Missing Reviews On Daddy's Website....

[Guest JDDanielsxxx]

Hello All,

I've just been informed by a VIP client of mine here in NYC ( actually as of last night) that Daddy has either deleted or placed my reviews under inactive status so no further reviews can come in for me. To me and other clients who are aware of Daddy's shortcomings, this is another forum of him being vindictive, and to be honest with you - I've had it with his bullshit in giving me a hard time for Steven relaying to him I said has insulted me racially and Daddy was a racist to make such references in my presence.

So due to his awful and vindictive behavior in continuously giving me a hard time, there is a process that will take place by September 1st that wont be much to Daddy's liking I'm afraid of the website.

Both clients and escorts involved who know of the situation of Daddy's waiting to see me fall by seizing my reviews to be childish, and very immature as it's bad enough he has already stripped of my award as EOY(based on retaliation on his part) to be vindictive based on me not tolerating him giving me a hard time as I have been for 2 years of him disrespecting me and making fun of me racially, etc as most of you already know according the email Steven Kesslar has wrote to me that has been posted here on Boytoy.com under the "Enough is Enough(Press Release) thread.

Furthermore, the EOY title should have NEVER been stripped being that was an award that was granted to me on the count of my outstanding excellence, hardworking and dedicated escort in the community that was voted on fairly by the people. Some of you may think it wasn't deserving because I so called solicited votes to cheat my way as EOY which is (no offense) utter bullshit in most people's eyes as asking for votes is nothing negative or to whine about being I came to find out that a lot of escorts(including the top 5 who were running) were also asking clients for votes. So, why weren't they called out and given a hard time asking for votes? Makes one wonder does it?

Based on Daddy's criteria of what the requirements are to win the EOY was in my favor based on the endless counts of votes on the forum, outside of the forum, and from the VIPs, etc. I was fairly voted in as the 2015 EOY by both Escorts and clients fair and square, and for him to strip that over personal matters outside of escorting (that had NOTHING to do with my performance or professionalism as a outstanding escort) should never been influenced in stripping someone's title AWAY. He may have stripped the title from me, but it's still common knowledge to most people in the escorting community that I won EOY, and people are aware Daddy stripped the award(which makes him look bad) as a personal vendetta being of my involvement with him went sour over his unruly and disturbing behavior, so he's not fooling anybody by trying to hurt me in such an immature way as I have my ways of getting even as well if he wants to go that route.

Oh boy, do I have a plan to get him back since now he wants to be even more vindictive and shitty - OK.

BTW, I remember Daddy telling me at one point and time(and then again to me and Steven Kesslar at his home) that once you have been awarded the EOY title it cant be won again, and it CAN NOT be taken away from you for which he did lie about apparently because apparently he stripped it from me, and it was due to personal matters outside of escorting that had a lot to do with Steven telling him I said he was a racist to make fun of me being black, and using the "N" word multiple times to put me down. Steven witnessed for himself (after not believing me before we went to Vegas to see Daddy) Daddy use such a horrible word to his advantage which was why he told me back at the hotel he was terribly and utterly shocked Daddy went that far in using such a word, and was sorry I had to deal with such cruel behavior for which I had every right to feel the way I did at the time.

What Steven wasn't aware of until we got to Palm Springs is that I was infuriated intensely on the fact that I have asked Daddy more then once to not make such racial references, and how I was broiling with anger at the time due to him and Daddy respecting boundaries being Steven on the same night repeated information I asked him NOT to tell Daddy and he did it anyway.

Oh, I went through HELLLLL with BOTH of them that night ganging up on me, and being I drove over 300 miles to see to it to make Daddy's birthday special, and got shitted on in return, and didn't get not one "Thank You" from Daddy either. He Thanked Kesslar pretty much, but not me in return, unfortunately.

Daddy invited me and Kesslar to join him for breakfast before our departure back to CA the next day, but Steven told me later on (before we checked out of the hotel) he didn't feel comfortable having breakfast with Daddy because how unruly Daddy was towards me using the "N" word, and also said some offensive things to him as well at his house and at dinner that didn't sit right with him, so decided to make up an excuse to get out of it.

