what a differnce a decade makes!

[Tomcal]

I got a WhatsApp message yesterday from a guy I had not seen since 2003!  I assume me got my FB  WhatsApp from one of the current guys I know because when I met him at Estacau sauna in 2002 no one had cell phones much less smart phones and I just had my 35mm camera! I saw him 2 or 3 times over the next year when I would run into him at the sauna.  never saw him again after 2003.  anyhow, I went back over my photos to find a original one from then and then one from what he looks like now!(the third one is from a now defunct xrated site)  I told him I appreciated him contacting me but I am unavailable!  I do feel sorry for the guys who were sauna boys in their early/mid 20s and now are in their mid 30's and never made the transistion to "regular" work or lost their jobs in the difficult economic times that Brazil is in....

[Badboy81]

He still looks pretty decent...

I do agree with you about the guys who never figure out a way to transition out of the saunas for a real job...Especially if they are barely holding on...

The ones that still look great and maintain are fine but there are a few that I wonder WHAT THE FUCK...

There is one guy in 117 that looks like an older white guy who has literally been working there since at least the early 2000s when I first started going there and he was older than me at that time...Not sure if he has a steady base of clients or what but I always see him when Im in Rio

The guy above looks way better than him

"There is a snag for every rag!"

[Tomcal]

there is a really nice handsome black guy at 117 who was one of the first guys i went with on my first trip in Oct. of 2001!! He is still working there now after a few years hiatus  in 2005 to 2008 when he was in europe and made some films for Kristen Bjorn. i would guess he was 23/4 when i met him so a conservative estimate is he at least 40 by now.

[Badboy81]

1 minute ago, Tomcal said:

there is a really nice handsome black guy at 117 who was one of the first guys i went with on my first trip in Oct. of 2001!! He is still working there now after a few years hiatus  in 2005 to 2008 when he was in europe and made some films for Kristen Bjorn. i would guess he was 23/4 when i met him so a conservative estimate is he at least 40 by now.

I think I saw him this past weekend...there was an older short black guy...amazing body but he was obviously older than the age he told me....

Beautiful body but I tend to see guys similar to him all the time here in Atlanta

I try to only pay for boys in Rio that I wouldnt be able to find easily here

[Walker]

Speaking of age, have anyone asked to see GP's ID to prove their age? Can a customer do that?  I am not talking about underage situation, but the over age., i.e. the guy looks much older than what he claims to be.

[torogen]

5 hours ago, Walker said:

Speaking of age, have anyone asked to see GP's ID to prove their age? Can a customer do that?  I am not talking about underage situation, but the over age., i.e. the guy looks much older than what he claims to be.

You can ask whatever you want! Although it might be considered rude. I wouldn't. I would either be interested based on their appearance, or not. If a guy looks worn out and haggard, but then proves he really is only 23, would that change your mind? I can't imagine a situation where the *actual* age would take preference over the apparent age/physical condition of the guy.

*not being negative here. Honestly curious if youth is such a fetish for some people that they would fuck a guy based on his age rather than his attractiveness.

[TotallyOz]

I have a friend (ex) in NYC and also Brazilian who is in his 50's and still escorting. It is all he has done for 25 years since I introduced him to The Gaiety.  He still get clients and he has worked no other job in all these years.

When I was at Stella's Bar in the 90's there was an older Puerto Rico dude in his 60's and still getting clients. He was old but apparently a big dick and a good fucker.

Luckily, there is someone out there for these guys.

[Tartegogo]

59 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

Luckily, there is someone out there for these guys.

Yep, they certainly exist, many of them are active on the M4M forum.

[AdamSmith]

4 minutes ago, Tartegogo said:

Yep, they certainly exist, many of them are active on the M4M forum.

Hyperactive! 

[SolaceSoul]

Why single out garotos who may be a bit “long in the tooth” for their ptofession? There are plenty of advertising escorts here in the States and elsewhere who have been plying their trade for well over a decade and some may say that they have long worn out their welcome. Some of them may be on various message boards... even here! The point is that although many here may prefer young, fresh and freckle-faced, straight-off-the-showroom-floor garotos / escorts / gogo boys / hustlers, there are also clients who may prefer the “seasoned” (in either actual age or look). 

Maybe this business should just be like “Logan’s Run” and have a carousel that murders everyone at the age of 29 (and I just dated myself with that reference)?

