Badboy81 Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Serious question here... I know that many of the guys who post have long standing situations with some of the hot saunas boys but I would love to hear is anybody has had a long term REAL relationship with anybody they met in the saunas... Not, I see them every time I'm in the city but an established relationship that was mutual give and take.... Thanks for your feedback in advance.... Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted December 8, 2015 Members Posted December 8, 2015 I think you'd have to define what you think is a "real long-term relationship". There are men that I've known for years from other countries who I've met "under peculiar circumstances" that are closer to me than guys that I've met and dated in the very same city in which I live. I've had a few of them visit and stay with me on visas for longer than some gay and straight "relationships" last. One is actually staying with me in the States now! I know some gay and straight guys -- the incomes here are mixed, so all of these guys aren't wealthy, but they do tend to skew higher income than average -- who have met their spouses or partners in foreign countries, from saunas to beaches and resorts where locals look for rich tourists to discos to straight-up whorehouses. And one of these former "model"/whorehouse workers (a woman) is now the heiress to the fortune of a recently-deceased clothier! Most of the guys I know who are into this don't post here or anywhere online and probably wouldn't ever consider it, but this is more common than one may realize, particularly if you've got the resources and if it floats your boat. However, not everyone is into it or even dings guys and girls like this attractive so it's a small subset to begin with. My fairly extensive experience with rentboy types, sugar babies, etc. from all over the planet is that this (to find a sugar daddy and get off the market) is the dream of a lot of them worldwide -- much more than it is the dream of the daddies or the ones who are paying, who really just want to keep their options open. There are always exceptions to every rule, though. Quote
Badboy81 Posted December 8, 2015 Author Posted December 8, 2015 A committed relationship is an interpersonal relationship based upon a mutually agreed-upon commitment to one another involving exclusivity, love, trust, honesty, openness, or some other agreed-upon behavior. Forms of committed relationships are: close friendship, courtship, long-term relationships (LTR), engagement, marriage, and civil unions. The term is most commonly used with informal relationships, such as "going steady," but may encompass any relationship where an expressed commitment is involved. Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted December 8, 2015 Members Posted December 8, 2015 A committed relationship is an interpersonal relationship based upon a mutually agreed-upon commitment to one another involving exclusivity, love, trust, honesty, openness, or some other agreed-upon behavior. Forms of committed relationships are: close friendship, courtship, long-term relationships (LTR), engagement, marriage, and civil unions. The term is most commonly used with informal relationships, such as "going steady," but may encompass any relationship where an expressed commitment is involved. Well, shit, that Wikipedia "definition" covers practically every kind of mutually agreed-upon relationship or be air, from full monogamy to open arrangements, So, yes, using that obtuse definition, plenty of us have had those with sauna boys, rent boys, sugar babies and the like. Nice work if you can get it. Quote
Members tassojunior Posted December 8, 2015 Members Posted December 8, 2015 Many, if not most, of the sauna workers/escorts are not only "bisexual" but have girlfriends or wives and often children at home. Most of the rest intend to settle down with a wife and have children and a family. I recently saw a hard-core gay porno, fisting, pissing, etc. that also interviewed the American porn actors in it. Almost every one mentioned intending to eventually settle down with a wife and family. Ryan Rose even mentioned that a Rolex a fan had given him would certainly be passed down to his kids. We need to keep in mind that this is simply a job to these guys. It provides a service like an auto mechanic or plumber. You can certainly be good friends with your auto mechanic; but they're basically straight. Quote
