The boys in Temple, are they on drugs ?

[Guest danielrich]

Hi,

Apologies for my broken English. I'm 26 years old guy, a lurker in this forum for sometime, read all the wonderful experiences in Prague, and decided to went for a weekend in Prague last week.

There in temple bar, I met a really sweet boy, who is 21 years old. He was in the number of porn movies and the first time I saw him, I already knew it's him. So I went with him for a night. Long story short, a night become 3 nights, so basically I spent my whole weekend with him. I kinda fall in love with this kid, he has something that I long for.

I gave him quite amount of money, and bought something to him as well. The time I got home, I miss him like crazy. Stupid is it ? fall for an escort ?

Anyway, I want him to come to Paris to visit me. So I bought him the tickets to come to stay with me for a week on 26th Feb. And today, he SMSed me that he has no money, and there is no clients in the club and ask me to send him some money so he can going home for the weekend. I know its stupid, I sent him 2000 czk via western union, and never heard back anything. No even thanks or whatsoever. He even told me he needs the money before he can come to Paris! I was so sad, I thought he is a nice guy.

I know its stupid of me, I want to help him to get out from the escort stuff and want him to get on his feet again, but that probably too childish of me, who am I to help him? It just make me sad to see him in that club. Probably the drugs stuff make him do all this escort thing ? is his on drug ?are all the boys in temple on drugs ? because I had gave him quite amount of cash, and by next day all the money is almost gone. Do he needs to pay something to temple bar ?

how is this temple bar works ? I heard the boys who live in the temple bar has to pay 200 czk a day, and by night need to go down to temple bar to work till 3 a.m ? if not they have to pay penalty or something ?

I really like this guy, and really want to help him. Do you think he want to gets help ? or the drugs thing make him stay ? I really confuse.

Apologies again for my mumbling. I hope I can get advise.

Many thanks,

Daniel Richard.

[caeron]

While magical things can happen between an escort and a client, for every one that does, there are a thousand stories of poor fools being taken in by handsome young hustlers. I very seriously doubt you're one of the lucky rare ones...

Who knows what happened to the money you gave him? Maybe he spent it on drugs, maybe he bought clothes and toys, maybe he just put it in the bank and lied to you and said he spent it all so you'd give him more. So far, his strategy of telling you he needs money seems to be working since when he asks, you give it to him.

He was working in a bar where he exchanges his sexual favors for your money. It wasn't you he wanted, it was your cash. He may be a nice guy, he may like you, but don't mistake the nature of the relationship.

If you stopped paying your mechanic, even if you liked each other, he'd stop helping you.

I think the problem is that lots of us who hire have an emotional need that escorts can fill. That's ok as long as we're very honest with ourselves about that. If we aren't, then we can fool ourselves into believing that the escort's act is real. It isn't.

I think you're letting your emotions cloud your judgment. It has happened to all of us at one time or another. But step back and examine the escort's behavior dispassionately. It sure looks to me like he's taking you for your money and doesn't give a damn about you. Either that, or he's a complete train wreck and you are better off staying well away.

If he's into drugs and trouble, you aren't going to save him. The only person who can save him is himself.

Good Luck.

[Guest tomcal]

Caeron is right on the money! Your story is not new or even that uncommon. I used to tell first time visitors to Rio that the boys should all be up for academy awards for best actor! they are experts at making you feel good, sexy, wanted, desirable, etc. the first question you should ask yourself is if you met this guy at a non hustler bar is would it be likely that he would have any interest in you if you were not paying him? always remember that it's business between you and the guy! and sorry to say this but believe very little about what they tell you about problems that require money.

when some of the Americans in Brazil have told me that they and some boy are now BF's and in love and there is a 30/40 year age difference, I always say "why don't you tell him that you just lost all you money in the stock market, but at least you still have each other!" and see how many milliseconds it takes his ass to hit the door! :-)

[Guest]

I know its stupid of me, I want to help him to get out from the escort stuff and want him to get on his feet again, but that probably too childish of me, who am I to help him? It just make me sad to see him in that club. Probably the drugs stuff make him do all this escort thing ?

He is an adult who can make his own choices. I think it's best not to get emotionally or financially involvesd, othewise you get a lot of stress and expense, for no benefit.

[Guest danielrich]

thanks guy. you gave a very good advise. i should keep my distance now. its just hard to accept, i need time to get over it.

[pauleiro]

Hi,

There in temple bar, I met a really sweet boy, who is 21 years old. He was in the number of porn movies and the first time I saw him, I already knew it's him.

What is his porn name in movies ?

There are not so many porn actors at this time in Temple.

Ricco Luna is one of them

There is also the Bel Ami model Alan Connery, but he is closer to 30 than to 20 (he had a role in Bonbon from Bel Ami)

[Guest rimchair]

While magical things can happen between an escort and a client, for every one that does, there are a thousand stories of poor fools being taken in by handsome young hustlers. I very seriously doubt you're one of the lucky rare ones...

If you stopped paying your mechanic, even if you liked each other, he'd stop helping you.

Words were never better said here. Thank you Caeron!

In Dr. Joseph Itiel's "Sex Workers As Virtual Boyfriends", he has a chapter titled "Sugar Daddies, and Their Ungrateful Sons". It should be read by all. Daniel, you are not the first, nor are you alone.

Welcome to BoyToy!

[Guest rimchair]

Caeron is right on the money! Your story is not new or even that uncommon. I used to tell first time visitors to Rio that the boys should all be up for academy awards for best actor! they are experts at making you feel good, sexy, wanted, desirable, etc.

From elsewhere in cyberspace, this is over 2 years old:

‹The ancient Greek word for an "actor," ὑποκριτής (hypokrites), means

literally "one who interprets";[2] in this sense, an actor is one who

interprets a dramatic character or personality. (from wikipedia)

Escorts and actors do have parallels:

- all perform and entertain

- some are worthy of Broadway, some should never go on stage

- some are good, some bad, some are truly award winning. Some are

clearly Hollywood has-beens

- some boost their rate after a glowing review from a critic

- some have fans (fanatics) who fly them around on private (PUBLIC

charter) jets to curry favor

- some cooperate / collaborate on certain productions

- some get out knives to slit the competition for gaining their next

role

- some have problems with fame, fortune, drugs and gambling

[axiom2001]

thanks guy. you gave a very good advise. i should keep my distance now. its just hard to accept, i need time to get over it.

Danielrich, this was a good lesson for you in terms of controlling your "two heads." The larger one is always the better one to use in this case. Sorry you spent so much money and did not get the positive return in the end.

Yes, you should from now on enjoy the moment and do nothing afterwards if asked for money!!

[Guest danielrich]

Thanks guy. Also I came to known that he is on drugs. Methamphetamine or crystal meth. So young and he is ruined his life. I suppose most guys there uses it as well. If not how they going to have sex with older guys where most of them are straight.

[Guest rimchair]

Methinks the two drugs you mentioned prevents them from getting an erection. Best to leave them alone.