Wasn't pleasant for me to see them both arguing when we were at dinner as they both are stubborn and strong minded. The disagreements at dinner were over political bullshit which is why I don't discuss politics with friends or clients to avoid such drama. Nowadays - I stop such drama before it starts with whoever I'm hanging out with because it just leads to a debate in the end, and I don't want my hang out with a friend to be ruined on the count of politics. Means nothing of the kind, and just leads to a drawn out drama like it did on Daddy's birthday dinner.

Back to EOY and Daddy's so-called rules and procedures regarding that.....

From what I understand from clients who were VIP's of the Daddy's website(who also has lost faith in his site after seeing of all the terrible he's done to me) confirmed to me that he's said the samething to them as well about the EOY not being taken away. So it makes you wonder why me he's be the first to strip away right? Especially one who is a BLACK MAN. 

You see Steven Draker's EOY title wasn't stripped, and he's been banned from the forum God knows how many times, and done some shitty things to people after he won. Why wasn't his reviews and title striped? Think about it.

Daddy shared with me on several occasions on how he didn't think I was ready or qualified(for some odd reason) to win EOY, and then when he was proven wrong of his theory(unfortunately) he becomes an asshole towards me after the night I won. The night I won (on January 2nd, 2016 at 12am), instead of calling to congratulate me - he calls bitching and complaining on how it was wrong for one of my escort friends from ATL who voted for me(including Steven Kesslar) to reference how it's about time we have a Black EOY, and Daddy said to me by them making such statements in they're private votes to him, made him out to be of a racist asshole. I'm holding the phone in total awe of how disturbing this is for someone to give me a hard time on my moment of victory and glory. How fucked up is that is to get a cold-blooded call like this on the night you won one of the most prestigious awards there is as an escort? I don't get it. Didn't get a congrats from him nor a "Well done - I'm proud of you, my son" nothing that constituted someone being happy for me. I bet you if it was Mike Gaite, Dane Scott or Alec Andrews it would have been different, but because it was my black ass, he wants to give me a hard time being he was the VERY one to say to me and Kesslar I would never win that year and was proven wrong by all accounts which is why I know he was shitty to me being he (Like Kesslar) don't like to be challenged or proven wrong in they're theories or beliefs, and if so - they'll be hell to pay.

Stripping someone of they're hard-earned title is being childish and VENDICTIVE, and I'm gonna see to it that I get (what was awarded to me by the people) back my EOY by all means necessary - if it mean demolishing the site to do so, so be it. As I've had enough with his abuse for two years, and not going to rest until that award, and forum membership is granted back. Especially an award that was promised cant be stripped or taken away from you.

If he's gonna strip something I have put a lot of blood, tears, and sweat and most of all - sacrifice into to be stripped away unfairly -  I'm gonna have something of HIS stripped away, and from what I understand from my connection It can be done.

Daddy, Kesslar, and others in the community are NOT the only ones who has connections, and can be hard asses. Trust me - I can be as nasty as Daddy, Kesslar, and many others who dare get in my way of happiness or wanna call themselves wanting to make me pay whenever I don't tolerate bullying or abusive behavior.

So now, through connections and legal formalities I'm looking to stripping something valuable of his away that will be far much worse then him stripping the EOY title away, being a jerk in banning me from the forum, deleting my reviews, racially insulting me to a point of abuse by bulling me when I asked him NOT to use such references, and not to mention always trying to demean my self-worth whenever chance he got. I had to put up with all crap over a "title" that he is gonna so call take away after all the pain and bullshit I had to go through to get it. FUCK THAT. I felt I have been NOTHING but good to this man, and have been a friend, and loving child of his(like a son) as loving one can be, but has done me wrong in the end, and am sick of him thinking he can keep being an ass by continuously hurting me, and get away with it.

Most of you from the Daddy's forum may hate me or think I'm being negative which is fine because the facts are the facts here people, and hating/disliking me for stating true, cold-hard facts by documentation isn't going to solve anything by hating me. I'm a good person, and a good person who has been burned and done wrong in various ways. No matter if you hate me or not, I'm gonna stand up and fight back for what's right whether you all like it or not.

