Next trip to Brazil

[Tomcal]

I will be in Rio from the March 16th to 26th. This trip i won't be spending time in Porto Alegre or Sao Paulo because of a guy who i can only see on the weekends in Rio.  So i am bringing a guy from Porto Alegre and one from SP to Rio from Mon.- Friday.  Both oh these guys are new guys i met on my last trip in January as well as the guy who is spending the weekend(s). Who i think overall is the best looking guy i have ever met in Brazil and one of the nicest! The two weekends together should help prove or disprove that! :-)

[Cany10011]

Living vicariously through your posts!!!   seriously, love it. 

 

[Tomcal]

A friend of mine sent me this photo saying someone caught the guys going to my apartment in Rio! LOL

[Guest KevinC]

Absolutely stunning, but is it too good to be true?

[Tomcal]

KevinC, i know you haven't been on this board too long and we don't know each other but i have been to Brazil(and Prague, Barcelona, Miami, Mexico) with quite a few different members of Boytoy!  And i don't exaggerate if anything i leave out some things that even i would have a hard time believing if it wasn't happening to me! :-)  

Now in this paticular photo is not guys on the way to my apartment it is definitely representative as usually there are 4 guys and sometimes 5 that stay with me! I used to post photos of the guys so everyone could see them to get a idea of what is available as everyone's idea of "hot" or "sexy" is different! But a year ago a guy who had asked for a lot of help from me on this site and sent me personal emails requesting contact info as well as apt. Info., lied and showed photos i had posted on here for the members of this forum, to guys in the saunas! It cause a minor but still a problem for me to explain to one guy in particular!  So thats why no photos of actual guys I have been with unless they have happened to have done porn so the pics are already on the net!  But i guarantee the photo is representative of Brasilian sauna guys i see when i am there!  

I did send several pictures of my current "love" interest who i met last month in Rio to a couple close friends on this site, including OZ and they all thought he was very handsome! 

 

 

[Guest lurkerspeaks]

1 hour ago, Tomcal said:

KevinC, i know you haven't been on this board too long and we don't know each other but i have been to Brazil(and Prague, Barcelona, Miami, Mexico) with quite a few different members of Boytoy!  And i don't exaggerate if anything i leave out some things that even i would have a hard time believing if it wasn't happening to me! :-)  

Now in this paticular photo is not guys on the way to my apartment it is definitely representative as usually there are 4 guys and sometimes 5 that stay with me! I used to post photos of the guys so everyone could see them to get a idea of what is available as everyone's idea of "hot" or "sexy" is different! But a year ago a guy who had asked for a lot of help from me on this site and sent me personal emails requesting contact info as well as apt. Info., lied and showed photos i had posted on here for the members of this forum, to guys in the saunas! It cause a minor but still a problem for me to explain to one guy in particular!  So thats why no photos of actual guys I have been with unless they have happened to have done porn so the pics are already on the net!  But i guarantee the photo is representative of Brasilian sauna guys i see when i am there!  

I did send several pictures of my current "love" interest who i met last month in Rio to a couple close friends on this site, including OZ and they all thought he was very handsome! 

 

 

Tomcal, i feel left out. I didn't get any picture of your latest amor. I have met your castaways like Diogo, Washington, and Jessie. Am I not worthy to see your latest?

[TotallyOz]

Nice photo! And, I'd be willing to hang with them all. LOL  But, Tom, don't they usually wait until they get inside to take their shirts off?

[docbr]

I could not agree more about the "representativeness" of the picture above, both from the guys we can see in brazilian´s (particulary rio's) sauna and from the guys for sure are visiting Tom over when he is in Brazil... I say that because I still lively remember the first time I stepped on Club 117 few years ago and I could not belive my eyes kkk

[Tomcal]

4 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

Nice photo! And, I'd be willing to hang with them all. LOL  But, Tom, don't they usually wait until they get inside to take their shirts off?

OZ, if it is over 80+ out they only wear speedos and flip flops everywhere and carry a T shirt if we happen to go into a enclosed restaurant(only if we really need the a/c!)

