Members EscortJamahl Posted December 20, 2018 Members Posted December 20, 2018 I was disheartened to learn last week that a long time client (and business partner) passed away unexpectantly on December 3rd. Not sure if it would be appropriate to link to the obituary site, but his name on Rentmen was HunkyBunky. At one point I thought he was Marylander on the DRs site, but we had a conversation that confirmed it wasn't him. So, wanting to have a moment of reverence in Memory. Quote
Members Lucky Posted December 20, 2018 Members Posted December 20, 2018 Wouldn't it be the fact that clients die on a regular basis? Do we memorialize all of them (anonymously) on this website? Should we have a special forum for anonymous deaths, or should we just consider it part of life? If we don't name the person, and we shouldn't, what's the point of memorializing him here? Quote
AdamSmith Posted December 21, 2018 Posted December 21, 2018 Agree with @Lucky. Keep it private. Quote
Members EscortJamahl Posted December 28, 2018 Author Members Posted December 28, 2018 On December 20, 2018 at 2:12 PM, Lucky said: Wouldn't it be the fact that clients die on a regular basis? Do we memorialize all of them (anonymously) on this website? Should we have a special forum for anonymous deaths, or should we just consider it part of life? If we don't name the person, and we shouldn't, what's the point of memorializing him here? Porn stars do also, but they can be ackowledge for passing, and so can a client. I'm just making a reference. Now...this particular client was active on Facebook and had a couple other sexy Black men he followed, and was a single man...so he was relatively open. Obviously if it was a married closeted person, it may not be appropriate. But I agree, a separate forum would be nice to have. Had I not had him on my Facebook, I might have not known he passed. And this was someone I spoke to nearly every day at one point, who really supported my business. Quote
Members Lucky Posted December 29, 2018 Members Posted December 29, 2018 I am sorry for your loss. Quote
Members Lucky Posted December 31, 2018 Members Posted December 31, 2018 I have thought this over. If one of us lost a partner, no one would question us posting about it. Hell, if we lost a dog we'd be posting about it. So where does the rule get drawn that you cannot post about a loss- of any kind. It's the same thing Oz is always telling us- ignore what you don't like. Obviously an escort and a client can form a close bond. It can hurt when bonds no longer exist. So post about it. Many of us will be here for you. BenjaminNicholas, Latbear4blk and MsGuy 2 1 Quote
Members hungry4dark Posted January 24, 2019 Members Posted January 24, 2019 So sorry for your loss Quote
Members Thomas_88 Posted February 23, 2019 Members Posted February 23, 2019 Hi J., how can a client be a business partner if we may know off course please? Quote
AdamSmith Posted February 25, 2019 Posted February 25, 2019 On 12/30/2018 at 10:31 PM, Lucky said: I have thought this over. If one of us lost a partner, no one would question us posting about it. Hell, if we lost a dog we'd be posting about it. So where does the rule get drawn that you cannot post about a loss- of any kind. It's the same thing Oz is always telling us- ignore what you don't like. Obviously an escort and a client can form a close bond. It can hurt when bonds no longer exist. So post about it. Many of us will be here for you. I apologize for agreeing with you. Lucky 1 Quote
