Tijuana

[Lucky]

Apparently Club Extasis is still open in Tijuana. Guys there strip naked and hard. Does anyone have recent experience with the city? It is supposedly safer now. The last time we were there, we were robbed by two cops on the bridge heading to the border crossing. That wouldn't happen twice, would it?

[RA1]

Only if you went twice.    Many years ago some others and I used to frequent San Luis, Mexico, which we called San Disease.  It had a nude club which we nicknamed the chow down club.  It was a great place to get what the military called practical factors aka experience.

Best regards,

RA1

[asdsrfr]

I visit Tijuana often and it is much safer than it's reputation. Certainly it is much better than 10 years ago when the drug cartels had an open war going on and bodies were hanging from the bridges. In general there is less street crime than Rio but the police are still corrupt and best avoided. In addition to Club Extasis there is a strip club on Ave Revolution called Premier where you can have fun with the hot dancers in the back room.  You can take a taxi or uber between the two clubs and should be fine. The new pedestrian crossing to San Diego drops you right near Club Extasis but the southbound into Mexico at that entrance closes at 10pm(you can still use the old crossing southbound 24h) and Northbound the new crossing is open 24 hours and usually no line at 2-3 am. A few time a year Club Extasis is taken over by Club Papi for a special event where they have full on sex shows like you won't see many places. Details on the Club Papi website. Have Fun!

[revengeboo]

I have been to Tijuana ~ five times and have never had any issues (knocks on wood). However, it is not for the faint of heart.  Even though I have not experienced a situation - I most definitely remain on high alert and do not travel away from the heavily policed and militarized tourist areas, mostly Revolution Blvd where police cars and military humvees with troops and automatic weapons are a frequent appearance -and welcomed!  

Nevertheless, I like going to Tijuana for an easy MB experience and the adrenaline thrills of navigating the rough environment and finding many posh amenities, much more frequent that I'd imagine or see in the media.

I am just coming back from a weekend trip, really one only needs a weekend to exhaust the offerings - and it was very enjoyable.  Sadly the epic Club Extasis remains closed - unclear if it will ever reopen but there are 3 gogo / MB bars on Revolution Avenue going strong.

Yei-Yei bar was the most disappointing, it also had poor google reviews so that tracks.  The gogo room is on a 2nd floor, supposedly men only but a few women were in the crowd.  It is a cramped and dark space with gogos dancing on the "floor" for the most part and two random boxes.  I gave a few tips away to a twink in a speedo who was obsessed with flicking his meaty junk and graciously grinded me on it but that was about the extent of the "heat" and the action.  Everyone was dutifully clothed in underwear except one gogo was in a full on costume dress (que!?) and another in a werewolf skirt that was hard and flashing the crowd often - so nudity seemingly allowed was limited to only 1 out of the 8 gogos milling about.  Visting near Halloween or Day of the Dead in Mexico meant most people were wearing costumes as were some gogos so to me - that was not a turn on.  Most of the costumes seemed to employ more fabric than what I'd hope to see.  The biggest downside is they require 200 pesos, ~10 dollars for cover of 4 beers.  Not the worse thing even but on principle I had to drink the 4 beers, which made me tipsier than normal.  As mentioned above, I am very cautious about getting to tipsy in TJ because I need to cognition to be ready to go if shit goes down.

Sodoma, a newer (2018?) was a pleasant surprise.  I've never seen it before on the last 2 trips I've made to the area but noticed their big billboard with gogo men and the dramatic name and made sure to check it out.  The club itself was very much like an American gogo dancing club - well lit, great circuit music, and a grab bag of attractive dancers.  I was not familiar with the "process" but learned to realize that you pick out the gogo you see bouncing around on stage for company/personal dances as they were not aggressively walking up to patrons for tips.  Not much nudity except flashing butts - most dancers had costumes related to the heaven/hell theme of the bar.  Unclear if this was due to Halloween or a usual gimick.   I figured it was really just a show until as I was leaving I just had to top a HS Dream looking twink who was dancing so energetically he would be waving his face and gasping for air at times.  Unhinged dancing, not even quite to the beat but very erotic to see such enthusiasm and prowess! It also didn't hurt that he was wearing tight boxer briefs and would flash his butt from time to time.  When I gave him the tip he suggested he visit me at the table but alas - I really did want to explore more so off I went.  When I returned to the club after the sad Yei-Yei situation he was mingling about and waved the "peace" sign at me -the moment had passed I guess as the bar turned into a cringe-worthy Halloween contest and I was quick to leave - hot n bothered, I had to retreat to the stalwart MB/Gogo Institution, Premier Nightclub.

More on that later...

[revengeboo]

OKAY, now for Premier Nightclub - really the only reason I was going to TJ, aside from some a stop by to a medical spa to cling to fast-fading youth and half the cost in USA.

Typically Premier will announce their "Men Only Blackout" night on twitter, which is as you can imagine a night only for men that gets much raunchier than their typical offering which is peppered with women wanting to grope and grab along with the gay.   I had been to a typical Premier night before and was quite pleased but the blackout was something I wanted to see, I believe it is the last Friday of every month.  Unfortunately, their twitter has been dormant the last few months so I still took a chance and came down the last Friday of the month and lo-and behold, Blackout!

