Members torogen Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 I had written to a couple of guys on Tuesday (five days ago) in anticipation of an upcoming trip to Costa Rica. When I went to look today, the personals section (which disappeared in the US about 6 weeks ago) has been deleted. The story is the same in Rio, London, and every location I checked. I logged into a VPN that would change my location to different locations around the world, and I was not able to access the ads from any location, so it seems that this is a true change, not just IP/country blocking. They also deleted the "therapeutic services" section from the services menu, where you could often find guys advertising for massage. I think guys will still put up ads in the services section (probably under Beauty Services or Travel/Vacation). It's incredibly disappointing that this resource has disappeared. JKane 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JKane Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 I wrote a couple lengthy posts about it and where people might go when it happened in the US. Since then and reading other things here, seems like Grindr is the main choice, in the Central/South american posts it sounds like it might've been even before the crackdown. Wonder if that means Tinder for working women/bi? I haven't yet noticed the return to the streets I half expected, at least around Hollywood, CA. But I have seen that messages to hot shirtless torsos aged 18-24 mentioning gen get a 'how gen' reply as often as not. Have hooked up with two lithe dancer-body bottoms lately, one's already been back once. Of course the problem is this will eventually attract unwanted attention and could be shutdown by either the app vendor or the gov't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Latbear4blk Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 I do not think the streets will be back. We would rather find creative ways to hook up in social media than getting out of our phones and devices back to the streets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tassojunior Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 7 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said: I do not think the streets will be back. We would rather find creative ways to hook up in social media than getting out of our phones and devices back to the streets. Not streets but the "lapdance" bars in NYC and FL will get crowded. You're right though, online will get creative. America's moral crusade knows no boundaries. Latbear4blk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Latbear4blk Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 9 minutes ago, tassojunior said: Not streets but the "lapdance" bars in NYC and FL will get crowded. You're right though, online will get creative. America's moral crusade knows no boundaries. I am missing Rockhard DC so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tassojunior Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 24 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said: I am missing Rockhard DC so much. Last night Secrets had to close because a man had a heart attack and died. My ex was giving him c.p.r.nude. Told him he should have given him oral. B's oral could revive anyone.........A friend said he was talking to the guy when he died. I asked him "What were you saying??" Evidently, a death makes a place temporarily a "crime scene". Online so thoroughly killed off most of the in-person "business" bars that there's no real option for guys to go back to them....except in NY and FL. And, except for lapdances, turnover is slow compared to online. Latbear4blk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Latbear4blk Posted May 5, 2018 Members Share Posted May 5, 2018 What a sad story. I am sorry for the poor man. I hope his last sight was a beautiful naked man. We should have something hotter than Secrets in DC. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted May 6, 2018 Share Posted May 6, 2018 I noticed it was dead in Thailand a few days back as well. Sad they decided to take this move. I suspect that the influx of Backpage ads may have contributed to this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamSmith Posted May 6, 2018 Share Posted May 6, 2018 5 hours ago, Latbear4blk said: I do not think the streets will be back. We would rather find creative ways to hook up in social media than getting out of our phones and devices back to the streets. Think this is probably right. Online social media will endlessly find ways to evade policing. Also 'legitimate' physical sites/stores. Here in Raleigh NC, there are endless numbers of 'Asian Massage' parlors. Where their 'legal' menu offers -- fully state-certified -- therapeutic massage for men by Japanese and Korean women. But then of course they are all more than happy to go to a 'happy ending,' for a slightly higher fee. No doubt men offering same-sex services will shortly find those same safe routes. Latbear4blk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...