Guest EXPAT Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 For those bottoms who don't know what to do. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gcursor Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 You know what? I think there should be some instructions on this. A little label (similar to the one on cigarettes) saying for people to be prepared for it to HURT LIKE H**L...because it does and I know from first-hand experience! 've done it a few times with experts and non-experts and I tell you that it's as much pleasure for me as filling out my taxes WHILE having a root canal done! Then I started to find out on my own that the "pain" is part of the allure I think for others. The pain gives people the "pride" in taking such a big ....you know. However I have learned that it's not my cup of tea. I think I can still be gay even if I don't like this or maybe they'll revoke my card now. If they do revoke my card then I want to say good bye to all my friends here because you're still the nicest people I know even if they revoke my gay card which would revoke my rights to all things gay as well. I had this threatened to be done once before when somebody saw my apartment and it was a MESS...apparently I'm supposed to be very clean and tidy as well. gcursor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suckrates Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 Somehow I think Bottoms KNOW what to do and dont need any Guidance..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 suckrates, I disagree. Common sense is not so common afterall. Some "beginners" do not know think of making sure things are clean "down there". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamSmith Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Somehow I think Bottoms KNOW what to do and dont need any Guidance..... Thank you! I thought I was a top. Until I met Andre, a total top. First, I fell in love. Then, I tried to bottom a couple of times, but couldn't. Then, I bought a bottle of poppers (butyl nitrite, which these latter days is all we mortals can get). THEN I discovered how to take him. Being in escort-love with him was an important part of it, trusting him and so forth, to be able to open up, even with the poppers. Then, after two experiences with him this way, I discovered how to transfer the emotional and physical opening-up experience over to any occasion. In a few instances some guys would just be so big physically that I would bleed a little bit, but I could still take them and get a lot of pleasure out of it. And one needs to say NOT pleasure bred of pain; just pleasure of prostate massage. P.S. Then I noticed the poppers were diminishing my penile sensation, so I threw them away. Exelsior! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest EXPAT Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I find most bottoms don't know what to do unless of course they are escorts. They usually do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members flipao Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 thank you Expat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lookin Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 . . . I discovered how to transfer the emotional and physical opening-up experience over to any occasion. MsGuy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...