at home. I think the sauna might be the best alternative for you and your gf. My husband and I have been with at least 6 six from the saunas who have a wife/girlfriend. Also, whenever we take a guy from the sauna we only pay $300R, which is considerably cheap to have a, "fucking good time," pun intended. At the sauna you know the guys are there to have sex and usually at a VERY REASONABLE price. Have fun. Take pics and send to me in a private message. Lol!

Actually, if you're looking for a few hung guys, I can refer about 3 guys to you. They are hung like mules and will pound her like a drummer in a marching band.

Edited February 10, 2019 by 1tennisace

[SolaceSoul]

2 hours ago, moonwalker said:

 Hey dude thanks for the nice reply. This is all good to know! Just to clarify, when I said the possibility of a guy on the beach I didn't mean a guy for pay. Most or at least many young straight guys, presented with the opportunity to bang a pretty hot girl (which my gf is lol) would take it even if it meant her boyfriend watching (some may even like that, as it's become a little more popular as a fetish in the USA lately. I guess I also wanted to ask if this is done/relatively normal in Rio right now? Or if we'd be seen as total weirdos even suggesting it. Assuming of course we were going to do it being discreet/smart/polite, I just want to know if it's something guys there are familiar with more or less).

The advantages of the two of us hooking up with a guy on the beach are that it would be free and more "natural" I guess. The disadvantage is that we don't know ahead of time how hung he is (lol I know clichee but it's part of our thing). I guess this could be solved with her using Tinder, through which a guy could send a shot by text, but again, I'm wondering if "my boyfriend would be there" would spook a lot of guys off. Also they could lie or send a false photo.

In the sauna I'm thinking the advantage is exactly what you say. I'd be able to see exactly what I'm getting beforehand. Also to sample it myself lol (the idea of blowing a hot tan or dark skinned Brazilian stud before he fucks my gf is as you might imagine a major turn on for me). The disadvantage, aside from paying (which isn't a big deal, I'd def be willing to pay for the right guy) is that it's "less natural" and maybe if he's a garoto for pay, maybe also less safe? And I mean less safe in all kinds of ways, including health? I don't know, sorry if I'm making assumptions.

I'd imagine also though that if I hired a sauna guy to "sample" for myself first he might be willing to agree to a longer-term (over the weeks) arrangement where I do pay him when I'm involved or suck him off or whatever, but maybe he'd be with her for fun? I mean assuming some of these guys are straight or prefer girls like you say. And again it's not about me being cheap, but more like she might like it more and it might be more "natural" if he likes to hook up with her for fun and not for pay.

But anyway sorry to go on but just wanted to clarify. It's not in general hard to get a guy eager to do this for free, but there are advantages and disadvantages to both sides of things. And I AM very curious about the sauna guys. But wondering if you think even a sauna guy would be willing to lower or get rid of the rates (for her) altogether for a longer-term arrangement.

Also since you say you know a guy who fits the bill, would be curious to hear about him lol (or about any other guy, at sauna or not, who you think might be right for this. Again paying is not a problem).

I’m going to try to keep my responses to you in the same polite and genteel fashion that you’ve been kind enough to keep here.

I wouldn’t advise you trying your beach fantasy thing without a guide (meaning, someone you know who can introduce you to like-minded guys on the beach). Otherwise, you’re asking for trouble for you and your GF. When I say trouble, I mean getting setup or violence. 

If your GF is truly that hot (in comparison to what’s in Rio beaches, that’s a tall order), then propositions may happen naturally. However, although sex can be easy to find in Rio, as a white male foreigner tourist on his first trip, be prepared to pay — whether it’s an agreed-upon amount up front or a demanded amount afterwards. I am not saying that this is bound to occur, but being prepared in the event it does happen will uncomplicate your life a dozen-fold. I cannot count how many times I’ve talked to privileged tourists who think that brasileiro/as are going to be wowed by their sheer looks / personality / whatever, and then they become totally outraged, shocked or dismayed when they’re asked to pay for it somehow. Don’t be that guy.

