Popular Post Tomcal Posted July 2, 2018 Popular Post Posted July 2, 2018 Normally no one gets up before 10:30 - 11:00 am, go to lunch then the beach, usually get back around 4 ish and everyone catches up on their emails, texts! pauleiro, TotallyOz, Tomasian and 8 others 10 1 Quote
Members Theolover Posted July 2, 2018 Members Posted July 2, 2018 Sounds like a fun day.. Thanks for sharing Tomcal and axiom2001 1 1 Quote
Members Popular Post Latbear4blk Posted July 2, 2018 Members Popular Post Posted July 2, 2018 I would found a church and declare Tomcal our Messiah. And funnel all funds to holly fun without paying taxes. This is the backyard altar. axiom2001, caeron, Tomcal and 3 others 4 2 Quote
AdamSmith Posted July 3, 2018 Posted July 3, 2018 7 hours ago, Latbear4blk said: and declare Tomcal our Messiah. Latbear4blk, Badboy81, Tomcal and 1 other 1 2 1 Quote
Popular Post Tomcal Posted July 4, 2018 Author Popular Post Posted July 4, 2018  Here is another oldie from about 2005, these 7 guys were all neighbors in Niteroi, and all worked at 117 from 2004 or so to about 2008! One of the guys i saw for about 3 years! caeron, AdamSmith, Latbear4blk and 3 others 5 1 Quote
Members Suckrates Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018  VERY NICE, but where are the pics showing everyone having sex together ?  Pics checking emails are so Universal ! I expect more from YOU Badboy81 1 Quote
Members Popular Post Tartegogo Posted July 4, 2018 Members Popular Post Posted July 4, 2018 Those were the days were no one had a beard! Lovely. floridarob, PopeFrancis, Theolover and 2 others 4 1 Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 I am not kidding when I am declaring @tomcal my Messiah. If you ever start a workshop on how to collect, entertain, and keep so many hotties together, I am signing up the first. Tomcal University. Tomcal 1 Quote
Members Suckrates Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 16 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said: I am not kidding when I am declaring @tomcal my Messiah. If you ever start a workshop on how to collect, entertain, and keep so many hotties together, I am signing up the first. Tomcal University.  I think the "how to" is pretty simple....?  It aint rocket science.... Still impressive none-the-less....  Badboy81 and SolaceSoul 1 1 Quote
AdamSmith Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 9 hours ago, Tomcal said:  Here is another oldie from about 2005, these 7 guys were all neighbors in Niteroi, and all worked at 117 from 2004 or so to about 2008! One of the guys i saw for about 3 years! Classic image! Freedom from Want Latbear4blk and Tomcal 2 Quote
AdamSmith Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 52 minutes ago, Suckrates said:  I think the "how to" is pretty simple....?  It aint rocket science.... Still impressive none-the-less....  I think there is more to it than that... ...many hiring guys in NYC had way more scoots to offer than I did. But the strip-club kids who liked me I think found me funny, weird, not (too much! ) a creep, interesting over lunch the next day...so went home with me. (Even showed up uninvited in the dark of night, as heretofore described.) @Tomcal is very obviously that way with his guys, many times multiplied! Tomcal and Latbear4blk 2 Quote
Members Suckrates Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 22 minutes ago, AdamSmith said: I think there is more to it than that... ...many hiring guys in NYC had way more scoots to offer than I did. But the strip-club kids who liked me I think found me funny, weird, not (too much! ) a creep, interesting over lunch the next day...so went home with me. (Even showed up uninvited in the dark of night, as heretofore described.) @Tomcal is very obviously that way with his guys, many times multiplied!  When time is money, and the rent is due and you are broke, everything pales except finding a way to Pay your bills, even if it telling yourself this weird, funny guy is interesting to hang out with, if you know theres a payout on the back end..... These boys aint stupid, just BROKE !  Badboy81 1 Quote
AdamSmith Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 5 minutes ago, Suckrates said: When time is money, and the rent is due and you are broke, everything pales except finding a way to Pay your bills, even if it telling yourself this weird, funny guy is interesting to hang out with, if you know theres a payout on the back end..... These boys aint stupid, just BROKE !  To be sure, I paid them in $, food/drink, clean place to sleep/poop/wash up...but we were friends too, all I'm saying. As Bloomberg accurately said of Trump, 'I'm a New Yorker, and I know a con when I see one.' But OTOH, excessive cynicism about others' motives can ruin your life. Quote
Members Suckrates Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 8 minutes ago, AdamSmith said: To be sure, I paid them in $, food, clean place to sleep/poop/wash up...but we were friends too, all I'm saying. As Bloomberg accurately said of Trump, 'I'm a New Yorker, and I know a con when I see one.' But excessive cynicism about others' motives can ruin your life. And all I'm sayin is "ya do what ya gotta do" to survive.....Hot young guys in need of money aint gonna waste their time with Older men if there aint a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow... Its pretty much common sense.  