Members SolaceSoul Posted December 8, 2015 Members Posted December 8, 2015 Many, if not most, of the sauna workers/escorts are not only "bisexual" but have girlfriends or wives and often children at home. Most of the rest intend to settle down with a wife and have children and a family. I recently saw a hard-core gay porno, fisting, pissing, etc. that also interviewed the American porn actors in it. Almost every one mentioned intending to eventually settle down with a wife and family. Ryan Rose even mentioned that a Rolex a fan had given him would certainly be passed down to his kids. We need to keep in mind that this is simply a job to these guys. It provides a service like an auto mechanic or plumber. You can certainly be good friends with your auto mechanic; but they're basically straight. Yes. Some people also need to stop applying Eurocentric / Americanized notions of sexuality and romantic relationships to everything. In other parts of the globe, men can have sex with other men -- even passionately -- and not consider themselves gay or even bisexual. If you're constantly seeking to imitate what's sold in certain modern-day cultures as valid love, romance and relationships, then you might miss out on Some great interpersonal relationships and experiences with other men (and women) in different parts of the planet. MsGuy 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted December 8, 2015 Author Posted December 8, 2015 Many, if not most, of the sauna workers/escorts are not only "bisexual" but have girlfriends or wives and often children at home. Most of the rest intend to settle down with a wife and have children and a family. I recently saw a hard-core gay porno, fisting, pissing, etc. that also interviewed the American porn actors in it. Almost every one mentioned intending to eventually settle down with a wife and family. Ryan Rose even mentioned that a Rolex a fan had given him would certainly be passed down to his kids. We need to keep in mind that this is simply a job to these guys. It provides a service like an auto mechanic or plumber. You can certainly be good friends with your auto mechanic; but they're basically straight. I agree that many of the sauna workers do consider themselves straight...whatever that is...but I have met some guys that were clearly gay....Regardless of if they were gay for pay only or gay all the time....my question was for anybody who had a conventional....whatever that is to you....relationship that went outside the scope of pay for play.... Quote
Members ihpguy Posted December 9, 2015 Members Posted December 9, 2015 How long term is LONG TERM? Badboy81 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted December 10, 2015 Author Posted December 10, 2015 How long term is LONG TERM? Let's think in terms of the Americanized term of long term relationship that does not involve pay for play..... Quote
Members docbr Posted December 10, 2015 Members Posted December 10, 2015 Well, an "americanized long-term relationship" between forme sauna worker/client where both partners work, have similar income and share almost the same responsibility in paying the household bills or caring for the kids is yet to be seen by me... let alone experience it. But I did know some boys that were "married" for 2-3 years, like the old days straight marriage were the wife was never intended to work or put any money on the house.. just care for the kids... but they never lasted until kids are born. MsGuy 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted December 10, 2015 Author Posted December 10, 2015 The question was simply has anyone staeted or heard of any romantic relationships that started after meeting a sauna guy....I guess not Quote
floridarob Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 The question was simply has anyone staeted or heard of any romantic relationships that started after meeting a sauna guy....I guess not I met a guy and was with him for about 5+ yrs then we drifted apart.... still friends though. And I'm not a sugar daddy nor capable of being one.... just Ask TomCal, lol Quote
Members Suckrates Posted December 13, 2015 Members Posted December 13, 2015 I suppose Love can be found and blossom anywhere with anyone, but I would be very leary if a boy for hire showed interest in a long term relationship with me... I cant help remembering that there is an old saying " you cant turn a hooker into a housewife", except on all those REAL HOUSEWIVES shows, but oh yes, they ARE all gold diggers pretty much ..... msclelovr 1 Quote
Members ihpguy Posted December 19, 2015 Members Posted December 19, 2015 2 1/2 years. SolaceSoul and ferrar 2 Quote
Members scott456 Posted January 12, 2016 Members Posted January 12, 2016 I was told that Brazilians can be fun lovers, but most are not husband material. Badboy81 1 Quote
Badboy81 Posted January 12, 2016 Author Posted January 12, 2016 I was told that Brazilians can be fun lovers, but most are not husband material. I actually agree with that sentiment...I think they would be fun and passionate lovers but not husbands/partners... Time shall see....people change with time and maturity.... Quote
floridarob Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 I actually agree with that sentiment...I think they would be fun and passionate lovers but not husbands/partners... Time shall see....people change with time and maturity.... hmmmm, how many of the whores here would make a faithful husband?? SolaceSoul 1 Quote
Members scott456 Posted January 13, 2016 Members Posted January 13, 2016 hmmmm, how many of the whores here would make a faithful husband?? I would if my good-lookig nice-body young and horny Brazilian husband is faithful to me. ???? Quote