Secondly, it would be a huge mistake for you to presume that a garoto — a sex worker — will fuck your GF for free, especially while you watch. These guys have their own wives and girlfriends and side pieces. The likelihood of them being so impressed with your GF that they will waive a fee for you is foolish — especially since you want a regular arrangement. Again, expect to pay (for two), and maybe be pleasantly surprised if you don’t have to, or get offered a discount. But I highly doubt it. 

Sauna workers are most likely going to practice safe sex more than any rando you meet on the beach, the street or an app.

Re: the beach guy (or any guy) that I know — sorry, but I just don’t go there. I don’t know you at all, this could go south quickly for everyone involved (including me), and my years of internet experience and travel experience have taught me well to avoid fulfilling those kinds of requests. There ARE others here, however, who don’t seem to adhere to my principles and just hand out contact information and photos of guys they have met like candy to kids during Halloween. Maybe one of them will give you an assist in that area?

But I do wish you well and hope that you and your GF have a fun-filled, safe time.

Edited February 10, 2019 by SolaceSoul

[moonwalker]

22 minutes ago, SolaceSoul said:

I’m going to try to keep my responses to you in the same polite and genteel fashion that you’ve been kind enough to keep here.

I wouldn’t advise you trying your beach fantasy thing without a guide (meaning, someone you know who can introduce you to like-minded guys on the beach). Otherwise, you’re asking for trouble for you and your GF. When I say trouble, I mean getting setup or violence. 

If your GF is truly that hot (in comparison to what’s in Rio beaches, that’s a tall order), then propositions may happen naturally. However, although sex can be easy to find in Rio, as a white male foreigner tourist on his first trip, be prepared to pay — whether it’s an agreed-upon amount up front or a demanded amount afterwards. I am not saying that this is bound to occur, but being prepared in the event it does happen will uncomplicate your life a dozen-fold. I cannot count how many times I’ve talked to privileged tourists who think that brasileiro/as are going to be wowed by their sheer looks / personality / whatever, and then they become totally outraged, shocked or dismayed when they’re asked to pay for it somehow. Don’t be that guy.

Secondly, it would be a huge mistake for you to presume that a garoto — a sex worker — will fuck your GF for free, especially while you watch. These guys have their own wives and girlfriends and side pieces. The likelihood of them being so impressed with your GF that they will waive a fee for you is foolish — especially since you want a regular arrangement. Again, expect to pay (for two), and maybe be pleasantly surprised if you don’t have to, or get offered a discount. But I highly doubt it. 

Sauna workers are most likely going to practice safe sex more than any rando you meet on the beach, the street or an app.

Re: the beach guy (or any guy) that I know — sorry, but I just don’t go there. I don’t know you at all, this could go south quickly for everyone involved (including me), and my years of internet experience and travel experience have taught me well to avoid fulfilling those kinds of requests. There ARE others here, however, who don’t seem to adhere to my principles and just hand out contact information and photos of guys they have met like candy to kids during Halloween. Maybe one of them will give you an assist in that area?

But I do wish you well and hope that you and your GF have a fun-filled, safe time.

 

lol I've been looking at posts on this forum and it's like, yes people get a little bit unnecessarily confrontational. Not sure why you're doing it, but I'll try not to engage.

I'm writing with friendly questions about a fun sexual escapades type thing. Sounds like you've maybe got some issues.

For the record I've done this with my girlfriend before, in Florida and also in the Dominican Republic. Most guys don't charge to get a hot girl dude sorry to burst your bubble (and I think we're also pretty careful about "violent") It's like the way you talk is weird. "Girl, you MAY have the privilege of NOT paying for sex but don't count on it" it's like get over yourself dude. Most guys would bang even not-hot girls, idc if they're Brazilian or Dutch or from Singapore. Men want sex with women, at least most straight guys are on the prowl and up for that any time.

Jeez

[moonwalker]

1 hour ago, BlkSuperman said:

Yassssssss. You and your gf sounds like my kind of couple. Living life on your terms and carefree. There are a ton of bisexual guys in the saunas with families at home. I think the sauna might be the best alternative for you and your gf. My husband and I have been with at least 6 six from the saunas who have a wife/girlfriend. Also, whenever we take a guy from the sauna we only pay $300R, which is considerably cheap to have a, "fucking good time," pun intended. At the sauna you know the guys are there to have sex and usually at a VERY REASONABLE price. Have fun. Take pics and send to me in a private message. Lol!

