Time to say goodbye, I'm off to do other things.

[Guest marylander1940]

Thanks for the short membership but considering how warm it is out there I'd rather go hiking (something we all should do more often ) instead of positing on here.

I was time-out from daddy's because I posted a picture the Mgt. of the site considered to be of an underage man. I would have never done something like this on purpose, I don't recall which picture it was but I'm sorry I did and I will apologized when I'm allowed back for having done it. I always reported pics of butt holes, hard cocks, etc to the mgt following its rules. I had a thread of guys under 25 and I won't post any more pics of men who look below that age to avoid causing concern with my actions.

Some of you guys have been on time-out on daddy's too for different reasons.

Best regards, and thank you for the courtesy to allow me join your site for a few days.

Mark (Marylander)

[SoCal]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

when I'm allowed back

please no

[SoCal]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

I always reported 

Hmmmmm 

[RockHardNYC]

Dear Mark,

You didn't do much to win hearts and minds here during your short visit. And that's too bad. What you did do, apparently, is bring shit attached to your shoe from deej's board with the intent to clean your shoes here. From my understanding, Oz, the owner of this board, does not appreciate using this board for that purpose. He has said so many times. I think you're lucky your posts lasted this long.

It's clear you have a desire to participate somewhere and be part of the discussion. Your post count is quite high at the other board, which usually means fellow members have strong opinions about your contributions, good and bad. I think I understand customers like you, but I have a lot of experience dealing with idiosyncratic personalities.

9 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I always reported

I don't have a problem with your penchant for the "report" link. Some guys have a cop fetish and they love to play Inspector Clouseau. Finding and announcing a "fraud ad" over at the deej board is a game of sport for several members, and most other members truly appreciate those PSAs. So this coin has two sides.

9 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I was time-out from daddy's because I posted a picture the Mgt. of the site considered to be of an underage man.

It's important to understand that deej's primary role was to protect Daddy's financial liability. With the servers based in America, that website is subject to U.S. laws. It is not protected if and when someone breaks the rules. Daddy was always paranoid about government sanctioned fines. When you have no money (or assets), you tend to worry about getting into trouble with the law.

Now that deej's mantel has changed, I suspect he's no better off financially, which is why the cry for more donations will never end. I have a photo of deej, and I can tell you, I've never seen his tired haircut, ugly ass shopping on Rodeo Drive. The point is, NO ONE is allowed to tamper with their financial risk over there. That should explain their gun-trigger use of the "Time Out."

One of my first "Time Outs" occurred when I posted a photo of Mandingo, the famous Black porn star, with a full-on erection. I was new. I did not know the law then. I did not know Daddy's server details. When I said on the board that I did not know, deej called me a liar. He was always good for an insult laced with hate. After numerous emails back and forth with Daddy, I set out to receive a crash course in their paranoia. It was another level of research that informed me.

In the wake of Rentboy's demise, any U.S. based website that dabbles in subjects close to porn is going to be subject to scrutiny. If there is one thing the Republicans love, it's telling others how to have sex and when to have it. Just as long as you're not having more fun than they are.

I suspect you'll be back, Mark. You may want to consider a new username and start with a clean slate. Old baggage just tends to look old and ratty. People usually like to play with new and prettier things.

Best wishes.

 

[TotallyOz]

I hate to see you go.

However, why do people have the need to announce they are leaving? It seems to just box people into a corner.  We don't want a return under a different screen name. That is one thing we delete when we find out. However, also note that people on board have opinions other than your own and part of being in a community is when you feel downtrodden is to keep plugging away in a nice way to win people over. I have seen it happen countless times. That said good luck on your hikes.

[AdamSmith]

3 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

why do people have the need to announce they are leaving?

When I go, I flush the handle, say nothing, and hope it works.

[mvan1]

3 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

 

However, why do people have the need to announce they are leaving? 

 

Great question - drama?  

[Latbear4blk]

10 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

However, why do people have the need to announce they are leaving? 

Because some people live in a delusional plot where they are the heroic protagonists of dramatic events. 

And now, I say goodbye, I am off for other things.

I'll be back in 5 minutes.

[RockHardNYC]

10 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

I hate to see you go.

There you see, a gentleman reacts.

10 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

why do people have the need to announce they are leaving?

1. Narcissism

2. Self-importance

3. Ego

4. Pride

5. Vanity

Not all flattering qualities, for sure. But most of us are imperfect.

10 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

We don't want a return under a different screen name. That is one thing we delete when we find out.

I just learned something new. I had no idea that was a rule here. I apologize for making a useless recommendation (even though I was pretty much kidding). However, what if someone tires of their username and feels like a change? Should they contact you to seek approval? What if a troll wishes to create trouble by inhabiting multiple usernames? Some escorts and members have been guilty of this tactic. How do you deal with that?

