Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 It was visible an hour or so ago, and now it is gone. What happened to it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 It was removed for moderator discussion. It may or may not return. When people start posting nasty comments to another poster, it gives us cause to remove. And, there were more than one posts in that thread that rose to the level of "you've got to be kidding me" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Since I was the main "instigator" if you will, I was wondering what happened. I never saw it as any nasty comments against anyone. An escort asked for some feedback. He got some that was handed in what was intended to be a friendly way. He took it differently and came across as a rather (IMHO) immature person. Again, in my opinion, to remove the thread would be a disservice as it shows a view of the escort's demeanor and how he handles certain situations. And this comes from someone who had hoped to hire Casper on his next trip to Vegas, so don't go thinking I am a hater. My first impression when I saw the thread gone was "an escort has made himself look foolish and now the thread disappears".. which sounds like something that would happen over "there" at the other site. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 When long time posters start calling another poster a pompous ass and other things, I'll remove that thread today and tomorrow. It was a thread that was gutter and while some good comments in the thread (thus why we left it so long) it was going in the wrong direction. And, if over there removed a thread that was nasty and berating another poster, good for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 I guess some post was made which i didnt see, because I witnessed no pompous ass calling or such. Damn.. I always miss all the fun.. And as far as "over there" goes, it is pretty obvious that that site is much more pro escort than pro client.. so something which makes certain escorts look bad goes mysteriously MIA.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 it is pretty obvious that that site is much more pro escort than pro client.. Really? Did you miss all the Ben and Scott threads? When do we ever shut down threads? It is very rare. We have always tried to be equally fair to all. We have never been more pro escort more than pro client. IMHO But, others may see it differently. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Again, one of my posts gets misunderstood. I said that "the other site--DADDYS" is much more pro escort than pro client.. Not this site. This site is one where fairness reigns. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RA1 Posted October 10, 2013 Members Share Posted October 10, 2013 I think we all are dealing with pros (and amateurs). Best regards, RA1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Again, one of my posts gets misunderstood. I said that "the other site--DADDYS" is much more pro escort than pro client.. Not this site. This site is one where fairness reigns. Yep, my apologies! You are right. I read that 2nd that is this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest zipperzone Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 I guess some post was made which i didnt see, because I witnessed no pompous ass calling or such. Damn.. I always miss all the fun..I am the one who posted the comment that Oz found to be offensive enough to take down the thread. IMO "pompous ass" is mild. To me it seemed that his reaction to the critique he asked for sounded pompous. Look up the dictionary definition of pompous and I very much doubt if you will conclude that it is so negative as to prohibit its use on a message board. However this "long time poster" is quite willing to cease posting if he is causing such consternation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lucky Posted October 10, 2013 Members Share Posted October 10, 2013 Casper will be sorely missed by some. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Lucky,. are you referring to THIS Casper...... or are you referring to THIS Casper....??? or could it even be THIS Casper?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest justme1369 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Casper will be sorely missed by some. Really...why???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lucky Posted October 10, 2013 Members Share Posted October 10, 2013 He had his fans, Oz being one of them. And of course, there was Casper himself. Given time, we all might have come to know and like him. He just got off to a bad start, not knowing the terrain he was taking, I think that's one reason why many people lurk before they post, so they can get a better feel for the forums and the way people conduct themselves...or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 I don't think Casper is a bad person. I still find him to be very sexy overall. Sure, there are a couple of physical characteristics that I might not be a fan of, but given the opportunity, i would still hire him. The reviews that he has at Daddy's are all positive. I think maybe we just got off to a bad start. Everyone deserves a second chance.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suckrates Posted October 10, 2013 Members Share Posted October 10, 2013 OY, this whole thing gives me a raging headache, and isn't worth all the time being spent on it. ! TotallyOz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 I am the one who posted the comment that Oz found to be offensive enough to take down the thread. IMO "pompous ass" is mild. To me it seemed that his reaction to the critique he asked for sounded pompous. Look up the dictionary definition of pompous and I very much doubt if you will conclude that it is so negative as to prohibit its use on a message board. However this "long time poster" is quite willing to cease posting if he is causing such consternation. Oh, my dear if but you were the only one. Others took your post and ran with it. It reminded me of a time when I was back in high school and I wore a beautiful pair of Jordash jeans and it had a little