Actually, if you're looking for a few hung guys, I can refer about 3 guys to you. They are hung like mules and will pound her like a drummer in a marching band.

 

lol. Yes sounds great. The saunas may indeed be the most convenient, even if it is for pay, at least initially. Again I don't mind paying it's more the "natural" aspects of it for her, but in the saunas it may be the most convenient. And I'm very curious to try it out for myself ofc. As for sending you private of her lolll she'll have to approve of it? Haha. I'd definitely be interested in the guys you know about though. Bonus points if they're also fit/muscular and have great sexual energy. We like aggressive guys who can fuck lol

[SolaceSoul]

3 hours ago, moonwalker said:

 

lol I've been looking at posts on this forum and it's like, yes people get a little bit unnecessarily confrontational. Not sure why you're doing it, but I'll try not to engage.

I'm writing with friendly questions about a fun sexual escapades type thing. Sounds like you've maybe got some issues.

For the record I've done this with my girlfriend before, in Florida and also in the Dominican Republic. Most guys don't charge to get a hot girl dude sorry to burst your bubble (and I think we're also pretty careful about "violent") It's like the way you talk is weird. "Girl, you MAY have the privilege of NOT paying for sex but don't count on it" it's like get over yourself dude. Most guys would bang even not-hot girls, idc if they're Brazilian or Dutch or from Singapore. Men want sex with women, at least most straight guys are on the prowl and up for that any time.

Jeez

You’re so sure of yourself. So, why come in here seeking advice on whether it’ll work for you in Rio? You obviously don’t need our help. You’re the one who asked if really attractive men in Brazil would be down for your cuck fantasies and fuck your girlfriend while you watch, so apparently you didn’t know. NOW, all of a sudden, you’re so confident? 

Florida or anywhere else in the USA are by no means similar to Rio or anywhere in Brazil. And unless you found a place similar to working boy saunas in The Dominican Republic that no one else here is familiar with for recruiting for your cuck fantasy games, you’re comparing apples to oranges. 

Tell you what, smartass. Do the complete opposite of everything I just advised. You’re right. Those sex workers who make their money from sex will be happy to fuck your girlfriend with you, a guy, watching or playing around with them for free.

Edited February 10, 2019 by SolaceSoul

[Walker]

I don't think women are allowed in guy sauna, eg, club 117, Lagoa.., so like you said, you will have to go by yourself and order a take-out.

[Badboy81]

8 hours ago, Kevie770 said:

I envy you! If I could find a beautiful black woman to have Bi sex with. I would marry her and have freaky sex trips all the time.  But unfortunately Bi is the same thing as gay in the black community. Enjoy your time I’m sure you won’t have any trouble finding a guy that would be delighted to fuck your young wife with or without you; rather than an old loose booty queen lol! I would go to the sauna so you know exactly what you're getting. I hope you both find that perfect guy or guys!  

What city do you live in?

Try befriending some lesbians...

Where are live there are PLENTY of bi friendly females into guys...It helps when you have something to bring to the table besides dick...

[SolaceSoul]

16 minutes ago, Badboy81 said:

What city do you live in?

Try befriending some lesbians...

Where are live there are PLENTY of bi friendly females into guys...It helps when you have something to bring to the table besides dick...

Based on what I have read, it seems that you both live in Atlanta.

Which only proves that two very different kinds of people can live in the very same city, know two very different kinds of people, and have two very different kinds of experiences.

[Badboy81]

5 minutes ago, SolaceSoul said:

Based on what I have read, it seems that you both live in Atlanta.

Which only proves that two very different kinds of people can live in the very same city, know two very different kinds of people, and have two very different kinds of experiences.

Agreed....completely different circles....age groups and experiences....

[moonwalker]

1 hour ago, SolaceSoul said:

You’re so sure of yourself. So, why come in here seeking advice on whether it’ll work for you in Rio? You obviously don’t need our help. You’re the one who asked if really attractive men in Brazil would be down for your cuck fantasies and fuck your girlfriend while you watch, so apparently you didn’t know. NOW, all of a sudden, you’re so confident? 

