Members snwbrdr015 Posted April 24, 2017 Members Posted April 24, 2017 Dear forum friends, In about two weeks I fly back to hot and horny Colombia for a short (but definitely intense) sextation. Safety is always an issue if you're planning hook-ups. I have rented my private place, but many times guys (pay or free) invite you over to their place. Even though I hope I 'm quite street wise when it comes to picking up guys, it's always a good idea to learn from others. What is the better option: - invite them over? PLUS SIDE: you control the scene; your valuables can be locked away; you feel more secure DOWN SIDE: when things turn nasty it's hard to get them out (I had an experience like that...caught the bastard stealing...he got intimidating); they might start a scene -go to their place PLUS SIDE: only take the money you need; one can't rob you/clear you out DOWN SIDE: you get locked in; he might have accomplices love your thoughts Quote
Guest KevinC Posted April 24, 2017 Posted April 24, 2017 If you are so concerned, why not take him to an hourly love hotel? Quote
Members likeohmygod Posted April 24, 2017 Members Posted April 24, 2017 I have a rule in South America... NEVER GO TO A GUY'S HOUSE unless you know him well and unless he lives in a high-end neighborhood. If you stay in a hotel, you'll be 99.999% safe. If you have an apartment...again....you're still safe since you know the environment... As KevinC said, a love hotel would be a good alternative. Badboy81, axiom2001 and Darkseraphim 3 Quote
Members Darkseraphim Posted April 25, 2017 Members Posted April 25, 2017 @likeohmygod : I totally agree, I've had many guys invite me to their place while visiting Latin America. I have only once taken them up on their offer and that was because this was a guy I've played with before and had a good rapport with prior to. Going to a strange guy's place, play or free, is usually an unnecessary risk. Unless, you meet somewhere beforehand so that you can evaluate your playmate and trust that this guy lives in a safe neighborhood I would not recommend home visits. However, I'm a paranoid middle age professional form an industrialized country. Please remember that we are meeting potentially shady guys for hot times, this is not a backpacking trip or a missionary adventure. If you really think that you can handle potentially dangerous situations in an unfamiliar country, please feel free to indulge. I just hope that you speak more than the tourist Spanish that I do or you may attract unnecessary attention. http://colombiareports.com/video-dutch-man-kidnapped-bogota-escapes-along-rooftops/ I took the Transmilenio right past this neighborhood in Bogota and it looked like bad news. Luckily, my habits and vices are a bit more restrained axiom2001 1 Quote
Members snwbrdr015 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Members Posted May 3, 2017 Thanks for the helpful replies guys! It confirms my usual habit NOT to go with strangers...just like mommy taught us :-) @Darkseraphim: I've seen this video before! It's a few years old and was taken corner cr. 15 y calle 9, some 6 blocks from Plaze Bolivar. I did some research on Google Maps hehe. Those streets are/were called ' El Bronx'. You don't want to go there unless you are a lost case drug addict; not our kind of place I guess. '... looks bad news ...' is an understatement! Darkseraphim 1 Quote
