Guest parisrio2000 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I imagine so...I've had a difficult time trying to get my few gay friends to understand it though. They get quite offended when I explain it to them. The reason for me is simple. I guess it doesn't have to do with straight or gay as such. But I like young, hot, muscular, manly guys who are sexually dominant, and unfortunately these guys are straight, or at least in my experience they've all been straight. I know it's theoretically possible to have a completely masculine gay guy. But I've personally never met one. There's always something "off" somehow. And even in the off chance a few exist, what are the chances they're also going to be hot enough to turn me on? It's not a theoretical question. It's just practically never happened that I've met a gay guy like this. This puts me in a difficult situation. I really only have a couple of options. The first is to try to seduce a straight guy. This is a very complicated, risky, and at times tedious project that has only a rare chance of success. But it can be done. Many are willing to experiment under the right conditions. Of course it's hard to keep anything going beyond a couple of times. The other option is to pay. Here the possibilities are greater but we run into a problem. It's simply not part of the culture in the US or Europe for straight guys to take money. I guess it used to be part of working class culture, but working class culture is gone, at least among white people. I prefer white guys, but they're basically inaccessible by this route. In the US it's generally "downlow" black guys who are willing to take money to be on top, or, increasingly because of shifting demographics, Latin guys. My solution has been to travel to Brazil. I can find pretty much what I want there, young, handsome, muscular straight dudes, who in classical Mediterranean fashion, think that it's totally OK to take money to be on top, and that this doesn't make them "gay." I tend to agree with them because I think the real distinction is between sexually dominant and submissive or passive, and not gay or straight. Anyway, my taste is built in a way that my hands are tied. I have to travel far away to get what I want. I think the only other solution is to be incredibly rich in the first world...then you WILL have access to certain straight guys who do gay4pay, especially in the bodybuilding scene. But it's very hard to break into that. I'm wondering how many other men have tastes similar to my own. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 For me if a guy smells good and clean.. I enjoy being with them... Straight or gay doesn't matter that much.. I sometimes for married guys who take good care of his family and love children.. But they are taken so I just dream meeting someone like them.. In that sense I am into straight guys a bit... Quote
caeron Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 You're hardly alone. I like sexually dominant guys too. The idea of being some straight jock's bitch is hot. However, fantasy and reality aren't the same thing, and I learned to broaden my taste and give my imagination more free run in the bedroom. So if the guy I have isn't exactly what I want, I can still enjoy myself. But my tastes are finicky enough that I hire because I don't want to sleep with anybody who wants to sleep with me! I wish you luck. I think you'll spend a lot of time frustrated though. Straight guys are straight because they like pussy, and no matter how much you tuck, you're still not fish! Quote
Members RA1 Posted February 14, 2013 Members Posted February 14, 2013 You almost make me think I am not gay. Most of the folks I know basically fit into your description or at least my version of it. Perhaps the fact that I not only realize but appreciate the fact that the brain is the largest sex organ goes a long way for me and for him. Maybe I am just too easy to get along with. Do it the way I want and we both will be happy. Interesting folks come in all sizes, colors and sexual orientation, so appreciating others is not "different". If you want an easy and inexpensive way to have relationships, long or short, I do not have that answer and it has little to do with paying an escort. Wives, BF's and others always cost something, if just reciprocity. Best regards, RA1 Quote
Members JKane Posted February 14, 2013 Members Posted February 14, 2013 I have very little use for straight guys: They don't give head worth shit, they don't know how to prepare/clean up for the fucking they beg for, and then they can't actually take it. flipao and KYTOP 2 Quote
Guest josephga Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I'm okay with most guys as long as i'm attracted to them and they are attracted to me and single. I wouldn't want to knowingly be with anyone married or in a relationship regardless of what they look like Quote
Guest parisrio2000 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I have very little use for straight guys: They don't give head worth shit, they don't know how to prepare/clean up for the fucking they beg for, and then they can't actually take it. You sound pretty mad, dude...u mad? Quote
Members RA1 Posted February 14, 2013 Members Posted February 14, 2013 I can't speak for JKane but he sounds pretty sane to me and I don't think he is angry. Best regards, RA1 Quote