7 hours ago, AdamSmith said:

When I go, I flush the handle, say nothing, and hope it works.

Otherwise, if you're a courtesy flush fan like me, you could feel the full-on bidet effect, but with dirty water. Not fun.

28 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said:

And now, I say goodbye, I am off for other things. I'll be back in 5 minutes.

Very funny, too.

[TotallyOz]

1 hour ago, RockHardNYC said:

I just learned something new. I had no idea that was a rule here. I apologize for making a useless recommendation (even though I was pretty much kidding). However, what if someone tires of their username and feels like a change? Should they contact you to seek approval? What if a troll wishes to create trouble by inhabiting multiple usernames? Some escorts and members have been guilty of this tactic. How do you deal with that?

 

We delete or ban people very infrequently.  However, one person has been banned over 20 times. Each handle we remove. That was in the old days and I don't see him anymore. So, perhaps he has moved on.

[RockHardNYC]

15 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

We delete or ban people very infrequently.

You've written this before on the board, and I believe it to be true.

16 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

However, one person has been banned over 20 times.

That does seem to be an extreme case.

16 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

Each handle we remove.

I probably wouldn't recognize it if you mentioned it. I usually only pay attention to myself. I enjoy talking to myself. I find it great therapy.

18 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

That was in the old days and I don't see him anymore.

Ah, the old days. When I wasn't much around these here parts. After my last post at Daddy's in Jan 2013, I switched my focus to another favorite board. Woodworking. I'm a closet carpenter, known to build beautiful closets, too.

[TotallyOz]

3 minutes ago, RockHardNYC said:

You've written this before on the board, and I believe it to be true.

That does seem to be an extreme case.

I probably wouldn't recognize it if you mentioned it. I usually only pay attention to myself. I enjoy talking to myself. I find it great therapy.

Ah, the old days. When I wasn't much around these here parts. After my last post at Daddy's in Jan 2013, I switched my focus to another favorite board. Woodworking. I'm a closet carpenter, known to build beautiful closets, too.

 

Hopefully, you are not in those closets you build! Come out!

The guy was on both boards for years. Not sure what happened but he was a constant persona. 

[RockHardNYC]

38 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

So, perhaps he has moved on.

The software is acting up this morning. It wouldn't allow me to put this quote in the previous post.

Anyway, why let someone "move on?" I realize that some trolls are a royal pain in the ass. A serious cancer on an otherwise decent board. Some trolls deserve to die a long and steady death. Never to be heard from again. However, some people turn a corner. Turn a new leaf. They change. And when they change, they may not want to return with the old name, because the old name has too much baggage and ugly sentiment attached. Is it not a good idea to re-consider someone who has had an epiphany? Couldn't that someone contact you and ask you to consider a name change?

You seem like such a reasonable and tolerant man. I imagine you taking a minute to consider someone's rehabilitation.

[RockHardNYC]

15 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

Hopefully, you are not in those closets you build! Come out!

I'm definitely not closeted. Not since age seventeen. Some people would be happy to live in one of my closets. I've built every one that currently exists in my Manhattan apartment. Lots of custom drawers for the underwear inventory. One closet looks similar to the one Carrie fell in love with, but I had it first. I've often said to friends, life begins with a fabulous closet. Oh dear, I can be so gay. No wonder I enjoy "Modern Family." The gays and the Pritchett Closets.

[Lucky]

13 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

I hate to see you go.

However, why do people have the need to announce they are leaving? It seems to just box people into a corner.  We don't want a return under a different screen name. That is one thing we delete when we find out. However, also note that people on board have opinions other than your own and part of being in a community is when you feel downtrodden is to keep plugging away in a nice way to win people over. I have seen it happen countless times. That said good luck on your hikes.

I announced a time-out because I felt it was a good time for one especially with board in such good shape. I am tired and I don't feel like engaging for awhile. Now why didn't I just stay quiet and appear when I chose? Well, for one, I was tired and didn't think of that, and for two, people do wonder from time to time where fellow posters are. Was it egotistical for me to think people might notice my absence? Of course! To top it off, I got quite sick returning from Brazil, where I no doubt wore myself down enjoying all of its beauty.

I do like the suggestion of just posting less and maybe I should have stated it that way. But, I was...not thinking!

See you when the nap is over!

[MsGuy]

Lucky, I'm just posting to say I've very much enjoyed your threads and posts this last month. You seemed to be in a more cheerful place in your life.

Thank you for bringing some entertainment into my world and for helping energize the board.

Take as long a nap as you like and be assured that your posts will be welcomed (at least by me ) whenever you wish to return.

[AdamSmith]

20 hours ago, mvan1 said:

Great question - drama?