This will show most people out there in the escorting community once and for all (cold-heartedly) I am not a push-over who's a doormat(as what someone at the PS event in 2015 has once said to me I was) to those who take pride in being cold-hearted bullies as he has, and I don't mind if push comes to shove (like in this case) will kick someone in the balls if pushed far enough. I've had it with people(like Daddy or Kesslar) take my kindness for granted and for ANTI-JD meangirls think they can treat me like shit for no reason, and get away with it by all cost.

This man who we so call "Daddy" cant go around thinking it's okay to put people down, and when they try to take charge in defending themselves by saying what he's said is not right, and hurt someone's feelings - he wants to be a jerk about it and disassociate himself from them. I have the right to say to someone who's insulted me literally - "Hey, I don't like you using the "N" word or making fun of me cause I'm black - stop it". Instead of saying I need help - why don't you tell him he needs help for NOT respecting boundaries. None of you would have put up with such bullshit - so why should I? Tell me that.

I don't have much respect(like I told Steven Kesslar when we were at the hotel in Vegas to see Daddy for his birthday) for people who disrespect my wishes or feelings when it comes to race relations or trying to demean me cause I'm black. You should always respect one's boundaries. Kesslar agreed and apologized I had to endure that sort of behavior from Daddy, but had to be at peace, and not be on Daddy's bad side as Daddy would always threaten me he'd be done with me if I didn't just take him verbally insulting me in that way.

This sort of unruly behavior to me is an individual who a bully, and trying to use they're power in the escorting community as a form of entitlement to get away with unacceptable actions. I tolerated such non-sense from this man for 2 years, and many people from the forum(including Steven Kesslar) have witnessed this and know of it. Why in the hell do you think Steven finally had to ask Daddy why he uses the "N" word towards me so much? What's the purpose in using such an offensive word like that if he's asked you not to use it? Obviously, Kesslar didn't feel comfortable(at the time) of this man putting me down in a way that was upsetting especially after I've asked him not to say to me several times, but Daddy thinks I need to get use to that word when it came to clients using the word in a negative light to try and destroy me. Like I have said to Daddy, I don't expect those I'm close to (or who are my friends) use that word, and disrespect me by pushing such boundaries when I ask them not to use it or make such racial references. I don't have an emotional attachment or friends with clients, so if they call me that - I can walk away(of course), but you as my friend, I would expect you would be decent enough to respect my wishes on this, and he didn't use such a word for any reason. Instead of Daddy respecting my wishes and be kind about it - I would get a dismissal/threat of " if your going to argue with me me - We done"!

Now you tell me what kind of shit is that of someone who's suppose to be a mentor(so-called "Daddy") going around calling you such a word to they're advantage, and then threaten you when you say your offended by it?

But still, I would tolerate it to make peace and not piss the man off(as he would get when I had a problem of him using that word or always trying to do or say things to demoralize me in some way). It doesn't make any sense to me of why someone would wanna hurt someone else who is being kind to you, and all I asked in return is to not insult them. You tell me how ironic that is.

Look - I'm not a vindictive person, but I'm one who won't tolerate someone giving me a hard time, and be a bully just because they feel they can. I will do what I have to kick a bullies in the balls(not physically of course), and this is one of those times you don't fuck me over and think you're gonna get away with it cause you feel your "Daddy" you can. Hell no. This is the appropriate time for me to fight and prove to this man who he's up against as getting back what's mine, and if it means seizing the website - so be it, folks. 

If he's gonna be a cunt like he has by doing and saying terrible things to me - he'll see what a "cunt" I can be, and trust me - It won't be pretty. I can guarantee that. I've been put through a lot, and gonna get back what's rightfully mine and promised was never going to be taken away. Daddy made that promise, and sure as hell he's going to keep it. Trust me - one can seize his website for which I don't want to see happen at all, but fair is fair, darlings, and what he did to me was NOT in any way fair at all. If he can do this to me - he should do the samething to other EOY's(like Draker for instance).

Daddy should know seeing how I got Kesslar back for his evil deeds not to take me lightly. Kesslar thought I was bullshitting what I was going to do to get even with him until he found out the hard way I meant business, and mean what I say, and I do have the right connections to make this happen if it has to come to that of having the site seized.

I've been burned, crossed, and humiliated will not put up with another cold-blooded act as I can be a "cunt" too, Daddy. Ask Kesslar how I got even with him after he's burned me so many times.

