He Who Calls Himself Daddy

[kjun12]

Do any of you know the person who calls himself daddy?  Is he as psychologically unwell as I think he is?  He appears to subsist on flattery but despises criticism in any form and his forum actions are clear evidence of this.

[boiworship]

I think Oz has met him. He appears to be a bit of a recluse and I think he lives in Vegas.

[Lucky]

kjun, why do you bring this up here? Why not ask at the relevant site? Oz has made it clear that he doesn't want this site used to make complaints about that site. We thrive on our own.

You and I have been posting a long time, and we have seen people go back and forth on any number of issues. But since "Daddy" has no participation at the Boytoy site, why use it to start a thread of bitches about him? I, for one, have other things to do.!

[Suckrates]

4 hours ago, Lucky said:

kjun, why do you bring this up here? Why not ask at the relevant site? Oz has made it clear that he doesn't want this site used to make complaints about that site. We thrive on our own.

You and I have been posting a long time, and we have seen people go back and forth on any number of issues. But since "Daddy" has no participation at the Boytoy site, why use it to start a thread of bitches about him? I, for one, have other things to do.!

Apparently NOT, since you jumped right in there...   If we needed a Town Crier, we would send for one !   

[AdamSmith]

1 hour ago, Suckrates said:

a Town Crier

[Guest jimboivyo]

serves no good to complain here. it just feels like cheap shots. let's move on from it.

[kjun12]

Jim, I understand your feeling but I disagree.  It was no cheapshot since I just asked a question and stated how I feel.  Do you know the man?

[AdamSmith]

3 hours ago, jimboivyo said:

serves no good to complain here. it just feels like cheap shots. let's move on from it.

I don't know how you say that.

here, even if we disagree, we listen very closely, and do all we can to answer very earnestly.

we take each other in very good faith.

Which, come to think, may be the prime difference from the Other Site.

[Lucky]

Gosh, Adam, just looking at your response above gives the fairy tale you tell about this site a shade. This site once spent lots of time trashing the other site, but we grew out of that. Why would anyone want to go back to those days?

[AdamSmith]

26 minutes ago, Lucky said:

Gosh, Adam, just looking at your response above gives the fairy tale you tell about this site a shade. This site once spent lots of time trashing the other site, but we grew out of that. Why would anyone want to go back to those days?

Go duck yourself.

[TotallyOz]

11 hours ago, jimboivyo said:

serves no good to complain here. it just feels like cheap shots. let's move on from it.

Is there anyway you can contribute something of value other than on the Daddy threads you dislike? I know you are smart and intelligent.  I'd just like to see it in other places other than every time someone mentions the unmentionable.

[TotallyOz]

On 1/28/2018 at 10:49 AM, kjun12 said:

Do any of you know the person who calls himself daddy?  Is he as psychologically unwell as I think he is?  He appears to subsist on flattery but despises criticism in any form and his forum actions are clear evidence of this.

He likes flattery. He hate criticism. But, that does not make him psychologically unfit.  I have met him and found him to be an interesting guy but not crazy.

I like flattery as well.  But, that does not make me unfit.

[MsAnn]

45 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

Is there anyway you can contribute something of value other than on the Daddy threads you dislike? I know you are smart and intelligent.  I'd just like to see it in other places other than every time someone mentions the unmentionable.

 

12 hours ago, jimboivyo said:

serves no good to complain here. it just feels like cheap shots. let's move on from it.

 

 

 

[MsAnn]

On 1/27/2018 at 10:49 PM, kjun12 said:

 He appears to subsist on flattery but despises criticism in any form and his forum actions are clear evidence of this.

This could describe any one of us...

[AdamSmith]

1 hour ago, MsAnn said:

This could describe any one of us...

How dare you say that about me!

[AdamSmith]

15 hours ago, jimboivyo said:

just feels like cheap shots.

...and the problem with that?

[AdamSmith]

[Suckrates]

5 hours ago, MsAnn said:

This could describe any one of us...

  On 1/27/2018 at 10:49 PM, kjun12 said:  He appears to subsist on flattery but despises criticism in any form and his forum actions are clear evidence of this.

 

Perhaps Daddy is really Donald Trump ?   

[TotallyOz]

3 hours ago, Suckrates said:

  On 1/27/2018 at 10:49 PM, kjun12 said:  He appears to subsist on flattery but despises criticism in any form and his forum actions are clear evidence of this.

 

Perhaps Daddy is really Donald Trump ?   

That might explain the fake reviews?

Oops, sorry, The Donald is worried about fake news.  He would never promote it.

[Latbear4blk]

I find this beef between both sites pretty silly.

Whatever happened in the past between Daddy and Oz, is not my business. Indeed Oz seems to be moving on faster than Daddy, good for him. But as I said, I am not interested in History but in the present.