Florida or anywhere else in the USA are by no means similar to Rio or anywhere in Brazil. And unless you found a place similar to working boy saunas in The Dominican Republic that no one else here is familiar with for recruiting for your cuck fantasy games, you’re comparing apples to oranges. 

Tell you what, smartass. Do the complete opposite of everything I just advised. You’re right. Those sex workers who make their money from sex will be happy to fuck your girlfriend with you, a guy, watching or playing around with them for free.

I wasn't just talking about sex workers though. You implied normal Brazilian guys on the beach or in a bar might "get violent" or "ask for money" if offered sex by a pretty girl. But it's not like they're that different from other men, and this sounds like a fantasy of yours. I mean you do know girls travel from America and Europe and actually have sex with attractive Brazilian guys for free all the time right?

Also yes btw, most men would happily play the part of "the stud" in this scenario and let a boyfriend watch. I'm pretty sure about that, from experience. Everyone knows it too. My question had to do with something a little different, like how common this was in Brazil as opposed to just regular threesomes and stuff like that, and of etiquette maybe in bringing it up. In America where cuckolding now is at least a well-known kink it's not such a big deal to bring up.

The sex worker thing is a different issue. I agree guys who meet you at a sex sauna are likely to do it for money only, because why not? Also you did give good advice for that, which I will probably follow. I'm not cheap or unwilling to pay, I just wanted to set up a more "natural" scenario. I'll play it by ear. It's possible even as  sex worker they might be willing to hook up alone with her for free, as long as they got paid for other regular sessions with me there. Lol. Let's forget about it! Not here to get into fights dude.

[Badboy81]

8 hours ago, moonwalker said:

 Hey dude thanks for the nice reply. This is all good to know! Just to clarify, when I said the possibility of a guy on the beach I didn't mean a guy for pay. Most or at least many young straight guys, presented with the opportunity to bang a pretty hot girl (which my gf is lol) would take it even if it meant her boyfriend watching (some may even like that, as it's become a little more popular as a fetish in the USA lately. I guess I also wanted to ask if this is done/relatively normal in Rio right now? Or if we'd be seen as total weirdos even suggesting it. Assuming of course we were going to do it being discreet/smart/polite, I just want to know if it's something guys there are familiar with more or less).

The advantages of the two of us hooking up with a guy on the beach are that it would be free and more "natural" I guess. The disadvantage is that we don't know ahead of time how hung he is (lol I know clichee but it's part of our thing). I guess this could be solved with her using Tinder, through which a guy could send a shot by text, but again, I'm wondering if "my boyfriend would be there" would spook a lot of guys off. Also they could lie or send a false photo.

In the sauna I'm thinking the advantage is exactly what you say. I'd be able to see exactly what I'm getting beforehand. Also to sample it myself lol (the idea of blowing a hot tan or dark skinned Brazilian stud before he fucks my gf is as you might imagine a major turn on for me). The disadvantage, aside from paying (which isn't a big deal, I'd def be willing to pay for the right guy) is that it's "less natural" and maybe if he's a garoto for pay, maybe also less safe? And I mean less safe in all kinds of ways, including health? I don't know, sorry if I'm making assumptions.

I'd imagine also though that if I hired a sauna guy to "sample" for myself first he might be willing to agree to a longer-term (over the weeks) arrangement where I do pay him when I'm involved or suck him off or whatever, but maybe he'd be with her for fun? I mean assuming some of these guys are straight or prefer girls like you say. And again it's not about me being cheap, but more like she might like it more and it might be more "natural" if he likes to hook up with her for fun and not for pay.

But anyway sorry to go on but just wanted to clarify. It's not in general hard to get a guy eager to do this for free, but there are advantages and disadvantages to both sides of things. And I AM very curious about the sauna guys. But wondering if you think even a sauna guy would be willing to lower or get rid of the rates (for her) altogether for a longer-term arrangement.

Also since you say you know a guy who fits the bill, would be curious to hear about him lol (or about any other guy, at sauna or not, who you think might be right for this. Again paying is not a problem).

Just keep the following in mind...

Unless you speak Portuguese and can communicate what you are looking for to a local, consider that you will be paying...

Regardless of how attractive you OR her are, when dealing with escorts, you will be paying...Just get your price quote up front...

Since paying may be an issue and you want something more natural...definitely try the apps and again, spell out exactly what you are looking for...