Hey, the choice is his as he has the power to make right for this if he wants to - just like I have the choice to stop with my plan. Many people know(who are NOT ANTI-JD) I have been done wrong, and been good to these people. Fuck anyone who thinks I'm delusional, over-reacting, or just plain crazy. Being called a "N" is not something to be taken lightly(at least not anymore) as the man had said some racist shit, and said some hurtful things I had to tolerate for a long time in order for my career to be successful(even to the point of winning EOY).

Trust me, I paid some serious dues for my success being Daddy told me because I was Black I had to prove myself to clients and the forum 10 times harder to win EOY as a lot of people are not ready for such a thing. Ask Ace Rockstar (if need be for confirmation I guess - he was there when this was said) - he was there when Daddy said this - he'll tell you (I hope). Ace was upset and shocked as I was that Daddy said this to me and on my first time meeting the man -  already I was being discouraged and put down for wanting to succeed further in my career as an escort. Now tell me how shitty is that.

I know most people are saying I should take the high road, but doing that (as most of you have witnessed) kicked me in the ass royally as now the man is causing further damage in fucking with my reviews. No - time to fight, and fight for what's right at this point. I don't care what it takes or what I need to do to prove to this SOB I mean business, and will not take his BS any longer.

"FAIR IS FAIR"

FROM THE 1985 MOVIE "THE LEGEND OF BILLIE JEAN".

 

 

[TotallyOz]

I do not understand all the drama at Daddy's.  I am not a member there and do not frequent the site or party or hang out with anyone there.  I truly don't understand how all this can happen on a message board unless everyone knows each other personally and then that adds an additional layer to the story.

That said, tell your clients to post their reviews here.  No one here will take them down based on drama on a forum!

[caeron]

The forums over there have always had way too much nastiness and drama. 

I was a member many years ago and left because I got tired of all the nastiness.

Not sure why they are that way, but they are. Lots of people putting way too much emotion into stuff that isn't worth that much emotion.

[Guest JDDanielsxxx]

4 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

do not understand all the drama at Daddy's.  I am not a member there and do not frequent the site or party or hang out with anyone there.  I truly don't understand how all this can happen on a message board unless everyone knows each other personally and then that adds an additional layer to the story.

That said, tell your clients to post their reviews here.  No one here will take them down based on drama on a forum!

Hey Oz,

I just love you as your very sweet, kind, and compassionate(unlike on Daddy or his forum where they'll rip you to sheds in a minute to make you out to be a monster when your really not and innocent in the disturbing situation).

Yes, I have had several members who were for me on the site turn they're backs on me, and make me out to be a monster by defending myself while being attacked for no apparent reason. They are a mean bunch and I don't understand why they are like that either(especially Daddy who has said some pretty hurtful stuff to me that did hurt my self-esteem quite a bit), but people on that forum don't have a heart it seems as they enjoyed watching me fall, and was quick to attack me at all cost whatever chance they got. Now some do come to my defense who know I'm a good person with a loving spirit, but most of them on there have said some of the most God awful things about me that isn't of my personality at all making me out to be the Anti-Christ or something. LOL.

You should have seen how 50% of the forum were so hateful towards me when I won EOY. Putting me down, saying I cheated, and all because Alec Andrews(who is now retired, and most of the members were rooting for him to win the most) didn't win. Little do people know - Daddy felt Alec wasn't best suited or well equip to win either according due to his own assessment of Alec during a private get together they had during Alec's stay in Vegas, and due to horror stories Kesslar was going around telling me and other members(including Daddy when we met Daddy in Vegas on his birthday). Kesslar revealed to Daddy of Alec's shortcomings on an incident that happened 10 years ago, and whatever dirt he knew about him that could be considered as him trying to potentially to Daddy or others ruin Alec's career for some reason. Alec was planning to retire when we all were running for EOY, and didn't care much about the award being he knew he was quitting the business soon along with his partner(Ryan Thick) anyway, so it didn't matter to him about winning EOY as much as it did to me, Dane, and Mike Gaite knowing he was gonna retire soon later in the year.

