My pre-trip report

[Guest topjohn5]

Well, I’m a planner so you’re getting a pre-trip report from me…

For those that do not know, my first trip to LOS is in just two short weeks. For those that care I will post occasionally while I’m gone but, not the bulk of it until I return and compile things (including some pictures, I imagine).

Forgive me but, I’m not going to post a “blow by blow” (pun intended) but, I will give you’ll a hint of my first-timer thoughts and reactions at few points during my trip. I think that posting a little, since I’m a Thailand virgin, is in order and may be entertaining to some.

Here is a short itinerary. It’s not in stone yet and I don’t expect it to be. I’m going to allow myself (as hard as it is for me to do this) to be free to change things if something strikes my fancy….and that “something” no doubt means, someone, lol…..

First, if any of you are confused; don’t be because guys (twinks to slightly-fem guys) are my first priority on this trip. All my Thai culture on this trip will be taken in while with them! Call me a sex tourist if you want since I certainly fit the profile I guess. I am, however, the marrying kind and have been in two long-term relationships before this last one of 8 years with the Russian boy blew up a year+ ago. I am most happy I think in a relationship, but here in Thailand, I really doubt I am in any position to enter into a long distance relationship. However, semi-bf’s are okay! Moreover, I will admit I already support 2 boys in Colombia now and I could do a few more in various places I think. My Pinoy boy certainly is a possible future bf but, for now, it’s just casual.

So, I am in no rush to find a bf and I will resist the temptation, I hope (he says rolling his eyes because he knows he is soooo weak this way).

Anyway, I decided to meet my guys 3 different ways on this trip. I’m doing this mainly because I couldn’t just be a total butterfly. Sorry guys. Sigh. Many of you tried to help me be a total butterfly but it just didn’t stick, lol. I just have to do this my way I guess. So, the TJ Thailand Twink Tour consists of; a 2 week date with a semi-bf from the Philippines brought to Thailand, dating free college boys (4 dates set-up so far) for 1-4 days at a time (arranged online), being a total bar butterfly for about 2 weeks.

Here is my thumbnail itinerary (subject to change due to the boy’s whims):

3 nights BKK with 2 college boys

3 nights Koh Chang with another college boy

1 night in Pattaya with same college boy from Koh Chang

10 nights helping the Pattaya economy, butterfly-style (spoke to a couple of bar boys online but no promises….save, one cutie I did tell I’d off for a night, lol)

6 nights back in BKK with 1 college boy (2 nights) and then the other 4 is the start of my two week Pinoy-guy date

2 nights at Koh Larn (pinoy)

5 nights in Pattaya (pinoy)

10 nights back in BKK (3 with pinoy and then 7 free to do BKK or fill with the college boys)

(rest in next post)

[Guest topjohn5]

And, before you all ask about the boys I set up dates with. The college boys are free and sex has already discussed (by them first surprisingly). I was shocked to find them wanting me (Chao Na was right)! I do fully expect that in most of the cases I will pay for everything we do so it may not be cheap. However, this is my choice and none of them has asked for anything at all. I have vetted them fairly well and we have been on phone, cam and chat many times. I certainly could be wrong about their intentions but time will tell.

Two of the four boys are in BKK and the other two are in the north going to school (tourism, tourism, accounting, English majors). Three of the boys are average boy-next-door looks but have qualities I find very appealing such as ability with English and personalities that make me smile. The other one is drop dead cute, amazing, fantastic and can’t speak English hardly at all but, I am imbuing upon him a secret yet perfect personality. I’m absolutely convinced he possesses something other than his looks and his willingness to, as he said; “…do any you want, me all night….I gay queen my daring”…but mainly sigh…..I just want to fuck his brains out, lol…

I have flushed so many college boys from the list that were amazingly beautiful but due to their attitude or inability with English, it just wasn’t going to work. One guy, from the north (who was a real cutie), when asked how much money he might need for the bus ride, food and taxi (to get to me in BKK)….told me 5000 baht, hahahahaha! Just to be sure he hadn’t added an accidental zero when he typed, I did ask him to break it down for me. So, since he wasn’t dumb he told me it was for a round trip, a hotel the night before so he could be fresh (ROFL) and lots of food since he ate a real lot (ROFL, ROFL). I think he heard me pull the chain…….

