Guest Loyal2u Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 Hello Everyone, I am completely new to this website. Heck I am completely new to the Escort World. I am seeking advice. Please let me explain a little about myself. I am 54 years old. 5'10 approx 200 pounds. I just lost 20 pounds and hoping to lose another 20 by June 1. I wear hearing aids and completely deaf in the right ear. I also have a ED problems. My partner of 34 died on 6/30/2016. We had a great relationship. Sure the beginning was a roller coaster ride, but after 10 years, it was a bliss. We were truly lucky. I had it all. A great man, successful business, and through grief and pain, I lost it all. My partner was 25 years my senior. I did everything I could to keep him out of the Nursing Home, which broke me financially. I am glad I was able to do that, as those last few years are irreplaceable. But it took a heavy financial burden on me. I took several jobs over the last 2 years. I've tried RV Transportation, which I delivered Travel Trailers and Fifth Wheels to Dealerships across the United States & Canada. The pay was good but after breaking expenses I made around $1,000.00 a week, and that's working 80+ hours, sleeping in the vehicle and if I was lucky I was able to take a shower 2-3 times a week. It was a brutal life. In order to maintain that kind of revenue, I had to drive around 3,000 miles per week. Leaving no time for any kind of social life. Now I am looking for a life of adventure. My sister isn't happy with my decision to try this world. She convinced that I may end up in some sex trafficking group. Its been over 15 years since I've been fucked. I prefer older men, at least 60 and older. I just adore men with goatee. mustaches, beard.... Men with true grey hair makes me wild. I do love gay sex. I am not bi at all. I'm a great kisser, loves to give blow jobs, suck on the balls and rimming. I truly enjoy giving as opposed to receiving.... Either way is fine. I am not into pain, or bondage. I believe my last boy friend stays with me so long because I was great in bed. He was so sweet, he asked me to be his Boy Friend. Then he started talking about renting a house together and all the trimmings and without warning he blocked my number. He shutted me out completely without warming or Good-Bye. I want to take control of my life. I am asking for advice: Is this a good place for me to be? I do not know how to get started in this business. Is there a safe club to join and go from there? I live 1 hour from Madison, WI, 3 hours from Milwaukee, 1 hour from Appleton, 3 hours from Green Bay. I am looking for adventure. I've tried other web sites for dating, Zoosk, Manhunt, Silver Daddies and a few others. I just ended up with liars, games player and deadbeats. If I'm going to give it away I may as well get pay for it. I'm not out to get rich, I'm hoping to make enough to be able to keep my house. Please, can any one give me some advice on how to get started, and if this life would be for me. I would love to try it, I am just nervous and frightened by it all. It's seem so overwhelming. Thank You, Loyal2u Quote
Members Lucky Posted March 25, 2018 Members Posted March 25, 2018 Any dog lover should do well in life, but sometimes fate has other ideas. Why not come to Palm Springs on April 14/15 to Oliver's Pool Event? It's an annual thing, with a nice dinner on Saturday night and a pool party on Sunday. Many escorts attend, but primarily it would be guys who appreciate escorts. Yes, some of the men are in their 60's and older. You would have a relaxed setting to discuss the things you mention in the post with both your peers and escorts. It could be fun as well as educational for you. Go to message-forum.net where the event is discussed in the Lounge forum. Riobard 1 Quote
Guest Loyal2u Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 Thank you for taking the time to answer. I appreciate your kindness. Quote
Members Riobard Posted March 25, 2018 Members Posted March 25, 2018 I think that the division of age groups at the type of event mentioned would tend to place you in the "client" category, so there may be some unkind reactions to your intent to sell sexual favours as a means of supporting yourself. But I do believe commercial sex workers come in all sizes and ages, and with varying menus, so that social event would be a good introduction, particularly as you have chosen to explore being an escort at the cusp of a very tricky time in terms of legalities of advertising services. Quote
Guest Loyal2u Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 Thank you for taking the time to answer the questions on my behalf. I feel its to soon for me to take a trip to Palm Springs. At this time, as you mentioned the legalities issues are making me a little nervous. Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted March 26, 2018 Members Posted March 26, 2018 Are you talking about becoming a profesional escort? I wish you luck, because you will need it. You look like an average attractive guy in his 50s. The niche in the market for you I am sure exist, but if you are planning making a life of escorting I am afraid you will be disappointed. If you are looking for fun and adventure, go ahead though. AdamSmith and mvan1 2 Quote
Guest Loyal2u Posted March 26, 2018 Posted March 26, 2018 Thank you for your response. I do appreciate your honesty. I am not sure what I want to do. Never thought abut "Professional Escort". Just trying to find ways to have some fun, meet new people, hopefully make new friends, create a new life for myself. I currently have active profile on Zooks (under same name) and that's good til April 29. I do meet some people but a lot of them are just looking for "pen pals". Most are full of BS, and all of them are liars. I guess my thinking is, if the game is the same on the other side, then why not play where the rules are all the same. I 'm tired of false promises that leads to nowhere. I guess, you have it right, I'm looking for some fun and adventure. Is that so wrong? Is this life style the wrong place to find it? Once again, thank you for your response. I appreciate both your kindness and honesty. Quote
