Ideas for searching for my place, in the world of adult entertainment

[EscortJamahl]

Since my 31st birthday passed earlier this month, I've been self assesing my place in my 10 years as an escort. This seems to stem from a variety of things, including a general void of support from the people around me...which I'm looking to change. I have some friends who don't even consider what I do a job, and regularly voice it. Those people I've already began eliminating from life, as having never been in the business, they can't offer much constructive to say. When I have a bad day, instead of suggesting traveling together or doing a new photo session, or selling my private gallery, they suggest I look into other "jobs". 

From coming into 30 last year, I've developed more client relationships than at any other time in my career, and it's only getting better from here. But I still feel like I could be doing better, nor have I done enough. At the same time, the desire to get into porn during my career to boost my prescense, was never a consideration that crossed my mind for me. I wasn't ever against it, but I didn't have that desire. I thought by taking professional nude pics throughout the year, traveling all over, having sex professionally and advertising across all the sites was plenty exposure and stepping out my comfort zone.

I joined Twitter over 4 years ago, but it wasn't up until last year that I really started utilizing it. Over the past couple of weeks, I've been hooked on the Twitter feeds. I've come to realize that unless you're an aspiring "porn celebrity", getting a "name" in the sex industry as solely an escort seems to be a true strength. Fortunately, reviews are a clear statement of my reputation.

On the other hand, what if an escort does not desire to do porn or engage social media? I enjoy an occasional look see on twitter, but I'm seeing many providers out here are aiming for this image of being a porno superstar, and a lot of it is bareback. That's not to be judgemental, but I like the idea of being a low-key provider who's just GOOD at what he does. Each time I open my Twitter feed (or my a4a account), I feel compelled to try out for porn. But deep down, I don't feel I would feel right doing it to boost my career. I just want to be the guy next door who gets recognition, but not mainly because I have an array of videos with me fucking various guys raw on the Internet (again not passing judgment, as those guys have their place, but it's not for everyone).

Do clients still appreciate that model of business? Or has the idea of online porn superstar become the key marketing edge for today's escorts getting their name recognized?