A much raunchier experience.  The cover was 200 pesos, ~$10 dollars.  The lights were held lower than usual and the gogos wearing much less.  At Premier unlike the other clubs I mentioned the gogos are quite aggressive.  One 'older' muscle queen demanded I buy him a drink within moments of me arriving.  Demanded may be a bit harsh - because I did relent.  He had a stunning muscular physique and allowed me to fondle his soft junk, which was still impressive.  However there was no chemistry as this guy was seeking even bigger tips and when I made clear that was no going to happen he sulked around until finishing his drink and moving on to the next unsuspecting client. Lesson learned for me to be okay with saying, no thanks, when things are not totally clicking from the start.  The drink was also pricier than I remember at $18, previously this was ~$6 but I suspect the increase was due to this gogo ordering two drinks.  He was quite a mess, but I have to appreciate the game.  Drinks for customers are $3 or 50 pesos. 

The usual fare of gogos paraded around, some twinks, some Abercrombie Fitch models, muscular dudes and tiny-tots were out.  Premier typically has about 20 gogos flowing around on a large stage and among the crowd. Not as spectacular as you'd find in Puerto Vallarta but still very attractive just most on the shorter side as to be expected from the latino pool they are working with.  Until about 11pm most were in various forms of g-strings, jocks, or briefs and then things became interesting.  They oddly all started wearing little pink skirts, most see-through.... okay, maybe the color was red but it was all a bit odd but since the skirts made it easier to get a grope in for $20 pesos, or a dollar it was a welcome change.

One twink in particular paraded around with a stunning amount of charisma.  He looked familiar and he was.  I had taken him for a "massage" aka full on a year earlier on my last visit except his hair color had changed.  Boyish, toned, beaming smile and overtly sexual charisma oozes from him - obviously gay and obviously in the career of his dreams.   He danced with me for a bit getting hard in my hand.  Yes - that is the kind of charisma I like.  Around 12:30 the pink skirts came off and the gogos returned after cycling through (~5 leave at a time presumably for a break or costume change every 20 minutes or so). and they came out with only a small napkin over their junk.  Of course this napkin was easily and frequently dispensed of so in all intents and purposes they were completely naked.  Really after 20 minutes the "napkins" just disappeared for most and they just walked around naked.

Now my enchanting twink, one of the sluttier gogos if you will again eyed me up and gave me an aggressive lap dance sans napkin, once again getting hard, biting my nipples (I happened to be wearing a loose muscle shirt) and cooing in my ear.  OKAY, enough playing around - I asked him for a massage ($60 to headmistress who sat behind a blacked out plexi box like some sort of deviant priest.  We go next door to a sauna that for the most part looks like hell but is quite nice inside even though I never make it past the hotel quality "rooms" they have I think solely for the nightclub next door.  We have a good ol time and even though he looks like a dreamy twink he is a great top and makes the process nice for me when I rarely bottom.  I tip him $100.  This is an odd part.  Last time we met I made a note that all-in I paid $200 for the experience.  So I am not sure why I paid less, I think perhaps he negotiated a higher rate in the initial encounter and this time the "tip" was not mentioned and negotiable.  As much as I enjoyed the experience - $100 is much more inline with expectations than $140 so I am glad he didn't press me.   I was ready to leave at 2AM now that I climaxed but I thought better and decided to return to the club.

I nearly forgot the point of the "men's only blackout" was its sex show - so I am happy I decided to pop back in.   At 2AM there was a muscular gogo in an S&M outfit working the pole and doing an erotic sort of artistic dance.  It was pleasant since the gogo was so muscular but after sing throng of near nude or naked gogos this was a bit anti-climatic.  That is when then a tall muscular stud walks on to the stage at the same time staff bring out a fck bench.... oh.  So they go at it on stage, it was pretty dark but still light enough to see.  Some patrons began to crowd around the stage but for the most part people continued to stay at their tables and watch.  Very few tips were flying but some did come.  The show was very good and at one point a "gringo" marched on stage and ate out the bottom who was previously doing the artistic dancing - twice!  How much did he tip for that?  Unclear.  Nevertheless my twink stopped by a few more times so I could get a fondle but I was spent and left highly satisfied at 4AM.    

Needless to say, my final evening, after witnessing the cringe-worthy holiday costume and random people twerking and grinding for I assume a cash prize I fled to Premier for some real action.  The cover was now $10, or 100 pesos as it was no longer the men only night and the lights were brighter and women again peppered the club.  There were about half the crowd as the day before or fewer and everyone was more conservatively dressed again in an assortment of briefs, thongs and the like.  I did not intend to buy a MB but like clockwork that enhancing twink, now wearing a Trojan Warrior costume complete with skimpy skirt and easy access came marching over and off we went for a massage.  I left the room literally drained of all my cash since I again didn't really discuss tip or come prepared but this time mustered up $120 as a farewell and a big smile.