When I ask over there what is the problem with over here, all I get is bull shit. Mostly ridiculous, stupid, moralist arguments from veterans the kind of "I do not want to be associated with a website with that name". A few, mostly newbies, would just argue they have no problem, they would say they just get bored here because of the slow participation. (I used to be in this last group until I started participating here)

Members in this side are very outspoken about their problems with Daddy and his crowd. My history with him is very short, 3 or maybe 4 years, so I cannot speak of how he used to manage his site. I can only speak about these few last years, and my experience radically contradicts what is here taken as facts. I have broken his rules many times and he has never timed me out. I kind of accused him of being a racist, he got upset but the outcome was to challenge me to participate more. You all witnessed what I tried to do to get @AdamSmithback. Many of you, and many from over there, reached out to me through PM to tell me that I was crazy and about to be beheaded by Daddy's vengeful ax. 

Not only I have suffer no negative consequences, but he has actually been extremely supportive. I am using his website as platform for the growing of my own, and he has been generously allowing me to do so. But he is not being just "passively" supportive.

I started my blog with a review to a guy from DC. This guy did not like what I wrote, got crazy and aggressive, and threatened me physically and with suing me if I did not put down my review and all his pictures. I did. But I forgot I had once submitted a review to Daddy which was published with a picture. This guy recently found out and got crazy again, calling me endlessly with threats. So I emailed Daddy asking him to put the picture down. Not only he immediately did it, but he took down the whole review and sent me some supportive words. This happened after I opened the thread calling for his decision about Adam to be revised.  Despite all the forecasting about my imminent execution, he actively supported me.

We are politically incompatible and I cannot and will not defend many of his decisions, but I think it is just fare to recognize him. I do appreciate him and I am glad his website exist. It is an amazing resource for our whole community.

[Lucky]

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Posted August 28, 2016

All discussions regarding the "other site" will be moved to the Sandbox Forum for the rest of 2016. There are no exceptions to this.

In the last week, I have gotten more emails than in the last 4 years. It is not something I wish to deal with.  There are other forums out there.  Please do not use this forum in this way.

Discussion promoting one's own business is welcome. But, any hint of a feud started at Daddy's or one iota of discussion about that site and the thread will be permanently moved to the Sandbox.

My apologies for inconveniencing my community.

 

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Posted August 28, 2016

No discussions regarding this.  It is done!

 

Oh, it's only bad in 2016? That hardly makes sense.

[Latbear4blk]

6 hours ago, Lucky said:

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Posted August 28, 2016

All discussions regarding the "other site" will be moved to the Sandbox Forum for the rest of 2016. There are no exceptions to this.

In the last week, I have gotten more emails than in the last 4 years. It is not something I wish to deal with.  There are other forums out there.  Please do not use this forum in this way.

Discussion promoting one's own business is welcome. But, any hint of a feud started at Daddy's or one iota of discussion about that site and the thread will be permanently moved to the Sandbox.

My apologies for inconveniencing my community.

 

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Posted August 28, 2016

No discussions regarding this.  It is done!

 

Oh, it's only bad in 2016? That hardly makes sense.

It looks like @TotallyOz is moving on not only faster than Daddy, but also faster than you.

[TotallyOz]

Eventually most Daddy centered discussions end up in the Sandbox.  I'm sure this one will too.

Let me be clear. I have nothing against Daddy as a person. I find people that are banned from his site to return again, a bit nutty.  I find people who buy into his BS about donations, etc. to be a bit nutty.  But, I'm a lot nutty at times. I don't go to the site. I don't browse his site.  I don't care about his site. I will go there at times when directed fro here to see another meltdown. I find those amusing. But, people that donate to him knowing full well it is BS but want the site to continue, I find respectable.  The others I find extremely native.

Daddy as a person and Daddy as a site owner are different people.  I recognize the difference.

I did find amusing that he posted on his donation page once that he and Hooboy were friends. They were not.  They never were.  The history can't be changed even if like Donald Trump you keep repeating it.

[AdamSmith]

2 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

Eventually most Daddy centered discussions end up in the Sandbox.  I'm sure this one will too.

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I did find amusing that he posted on his donation page once that he and Hooboy were friends. They were not.  They never were.  The history can't be changed even if like Donald Trump you keep repeating it.

He claimed to me in a PM that he had acted as a silent (  ) Moderator of the forum during Hooboy's lifetime.

[TotallyOz]

23 minutes ago, AdamSmith said:

He also claimed to me in a PM that he acted as a silent (?) Moderator of the forum during Hooboy's lifetime.

That is most likely true. Hoo had ultimate Admin access. When he died, Daddy was the host provider and had access to all the code (MS Frontpage at the time).  When he tried to steal the site from the estate, I took control of the domain name and informed the estate of its value.  Daddy requested that I not tell anyone and that WE would run the site.  I did not want that.  I wanted Hoo's BF to get the site. My plan did not work.  But, the estate was shocked when I offered them near 6 figures for the name and the site as Daddy was at the funeral and told them nothing of the site or its value. Old story, but all true. It was at the time that Daddy started hating me as without me interfering, the site would have been his for free. As the site got run into the ground, my price point went down every few months and finally it was of no value to me. I always regretted not just turning the site over to Hoo's BF as opposed to telling the estate I would buy from them to give to turn over to him.