My Observations on Brazil vs Mexico

[Tomcal]

First a caveat, I am biased in Brazil's favor! I have been going there 4 or 5 times a year since 2001 and will keep visiting until...

I bought a 2nd home in Mexico last year after visiting Florida Rob 3 times in 2016(he is one of my oldest friends having met in Rio in 2003) I wanted a place that was closer to SoCal then Brazil, which is a 13-1/2 hr flight vs a 4-1/2 hr flt. to Mexico!  He knows my requirements better then I do! 

First Story, I visited him the first time in Fall 2016 and after I landed I got to his house 15 minutes later, and we immediately went to the bar owned by friend of his(and now one of my good friends and one of the nicest guys I know) on the way to the bar we walked thru the Main Square in front of the Cathedral and we start talking to a guy sitting on the park bench(there were a lot of them occupied by young guys) within 5 minutes he was walking to the bar with us and ended up sleeping with me that night until noon the next day!  I immediately knew this was my kind of city!

My type of guy encompasses a pretty broad range depending on my mood, but probably 75% of the time it skews to natural toned swimmers build with a leaning to worked out semi musculature...but if he's got a good face then short or tall, thin to muscular I have done them all.

While I find that most guys no matter what ethnic type or what nationality have usually average size dicks, Brazil leans towards more larger then average and Mexico leans to smaller then average, although I have found a number of 7.5 - 8" there.  but personally since I am a top average size dicks are fine as I find them easier to suck, where huge dicks are fun to look at and hold for a minute or two, but I can't do much with them.   If you are more inclined to bottoming there are enough guys in Mexico to keep you happy just not as many as Brazil....IMHO!

Looks!   this is so dependent on individualism!  what I find sexy my friends go Ehh! and vice versa.  there are a lot of sexy Mexicans,  so I would call that a draw, maybe 55/45 Brazil's favor!  If you like Latin looking guys you will find them in Mexico, there are many Latins from other countries living in Mexico now due to problems in their own countries, Venezuela, Cuba, Honduras, etc,    the first party I threw in Mexico my realtor brought over 3 guys, one from Cuba one from Venz. and one from Mexico City and I wanted all 3!  the Mexican guy was the tallest, whitest and hottest so there are all types in Mexico.

I do a lot of 3/4/5 ways in Brazil and there doesn't seem to be any hesitation on Mexican guys part to do the same so another Draw between the 2 countries.

Body types!  You will definitely not see the number of gym/muscled/steroid bodies in Mexico that you see in Rio or SP,  more like Porto Alegre of Belo Horzonte type bodies in Mexico. thin with 6 pac from working construction all day is the most common type here.

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[Walker]

5 hours ago, Tomcal said:

While I find that most guys no matter what ethnic type or what nationality have usually average size dicks, Brazil leans towards more larger then average and Mexico leans to smaller then average, although I have found a number of 7.5 - 8" there.

I totally agree.  Last month when I was at the BB Show Bar in CDMX,  this rent boy approached me and flashed his penis in front of me.  I was quite shocked.  A rent boy of that dick size probably won't be brave enough to work at sauna, or probably get near zero customers if he does.  At least I have never seen that small size at the sauna in Brazil.

As far as non-paying encounters,  I had 3 off Grindr.  One small dick, the other two are average.  One of these average dicks fucked really well and hit my G spot constantly.   So it's not the size matter, it's the technique and compatibility.

[Riobard]

Bear in mind that solid average (50th percentile) erect length is 5.2 inches. Standard deviation is .75 inches. Therefore, 84% of males have erect length under 6 inches. I believe a lot of really hot guys put themselves out of the running for sex trade due to attitudes about size. 

But I am not trying to lecture ... I LUV a big cock on a big guy. 

Overall, I think tomcal's impressions are astute. 

[Tomcal]

Pt. 2 

Grindr is very popular in Mexico, the trip before last when I did not bring anyone with me from Brazil,  I did 12 guys off of grindr while I was there and 9 of them were Free.  They ranged in age from 19 to 27.   In Brazil Grindr is also popular, but I do not get near the number of freebees but to be fair I spend little time on Grindr there, and spend my efforts aimed at the sure thing, the Saunas!! 

Non Sex Amenities!   Both places have many restaurants but food is definitely cheaper in Mexico as well as Drinks!  My home in Mexico is in the historic center of town and within 10 blocks are over 100 restaurants!  Ipanema as a good selection but not as many as Mexico and dinner and drinks in Mexico is about 1/3 or less then Rio. 

Photo below is of a restaurant across the road from a "roundabout" with a copy of a Yucatan  monument called Plaza de la Bandera that is lite up at night in Blue.

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[TotallyOz]

OK. Since you bring this up. Can you rate your sexual encounters in each country for paid vs. unpaid encounters?  Do you find one more satisfying than the other?  Does one group have more expectations? 

[Tomcal]

Absolutely no difference in Mexico between paid and unpaid sex!  Actually 2 started as paid encounters and went to free get togethers!  The mexican guys seem much more appreciate to stay and party in my house, rather then go out to clubs!  usually there are 6 + of us but we have  had 15!

i should add there is no rush on any guy i have been with here to leave after a hour! For the paid guys there is no difference in price whether they are there for a hour or all night! $500./pesos.  Most stay overnight although for me it’s not great if it’s a week day as they always seem to have to leave around 6:00 am to get home and change before going to work.  Interestingly i haven’t met anyone who is unemployed with the exception of the BF of the accountant who is trying to “Upgrade” to a new more successful BF! i am betting that it’s not going to happen!

[docbr]

wrong post

[Tomcal]

33 minutes ago, docbr said:

 

[docbr]

2 minutes ago, Tomcal said:

i don’t know any guy in Mexico named Gabriel except my real estate agent!?

ops, sorry for the confusion, that reply is on the wrong post kkkkkk

[Tomcal]

i have been asked “what do you find is the best method for meeting guys in Mexico?”

what really works well for me is Henri! My dog goes with me every time i go and he is way more popular then me! 

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, Tomcal said:

i have been asked “what do you find is the best method for meeting guys in Mexico?”

what really works well for me is Henri! My dog goes with me every time i go and he is way more popular then me! 

 

And nicer....

[Tomcal]

47 minutes ago, floridarob said:

And nicer....

that’s a pretty low bar to get over! :-)

[Walker]

Oh please...he is Brazilian, not Mexican.

[Riobard]

[Riobard]

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