How do the Thailand Boy Clubs work?

[Guest lurkerspeaks]

Can someone please describe exactly how the boy clubs work? Starting when you enter the club until the point when you leave the club or "finish" with the boy...kinda a step by step "how to hire a thai boy from one of the clubs" ... thanks in advance for helping out a wanna be newbie such as myself. I am sure there are many others who are curious as well..

[firecat691614502759]

Can someone please describe exactly how the boy clubs work? Starting when you enter the club until the point when you leave the club or "finish" with the boy...kinda a step by step "how to hire a thai boy from one of the clubs" ... thanks in advance for helping out a wanna be newbie such as myself. I am sure there are many others who are curious as well..

First your term Club can be all encompassing depending on the type.

1. Go Go Clubs are what most of us consider stripper clubs. Boys are on display on stage in briefs and shuffle in some , dance in others . They rotate around a stage so that all the customers can see all the boys. Each Boy has a number attached to his briefs. Theses bars have a wait staffmade up of waiters and those referred to as Mamasans. It varies from club to club how useful they may be in answering your questions as what a boy is willing to do. The best way to proceed is when someone catches your eye you ask the boy to sit with you. You buy him a drink from which he gets a commission. English skills will vary but most of the boys will understand the various sexual acts you might ask about. If the boy is a match then you will off him which means you pay the Bar for the privelage of taking him home. This fee will vary from city to city and Bar to Bar. Just about everyone in the Bar can be offed. Mamasans, waiters, bartenders, dancers. The fee changes accorrding to how valuable the employee is. So you will have to pay more for a bartender then a dancer because there are many dancers and few Bartenders.

The off fee will be between $10-$20. If you are inexperienced it is best to agree with the boy prior to offing him what his fee will be. Again depending on the city, the Bar and what you want this can vary from $33-$65.. This is for short time of an hour or two. Overnights need to be agreed toin advance and many boys do not like them because they would rather return to the Bar for another customer or go out with friends. Some however may be Happy to stayl all night in an air conditioned room with Hot water etc for a small additional fee.

2. Beer Bars. These bars are what we would refer to as neighborhood bars where the staff can also be offed. These boys have their clothes on so a different experience. The fees are basically the same although some bars have Freelancers where you will not pay the Bar an off fee.

3. Massage Houses. Here you will have a selection of boys to select from usually in work out gear or shorts in the gym. They will line up for you and a Host will usually be able to answer your questions about their likes and dislikes. The massage fee is based on type and time and will be clearly stated. Most will tell you the minimum Tip the boy expects and this climbs according to the services performed.

You may get a Boy who is very talented in the massage and mediocre in SEX or vise versa and sometimes you get both. Some place the Boy will Shower with you and in some not.

The thing about Thailand is the Thais really don't seem to care about age or weight in most cases. You need to keep in mind that sometimes you will get a boy who is very new to the game and you may be get others who have been doing it for years.

As in most countries respect is what the boys want. Take your time and get to know them before jumping into bed. Ask about their families even if conversing is difficult. That caring will come back to you in bed.

One other thing never forget these boys are doing this to pay their rent, eat and in many cases send money home to their families. Do not waste their time. If you have a boy sit with you and you decide not to take him , he still deserves a Tip depending on the amount of time he spent with you. While he is with you he is off the market so be aware of this. Also don't think the boy appreciates being taken to Western restaurants , movies etc in lieu of a proper tip. Sure he may enjoy these things but money is what he needs. If you choose to be generous in other ways that is your decison and does not change the amount of Tip you should give.

The $ figures I referred to are approximately the amounts in Dollars. You will in all cases be using the local currency of Thai Baht.

[Lucky]

If you have a script by which you expect things to happen, be prepared for things to go off script. Sometimes for the better, sometimes not. But the adventure of wondering what might happen rather than knowing for sure can add to the fun.

[Guest lurkerspeaks]

thanks Lucky, the tutorial is much appreciated. Is there a cover charge at any/most of the clubs?

In Rio, most of the "boys" claim to be top only at first discussion, but later will agree to bottom. Is there a similar type occurance in Thailand? Is there a majority of the boys who do one (top or bottom) over the other? Unlike the Rio Saunas, the boys must accompany you back to your hotel or other off premise site, correct? there is no place on site for your encounter to occur? So if you are one of those who want to "make the most" of the trip and engage several boys per evening, you would be better off staying closer to the strip club area??

[Lucky]

Actually, the excellent tutorial was by firecat69, who is very knowledgeable on all things Thailand, and one of those upon whom I rely for advice. My Thai experience, while it began 25 years ago, may not be as up to date as his. But I will say that there is something for everyone and that you will find tops if you so desire, but more likely bottoms. If you want to be a butterfly, and go for one man to the next, well, then, yes, stay in the heart of things. But you can meet people anywhere. The Thais are friendly and often outgoing.

