Are Beautiful Men Favored?

[Lucky]

Since it is slow here right now, I thought to indulge myself with a topic of interest to me. Perhaps others will find it interesting, or not.

This morning at the gym there was a guy who I thought to be perfect looking. He had a Clark Kent look once he put his glasses on, but his face has all of the right lines, especially the jaw. He had very nice eyes, emphasized with the glasses. He was in gym clothes, and his proportions were equal to a guy who is quite fit without being considered too muscular. He has perfect calves. I didn't check the feet, sorry. His clothes fit very nicely.

So, once this guy leaves the gym, does he lead the perfect life? Do his looks open doors for him? Do people seek out his company? Can he possible fuck all the many, many people who line up before him? Or is just because I am a horny gay old man that I feel this way? Were my testosterone levels low, would I ignore him? Do people want to keep their lovers away from him? Lots of silly questions pop to mind. It's likely that people react to him as a total person, not just a total hunk. He might have a mean streak, or be so self-centered that people avoid him. I don't know. I am just wondering.

Years ago I saw a guy waiting to be helped at the front desk of my workplace. It wasn't my job to help him, but I did since I wanted to look at him longer than a pass through would have allowed. I did help him and sent him on his way, but not before asking him, once business was concluded, if his eyes were naturally that blue. If he didn't know before, surely he knew then that I helped him because of that, at the least.

One other weird work situation since you are reading this far. The closest toilet to my office was in a public hallway. I looked at the only guy in the room, he looked at me, and next thing I knew he was following me to my office. Once we entered, he turned and locked the door. That act caused me to come to my senses as I had no business even thinking about doing anything at work. I made some excuse about why he was at the place and what could I do to help, clearly not meaning sex since that had already been on the table and brushed off. What would you have done?

[Latbear4blk]

I do not know what I would have done in your situation, because I do not know much about you and your situation.

I can tell you what I used to do. I was head of a department back in my younger Argentine years. I used to have a quite roomy and very private office. I was fucking horny. However, I would have never had sex in the office with a co-worker. I had never done it when I was not the Dept Head, it is just something I would never do. I take very seriously the job that pays my bills and having sex with a co-worker would be just stupid (I do not really care wether or not it is appropriate) and a too big risk to take. 

So I have been very professional in that respect. But not so professional either.

Even when I would never fuck in the office with a co-worker, the situation is one of my favorite fantasies, I am pretty mainstream on that. I was a monumental slut back then, and could not let go that preciously private office of mine without playing there. 

Now and then, Pablito (I have shared about him before in the other site and in my blog) would visit me at lunch time. I would lock the door, tell my team I was leaving for lunch, and turn off the lights, there was a big window and natural light. We would play the job interview situation. I am getting a hard on right now just at remembering. 

If you have been in Buenos Aires, this would happen about once a week, or once every other week for about two years in the 4th floor of the building of the Ministerio de Salud, the one with Eva Perón portrait in the middle of Avenida 9 de Julio.

To answer to the question in the title of the thread, yes. There are scientific studies proving that beautiful people is "luckier". I am just too lazy to google for them. 

[MsGuy]

Ain't nothing new about this, Lucky. As far back as Classical Greece, male physical bauty was regarded as a sign of the gods' favor. According to some accounts, Alcibiades's political success in Athens owed as much to his looks as to his charm and clever wits.  After all, it was his misbegotten and utterly unnecessary Syracuse adventure that snatched utter defeat from the jaws of victory toward the end of the Peloponnesian Wars.  Cute, Charming and Clever are rarely the handmaidens of wisdom.

That said, even Socrates found it impossible to resist the guy.

[AdamSmith]

5 hours ago, MsGuy said:

 Cute, Charming and Clever are rarely the handmaidens of wisdom.

That said, even Socrates found it impossible to resist the guy.

The hard invaluable learning from my last month living on the streets of Manahatto...

...the true wisdom of Blake's 'The road of excess leads to the palace of wisdom.'

[RockHardNYC]

Sorry, but you lost me at, "He had a Clark Kent look..." Clark Kent does nothing for me. Very rare for me to be sexually attracted to a dark-haired man. But perhaps this thread is not about me.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It is well documented fact that the more attractive your face (and body), the more chances and opportunities you'll have. But everyone blessed with wisdom knows that physical beauty is fleeting. Life is short enough. Youthful beauty is much shorter.

