Guest EXPAT Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Do you like sharing the mattress or do you kick out the guy after you're done. . . Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I love prefer cuddling and conversations to sex so I will definitely share the mattress... And it won't get too messy either.. Quote
TotallyOz Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I am not much of a cuddler. I much prefer to sleep alone. That does not mean I do. When in Thailand, BF 1 always sleeps with me. He is a cuddler. I can't sleep well with someone wrapped around me. So, I bought some of those long pillows and put them in the bed. I'll let him cuddle for a few minutes and then let him use the pillow the rest of the night. It works well for both of us. MsGuy, flipao and Theolover 3 Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Ha if I were your bf.. That pillow would be gone the very next day! But I like the fact that you know how to compromise and make things work. lol.. I am not much of a cuddler. I much prefer to sleep alone. That does not mean I do. When in Thailand, BF 1 always sleeps with me. He is a cuddler. I can't sleep well with someone wrapped around me. So, I bought some of those long pillows and put them in the bed. I'll let him cuddle for a few minutes and then let him use the pillow the rest of the night. It works well for both of us. Quote
Guest PasadenaCA Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Keep him. I might wake up and want to top him again. Failing that, we can go at it agin in the morning. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Oh my you are so energetic.. Keep him. I might wake up and want to top him again. Failing that, we can go at it agin in the morning. Quote
Guest PasadenaCA Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Oh my you are so energetic.. I learned it as a kid with tubes of toothpaste: I want to squeeze out every morsel. Quote
Members Suckrates Posted October 5, 2013 Members Posted October 5, 2013 It would certainly ALL Depend on the Guy. Some are worth a second helping, and some you just want to be GONE ! Quote
Guest Hoover42 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I really love cuddling...but not while I'm trying to fall asleep. Quote
Members RA1 Posted October 5, 2013 Members Posted October 5, 2013 I don't mind cuddling while I am trying to fall asleep but only while I am sleeping. Probably the same as what Hoover 42 meant. Best regards, RA1 Quote
Guest CharliePS Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I don't like to sleep with anyone, except my dog. Quote
Guest PasadenaCA Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 It would certainly ALL Depend on the Guy. Some are worth a second helping, and some you just want to be GONE ! If he has a penis, it's very hard for me to say good-bye! Quote
Members Theolover Posted October 6, 2013 Members Posted October 6, 2013 I can not get enough cuddling so sharing would be great for me Quote
Members TampaYankee Posted October 6, 2013 Members Posted October 6, 2013 I don't like to sleep with anyone either. However, when I did overnights, and I did quite a few at one time, I never slept alone. I wasn't paying that money for a good night's sleep. Also, when I had an ongoing relationship, sleeping together was the price to pay for some of the benefits that relationship offered. Everything is a trade-off. JKane 1 Quote
