Members newtonola Posted September 26, 2017 Members Posted September 26, 2017 I've noticed that some saunas and clubs in Brazil feature stripper shows, and am wondering if the concept of a private (lap) dance exists there. Some of the hottest go-go dancers seem to do this on the side, and I'm curious about the possibility of getting some one-on-one time with some of them, maybe feel their muscles. Yes, I know there are escorts at saunas where you can get more, but that's not what I'm looking for. I'm interested in the type of guy who wouldn't have sex for money, is maybe straight, but would allow his muscles (pecs, arms, legs) to be explored. Anyone know of places like this in Rio or Salvador, strip clubs where private dances are available? Thanks! Quote
Guest bobbalino Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 I am going to have to go with a resounding (small r) no. Some strippers will double as sex-for-pay garotos but there tends to be little conceptualization there of the private lapdance/worship dynamic; in fact, some suspicion might be generated that what you are after is peculiar. They tend to want to be paid more than sauna guys for private time yet do not want the reputation, if they go that "distance", of being duds in the sack. But you have to be prepared to be vehemently rebuffed if you try to engage. That said, with good communication and the chattering of reais, nothing is impossible. I know from experience with this particular sector in Brazil, and there is overlap between your fantasy and the broad range of titillating experiences I seek there. For context, they get 70-100 reais performing at a show ... adding travel time, comes to about 30 reais per hour, around 10 bucks USD. Minimum wage is about 2 bucks. There is more on this topic in previous threads. Quote
Members newtonola Posted September 26, 2017 Author Members Posted September 26, 2017 Thanks for the response. Has anyone had any success contacting any of these guys on Instagram or Facebook? They're often tagged in photos posted by the clubs or saunas, so direct messaging seems like an intriguing possibility. Quote
Guest bobbalino Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Yes, I have. They might respond to you on Instant Messenger, though you should keep the translations very simple. They MAY 'friend' you though no real advantage for them to do so, and most have 5-10,000 followers. I will likely, this winter, at my 3-yr point of visits, yield some dates out of this contact method. But I think it helps if you can reference some touchstones such as the saunas, etc. You don't want to occupy a lot of social media time, and they likely will want to vet you before being in the same room. I have had guys from the sauna who know me appear ill at ease outside of their natural habitats. There are also some clients, for a fact I have witnessed customers show off videos, who secretly film liaisons without consent. After all we can be anybody, right, crazed maniac. It's a tough biz ... and also as mentioned your agenda may be offputting. Quote
Guest bobbalino Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 I should add that you only have seen the peelers' pics, correct? IMHO, based on looks, about 80% of the strippers are less attractive than a majority of the sauna working boys. The garotos de programa are truly hotter than most conventional escort ads. You really have to experience it firsthand before you settle on any one particular segment of guys or structure your thrill-seeking in a circumscribed way. Quote
Tomcal Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 The strippers are available but never in the saunas! Most if not all of the strippers also dance in straight clubs and maintain the "straight" illusion even if they are gay! As far as lap dances in 16 years of going there I have never seen one! I have gone out with 4 diffeeent strippers over the years but the contact was always made through a intermediary. And they always met at the apartment! Badboy81 1 Quote
Guest bobbalino Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Kkkkk .... will have to correct you, tomcal. Almost all (approximately 5 out of about 6) of the strippers I pursued after their show at the respective sauna went to an onsite suite with me and provided a conventional programa (well, of the type of programa I seek anyway). But yes, straight. Quote
Tomcal Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 The times are a changing! For the better! When I went out with the last one it was around 2009 or 10 and they would never do a programmable at the sauna! Badboy81 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 7 hours ago, newtonola said: I've noticed that some saunas and clubs in Brazil feature stripper shows, and am wondering if the concept of a private (lap) dance exists there. Some of the hottest go-go dancers seem to do this on the side, and I'm curious about the possibility of getting some one-on-one time with some of them, maybe feel their muscles. Yes, I know there are escorts at saunas where you can get more, but that's not what I'm looking for. I'm interested in the type of guy who wouldn't have sex for money, is maybe straight, but would allow his muscles (pecs, arms, legs) to be explored. Anyone know of places like this in Rio or Salvador, strip clubs where private dances are available? Thanks! Why travel all the way to Rio for your fetish? Serious question bro.... You can find guys who will dance for you and let you muscle worship in the states...Or whatever country you live in... And Im pretty sure you can find a hot Latino that will let you do that...if all else fails, go to Miami... Most of the guys in the saunas will probably not understand