TotallyOz Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Nearly half of gay men have been in an open relationship. Myself included. Do the numbers in this study surprise you? Single men who have no experience of open relationships: 27% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 41% said they can be bad for relationships. 32% said they weren’t sure. 33% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 53% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 29% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous.23% of the single men in our survey said they had some experience of open relationships. This is what they think: 37% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 28% said they can be bad for relationships. 35% said they weren’t sure. 24% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 26% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 22% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous.Of the men who are currently dating:When it came to men who are currently dating there wasn’t much difference in the stats in comparison to single gay men - both with/without experience of open relationships.Of the men who believe themselves to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership: 45% have been in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership for over three years. 20% have experience of being in an open relationship.Men, who believe themselves to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership, with NO experience of open relationships: 18% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 30% said they can be bad for relationships. 51% said they weren’t sure. 33% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 54% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 19% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous.Men, who believe themselves to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership, with SOME experience of open relationships: 50% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 12% said they can be bad for relationships. 38% said they weren’t sure. 18% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 20% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 15% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous. https://www.fsmag.org.uk/fs152-open-relationships-uncovered Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Erostotle Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 Oz, don't we already have an open relationship? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted February 6, 2016 Author Share Posted February 6, 2016 I personally, have never seen a gay monogamous relationship work. But, I'm a ho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members numerito Posted February 7, 2016 Members Share Posted February 7, 2016 I am in an open relationship, with certain rules and limitations. It has worked very well for 13 years (and counting), and we love each other like the first day, or probably even more... MsGuy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...