Grindr

[Tomcal]

Let me start this by saying that I haven't hired escorts in SoCal since about 2004.  Part of the reason is I had started going to Brazil 4 times a year in 2002, and I was dating on and off where I lived,  so limited my hiring escorts to where I traveled for business, which fortunately for me was NYC,  Miami, London and Honolulu with Prague and Barcelona thrown in a few times!  I visited a city in Mexico where a friend of mine lived and he put a Grindr profile in Spanish for me on there because he said all the guys in town where on Grindr.  It worked well but when I got back to the U.S. I forgot about it.  In March I went to Brazil and then in April I was at home and saw the app and clicked on it!   It was AMAZING!   within about 10 minutes of getting on I had about 10 guys messaging me and my profile was still in Spanish but I used a dollar sign in place of One of the last S's in the profile.  This is important because Grindr looks for profiles selling or buying sex and will make you make a new profile if they see it.  but the one $ at the end of the profile doesn't seem to get their attention.   

Now here is where it is better to be outside a large city!  I live in the OC  where there is a Cal State campus near me as well as several other colleges and the guys responding were students, and definitely not professionals!  I would ask them how much and they would say "i don't know, would $50. be too much?"  They also wanted to see my photo, which I never had a professional escort ask for!  But on Grindr you can keep you photos hidden and open them for each individual person.

   So the first 3 sessions with 3 different guys were $40. and $50 and $50.  the next week I did two other guys and have to say after a little shyness on their parts, it was really fun!  Two of the guys in particular I really liked so called them the following week(separately)and asked if they wanted to go out on a date?  the first guy is 21 and the other Is 23.  All of the guys I met except two lived at home with their families!   So usually I picked them up a block down from their houses! But the first guy I asked out always had me pick him up in the driveway of his house!  So as of this week I have been on 5 dates with the one and 6 with the other and they are really opposite type guys but I like them both....however, I told the one last night that we could see each other socially but no more dates!  I have found out that while it is really fun to have sex with younger guys and I am going to keep on doing that and keep using Grindr, it is a whole nother thing to be dating them and you soon realize they are in a different area of their lives then you are with yours and I can only feign interest so long in what they find is exciting in their lives latest rave they are going to, or what their professor is saying or their fights with their parents, etc.

When I talk to my friends that live within the limits of a big city they say that the prices asked are always in the $150-250 range. or higher.  So being outside a large city but close to colleges is a definite advantage! 

[TotallyOz]

Great post. Great idea for $ sign.  I had not thought of that. And, fucking amazing rates. I got the same offers (but more than 150) in Kentucky and the guys were sexy.

[Theolover]

Great info as usual .. thanks

[Lucky]

Now we need to get these guys tomcal hires to post here!