 

[Guest topjohn5]

Also, in case you want a little bit about my pinoy friend. This is what I posted before on another board:

“Well, I've made a few changes to my schedule (not that anyone is following my every move, hahahaha). I decided for a couple of reasons to skip the Philippines trip I had planned and just focus on Thailand. I will now be in Thailand for a full 5 and a half weeks from the 6th of December through January 14th! I was originally going to spend 3 weeks with a semi-bf (as we like to call each other) in the Philippines but instead now I'm going to fly him to Thailand for a two week vacation.

He is a fun Pinoy boy and never asks me for a dime. He deserves a good vacation. He landed a great job at only 21 as an accountant with big British/Canadian/American Company. He is also a talented dancer (what a combo, a brain and an ass, lol). He's the marrying kind but a bit wild still (so was I at 21) so it should be a fun time. He has never been out of the Philippines. Also, he has come out at work but not to his family yet so this will be the first time he has ever really been able to be openly gay and he is looking forward to the experience. Oh yeah, he is not Catholic so he missed that whole guilt trip that it seems a lot of the Pinoy boys struggle with and, a nice plus for me, he speaks English very well.....”

 

 

 

[Bob]

As I mentioned on another board, Topjohn, have fun - but I'm simply exhausted reading through your intinerary.

 

I over-scheduled myself the first few trips to Thailand and I've learned that I ultimately have more fun being planted in one locale. But, then again, I've gotten older than dirt so maybe that's why I've slowed down and don't like to move around as much. Maybe I need some energy drinks....(is a rum and coke a legitimate energy drink???).

 

 

 

[Guest topjohn5]

As I mentioned on another board, Topjohn, have fun - but I'm simply exhausted reading through your intinerary.

 

I over-scheduled myself the first few trips to Thailand and I've learned that I ultimately have more fun being planted in one locale. But, then again, I've gotten older than dirt so maybe that's why I've slowed down and don't like to move around as much. Maybe I need some energy drinks....(is a rum and coke a legitimate energy drink???).

 

Well, most of the time I like to stay a week or two in each place as well Bob. But, this time I have the Pinoy boy that I'm entertaining for 2 weeks in the middle of this. He is causing a bit of extra movement so that he gets to see stuff. The one college boy also has caused me to stick an extra island stop on the itinerary. Without him I would have not done this.

And, yes, rum and coke is an energy food I'm absolutely sure of it!

[Guest fountainhall]

Having told us so much about your trip in advance, topjohn5, I do hope you will update us regularly on your experiences. Trust it's all working out at least as well as you expected.

[Guest topjohn5]

Well, I realize I am a sick puppy since I actually enjoy a little too much the challenge of this chaos, hahaha. I had already decided not to be deterred by the Bangkok airport closures and, since I am a happily unemployed banker, for the time being, with no real need to return on time, I set out to reroute myself.

Unless this becomes a civil war I intended on arriving one way or another.

So, I changed my flights from the original: Portland, OR to San Francisco to Seoul to Bangkok......and now with a 1.5 day delay starting my trip I now go this route: PDX-SFO-Singapore-Kuala Lumpur (over night in KUL) then to Phuket and eventually a flight to Pattaya. I will spend the 3 nights I was intending on spending in Koh Chang with one of the college boys now in Phuket and so I rerouted him as well.

Alas, I had to cancel out one of the college boys completely (but he was a questionable pretty-boy with an agenda I believe...don't all most all the pretty ones have an agenda, lol). I also had to reschedule another college lad but will pick him up later in the month in BKK.

Now that was a twisted mind having a great time, pathetic...........agreed!!!

[Guest fountainhall]

I've lost track of where you are on your trip, topjohn5. Have you finally arrived after your marathon journey to get here (I reckon it must have taken a good 48 hours)?

 

 

[Guest MonkeySee]

I've lost track of where you are on your trip, topjohn5.

Have you made it? We are waiting for the juicy reports.

[Guest fountainhall]

Are you lost in the sois of Pattaya? We're all anxious to ensure you made it safely and are in someone's arms - but we'd love to know whose! Hope you're having a great time.