In the past, bars have often had a convenience room, such as it is. But I haven't seen one in years. They were most often pretty ratty. Massage parlors, of course, are more often on site than off. But I think you will prefer the comfort of your own room, should you choose a place that allows guests. Most gay places do.

And, don't forget, there are many excellent tourist attractions. They became that way because they are truly interesting or offer something for the tourist to experience, such as a crocodile farm, that he will not see at home. You can spend all day touring wats, or temples. And if massage appeals to you, then you could spend all day getting massaged without ever taking your clothes off. Thai massage gets more enjoyable the more you experience it. Foot masseurs are everywhere. And, if you are a butterfly, then by all means visit a butterfly farm.

[firecat691614502759]

thanks Lucky, the tutorial is much appreciated. Is there a cover charge at any/most of the clubs?

In Rio, most of the "boys" claim to be top only at first discussion, but later will agree to bottom. Is there a similar type occurance in Thailand? Is there a majority of the boys who do one (top or bottom) over the other? Unlike the Rio Saunas, the boys must accompany you back to your hotel or other off premise site, correct? there is no place on site for your encounter to occur? So if you are one of those who want to "make the most" of the trip and engage several boys per evening, you would be better off staying closer to the strip club area??

LOL Even if you gave credit to my friend Lucky , I will add something to what he said. Tops are much easier to find in Bangkok then Pattaya. But there are still Tops in Pattaya and don't worry about all those stories about Asians being small. You will find some Big Cocks easily. Since it will be your first trip you should stay in an area close to the action. Otherwise you will get lost and waste a lot of time. This is easy to do in either Bangkok or Pattaya and always remember to reserve a Double with 2 people. Almost no chance a visitor can be turned down under this circumstance!!!

[Guest lurkerspeaks]

much apologies, Firecat.. I was half asleep and misread the names.. I sincerely apologize and I do appreciate all of your help.

[axiom2001]

First your term Club can be all encompassing depending on the type.

1. Go Go Clubs are what most of us consider stripper clubs. Boys are on display on stage in briefs and shuffle in some , dance in others . They rotate around a stage so that all the customers can see all the boys. Each Boy has a number attached to his briefs. Theses bars have a wait staffmade up of waiters and those referred to as Mamasans. It varies from club to club how useful they may be in answering your questions as what a boy is willing to do. The best way to proceed is when someone catches your eye you ask the boy to sit with you. You buy him a drink from which he gets a commission. English skills will vary but most of the boys will understand the various sexual acts you might ask about. If the boy is a match then you will off him which means you pay the Bar for the privelage of taking him home. This fee will vary from city to city and Bar to Bar. Just about everyone in the Bar can be offed. Mamasans, waiters, bartenders, dancers. The fee changes accorrding to how valuable the employee is. So you will have to pay more for a bartender then a dancer because there are many dancers and few Bartenders.

Firecat, what you wrote was most interesting for this "oldbie," as well, although I know and knew how these facilities operated.

If I manage to return to Thailand within the next two years, I will review everything that has been written here at this site! Thanks again!

The off fee will be between $10-$20. If you are inexperienced it is best to agree with the boy prior to offing him what his fee will be. Again depending on the city, the Bar and what you want this can vary from $33-$65.. This is for short time of an hour or two. Overnights need to be agreed toin advance and many boys do not like them because they would rather return to the Bar for another customer or go out with friends. Some however may be Happy to stayl all night in an air conditioned room with Hot water etc for a small additional fee.

2. Beer Bars. These bars are what we would refer to as neighborhood bars where the staff can also be offed. These boys have their clothes on so a different experience. The fees are basically the same although some bars have Freelancers where you will not pay the Bar an off fee.

3. Massage Houses. Here you will have a selection of boys to select from usually in work out gear or shorts in the gym. They will line up for you and a Host will usually be able to answer your questions about their likes and dislikes. The massage fee is based on type and time and will be clearly stated. Most will tell you the minimum Tip the boy expects and this climbs according to the services performed.

You may get a Boy who is very talented in the massage and mediocre in SEX or vise versa and sometimes you get both. Some place the Boy will Shower with you and in some not.

The thing about Thailand is the Thais really don't seem to care about age or weight in most cases. You need to keep in mind that sometimes you will get a boy who is very new to the game and you may be get others who have been doing it for years.

As in most countries respect is what the boys want. Take your time and get to know them before jumping into bed. Ask about their families even if conversing is difficult. That caring will come back to you in bed.

One other thing never forget these boys are doing this to pay their rent, eat and in many cases send money home to their families. Do not waste their time. If you have a boy sit with you and you decide not to take him , he still deserves a Tip depending on the amount of time he spent with you. While he is with you he is off the market so be aware of this. Also don't think the boy appreciates being taken to Western restaurants , movies etc in lieu of a proper tip. Sure he may enjoy these things but money is what he needs. If you choose to be generous in other ways that is your decison and does not change the amount of Tip you should give.

The $ figures I referred to are approximately the amounts in Dollars. You will in all cases be using the local currency of Thai Baht.