what you are interested in or looking for and 9 times out of 10 the ones you are interested in that you would have seen dancing at LeBoy are not going to give you the time of day in public... There are dancers at 117 who may dance for you and in a sauna room but as far as muscle worship...that is a foreign concept...Most are very open to sex but just letting a guy feel them up....that would be interesting... Not saying it cant happen, its just not a norm.... Tomcal and likeohmygod 2 Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted September 27, 2017 Members Posted September 27, 2017 My experiences with strippers / gogo boys are just as recent as Bobbalino's but are more in line with Tom's. I've met gogo boys in Brazil working at the saunas, at gay clubs, even at straight discos and have discreetly arranged for paid "private dances" later at my apartment. The ones I've met working at the saunas have never wanted the working garotos to know they were available so they would not be open to a programa inside the club. Also, the ones I have met practice discretion with whom they will do privates (or in some cases, just like to think they do!), so the manner of approach, among other things, will determine how far you get. My estimated success rate thus far has been 6 for 6. But, as with everything, your mileage may vary, so proceed with caution. Regarding muscle worship, the concept might not be popular or understood and hard to communicate in Brazil through language, but if you get the guy alone and describe it through physical gestures, I doubt most would mind very much. Stand and pose or flexing, to me, seems like easier money than actual physical sex -- and who doesn't want easy money? Quote
Members newtonola Posted September 27, 2017 Author Members Posted September 27, 2017 Oh wow, 6 for 6, huh? Any tips on how to approach these guys? What have your "private dances" with them been like? I'm intrigued by guys like the ones you describe (e.g. gogo boys), who are less easily attainable. Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted September 27, 2017 Members Posted September 27, 2017 1 hour ago, newtonola said: Oh wow, 6 for 6, huh? Any tips on how to approach these guys? What have your "private dances" with them been like? I'm intrigued by guys like the ones you describe (e.g. gogo boys), who are less easily attainable. How's your Brazilian Portuguese? My experience is that, because they are all about appearing as if they are "above" doing programas, and in some cases, may have straight friends, colleagues and girlfriends in their presence, that you will need to approach them and appear as if you're not there for gay sex from them. If you can somehow communicate with them when you meet them while they are working that you have a very "regular, hetero" job for them, then after the show (like through WhatsApp or another method), privately communicate what your actual intentions are, that may be the safest method for you. Quote
floridarob Posted September 30, 2017 Posted September 30, 2017 On 9/26/2017 at 9:20 PM, Badboy81 said: as far as muscle worship...that is a foreign concept...Most are very open to sex but just letting a guy feel them up....that would be interesting... Not saying it cant happen, its just not a norm.... On 9/26/2017 at 4:47 PM, bobbalino said: ... and also as mentioned your agenda may be offputting. I disagree...I've met many clients that like this, even from this board I think. You'd be surprised what these guys are asked to do....just because you don't do it, doesn't mean it's considered "unusual"..... But lap dances, I don't recall ever seeing per se. They sometimes come out in the audience and grind on you by chance. Quote
Guest KevinC Posted October 4, 2017 Posted October 4, 2017 You can explain whatever your fetish is to the garotos if you speak Portuguese (chances are you don't). In any case, you should expect to pay no less than a full blown sex session. Quote
Guest KevinC Posted October 7, 2017 Posted October 7, 2017 On 9/26/2017 at 6:20 PM, Badboy81 said: Why travel all the way to Rio for your fetish? Serious question bro.... You can find guys who will dance for you and let you muscle worship in the states...Or whatever country you live in... And Im pretty sure you can find a hot Latino that will let you do that...if all else fails, go to Miami... Let's see...unless you live in Miami or somewhere near it, you would have to fly there. U.S. domestic airfare is about at least 1/3 of the fare to Brazil. You would also need a hotel room in Miami. The winter peak season hotel room rate is outrageous high. Ater all this, when you finally find a muscle man to feel up to your satisfaction, you will probably end up handing over some hundred dollar bill(s). Quote
Badboy81 Posted October 8, 2017 Posted October 8, 2017 14 hours ago, KevinC said: Let's see...unless you live in Miami or somewhere near it, you would have to fly there. U.S. domestic airfare is about at least 1/3 of the fare to Brazil. You would also need a hotel room in Miami. The winter peak season hotel room rate is outrageous high. Ater all this, when you finally find a muscle man to feel up to your satisfaction, you will probably end up handing over some hundred dollar bill(s). Most of the major cities here in the US have places where you can either hire guys locally or have guys who go go or strip...Atlanta, Houston, Dallas, Chicago, DC, NYC, LA as well as some other cities... My suggestion for traveling to Miami was solely if you were only into hot Latinos.... Miami is definitely cheaper than flying to Rio regardless of high season...you can find reasonable prices hotels and flights bro.... its not that deep...Just a suggestion... Quote