You wont have a problem finding what you are looking for...there are tons of bi/gay friendly freaky guys in all over Rio...just make sure you are up front with what you expectations are...

Check out VIlla Mimosa...a little on the rugged side but I love it...whores and those who love them....VERY LOCAL

LIVE IT UP!!!

[Badboy81]

5 minutes ago, moonwalker said:

Also yes btw, most men would happily play the part of "the stud" in this scenario and let a boyfriend watch. I'm pretty sure about that, from experience. Everyone knows it too. My question had to do with something a little different, like how common this was in Brazil as opposed to just regular threesomes and stuff like that, and of etiquette maybe in bringing it up. In America where cuckolding now is at least a well-known kink it's not such a big deal to bring up.

Brazil is not America and the culture is ultra machismo...Way more than the US

Cock-holding is not a thing or a well known thing in Brazil to my knowledge....but again, anything is possible 

[Kevie770]

1 hour ago, SolaceSoul said:

Based on what I have read, it seems that you both live in Atlanta.

Which only proves that two very different kinds of people can live in the very same city, know two very different kinds of people, and have two very different kinds of experiences.

Whoa... how did you come to the conclusion I live in Atlanta? Idk if I’ve ever dropped any clues as to where I live in this forum... but yeah I would have never thought of lesbians.... but I’m only 29 and open to anything that could enhance my sex life.  And while we are on the topic of Atlanta, I went to “The Den” again this weekend and my god!! I might not ever need to leave Atlanta again lol. 

*nvm I see where I mentioned Atl... You are an observant man! 

Edited February 11, 2019 by Kevie770

[moonwalker]

Thanks to all (including solace) for the advice on here and for those who sent me private messages. A number of you like the idea and want updates, pics lol. I will try  

[pylonguy71]

So my experience traveling to Brazil...I was 35 when I was last there, gym fit and I got a lot of attention inside and outside of the saunas, and a lot of the guys I met were bi and offered threesomes with their girlfriends. I agree with other posters in the need to exercise extreme caution when meeting guys in public places like the beach. But I feel that, from your description, you can easily talk with sauna guys about what you are looking for and I think you will have a lot of options and success. And you can score via guys on the beach as well, just use caution. I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures!

[Badboy81]

5 hours ago, pylonguy71 said:

So my experience traveling to Brazil...I was 35 when I was last there, gym fit and I got a lot of attention inside and outside of the saunas, and a lot of the guys I met were bi and offered threesomes with their girlfriends. I agree with other posters in the need to exercise extreme caution when meeting guys in public places like the beach. But I feel that, from your description, you can easily talk with sauna guys about what you are looking for and I think you will have a lot of options and success. And you can score via guys on the beach as well, just use caution. I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures!

How long ago were you in Brazil? And where were you meeting all of these bi guys who were offering 3somes with their girlfriends?

Thanks

[pylonguy71]

21 hours ago, Badboy81 said:

How long ago were you in Brazil? And where were you meeting all of these bi guys who were offering 3somes with their girlfriends?

Thanks

I was there last in 2005. So I can only imagine that the "flexible" sexuality I experienced from so many Rio guys then would be even more prevalent now. I met guys both in the saunas and also on the beaches of Leblon and Ipanema. There was only one guy I didn't score with, an absolute stunner I met on th beach where he was playing foot beach volleyball (that extradinary local sport where guys play beach volleyball with just their feet!). He was jaw dropping, but also quite shy. We ended up having coffee together in Leblon one day, where he told me he was training to be a policeman. There was a hint of agression in his eyes, so I never propsoed a hookup. Looking back, I wish I had at least thrown it out there, becasue he was one of the greatest beauties I've ever encountered. That said, there was no shortage of fun to be had with some truly beautiful men and I enjoyed every moment.

[Badboy81]

You still didn't answer what I asked you...just like I thought..

As long as I have been traveling to Brazil...I havent seen a ton of bi guys offering 3somes with their girlfriends...on the beach, on the streets or in the saunas...

Even 14 years ago I doubt that was happening since the culture and the men in Brazil are very macho...they arent just going around offering for guys to fuck their girlfriends and the sauna boys that may be able to set that up are definitely charging...