BiBottomBoy Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Straight guys are yummy and hot and awesome. Quote
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I am a firm believer, personally, that no matter what they CLAIM their sexuality is, if they are having sex with another guy, then they are at the very least BI-Sexual Quote
Members Lucky Posted February 17, 2013 Members Posted February 17, 2013 "I know it's theoretically possible to have a completely masculine gay guy." Duh. That's what kept me from gay bars for so many years. I liked masculine men, but the gay guys who were obvious were a bit fem, to say the least. This is early 70's. SO when I finally went to Dugan's Bistro in Chicago (January, 1975), I was stunned beyond belief at all of the masculine guys I saw, and sad to learn that I had missed out on my mistaken assumption. I have tried to make up for lost time since. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 Oh my Lucky.. "Liked" so do you like a little bit of fem guys these days??? Quote
BiBottomBoy Posted February 17, 2013 Posted February 17, 2013 There is just something about straight acting guys that is super hot. Quote
Members boiworship Posted February 18, 2013 Members Posted February 18, 2013 Just imagine what it's like at my local gym! Sigh. They have no idea that they're being visually savored. Quote
Guest EXPAT Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 It's just my thing, but I won't hire anyone who claim that they are "straight". I don't even like tipping straight go go boys either. It's a real turn off for me. And for those who believe that if they are doing it they must be at least bi-sexual don't necessarily understand the power of the $. Some guys will do anything - even badly - for money. So I'm the complete opposite of the original poster of this thread. Quote
caeron Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 It's just my thing, but I won't hire anyone who claim that they are "straight". I don't even like tipping straight go go boys either. It's a real turn off for me. And for those who believe that if they are doing it they must be at least bi-sexual don't necessarily understand the power of the $. Some guys will do anything - even badly - for money. So I'm the complete opposite of the original poster of this thread. Despite my fantasy, I do the same. Escorts claiming to be straight may well be, I don't care. But what it usually means is that they won't do a ton of stuff and cop a lot of attitude. I'm not paying for that. I imagine I've hired straight guys in Thailand, but if they performed what I asked, I didn't care. I'm sure when I eventually get to brazil I'll feel the same. JKane 1 Quote
Members Suckrates Posted February 18, 2013 Members Posted February 18, 2013 Are straight guys the ones that wear those little paper name tags that say "I'm Str8" ????? Quote
Guest josephga Posted February 18, 2013 Posted February 18, 2013 It's just my thing, but I won't hire anyone who claim that they are "straight". I don't even like tipping straight go go boys either. It's a real turn off for me. And for those who believe that if they are doing it they must be at least bi-sexual don't necessarily understand the power of the $. Some guys will do anything - even badly - for money. So I'm the complete opposite of the original poster of this thread. I agree I once had a massage therapist I saw once a month. str8 guy. I always got a strictly therapeutic massage but he also offered erotic going as far as letting clients suck him off. I asked him once why if he thought of himself as str8? He told me because he had a daughter in another state and that he had child support to pay and that erotic massages paid more. He currently had a girl friend and had no interest in men what so ever outside of paying him extra for a release and sucking him off. Quote
Members RA1 Posted February 18, 2013 Members Posted February 18, 2013 Just imagine what it's like at my local gym! Sigh. They have no idea that they're being visually savored. I can and do imagine. Do you bring a Hibachi so that you can "savor" them extensively? Best regards, RA1 AdamSmith 1 Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I feel some kind of sexual tension among people when a hot guy walks in the gym.. Wonder how many people are really 100% straight whatever a Gallup poll says.. Just imagine what it's like at my local gym! Sigh. They have no idea that they're being visually savored. Quote
Guest parisrio2000 Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I feel some kind of sexual tension among people when a hot guy walks in the gym.. Wonder how many people are really 100% straight whatever a Gallup poll says.. I think only a small minority is exclusively straight, just like only a small minority is exclusively gay. But lifetime habits, conditioning, pressures, other things, usually leads to them thinking they're one way or another. And everyone, gay or straight, can appreciate a truly beautiful man or woman. Quote
AdamSmith Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 I can and do imagine. Do you bring a Hibachi so that you can "savor" them extensively? Best regards, RA1 Perhaps, like Superman, boiworship has "heat vision." Activated by sights such as he describes. Quote