[AdamSmith]

2 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

Why single out garotos who may be a bit “long in the tooth” for their ptofession? There are plenty of advertising escorts here in the States and elsewhere who have been plying their trade for well over a decade

[tassojunior]

I refer to "RentMen Years". They're slightly shorter than dog years. 

Unlike many I have almost zero desire for the youngest ones.....no mental connection at all.

OTOH the "29" RentMen years guys can often stain your pillowcases with their hairdye. 

Seriously, for some time I have enjoyed young looking guys in their 30's most. 

[Riobard]

Anyone over 30 is a 'daddy' type, yet half my age. Lucky for me, I am partial to the daddy fantasy and one of my regulars in Brazil is a 30-something built power-top. Quite serious and without much humor, but accommodates the fantasy ... oh, yeah, school me! 

[Riobard]

2 hours ago, AdamSmith said:

Phallic tree, symmetry of deer and space between them rectal canal, Rip patting his thigh ... "come sit here". Dirty old man!

[tassojunior]

6 minutes ago, Riobard said:

Anyone over 30 is a 'daddy' type, yet half my age. Lucky for me, I am partial to the daddy fantasy and one of my regulars in Brazil is a 30-something built power-top. Quite serious and without much humor, but accommodates the fantasy ... oh, yeah, school me! 

Nope, I'm into the short small gymnast type 30's who in the dark look young 20's. 

Midnight beauties.

[Ojibear]

Time flies by quickly and youth dissipates.  However, in North American many rentboys continue on working well into the 40s if they look after themselves.  A mature escort is  sometimes a better choice.  Gay society is youth obsessed which is ironic because we are only young for a 1/3 of our life spans.  I was never attractive enough to work in the sex trade, but in any business one should always have a viable exit strategy.

 

 

[Badboy81]

On 3/8/2018 at 8:48 AM, TotallyOz said:

I have a friend (ex) in NYC and also Brazilian who is in his 50's and still escorting. It is all he has done for 25 years since I introduced him to The Gaiety.  He still get clients and he has worked no other job in all these years.

When I was at Stella's Bar in the 90's there was an older Puerto Rico dude in his 60's and still getting clients. He was old but apparently a big dick and a good fucker.

Luckily, there is someone out there for these guys.

Isnt there a term for that....Guys who are into father/grandfather figures sexually?

I tried to google it but couldnt find the actual term

There is a SNAG for every RAG...somebody out there is interested in somebody else out there...whatever the age, size, what they look like, are into...etc....

[Badboy81]

On 3/9/2018 at 7:44 AM, SolaceSoul said:

Why single out garotos who may be a bit “long in the tooth” for their ptofession? There are plenty of advertising escorts here in the States and elsewhere who have been plying their trade for well over a decade and some may say that they have long worn out their welcome. Some of them may be on various message boards... even here! The point is that although many here may prefer young, fresh and freckle-faced, straight-off-the-showroom-floor garotos / escorts / gogo boys / hustlers, there are also clients who may prefer the “seasoned” (in either actual age or look). 

Maybe this business should just be like “Logan’s Run” and have a carousel that murders everyone at the age of 29 (and I just dated myself with that reference)?

How is the movie...never heard of it until today...It was made before I was born...it may be a good read....

Was it a book as well?

Thanks

[TotallyOz]

1 hour ago, Badboy81 said:

Isnt there a term for that....Guys who are into father/grandfather figures sexually?

I tried to google it but couldnt find the actual term

There is a SNAG for every RAG...somebody out there is interested in somebody else out there...whatever the age, size, what they look like, are into...etc....

I don't think so. Most of the ex's clients are older than him and have been with him for years. Many of his clients are in their 70's and 80's.

But, like others, I still see the same guys in Thailand and Brazil that I saw 20 years ago.  If I met them today, I would not see them. But, good memories and I know good sex awaits.  A bit older and not as in shape, but the fun times are there in my mind and thus I like the repeats.

[SolaceSoul]

4 hours ago, Badboy81 said:

How is the movie...never heard of it until today...It was made before I was born...it may be a good read....

Was it a book as well?

Thanks

It is a classic sci-fi novel, first published in 1967, and had a few sequels. It later became a major motion picture, a TV series and a comic book series in the late 1970s and early 1980s. “Logan’s Run” is often discussed in modern lit or film classes due to its extremist ageist solutions.

In the book series, all citizens were mandatorily killed at the age of 21 at a city-wide festival showcase using a Ferris wheel-like Carousel. The film and TV series modified that age to 29 — presumably because to find marquee actors to play the roles.