I really liked Alec, and think he's a wonderful person. Not only is he hot as hell, but he is down-to-earth, honest, and real. I hate he and his partner, Ryan quit escorting, but am happy for them that they've moved on from escorting to fulfill they're dreams to newer and bigger things. I do wish him all the best and happiness in life, and hope I do come across hanging out together again in the future as I did when we met back in 2015 in Palm Springs.

Alec knew how vindictive a lot of these people on the forum were, and just didn't want any further connections in the business seeing how a lot of these men were somewhat mean spirited at times for no reason. He felt quite sorry for me a lot of the nastiness I had to endure a lot on the site, and knew I didn't deserve such grief.

Alec was very happy and supportive I won EOY as he felt too I was well-deserved of the award, and so was Mike Gaite (who voted for me to win publically actually as his number 1 choice). I was very supportive of there winnings as well, and do hope possibly Mike Gaite will be the new EOY for 2016 if Alec doesn't win.

Mike Gaite is another person I think is very sweet, and am appreciative of his wisdom and support. Very easy to talk to, loyal, and very sweet. I thought it was wonderful how he endorsed his vote to me as his number one for EOY, and on the same year he was also running for it. That to me says a lot that he had faith in me, and I'm always grateful to him for that. He's a sweet and special - I do adore him a lot, and always will. He is one of the ones who never turned on me as he too has seen and been made aware of how nasty these members were towards me over such shitty and petty things that didn't make any sense.

So, you guys see how ironic this is of Daddy to strip something that most of the escorts felt I deserved to win in the first place.

What was an unfortunate, and horrible contributing factor as to why Daddy stripped the title even more was due to Steven Kesslar, and Tristian Baldwin(who both voted for me for EOY publically) have turned on me due to silly conflicts that happened in our friendship later after I won EOY. Both Kesslar and Baldwin voted for me, but were one of the main people who got my EOY stripped, and dismissed me over something that was so petty about someone coming to the PS event who they and other members did invite to attend this year, but then again did not want to attend due to the whole rentboy.com scandal. Tristian turned on me over stupid bullshit that makes me laugh because it's something that so petty(to most people heard his reasons and felt he's acting like a fucking 5 year old as his reasons are not valid reasons for him to trash me and turn his back on me for on the forum.

Sometimes I think Tristian takes his fame to his head a little bit tad too much. How he trashed me on personally and on the forum caused certain members to question his sincerity because what he jumped on me about was out of good intentions, and innocence - was nothing worth attacking and accusing someone over to say the least. A lot of members couldn't fathom what his beef was of me being giving to someone(it was mainly someone his clients didn't want to see attend the event - even though she was invited to attend in 2016). I understood where Tristian was coming from better when it explained it to me (which somewhat made sense), but I think Tristian turned on me on the basis of his clients complaining to him on how awful of a person I was to cheat winning EOY along with some other BS.

What makes him out to be hypocrite by turning on me like he did is him making me out to be a monster on something I was doing out of good intentions, and a lot of people who know me know that(which is sad being he voted for me to be EOY, and thought he knew of me to be a very generous, and kind-hearted person) I was being generous, and compassionate to someone who had a rough year, and wanted to see them have fun there in PS like they did the year before.

Trust me, I am very grateful how Tristian and Steven was very supportive in voting for me as EOY, but what I don't appreciate is they're nasty attitudes towards me that caused me to be no longer friends with neither one of them. Most of the members know I was not at fault for both Tristian and Steven's dismissal towards me - actually out of anything some of these people find it quite sad how they wronged me, and then call themselves being assholes by dismissing me over something they caused that was devastating in the first place by trashing me on a public forum. Ruins they're creditability with certain members as being petty and difficult. Never have I trashed them, and spoke always highly of them.

I just find it sad they find it entertaining, and fun to trash me. It's okay to trash me whenever they like, but its a crime if I ever do it to them. NO! That's not how the real world works. My theory is this - if you don't want to be trashed - don't do it to me. That's how the name of that game works. Don't go around being shitty by trashing other escorts(Especially one you voted as EOY), and then wanna be an asshole if called out on your offensive behavior. I don't tolerate such mess, and will get someone straight in a minute if one thinks they're gonna approach me in an intimidating way behind it. My motto is: show me respect, just like I show you respect. Don't be shitty to someone and expect them to still respect - oh, hell no. One has to be fucked up to think they can go around with such arrogance and expect others to respect and follow you after you've trashed them? Give me a fucking break, man.

