Members Popular Post Lucky Posted January 20, 2018 Members Popular Post Posted January 20, 2018 In another thread floridarob says that tomcal is in Brazil and he thinks that tomcal is in love. Imagine that! Tomcal settled down! The loss to the garoto trade wold be immense, and the guys in Merida would not be pleased. Until they saw tomcal's happy face. It would be the Boytoy wedding of the century! Totally Oz would preside, resplendent in a gold tiara and surrounded by his acolytes.Perhaps the wedding would be at tomcal's Merida home, around the pool, with all the young guys in bikinis. Maybe I should wait and see if floridarob is right. But imagining the wedding is so much fun! Alaskabear, axiom2001, likeohmygod and 3 others 4 2 Quote
Members axiom2001 Posted January 20, 2018 Members Posted January 20, 2018 2 hours ago, Lucky said: In another thread floridarob says that tomcal is in Brazil and he thinks that tomcal is in love. Imagine that! Tomcal settled down! The loss to the garoto trade wold be immense, and the guys in Merida would not be pleased. Until they saw tomcal's happy face. It would be the Boytoy wedding of the century! Totally Oz would preside, resplendent in a gold tiara and surrounded by his acolytes.Perhaps the wedding would be at tomcal's Merida home, around the pool, with all the young guys in bikinis. Maybe I should wait and see if floridarob is right. But imagining the wedding is so much fun! Lucky, I smiled "big time" during and after the read! But as I recall, a while back, TomCal wrote that "he was not the marrying type." ...can't remember if he posted it here, or wrote it in an email to me! Lucky and floridarob 2 Quote
TotallyOz Posted January 21, 2018 Posted January 21, 2018 I don't think Tomcal being in love is yet a marriage proposal. Unless the guy loves 10 ways as much as Tomcal and if that is the case, it might be a possibility! AdamSmith and Tomcal 2 Quote
Members Walker Posted January 21, 2018 Members Posted January 21, 2018 On 1/20/2018 at 12:24 PM, Lucky said: The loss to the garoto trade wold be immense, and the guys in Merida would not be pleased. Until they saw tomcal's happy face. How so? There are plenty of open relationships among gays. There are also plenty of married men (gay or straight) who do hookups with prostitutes. SolaceSoul 1 Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted January 22, 2018 Members Posted January 22, 2018 Most of the clients of garotos and escorts are married or in relationships. Quote
Tomcal Posted January 23, 2018 Posted January 23, 2018 A quick summary of my trip! i just finished 12 days in Brazil, first 2 days in SP then 6 days in Rio, then 2 in Porto Alegre then back in Rio for a day and last day in SP! i wasn’t intending to return to Rio after the initial 6 days, but switched my flights to return this past Sunday because of a ceetain guy! Lagoa was good on both Friday and Saturday nights! i rented a house on Airbnb in the Aclimacau neighborhoo, very nice quiet upscale area and only about 10 - 12 minutes to Lagoa! on saturday I went to Bar Fama at midnight a saturday and it is a interesting, a little sleepy but i had a good time with 2 different guys there! Pointe202 on Monday and Wednesday was very good with Wednesday being exceptional with over 50 garotos and equal number of clients. Tuesday night at 117 was good and Sunday wasn’t bad! Mezziniu was weak on friday but packed on Saturday! met a handsome guy at Bar Mixx on Friday night! Latbear4blk, likeohmygod and AdamSmith 3 Quote
Members Lucky Posted January 23, 2018 Author Members Posted January 23, 2018 Oh, tomcal, you tease! You know that we all want to hear about that "certain guy!" Is it love? Tartegogo and floridarob 2 Quote
Tomcal Posted January 23, 2018 Posted January 23, 2018 Lucky he is So American but not Brazilian, moved to Brazil 5 months ago and is not a Garoto! that’s as much info as i am giving out right now! :-) floridarob, Latbear4blk and Tartegogo 2 1 Quote
Members Tartegogo Posted January 24, 2018 Members Posted January 24, 2018 18 hours ago, Tomcal said: met a handsome guy at Bar Mixx on Friday night! Which part of town in POA is bar mixx? I can’t see it on google map. Quote
Tomcal Posted January 24, 2018 Posted January 24, 2018 R. Conde de Porto Alegre 232. Florists neighborhood about 2 miles north of Moinhos de Vento google is your friend! Thumper1 and Tartegogo 2 Quote
Members Lucky Posted January 24, 2018 Author Members Posted January 24, 2018 7 hours ago, Tomcal said: Lucky he is So American but not Brazilian, moved to Brazil 5 months ago and is not a Garoto! that’s as much info as i am giving out right now! :-) Thanks for sharing this tidbit, tomcal. Perhaps more details will follow, but, yes, I agree, it's your story to tell or not. Tomcal 1 Quote
Members Lucky Posted January 24, 2018 Author Members Posted January 24, 2018 15 minutes ago, Tomcal said: R. Conde de Porto Alegre 232. Florists neighborhood about 2 miles north of Moinhos de Vento google is your friend! tomcal is your friend! Bar Mixx can be a fun place. I would not know that if tomcal had not taken me there! Tomcal 1 Quote
