Public Displays of Affection

[TotallyOz]

I walked into a bar last night and turned around and walked right back out. There was a guy laying on top of a boy making out with him with a few of the other boys watching and rolling their eyes back. The only seat left in the place was next to this man. I turned around and walked out.

 

I have seen many times when customers play with the boys and jack off them. I guess that is also something I have never done. I hope that a large tip is given when such things happen. But, when is too much actually too much to take place in the middle of a bar? What is the line or is there one?

 

BTW: We were not on a second floor or even in a dark room. This was a well-known bar and around 10PM at night and many other customers were in the place.

 

 

[Guest buaseng]

I walked into a bar last night and turned around and walked right back out.

 

BTW: We were not on a second floor or even in a dark room. This was a well-known bar and around 10PM at night and many other customers were in the place.

Don't be a spoil sport. Do tell which bar so we can all go and watch the 'show'.

 

[dapitt]

I agree with you GT. I've seen this a few times myself and I mostly find it quite repulsive.

[Gaybutton]

I mostly find it quite repulsive.

 

So do I. This evening I was in a bar and personally witnessed a 'farang,' who was already sitting with a boy and publicly fondling him, call another boy over. He had the boy stand right in front of him, in full view of everyone, and he pulled down the boy's underwear and started sucking him. The boy obviously didn't know how to respond and was as embarrassed as he could be, although several other boys were sitting around publicly masturbating.

 

That's not the kind of bar I enjoy, and I was out of there as soon as I saw that going on. I almost wish I stayed a bit longer to see if the 'farang' at least tipped the boy and how much, but I didn't.

[Guest stef]

I almost wish I stayed a bit longer to see if the 'farang' at least tipped the boy and how much, but I didn't.

 

 

Probably not or if he tipped, probably not what the boys deserved, which is the saddest part of all of this...

[Guest]

I agree with you GT. I've seen this a few times myself and I mostly find it quite repulsive.

 

That makes two of us. I have grown use to the guys who sit in the bars and jack off the guys or the falang who tells them to jack off into a cup or even the guys who foam at the mouth when they see a tongue piercing (oops that one is me). My only hope is that when these things happen, like Stef, I hope the boys are well compensated. They deserve it and a higher than normal tip should not only be expected but demanded. I know the boys are not good at demanding anything but try to go to a NYC restaurant and under compensate a waiter and see who follows you out of the bar.

 

I know one falang who tips the boys 500 baht for a jack off. To me, this is quite fair and many of the boys are happy to oblige. I remember the old Crazy Dragon when the guys would all jerk off to a hundred baht. Times have changed for sure but money is money. There are just places you expect to see this and places you do not expect to see it. When I sit in a gogo bar, I normally don't expect to see it. I can deal with the guys jerking themselves off but to see a farang give head or making out is just not something I want to sit by. I don't protest and throw a fit. I just simply ask for my bin and leave.

[Guest laurence]

I do agree, there is a time and a place for everything and the dance floor is not the place. Actually there are places in some clubs for more overt displays of affection however they are hidden from prying eyes.

It is sad when a miserly tip is given in exchange for these close encounters but likely that is the case. Yes, 100 baht is a cheap tip but considered generous by some farang. Farang gasp when I tell them of my tipping in such sordid instances however I save on the off fee, the short time room, the travel costs, etc and pass my savings on to the boy(s).