Still, since I'm a visual guy, I love looking at a true beauty. However, beauty is absolutely no indication that the sex will be fun or hot. Many good looking guys are jerks. No matter how handsome they are, I wouldn't want to share the company of a jerk one minute longer than necessary.

[RA1]

5 minutes might be enough.  

Best regards,

RA1

[RockHardNYC]

On 7/25/2018 at 9:12 AM, RA1 said:

5 minutes might be enough.  

Not if their breath smells like shit on a shoe.

[Latbear4blk]

23 minutes ago, RockHardNYC said:

Not if their breath smells like shit on a shoe.

You may be surprised at the number of human beings with no olfactive sense. I cannot believe how often I am the only one smelling what is in the air. We are a predominantly visual species. 

[Tomcal]

There were several studies done a few years ago showing “more attractive” job applicants were disproportionately offered positions with companies and at higher salaries!  

In the medical field, medical sales people are definitely more attractive and in better physical shape then the average person!  They hire type “A” personalities and it is a big plus if they played college sports! One major Medical company currently have that requirement for employment on the west coast!

 Pharmaceutical companies seem to hire primarily attractive women 23 -  30 years old ,

to answer your question Lucky, i have found a lot of them do not have a realization that they are treated better because of their looks! they think everything they have achieved work wise is thru their efforts!  not their looks! yet you will find that most of them are vain(this is my view based on 30+ years of working with the above!

[RA1]

You left out many of them are as dumb as rocks.

Best regards,

RA1

[RockHardNYC]

1 hour ago, RA1 said:

You left out many of them are as dumb as rocks.

But more than enough are drop-dead gorgeous. And plenty are way above average.

9 hours ago, Tomcal said:

Pharmaceutical companies seem to hire primarily attractive women 23 -  30 years old

Especially if they are reps. Most drug reps visiting doctor's offices in NYC are stunning. If the office is mostly women, the drug reps tend to be attractive men. My PCP runs a predominately gay practice. I'm not sure if the drug reps are gay who visit regularly, but the male reps who enter with their luxury briefcases sure are perty.

[RA1]

I like to look at beautiful people as much as anyone but to reiterate, if that is all there is 5 minutes may be long enough.

Best regards,

RA1

[RockHardNYC]

18 hours ago, Latbear4blk said:

You may be surprised at the number of human beings with no olfactive sense.

I think the word you wanted is olfactory.

I'm not surprised that many people can't smell. Some especially can't smell themselves or their breath. I've had my share of experiences with bathhouses around the world. Given my appreciation for beauty, I'm not shy when it comes to striking up conversation with a Ryan Gosling/Bradley Cooper type. More often than not, conversations are ended too quickly because I want to distant myself from the foul odor. My MO tendency is to encourage others to talk about themselves. It can be deadly if the cute guy is chatty and his breath stinks.

6 minutes ago, RA1 said:

5 minutes may be long enough

It sure is long enough in the sauna at my gym. If things go well, I usually invite them into my shower stall for another 5 minutes of fun.

[RA1]

I had an Australian friend who lived in England.  He was astounded that some English did not seem to favor a bath, at least not often enough.  When he scored the first thing he did was suggest a mutual soak.  Fun for both.

Best regards.

RA1

[RockHardNYC]

1 hour ago, RA1 said:

He was astounded that some English did not seem to favor a bath

Ah, yes, the English. I'll take body odor over bad teeth any day.

I find certain BO a turn-on. Squeaky clean only applies to ass. For me, it really depends on the stank. Licking an armpit is very much like picking a cologne. Certain notes are just plain wrong, while others are Obsession.

[Tomcal]

12 hours ago, RA1 said:

You left out many of them are as dumb as rocks.

Best regards,

RA1

that’s not been my experience!  My experience has been solely the orthopedic field,  before i started my own company i managed a 8 state area for a major corp., hiring and managing over 130+ reps,  since the average pay for sales reps in Orthopedics in the 90’s and up to 2009 was over 150,000./yr , i had los angeles and san diego reps making on average $350- $500,000. a year!

they definitely were not dumb as rocks!

