Bitterness Thread

[axiom2001]

You're so right! We're all here for the same reason, we all like handsome, hunky men. Drop the bitterness guys!

I am NOT bitter although I was the one who was very unnecessarily attacked. I am above being vindictive! But, Ojibear, I know what you mean and meant and completely agree! Now lets leave this page for Tom's recanting of his adventures during the last month of 2015!!!!!!

Admin Note: I moved all the posts after this one here so you can debate with each other and not mess up Tom's thread. I did it first with this tread and every one after.

[SolaceSoul]

I am NOT bitter although I was the one who was very unnecessarily attacked. I am above being vindictive! But, Ojibear, I know what you mean and meant and completely agree! Now lets leave this page for Tom's recanting of his adventures during the last month of 2015!!!!!!

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[mvan1]

I am NOT bitter although I was the one who was very unnecessarily attacked.

Now lets leave this page for Tom's recanting of his adventures during the last month of 2015!!!!!!

? ? Excuse me. The person who was attacked was SolaceSoul, not you. SolaceSoul was called stupid - which is an attack.

You were not attacked, you were corrected for insisting that there were no hustler bars in Rio and that there had never been any. You were also corrected for your statement about Central America. A correction is not an attack.

Speaking of corrections, do you really want to leave this page for Tom’s “recanting” of his adventures?

Definition of RECANT:

To make a formal retraction or disavowal of (a statement or belief to which one has previously committed oneself).

To make a formal retraction or disavowal of a previously held statement or belief.

Tomcal has made some very interesting and informative posts to this forum. I certainly hope that he does not retract anything from his previous reports that he has previously written.

He has been and remains a valuable asset to this forum.

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[axiom2001]

? ? Excuse me. The person who was attacked was SolaceSoul, not you. SolaceSoul was called stupid - which is an attack.

You were not attacked, you were corrected for insisting that there were no hustler bars in Rio and that there had never been any. You were also corrected for your statement about Central America. A correction is not an attack.

Speaking of corrections, do you really want to leave this page for Tom’s “recanting” of his adventures?

Definition of RECANT:

To make a formal retraction or disavowal of (a statement or belief to which one has previously committed oneself).

To make a formal retraction or disavowal of a previously held statement or belief.

Tomcal has made some very interesting and informative posts to this forum. I certainly hope that he does not retract anything from his previous reports that he has previously written.

He has been and remains a valuable asset to this forum.

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mvan1,

I met Tom back in 2003; he and I have communicated here publicly as well as via emails from time to time. I'm quite aware of his contributions and have always appreciated them and was concerned, a few months back, when he felt it necessary not to post anymore pics as he'd previously done when a poster here exposed one of the guys who work at the saunas. Thus, what I wrote did not pertain to what Tom had written lately but what generated the completely unnecessary venom of a few days which began with your attack on me, something which I am not bothered in my "knowing the source" of such things!

Perhaps NONE of the shit would NOT have occurred initially if you had NOT attacked me from what I thought pertinent to write in spite of the error which I made, an INNOCENT ONE at that!

So, from this juncture, I will not correspond with you via this forum or privately since you have found it necessary to remark about almost everything one has written that does NOT necessarily pertain to you per se as well as to other members!

*****I do hope that Tom and others continue to voice their views to enhance the experiences of others as well as to help if the person is seeking advice!

[axiom2001]

mvan1,

I met Tom back in 2003; he and I have communicated here publicly as well as via emails from time to time. I'm quite aware of his contributions and have always appreciated them and was concerned, a few months back, when he felt it necessary not to post anymore pics as he'd previously done when a poster here exposed one of the guys who work at the saunas. Thus, what I wrote did not pertain to what Tom had written lately but what generated the completely unnecessary venom of a few days which began with your attack on me, something which I am not bothered in my "knowing the source" of such things!

Perhaps NONE of the shit would NOT have occurred initially if you had NOT attacked me from what I thought pertinent to write in spite of the error which I made, an INNOCENT ONE at that!