horse on it. The problem was Gloria Vanderbilt had the same jeans but hers had a little swan on them as a symbol near the pockets. This made the jeans almost the same and one girl called my Jordash jeans Gloria jeans and for the rest of that school year I was called Gloria. Every speech I gave the words I heard whispered was "Gloria" "Gloria" "Gloria" You one comment did fuel the flames and then others decided to take it and go with it. Sorry but I closed the thread down completely as opposed to hearing the words "Gloria" again and again. Am I too sensitive? Perhaps. I don't like any words being used to project negativity against someone. Was that a reason to close that thread? Yes. Was it such a harsh violation that I ban members or warn them? No. Is closing the thread reason for anyone to get angry and upset? No. Does anyone need to leave posting on the site over this? No. Did I wake up to hearing the word "Gloria" in my dreams this morning? Yes. But, I heard them and woke up to two cute Thai boys in my bed and said Fuck it. I love my jeans! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MsGuy Posted October 11, 2013 Members Share Posted October 11, 2013 "Did I wake up to hearing the word "Gloria" in my dreams this morning? Yes. But, I heard them and woke up to two cute Thai boys in my bed and said Fuck it. I love my jeans." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 maybe they were just singing to you, Oz.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest zipperzone Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 Oh, my dear if but you were the only one. Others took your post and ran with it. You one comment did fuel the flames and then others decided to take it and go with it. OZ - Your statements above are incorrect. I was not the 1st or the 2nd to post a "negative" comment. So to say that others took my post and ran with it is wrong. If "nothing negative" can be posted here, then I feel the sight is becoming very like Daddy's. Possibly your ire was caused because you happen to like Casper. So be it - that's your business (as is this site). But if has come to the point where only "Goodie Two Shoes" opinions are allowed then I fear for its continuance. By the way, I fail to see the relevance of the Gloria paragraph, but perhaps I am just obtuse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lucky Posted October 11, 2013 Members Share Posted October 11, 2013 I wish we could all just have a "do-over" on the Casper thread. We need and want escorts to post here, but he needed to test the waters a little more gently. And we could have responded a little more gently. Was today a full moon or some other outer space event that caused boo-boos on ghosts? TotallyOz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 OZ - Your statements above are incorrect. I was not the 1st or the 2nd to post a "negative" comment. So to say that others took my post and ran with it is wrong. If "nothing negative" can be posted here, then I feel the sight is becoming very like Daddy's. Possibly your ire was caused because you happen to like Casper. So be it - that's your business (as is this site). But if has come to the point where only "Goodie Two Shoes" opinions are allowed then I fear for its continuance. By the way, I fail to see the relevance of the Gloria paragraph, but perhaps I am just obtuse. I never said that you were the first or the second or even the third to post a negative comment. I said that your statement was taken and others ran with it after you. You may have missed that but the words were repeated after you. The negativity started before and we left it up until I felt it was going into the gutter. Sorry if you feel that is like Daddys. It has nothing to do with me liking the kid. It has to do with me feeling we have to treat all others in a kind and appropriate way. Debate as much as you wish but debate the topic. This was hard to do in this thread as it was about one escort and he brought the subject up. Still, there are ways to say things and ways that are inappropriate. It amazes me that you might see this as disallowing anything but Goody Two Shoes comments. We have always kept threads alive on this site that would not stand on any other site. However, there are limits. We are not the mean girls site. Never have been. Never will be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suckrates Posted October 11, 2013 Members Share Posted October 11, 2013 People ARE who they are, and the criticism of Casper was probably a good thing in that it allowed us to see his personallity in the most spontaneous and raw sense. Perhaps some who might have considered hiring him for his looks might reconsider BECAUSE of his response and demeanor ? The bottom line is that Casper created a poll and sought to get feedback, but apparently only wanted ONE kind of feedback: POSITIVE. The world is Black AND White, not just white, but its how you deal with the "black" that tells the most about YOU. What more is there that needs to be said about this. Even Casper appears to have tuned OUT on this topic. We should follow his lead. If you want to hire him, contact him in private..... This doesnt need to be Mardi Gras ! As far as Oz jeans analogy goes, "Nothing ever came between ME and my Calvins" ! TotallyOz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members TampaYankee Posted October 11, 2013 Members Share Posted October 11, 2013 Oz was merciful in withdrawing this one from the arena, IMO. Clearly this thread was going nowhere good. It came off the rails right away with Casper's reaction to lurker's post. Several people got their say and Casper got to reply. As I said, it was unfortunate but this thread was going nowhere good and it was clear that Casper was not well seasoned for navigating his way in this type of venue. To let it go on would have been unseemly. The tone of lurker's comments was appropriate, if misunderstood, as were most others appropriate, and not intended to be offensive. Casper is young, pretty and... well, young. I suspect he is a great escort, a lot of fun and will mellow with age. lookin and JKane 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
