Popular Post Tomcal Posted February 6, 2018 Popular Post Posted February 6, 2018 Last year I bought a 2nd home in Mexico and on my first trip there took a guy from Sao Paulo that I really liked to Mexico with me, it was the first time in all these years that I took someone with me on a trip as I always like to have "choices" and did not want to be tied down to one guy. Saying that, I have to admit it was great having him there and we had a great time and did a number of 3 somes off of Grindr. My next 5 trips there I went alone as the scene in this city is very busy and there is no problem finding available guys! then my last trip the same guy from SP was there again and again we had a great 10 days. When I was in Rio a month ago I met a guy who just amazed me! I was with him one night and then the next day left for Porto Alegre and was supposed to spend the weekend there and then go to SP and fly home the next day. All I could do was think about this guy! He was more then amazing!! so I made last minute and expensive changes to my ticket and flew back to Rio on Sunday to spend one more night with this guy! and it was worth it!! I have been with 100's of guys in Brazil the last 17 years and have never felt or done something like this before! So yesterday I arranged for him to meet me in Mexico for 10 days in March! and then I am going back to Rio for 10 days in April. Taking a Brazilian to Mexico is like "taking coals to Newcastle" and I never anticipated doing this(although the Mexicans seem to really like the Brazilans) but it has been great and I am looking forward to the March trip more then I have any other trip in a long time! asdsrfr, JAYBLK, MsGuy and 6 others 8 1 Quote
Members Walker Posted February 7, 2018 Members Posted February 7, 2018 Please tell us what is so special about this guy. Tartegogo 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 The only thing I kept thinking is what the hell is taking coals to Newcastle about..thank God for google I do know the saying of bringing sand to the beach though.... Since you are a seasoned veteran and know the game....I dont even have to say, enjoy the guy for what it is or whatever you he is offering you that is making you extremely happy...ing fo I am looking forward to my trip in about 3 weeks... And searching for flights for April.... Tartegogo and Alaskabear 2 Quote
Members Tartegogo Posted February 7, 2018 Members Posted February 7, 2018 First of all, so happy for you that you have plans like this, and a bit jealous. I hope the vibe stays the same between you too. And no, a piece of coal can be replaced by another piece of coal, but a good guy which has a vibe that resonates with you, that is quite rare. Still, I second @Walker ‘s question. Now on a practical thing: I guess the visa for him to enter Mexico is not an issue, compared to a visa for the US? Quote
Tomcal Posted February 7, 2018 Author Posted February 7, 2018 29 minutes ago, Tartegogo said: First of all, so happy for you that . Now on a practical thing: I guess the visa for him to enter Mexico is not an issue, compared to a visa Visas are not required for Brazilians entering Mexico! :-) Tartegogo 1 Quote
Members Tartegogo Posted February 7, 2018 Members Posted February 7, 2018 1 minute ago, Tomcal said: Visas are not required for Brazilians entering Mexico! :-) Ah! Indeed, that does make things much easier. Quote
Members ferrar Posted February 7, 2018 Members Posted February 7, 2018 11 hours ago, Tomcal said: it was the first time in all these years that I took someone with me on a trip as I always like to have "choices" and did not want to be tied down to one guy. What the hell took you so long? But, hey, better late than never On the face of the planet there just don't exist any better travel companions than Brazilians. Tomcal 1 Quote
Tomcal Posted February 7, 2018 Author Posted February 7, 2018 1 hour ago, Badboy81 said: And searching for flights for April.... hopefully we will run into each other in april i am there from the 11th to 22nd Quote
Tomcal Posted February 7, 2018 Author Posted February 7, 2018 i have to say that bringing a brazilian on my trips to mexico does really increase the fun! My friend would go on grindr at midnight and by 12:15 he would have around 30 - 40 guys wanting to meet up! We would inform them what we were looking for and i don’t remember anyone turning us down! :-) AdamSmith and Alaskabear 2 Quote
Members Walker Posted February 7, 2018 Members Posted February 7, 2018 Having visited both Mexico and Brazil, I would say there are far more muscular guys in Brazil, and far more white(European descents, not brown) guys in Brazil than in Mexico. A muscular white guy can be very popular (desirable) in Mexico Quote
Tomcal Posted February 7, 2018 Author Posted February 7, 2018 Before i started going there i would have thought the same but i have met a lot of guys that are Mediterranean looking..i.e. Spanish, Italian and also Cuban and Venezuelan all in Mexico! Quote
Members Walker Posted February 7, 2018 Members Posted February 7, 2018 Yes there are white people in Mexico. But I was making a comparison between Mexico and Brazil. I still think Brazil has more muscular white (not brown) guys than Mexico. I know I am stubborn. Quote
Tomcal Posted February 7, 2018 Author Posted February 7, 2018 26 minutes ago, Walker said: Yes there are white people in Mexico. But I was making a comparison between Mexico and Brazil. I still think Brazil has more muscular white (not brown) guys than Mexico. I know I am stubborn. no u are not stubborn! you are right! i was just saying there are more “types” there then the stereotype short/brown type! One of the guys i see there is from a small village about 100 miles from the city and he is 6’1”, with green eyes and could be mistaken for Spanish or Italian! :-) Quote