Members Tartegogo Posted January 24, 2018 Members Posted January 24, 2018 19 minutes ago, Tomcal said: R. Conde de Porto Alegre 232. Florists neighborhood about 2 miles north of Moinhos de Vento google is your friend! Lol, usually I am the one saying that. Ah, so it is Mixx Bar, not Bar Mixx. Also google map knows nothing about it, they don’t want/don’t know to advertise on it. So, not far from indiscretus... Quote
Members tassojunior Posted January 24, 2018 Members Posted January 24, 2018 You ran back into "Best Sex Ever" ! Lucky and Tomcal 2 Quote
Tomcal Posted January 24, 2018 Posted January 24, 2018 When I got to Bar Mix around 10:30 the owner Dilo came owner and greeted me and then grabbed by hand and took me over to meet a guy! He usually does this to me so that i meet one of the "better" guys, as he worries i will make a bad decision since i am a American and usually the only non local in the place. the guy was a good looking 22 yr.old who had won a best ass contest! we had a drink and then went to one of the private rooms, he was a lot of fun and we trade numbers on FB and Instagram. The third pic below is the couch i usually sit to meet the guys who are circulating around. there are about 8 to 10 different rooms to circulate around in depending one the current remoulding which seems to happen every 6 months. there is to sitting rooms in the front and larger show/restaurant room, a pool/dart room and several other sitting rooms plus 3 bedrooms for rent. Alaskabear and Lucky 2 Quote
Members demedici Posted January 24, 2018 Members Posted January 24, 2018 16 hours ago, Tomcal said: Lucky he is So American but not Brazilian, moved to Brazil 5 months ago and is not a Garoto! that’s as much info as i am giving out right now! :-) Happy for you Tom, however this develops. I am just relieved you didn't take my crush off the market. Tomcal 1 Quote
Tomcal Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 to answer Lucky’s question...No i am not going to wed, but i am getting closer to settling down with a Brazilian in Merida for part of the year! At least i thought so until this last trip to Brazil! now i am vconfused again, every time i think this is the one, i meet a new special one! i guess i am just doomed to be single for remainder of my life! likeohmygod, tassojunior, SolaceSoul and 1 other 4 Quote
floridarob Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 7 hours ago, Tomcal said: i guess i am just doomed to be single for remainder of my life! Translation= doomed to be a whore Quote
Tomcal Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 3 hours ago, floridarob said: Translation= doomed to be a whore Rob you have a knack for putting things so succinctly! :-) floridarob 1 Quote
Tomcal Posted June 22, 2018 Posted June 22, 2018 This past week my Brazilian BF from Sao Paulo called to say "let's get married in Mexico on the beach!" and he was serious! He was there for 10 days last month and is going back in September. I said "when do you want to get married and he says " in September!" I go "we can't get married that soon" and he says "why not?" All of my friends in Merida have met him and they all like him even FloridaRob! lol I don't think it will be September but who knows... Quote
Members Walker Posted June 22, 2018 Members Posted June 22, 2018 2 hours ago, Tomcal said: This past week my Brazilian BF from Sao Paulo called to say "let's get married in Mexico on the beach!" and he was serious! He was there for 10 days last month and is going back in September. I said "when do you want to get married and he says " in September!" I go "we can't get married that soon" and he says "why not?" All of my friends in Merida have met him and they all like him even FloridaRob! lol I don't think it will be September but who knows... What's the holdup for you? Quote
Tomcal Posted June 22, 2018 Posted June 22, 2018 Walker did you use to post as KevinC on here before OZ banished him? just curious you both have a direct style of posting and oh yeah he stopped on 11/21/17... and you started posting that day!? just curious as to the name change if that was you? I definitely could be wrong but your styles are very similiar and the stop / start dates are such a coincidence! Tartegogo 1 Quote
Members msclelovr Posted June 22, 2018 Members Posted June 22, 2018 @Tomcal I know you to be a smart man but sometimes anyone can get over-excited. If you're unsure of the motives of your Brazilian BF, tell him you will need a strong pre-nup. Also ensure you tell him there's no payment at all if the marriage breaks down in the first 3 years. If that's agreed, and you both still want to get married, make sure you consult both US and Mexican lawyers to draw up an unbreakable pre-nuptial agreement Tomcal 1 Quote
Members sanddunes Posted June 22, 2018 Members Posted June 22, 2018 3 hours ago, msclelovr said: make sure you consult both US and Mexican lawyers to draw up an unbreakable pre-nuptial agreement Do unbreakable pre-nuptial agreements actually exist? There are various ways to challenge any pre-nup (i.e. the Brazilian can claim they don’t speak English well and didn’t know what they were signing, were coerced into signing, the agreement is materially unfair, etc.) Tomcal 1 Quote