Looking forward to my next "Mens Only Night" for sure in maybe Spring.

[floridarob]

I haven't been to TJ in ages..... Monterey is a place I don't get to enough and has guys in the $40 usd price range at clubs, they can ask for more, but is what most will settle for when they realize you know that.

Good report, thanks

[revengeboo]

Good tip 💯

[unisamG2]

On 10/31/2023 at 11:33 AM, revengeboo said:

Good tip 💯

revengeboo,

This coming Friday, Premier is advertising a men's only "BIG HUNK" event. Do you know if its any different than the blackout events - or is it just a superficial name change? I have a proclivity for twinks so the "hunk" moniker makes me wary.

 

I'd appreciate any insight as I haven't been to Premier yet. Really enjoyed your write-up. Thank you.

 

[revengeboo]

This is the first time I've heard of a "BIG HUNK" night. Unfortunately, I'm not familiar with it, but I suspect it's similar to Blackout, possibly minus the hardcore sex show and with the lights on since it is the last Friday of the month. It likely features a range of guys from beefy to twinkier types. However, Premier didn't have many classic twinks. I did encounter one, the guy I ultimately lusted over, but he was vastly outnumbered by more muscular, "bro" types.

I am eager to revisit Sodama, which seemed to have more boyish twinks, though they were a fraction of the dancers compared to Premier.

[unisamG2]

On 1/24/2024 at 4:41 PM, revengeboo said:

This is the first time I've heard of a "BIG HUNK" night. Unfortunately, I'm not familiar with it, but I suspect it's similar to Blackout, possibly minus the hardcore sex show and with the lights on since it is the last Friday of the month. It likely features a range of guys from beefy to twinkier types. However, Premier didn't have many classic twinks. I did encounter one, the guy I ultimately lusted over, but he was vastly outnumbered by more muscular, "bro" types.

I am eager to revisit Sodama, which seemed to have more boyish twinks, though they were a fraction of the dancers compared to Premier.

Thanks!

I saw a post on Premier's IG about the special guest star for their "big hunk" night. He was definitely not a twink to say the least!

It'd be nice if Premier highlighted their dancers a bit more on their social media. Maybe its for their own privacy I guess. Its very hard to get an idea of what they have to offer.

[creamy]

Has anyone here been to Bendito Cabron? Apparently that place also has hot dancers and rivals Premier. They also seem to be advertising a men's only night: https://www.instagram.com/p/C3tgX2utIon/

[revengeboo]

I visited Bendito Carbon with high expectations but found myself underwhelmed. This might be attributed to the fact that their famed "strip shows" are infrequent, occurring monthly or only during pre-announced events. I went based on a promoter on Grindr who showed titillating images and videos of what to expect, but that was not the case the night I showed up.

I think it is the same place I called Yei-Yei Bar in the trip report above.  It seems like Bendito Cabron is a "night" in that space.  But unclear why the Grindr promoter was marketing it that night I showed up.  This entire bar/club could also just be a bait-and-switch nightmare, considering it is hard to really pin down what its name is, and a quick Google search comes up with a variety of names, all with low ratings.

It would be a good venue for some scandalous strippers because it is a bit more intimate and dark and not as loud and cavernous the Premier space.

[creamy]

On 3/8/2024 at 11:44 AM, revengeboo said:

I visited Bendito Carbon with high expectations but found myself underwhelmed. This might be attributed to the fact that their famed "strip shows" are infrequent, occurring monthly or only during pre-announced events. I went based on a promoter on Grindr who showed titillating images and videos of what to expect, but that was not the case the night I showed up.

I think it is the same place I called Yei-Yei Bar in the trip report above.  It seems like Bendito Cabron is a "night" in that space.  But unclear why the Grindr promoter was marketing it that night I showed up.  This entire bar/club could also just be a bait-and-switch nightmare, considering it is hard to really pin down what its name is, and a quick Google search comes up with a variety of names, all with low ratings.

It would be a good venue for some scandalous strippers because it is a bit more intimate and dark and not as loud and cavernous the Premier space.

Were there no dancers the night you went? It looks like according to their instagram they have shows on Fridays and Saturdays. Not sure what day of the week you went. They currently have a lot of videos on their story from a show last night, and it looks like there's a lot of hot dancers in the videos. https://www.instagram.com/benditobartj/

[revengeboo]

Hmm, thanks for sharing!  I hope to return to TJ next month and will go by for a thorough inspection.  I was there on Saturday but the night could have been tweaked because of Halloween/Day of Dead.  There were dancers but they were mostly in costumes.  Some are a bit playful but nothing like full-on strip teases of Premier.

[creamy]

20 hours ago, revengeboo said:

Hmm, thanks for sharing!  I hope to return to TJ next month and will go by for a thorough inspection.  I was there on Saturday but the night could have been tweaked because of Halloween/Day of Dead.  There were dancers but they were mostly in costumes.  Some are a bit playful but nothing like full-on strip teases of Premier.

Great, would love to hear your experience once you go back