AdamSmith Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 3 hours ago, Tomcal said: no u are not stubborn! you are right! i was just saying there are more “types” there then the stereotype short/brown type! One of the guys i see there is from a small village about 100 miles from the city and he is 6’1”, with green eyes and could be mistaken for Spanish or Italian! :-) Many pure-blood Spanish in Mexico. (I will, somewhat oddly, get hit with 'racist' for saying that.) And, our interlocutor's other point, why should we not pursue our 'pure' erotic interests? (Mine happen to be native central/south Americans.) Tomcal 1 Quote
Tomcal Posted February 8, 2018 Author Posted February 8, 2018 23 hours ago, Walker said: Please tell us what is so special about this guy. i have been with a lot of Brazilians over the 17 years i have been going to Brazil and i honestly can say i have never been as excited or has the sex been as exciting as it has been with him! Quote
Badboy81 Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 On 2/7/2018 at 1:38 AM, Walker said: Yes there are white people in Mexico. But I was making a comparison between Mexico and Brazil. I still think Brazil has more muscular white (not brown) guys than Mexico. I know I am stubborn. This would be a no brainer since Brazilians came from Germany, Portugal, Spain and other parts of Europe...Aside from having the largest number of African slaves coming to the shores... Mexico did have Spanish influence but depending on where you travel to, you will see more native looking people... If you are looking for muscular white men, why not just go to Europe or Canada or pretty much any state in the US, they are there in large numbers.... Quote
Badboy81 Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 On 2/7/2018 at 5:28 AM, AdamSmith said: Many pure-blood Spanish in Mexico. (I will, somewhat oddly, get hit with 'racist' for saying that.) And, our interlocutor's other point, why should we not pursue our 'pure' erotic interests? (Mine happen to be native central/south Americans.) What exactly do you mean with "pure exotic interests".... Quote
Members Walker Posted February 9, 2018 Members Posted February 9, 2018 2 hours ago, Badboy81 said: ....If you are looking for muscular white men, why not just go to Europe or Canada or pretty much any state in the US, they are there in large numbers.... Two reasons:. 1. Muscular white boys are much more expensive in N. America or Europe, and don't have as nice attitude as in Brazil. 2. Other considerations: lodging, food, alcohol, clubs and other expense are much cheaper in Brazil and weather is nicer. Quote
Members Walker Posted February 9, 2018 Members Posted February 9, 2018 2 hours ago, Badboy81 said: What exactly do you mean with "pure exotic interests".... He said pure "erotic", not "exotic". Quote
Tomcal Posted February 11, 2018 Author Posted February 11, 2018 On 2/6/2018 at 6:26 PM, Badboy81 said: The only thing I kept thinking is what the hell is taking coals to Newcastle about..thank God for google I do know the saying of bringing sand to the beach though.... I am going off topic but the above phrase got me into a discussion the other night and there were 8 friends ranging in age from 32 to 56 so I asked them if they had heard it before and the 3 under 42 had not! so I asked if they heard "as the crow flies" and that expression did not have a age difference but a geographical one! I grew up in Minnesota and it was a common expression in the Midwest ( it means for example if someone is asking you " how far are you from LA I would say as the crow flies about 36 miles but by highway about 45 miles) none of the guys from the west coast had ever heard it before. Tartegogo 1 Quote
TotallyOz Posted February 11, 2018 Posted February 11, 2018 I had sauna guys I took with me on trips to Sao Paulo from Rio and vice versa and never had a bad time. Well, except for this one 18 year old that I took to Carnival one year and after two days he was homesick and had to go back. I was left with Carnival tickets worth thousands of USD and let my Rio boy ask a friend to join us. I also took on guy to Paris with me and it was a great trip for me until the end when he drove me nuts wanting a computer. LOL But, the sex is always good and the good times always flowed and seeing my Brazilian boy on the Eiffel Tower in photos today, truly makes it all worth it (computer and all). Tomcal and ferrar 2 Quote
numazu Posted February 11, 2018 Posted February 11, 2018 9 hours ago, Tomcal said: I am going off topic but the above phrase got me into a discussion the other night and there were 8 friends ranging in age from 32 to 56 so I asked them if they had heard it before and the 3 under 42 had not! so I asked if they heard "as the crow flies" and that expression did not have a age difference but a geographical one! I grew up in Minnesota and it was a common expression in the Midwest ( it means for example if someone is asking you " how far are you from LA I would say as the crow flies about 36 miles but by highway about 45 miles) none of the guys from the west coast had ever heard it before. I'm 36 and from SoCal and I've heard this term before. Badboy81 and Tomcal 2 Quote
floridarob Posted February 11, 2018 Posted February 11, 2018 9 hours ago, TotallyOz said: (computer and all). He should've held out for a motorcycle ;-) TotallyOz 1 Quote
Members RA1 Posted February 12, 2018 Members Posted February 12, 2018 https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/smart-living/8-things-southerners-say-differently-than-everyone-else/ss-BBITuHL?li=BBnbcA0 Best regards, RA1 AdamSmith 1 Quote
TotallyOz Posted February 12, 2018 Posted February 12, 2018 20 hours ago, floridarob said: He should've held out for a motorcycle ;-) Lord knows I have bought too many of those damn things in Thailand. But, the deal I made with the boyfriends years back is that if they finished 3 terms of English language school, I'd buy them a bike. I had 8 boys living with me then. I think I had to buy 8 bikes at about the same time. The lesson I learned, why give a fuck if they speak English or not. I can hire an interpreter for much less money. SolaceSoul and floridarob 1 1 Quote