So, from this juncture, I will not correspond with you via this forum or privately since you have found it necessary to remark about almost everything one has written that does NOT necessarily pertain to you per se as well as to other members!

*****I do hope that Tom and others continue to voice their views to enhance the experiences of others as well as to help if the person is seeking advice!

"Tom's RECOUNTING of...."

Mvan1, Stop trying to teach. Our fingers make mistakes; our minds out-think them at times.

Men, as you know, we ALL make mistakes, some more frequently than others! RECANT means to take back!

I KNOW the difference between the two words. Guess I will have to continue to proofread much more carefully since we have an editor present.

[Ojibear]

I guess I meant "Let's get back to having fun!" What's more fun than making out with a handsome Brazilian dude! As well, not all of us have the financial wherewithal to travel to these places and enjoy some outrageously hot sex. I love hearing about Tomcal's adventures. He's inspired me to do the same.

[mvan1]

mvan1,

Perhaps NONE of the shit would NOT have occurred initially if you had NOT attacked me from what I thought pertinent to write in spite of the error which I made, an INNOCENT ONE at that!

So, from this juncture, I will not correspond with you via this forum or privately since you have found it necessary to remark about almost everything one has written that does NOT necessarily pertain to you per se as well as to other members!

*****I do hope that Tom and others continue to voice their views to enhance the experiences of others as well as to help if the person is seeking advice!

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"Tom's RECOUNTING of...."

Mvan1, Stop trying to teach. Our fingers make mistakes; our minds out-think them at times.

Men, as you know, we ALL make mistakes, some more frequently than others! RECANT means to take back!

I KNOW the difference between the two words. Guess I will have to continue to proofread much more carefully since we have an editor present.

You are one sick pathetic character.

I have never communicated with you privately despite your rambling comment above.

On November 30, 2015, a poster to this forum asked a simple question concerning hustler bars in Rio.

http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/25400-hustler-bars-in-rio/

In response to the poster’s question, you answered with the following incorrect and inappropriate response:

"Hustler Bars?" During my travels to Rio de janeiro and from all of the "in-depth" reading that I've done and websites consulted, there has NEVER been mention anything about "hustler bars" but an extensive dialogue regarding saunas. So what's your "real question?"

One can hardly call your response to the poster correct or even civil. Your remark to him “So what’s your “real questions” borders on being rude.

I answered the poster’s response and thought that was the end of the matter.

However, you later came back, in response to my answer to the poster (who asked about hustler bars in Rio) with your rude and inappropriate remark to me “**mvan1, try to hold off in showing your "apparent, quasi omniscient answers to and about everything "South or Central America."

I responded to your inappropriate remark. My response caused the forum’s resident troll to come to your assistance. In the process, the resident troll eventually called a respected poster to this forum “stupid” which really says a lot about the troll.

According to your misguided thinking, you alleged that you were attacked by me because I corrected your inaccurate statements. However, the person called stupid, was not attacked (according to your misguided thinking) by the troll that came to your assistance. Your logic is non existent.

Even though you may find it difficult to accept, other people matter. The world does not center only around you and your behavior in this forum.

Other than in this specific post, show me where you were previously attacked on this site, by me. You can't, because it never happened, except in your mind.

Like I said in my opening remark, you are one sick pathetic character. Get a life!

[Ojibear]

What's all the hullaballoo. He mean "recounting" and accidently wrote "recanting". A honest mistake.

[MsGuy]

Dear Admin:

Tampa Yankee, your predecessor in office, created the 'Sandbox' for just such posts/threads as this.

I was kind of dubious of the idea at first but it proved to work remarkably well. Turned out TY knew his site and knew his posters.

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I sure do miss TY. :sad: Darn, and now I've made myself sad.

Not that you aren't a good guy too, Admin, I just miss Tampa Yankee.

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Come back, TY...

At least for a x-mas visit.

[Suckrates]

A FEUD THAT "GRANDMA" IS NOT A PART OF ????

UNBELIEVABLE !!!!

[MsGuy]

There's still time, Sucky.