Colombia

[Studulike]

Well having spent the month of January in Colombia I thought I would give an overall view on the country and some of the places I have had the pleasure of visiting.

Colombia in general.

I think it has a bad rep it no longer deserves, like anywhere in the world if you wander into the wrong part of town or go looking for trouble you will find it but a bit of advance research and you should be good to go.

Dating apps are busy here and when you arrive in a new town and log in expect to be inundated with messages and 20 subsequent photos, which if you do not respond in 3 seconds receive ????. I have received many messages from a mix of guys from not my type, older and looking for love to young chancers looking to subsidise a night out to full on rent boys.

Clues on the profiles, the blue diamond which is becoming the accepted worldwide symbol for rent to ‘serio’ to ‘solventes’ ‘scort’ some state quite clearly they are not scorts so it is probably common practise to just message a handsome guy and ask outright, I have on a couple of occasions and it worked. Always insist on a face pic of them even if there is one on their profile, often due to discretion it won’t be theirs and they will almost likely ask for yours as they presume you haven’t used your own. Cities here are so large and there are so many on the apps that normally I found anyone on the screen was very local which was good but it also means as you move around the city more profiles come into view 

When you arrive indo town treat yourself to a local chip and an internet package its inexpensive keeps you connected with the boys at all times and a great tool to get around and find where its at.

I visited some online guys around the country, and all was fine and had a great time in their apartments. I always (anywhere in the world) send details of where I’m going via email to a close friend as a safety backup.

A lot of the guys here are Venezuelan which pleases me and many are only gay 4 pay which is another box ticked.

Medellin. The best thing I found there was Fercho Massage it really was my kind of place. The guy will send via wattsapp a whole rake of photos and videos and it’s a quirky house in town with a bar and boys hang out there and he can call some in from his vast portfolio. Really helpful guy, great guys and I like to sit in a bar and watch guys behaviour before deciding as you see the real them before you buy.  They also have weekend parties sometimes at a farm and all the boys are there to select from, never made one of those but that is my ideal weekend of fun. 

 

Bogota. Such a massive city I wish I had longer to explore and enjoy St Moritz sauna and Gigolos upstairs and I also found out that they have a video cabin store above that, 3 in one building.

Had an amazing time in the St Moritz Sauna and my 1^st ever private dance in a lap dancing club with a straight (gay 4 pay) Hot Chilean guy who let me do anything and did the same in return in Gigolos. Cramped little booths but its amazing what you can get up to in such a small space and only 50,000 pesos a dance.

 

For everything else there is google so I won’t bore you with saunas etc and they change so frequently its not worth it.

San Andres island. Not impressed although everyone raves about it. Only action was on apps and I only had a short time there so didn’t bother hooking up but lots of opportunity to do so.

Cali. Didn’t have much time there but it was the only place I found I got trolled on social media ( Grindr) by some guy who basically told me I was punching about my weight in what I had listed as looking for on my profile. Guy was bonkers bonkers bonkers and was let ignored then starts begging me for a dick pick ! Turn out he just didn’t fit what I was looking for and he wanted a piece. Bad luck there Mr.

Armenia. Again it was a fly in fly out visit but apps were busy and attractive didn’t have time to visit any of the listed bars etc.

Cartagena. Cartagena is one of the most beautiful places I have visited ever and I’ve seen a lot of the world. It ahs some of the best looking men anywhere in the country as it’s a big holiday destination so they are from all over. La Petit is a fun bar and even on a Wednesday for Karaoke was busy. The staff are stunning, and I mean some of them are STUNNIG very friendly and straight. I was just bold and asked this stunner with guns to die for and a smile as big if he was a scort and he just said sorry not my thing and then proceeded to tell me those that will those that wont and those not to bother with.

I just got flirty with a really cute waiter dropped him tips every round and asked if he was a scort and he just said no but I will give you my number and we can spend the night together if you want which he did and we did and we did each other all night before cuddling up in a bundle and falling asleep. 

Overall I love Colombia and Colombian men but Brazilian saunas are much simpler for me with so much choice to select from under one roof.

If I can offer 1 piece of advice to make your trip safer and more enjoyable LEARN THE LANGUAGE.

I am fortunate and have a high level of spoken Spanish and can read and write sufficiently to get by, I wandered into places decent locals wouldn’t and had a laugh with the rough lads and got out with all my possessions and me intact, not sure that would be the case if I didn’t have the lingo and its just so much more fun if you can communicate with these guys on a decent level they are lovely and just want to have some fun and make some money and you will be more a part of that if you can communicate efficiently.