Members whall Posted March 27, 2018 Members Posted March 27, 2018 I don't mean to be rude, but are you seriously thinking about being an escort? At your age? Your sister is worried there is a risk of you being sex trafficked? Come on now man...lol Quote
Guest Loyal2u Posted March 27, 2018 Posted March 27, 2018 Think you for your post. I appreciated your honesty. What does age have to do with anything? I've met some guys their 30s and couldn't perform. And I met some guys in their late 60s and early 70s and they were really great. I have found for the most part, conversation goes a long way with older men. Maybe the young ones thinks there's nothing more important then booze and sex. My sister worried about everything. If there wasn't anything to worry about, I assume she would worry about that. She's means well. Yes, I am seriously thinking about trying this lifestyle. At this moment I'm afraid to leave my comfort zone. Hence my question to all you out there. Once again, I appreciated all the feed back, especially if its honest, regardless on how brutal the answers may be. I like to think I'm one of those people that can handle the truth. Once again, than you for taking the time to warn me. I appreciated the honesty. Quote
AdamSmith Posted March 27, 2018 Posted March 27, 2018 Brutal honesty: The sellers are young. The buyers are old. You are in the latter category. Simple truth of life. mvan1 and RA1 2 Quote
Members tassojunior Posted March 27, 2018 Members Posted March 27, 2018 There's a market for bears and for dads. There's a market for almost anything. I'm amazed when I see the pics of some escorts guys ask about.....like wtf...who would like that? It's just a matter of how big the market is. Tartegogo and AdamSmith 2 Quote
Members mvan1 Posted March 27, 2018 Members Posted March 27, 2018 There is an escort who advertises on rentmen.eu https://rentmen.eu/DaneScottUSA and who has reviews on the daddysite. The escort sometimes claims to be in his forties. Other times he claims to be in his fifties. He has been in his fifties for more than a decade - https://www.daddysreviews.com/search/Active/~/dane_scott_nyc Apparently, there is a market for the non young Quote
Members RA1 Posted March 27, 2018 Members Posted March 27, 2018 11 hours ago, AdamSmith said: Brutal honesty: The sellers are young. The buyers are old. You are in the latter category. Simple truth of life. This is exactly why I propose that wars be only fought by old men. If they are unwilling, there will be fewer wars. If they are willing, it might be a "true" cause. Best regards, RA1 AdamSmith 1 Quote
Members tassojunior Posted March 27, 2018 Members Posted March 27, 2018 https://rentmen.eu/Patriot I don't have the stomach to save and post the photos. mvan1 1 Quote
Members Tartegogo Posted March 28, 2018 Members Posted March 28, 2018 Hi loyal, Your age makes you part of a smaller, niche market, but it does exist. Such a market would probably be larger in bigger cities, however. In a rural area like WI, I am a bit worried that you will not get hired often enough to live on this activity. But if it is just for a little supplement income, the adventure and the sex, sure, why not trying this out. As for your sister’s concerns, just work on your own, then there can be no trafficking! The M4M forum have a lot more clients who hire older escorts, you may want to talk to them (https://www.message-forum.net/). They have a forum, called “ask an escort” to talk to others who already took the plunge and do this as a job, and you can talk to the clients on the main forum. I am afraid to say on the boytoy forum, we nearly-all like our escorts young, so I am not surprised by the above reaction. Riobard 1 Quote
Members Riobard Posted March 28, 2018 Members Posted March 28, 2018 Maybe if it were the Green Bay Fudge Packers AdamSmith 1 Quote
AdamSmith Posted March 28, 2018 Posted March 28, 2018 1 hour ago, Tartegogo said: Hi loyal, Your age makes you part of a smaller, niche market, but it does exist. Such a market would probably be larger in bigger cities, however. In a rural area like WI, I am a bit worried that you will not get hired often enough to live on this activity. But if it is just for a little supplement income, the adventure and the sex, sure, why not trying this out. As for your sister’s concerns, just work on your own, then there can be no trafficking! The M4M forum have a lot more clients who hire older escorts, you may want to talk to them (https://www.message-forum.net/). They have a forum, called “ask an escort” to talk to others who already took the plunge and do this as a job, and you can talk to the clients on the main forum. I am afraid to say on the boytoy forum, we nearly-all like our escorts young, so I am not surprised by the above reaction. This is a humane reaction. I can't recall, but Google can give up some relevant community web sites. Quote
Guest Loyal2u Posted March 28, 2018 Posted March 28, 2018 Thank you for your support and kindness. And I do agree with you that everything is base on age. It's the old 8 second rule, when one first meet someone... For instance: When I go to Indiana, there's this one club I like to go to. One night, an man around 65 or so came in, and I wanted him. He knew it, but went with a younger guy. My lost, right? About a month later, I went back to the club around the same time of the night, and sure enough this guy came in. I think he usually stopped by on his way to home from work. This time he picked me.... He was well worth the wait!! Afterward he wanted to make a weekly meeting with me. I asked him about the "young guy" he told me he was a waste of time-- to busy putting on a show and he wasn't worth it.... I have notice that young guy coming around a few times. Its pretty much known now, that's I'm worth the visit. The last time I went to the club in Indiana, the young man is no longer visiting. All I'm saying is because I am older, it doesn't mean I'm dead. I do appreciate the honesty and time taken on my behalf that you and other have taken to answer my post. Thank you for the information on the M2M site. Quote
Members mvan1 Posted March 28, 2018 Members Posted March 28, 2018 On 3/26/2018 at 10:07 PM, AdamSmith said: Brutal honesty: The sellers are young. The buyers are old. You are in the latter category. Simple truth of life. http://www.actualfreedom.com.au/richard/abditorium/nonesoblind.htm Quote