[floridarob]

Representative of Tomcal's type......they all have a penis, LMAO

Oz has a "type", I have a "type", Joe has a "type".....I've known Tom so long and his "type" has ...mmmm, evolved(?) so much I fear he's going to return to females before long

[Tomcal]

I just got a message from one of the guys who was part of the regular apartment group for the last 5 trips. He was a army paratrooper and one of Brazil's medal winning jujitsu champions really a nice guy! (Met him through floridarob).  Last Octobr he joined the  French  foreign legion because there was no opportunities for him in Brazil! He has now finished training and sent me a FB message that he is coming to the US next year and can he stay for a week with me and see SoCal?  That took me about a millisecond to say yes! :-)

[Tomcal]

I keep making modifications to my upcoming trip! Now i will be flying into Sao Paulo staying one night there and then flying to Rio Saturday and staying there thru the next Saturday and then flying back to SP for one night.  These changes are because of one guy i met 2 days before i left Rio on my last trip last month! I have been going to Brazil for 16 years and have never felt this way about anyone before so i thought spending 8 days together rather then the original 2 weekends i was going to spend with him!

one of the differences between him and other Brazilians i have spent time with is that he is a medical professional with medical degree, who happens to be incredibly handsome(IMHO). He is also older at 29 then most of the guys i have been with there.  I feel like a 16 yr. old girl when he calls. We have talked every day for the past month since we have met and i haven't told my regulars in Brazil yet in case it doesn't work out!  I keep waiting for "the other shoe to drop"!  We will see! :-)  

what ever happens (and i am a realist) it is and had been a great month!

[msclelovr]

Good for you, Tomcal. Where did you meet this guy? And if you don't post a photo of him, how are we to judge whether your view of him as "incredibly handsome" is correct?

[Guest KevinC]

2 hours ago, msclelovr said:

Good for you, Tomcal. Where did you meet this guy? 

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Grindr !!!

 

 

[Tomcal]

3 hours ago, msclelovr said:

Good for you, Tomcal. Where did you meet this guy? And if you don't post a photo of him, how are we to judge whether your view of him as "incredibly handsome" is correct?

Muclelvr, as you know i stopped putting face pics on here because of a previous posters lavk of descretion! But i do have some pics of him with sunglasses on ...

 

Edited February 19, 2017 by tomcal

[docbr]

He is simply gorgeous Tomcal... hope all turns well for both of you. Could a guy like this make world famous tomcal monogamous? hahaha

But please tell me you didn't meet him working on a sauna... I mean, I don't have nothing against anyone that work there, but it would say a lot  about the trends in the medical job market in Brazil nowadays... 

[Tomcal]

Docbr, while he wont make me monogomous, he has definitely slowed me down alot! I am not having the 3 guys who usually stay at the apt there this upcoming trip!  but during the week i will be able to get to the saunas as he won't get there before 9:00pm On Mon Tues or Weds! 

Btw i realize this isnt the proper forum for this but Grindr has been amazing for me in SoCal.  Since i am not in LA and apparently neither are the Professionals, i am getting alot of college age guys, primarily 19 - 23, more then willing to do it for $40. - $60.  And they are fun! Although 2 kinda turned into BF status after the first couple dates and now i pay for the drinks or dinner but thats it! They always say something like "would $50. Be ok?"  About 50% are mexican 25% white and 25% Black or Asian that respond!  Just thought you guys might want to give it a try!

[axiom2001]

2 hours ago, docbr said:

 

He is simply gorgeous Tomcal... hope all turns well for both of you. Could a guy like this make world famous tomcal monogamous? hahaha

 

I'm thinking you have met "the one" and perhaps settle down?  ...will marriage be in the making for the future, perhaps?

[Tomcal]

3 hours ago, docbr said:

He is simply gorgeous Tomcal... 

Here's the pic i meant to put in the reply to Docbr!

[Tomcal]

28 minutes ago, axiom2001 said:

I'm thinking you have met "the one" and perhaps settle down?  ...will marriage be in the making for the future, perhaps?

Ax, i think i am too set in my HOing ways to settle down with one person but he definitely has had a effect on me different then any other guys i have met there in the last 16 years! But who knows what will happen? I am just going to hang on for the ride! :-)

[ferrar]

You never know Tom.   All it takes is the right guy to take you - and him - off the market for awhile.   Or  longer.  It's happened to the best of us.  Whatever happens, don't  worry about others' judgments here or elsewhere (or the larger impact on the Brazilian economy - just kidding!!) and enjoy the ride for what it is.