[RA1]

Your original supposition suggested that appearance was largely the reason for their success, not their work ethnic or efforts.  I am not suggesting that all good looking folks are less than bright, just perhaps a disproportionate percentage.  Movie stars and generally nice looking, make huge amounts of money and many are dumb as rocks.

Best regards,

RA1

[Riobard]

23 hours ago, Tomcal said:

My experience has been solely the orthopedic field ...  i managed a 8 state area for a major corp., hiring and managing over 130+ reps

Managing a multitude of hires for bone issues. Managing a multitude of hires for boner issues. You ARE specialized, aren't you?

[TotallyOz]

On 7/27/2018 at 12:11 PM, Tomcal said:

There were several studies done a few years ago showing “more attractive” job applicants were disproportionately offered positions with companies and at higher salaries!  

 

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I do think this is true in every field. I had a cousin that was an amazing school teacher but hard for her to get a job as she was overweight and regardless of what schools said, she was more qualified and more experience than those they hired.

When working in law firms in NYC, I remember sitting on hiring committees and they often remarked how someone looked and preference was given to that individual.

In the escort world, of course, beauty plays a big part of who gets hired. That said, I had sat in bars in Thailand and see what I considered the ugliest guy on stage get offed.  That goodness we all have a different conception of what is beautiful.  My BF, 14 years, has more tats that most of you all together. I love it but I know many would find horrible. 

When I go to the gym and I'm looking for a trainer, I often pick the cute young guy with the sixpack as I want to see him standing over me often.  At the NYSC years back, I picked one and it took 5 months, but I finally got him in my bedroom. It was shitty sex, but well worth the investment.

[RA1]

12 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

It was shitty sex, but well worth the investment.

Why?

Best regards,

RA1

[RockHardNYC]

12 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

hard for her to get a job as she was overweight

There are certain businesses in NYC that will absolutely NOT hire women who are obese. They will never admit the real reason.

12 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

When working in law firms in NYC, I remember sitting on hiring committees and they often remarked how someone looked and preference was given to that individual.

I currently work with well-known law firms. Beauty is appreciated, but brains and money seem to matter more. If an ordinary looking, obese woman brings in a shit load of money, she can become partner.

12 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

In the escort world, of course, beauty plays a big part of who gets hired.

The same is obviously true of models and product reps.

12 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

My BF, 14 years, has more tats that most of you all together. I love it but I know many would find horrible.

True love can cause blindness.

12 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

When I go to the gym and I'm looking for a trainer, I often pick the cute young guy with the sixpack

My trainer is hot. I wish I could post photos of him. I didn't pick him because of his looks. He was recommended to me by management. He's not a model, but he's got a sexy face and smile. He's very straight, ex-military, with two kids. A killer body. He doesn't lift weights. He believes in building a solid core through old-fashioned, boring exercise. He likes to give his clients a ten-minute massage after the workout. He never wears underwear, and it's easy to see his big, thick, flopping cock and low hanging balls in his sweat pants. He knows I enjoy when he touches my body with his junk when he massages me.

[Latbear4blk]

30 minutes ago, RockHardNYC said:

True love can cause blindness.

[Lucky]

It's been so nice to see this thread run its course without negativity interfering with it. No personal attacks, either. Wouldn't it be nice if this were the trend for the future of Boytoy?

Maybe my next question will be "Are positive posters favored?"

[MsGuy]

4 hours ago, RockHardNYC said:

My trainer is hot. ... He's very straight, ex-military, with two kids. ... He likes to give his clients a ten-minute massage after the workout. He never wears underwear, and it's easy to see his big, thick, flopping cock and low hanging balls in his sweat pants. He knows I enjoy when he touches my body with his junk when he massages me.

Does he call out "No HOMO"  while rubbing his free-balling junk against your hot, sweaty bod?

If not, you might want to get your gaydar recalibrated.

[Guest corymonroe]

18 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

I do think this is true in every field.

I photograph a lot of actors, male and female, and many are overweight. There is a market for plus size in acting and modeling. A lot depends on the product and the description of the character. If everyone had to be an ideal weight, we wouldn't have Melissa McCarthy, Kate Pearson,  Gabourey Sidibe, and Rebel Wilson. There are many more, and a lot more men. Whether you would define these faces as "beautiful" is a question of personal taste.