Both men(Baldwin and Kesslar) complained to Daddy how they regretted they voted for me(for which Daddy granted they're wish along with many others who were or became Anti-JD). Like I said, me losing the award was due to personal interactions and relationships gone bad outside of the forum. Had NOTHING to do with me professionally as an escort. Winning EOY is based on your outstanding contributions with clients in the escorting community, not over personal vendettas outside of escorting. Daddy needs to get some priorities straight as that is gonna show himself contradicting himself as doing shitty things for the wrong reasons

However, I do know Daddy is getting a kick seeing me suffer being he wasn't for me winning in the first place, but now - it's my turn as come towards September 1st to watch him lose something valuable of his(LOL). I'll have the last laugh in revenge(as many member on the forum did when I was stripped of the title) when something of his will be stripped. Me and Daddy were close, and then after I won EOY he became literally a jerk, and been nasty to me ever since. Most people don't understand why give me the award and say it was based on votes, and then be shitty to the person who won? That's what makes Daddy so complicated and difficult to most people cause he puts me as EOY, but then dismisses me literally after I win.

It's wonderful to have connections in the law industry who have power to turn things around. Just doesn't pay to fuck innocent people or be mean to anybody you want just cause you can or feel you have the power to do so. There are a lot of bullies(including Daddy) on that site who have wronged me, and finally all the backstabbing, betrayal, and anger is going to come to close real soon.

A lot of people do know each other(personally) from the forum by having annual forum events where the members meet face-to-face gatherings. Daddy attended this years event in Palm Springs, and many people complained to him there on how they're upset Alec didn't win, but I did by cheating(which was is a fucking lie). Many members who voted for me know of Daddy's attendance there, and due to the massive amount of complaints he decided to strip of the title(quietly). I had a few people who attended that event tell me I was trashed and spoke badly about from both Kesslar, and several others, and they too will get what's coming to them eventually as karma can be a bitch as you get of what you put out.

I hope one day soon these people who have wronged me or others will come to they're right frame in knowing it doesn't pay to be nasty to others just cause you feel the need you can. It's not very pretty when that nastiness comes to bite you in the ass one day.

Thanks for the love and warm welcome to Boytoy.com, OZ, and other fellow members as I do feel welcomed, and thanks for letting me be open, and share on here what's been going on as many of my clients, and escorts wanted me to open up and give the reasons why certain circumstances of me losing the EOY, being banned, etc happened, and it's all due to Daddy being vindictive, but good things will come to those who wait, and my day of seeing to get even will come real soon.

I'm not a violent or evil person(and never will be - oh heavens no), but I do believe in karma, and have seen karma hit people pretty hard, and sometimes 10 times greater to what they have done to the person they wronged. So, it's just a matter of time when these people who've turned on me and wronged me will get what's coming to them as I'm a strong believer of the saying "What goes around - Comes around". 

[Guest JDDanielsxxx]

6 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

That said, tell your clients to post their reviews here.  No one here will take them down based on drama on a forum!

I will tell them to forward the reviews on here - most definitely. Thank you, OZ, and do appreciate your kind words, and strong support as it means a lot, and do feel welcomed here. :).

[Guest JDDanielsxxx]

3 hours ago, caeron said:

The forums over there have always had way too much nastiness and drama. 

I was a member many years ago and left because I got tired of all the nastiness.

Not sure why they are that way, but they are. Lots of people putting way too much emotion into stuff that isn't worth that much emotion.

For once it's good to see I'm not alone in my situation that others have got shitted on and burned too. I am amazed how members (including Daddy) will wrong you, talk shit about you, and wanna say after "get help".

Makes you wonder where in the fuck these people come from as they don't think with common sense by wronging you, and then make you out to be crazy when you call them out on it.

I find it quite sad I must say how people from the forum can conduct such corrupt behavior, and get away with it. Not with me as I will fight and win this battle, and wont stop til I do as these people need to learn how to do right, and stop fucking people over just cause they can. :(. Very sad!!

[Guest Larstrup]