My post was in response to latbears Idolization of tomcal and putting him on a pedestal as some Messiah who was working magic and living a mystical dream life... And I was pointing out that ANYONE can have that, since it is "bought and paid for".... There's really nothing special about tomcal, although I DO find his life "interesting"... And you can be sure there will always be a boy around to "change his Pampers".... Badboy81 1 Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018  59 minutes ago, Suckrates said: And all I'm sayin is "ya do what ya gotta do" to survive.....Hot young guys in need of money aint gonna waste their time with Older men if there aint a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow... Its pretty much common sense.  My post was in response to latbears Idolization of tomcal and putting him on a pedestal as some Messiah who was working magic and living a mystical dream life... And I was pointing out that ANYONE can have that, since it is "bought and paid for".... There's really nothing special about tomcal, although I DO find his life "interesting"... And you can be sure there will always be a boy around to "change his Pampers".... He stays as my Messiah, I do not care about your negativity and lack of sense of humor, disguised as bitter realism. Lucky, Badboy81 and axiom2001 2 1 Quote
Members Riobard Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 If it isn't a fairytale come true, what is? AdamSmith, sanddunes and Latbear4blk 1 2 Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 3 hours ago, AdamSmith said: To be sure, I paid them in $, food/drink, clean place to sleep/poop/wash up...but we were friends too, all I'm saying. As Bloomberg accurately said of Trump, 'I'm a New Yorker, and I know a con when I see one.' But OTOH, excessive cynicism about others' motives can ruin your life. I disagree. Obsessing over others’ motives can ruin your life. Regarding the above instance, if the boys are there with Tomcal (or any of us, for that matter) because they like his money, his house, or his winning personality.... why does it matter? Everyone is getting exactly what they want (unless it’s romantic, storybook, true love — then sorry, you’re out of luck and if that’s what you seek, the WTF are you doing on this website? Might I suggest Match.com instead?). Tom seems to be living his best authentic life and has the financial means to make it happen. The boys he is with seem to be getting paid in some agreed-upon form or fashion AND enjoying themselves along the way. I don’t want to speak for him, but Tom really doesn’t seem to be the type (unlike a few others on this board, perhaps even the poster I am responding to, based on his above posts) that deluded himself into thinking that these guys would be hanging with him if he weren’t a good material provider — great company or not. He seems more like the “it is what is is / que sera, sera / live and let live” / I-Ching philosophy type that accepts the arrangements for what they are — and this is probably why he seems to enjoy himself so much and get along with so many of the boys so well. That being said, there are probably some people whose personalities are so nasty or caustic that even a well-paid date would cut the date short or give a refund. Latbear4blk and floridarob 1 1 Quote
Members sanddunes Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 3 hours ago, Suckrates said: And I was pointing out that ANYONE can have that, since it is "bought and paid for".... There's really nothing special about tomcal, although I DO find his life "interesting" Dealing with garotos can actually be HARDER than it seems, especially MULTIPLE garotos at a time.   There is definitely a learning CURVE involved.  Someone going to Rio for the first time would NOT necessarily be able to pull off what tomcal does lol. Latbear4blk 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 1 hour ago, sanddunes said: Someone going to Rio for the first time would NOTÂ necessarily be able to pull off what tomcal does lol. Having a lot of money, knowing a little Portuguese, knowing where to go to find boys...It isn't that hard... Its called supply and demand..Plain and Simple You find boys (or girls) in some type of need, money, housing, attention, and cater to that...Gets done everyday in the world... Not taking anything away from anybodies fun or escapades but It Is What It Is... I do find the idolization interesting though...But that says more about the idolizer than the person being idolized... Quote
Badboy81 Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 1 hour ago, sanddunes said: Dealing with garotos can actually be HARDER than it seems, especially MULTIPLE garotos at a time. Depends on how you deal with them.... Are you "dating" them? Connecting for sex? Trying to develop a friendship... Those are all variables to take into account MsAnn and SolaceSoul 2 Quote
Badboy81 Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 5 hours ago, Suckrates said: And you can be sure there will always be a boy around to "change his Pampers".... Quote
Badboy81 Posted July 4, 2018 Posted July 4, 2018 8 hours ago, Tartegogo said: Those were the days were no one had a beard! Lovely. I love the beards on most guys...young guys without beards just look extremely YOUNG but to each his own... Beards turn me ON.... sanddunes and episevilla 2 Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted July 4, 2018 Members Posted July 4, 2018 2 hours ago, sanddunes said: Dealing with garotos can actually be HARDER than it seems, especially MULTIPLE garotos at a time.   There is definitely a learning CURVE involved.  Someone going to Rio for the first time would NOT necessarily be able to pull off what tomcal does lol. A fool who goes ANYWHERE, especially a foreign metropolitan city, for the very first time, rents a private house or apartment, and simultaneously brings back multiple guys that he doesn’t know is about to be a dead fool. This most likely is not something that Tomcal started doing on his first few visits. It’s not a “garoto” thing. Quote
