Guest tomcal Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I have mentioned in previous posts about Brazil that the gay/straight lines are kind of blurred with sauna guys. The majority of sauna guys I have been with have either girlfriends or wives and yet do everything your gay boyfriend will do sexually! A simple explaination given to me years ago was that they don’t consider themselves gay if they are having sex with girls. I used to caution first timers to Brazil that if they have a great time to a guy one night and another guy the next night, don’t assume on the third night you can do a 3 way and it will be great ! What a guy will do with you alone in a room is not what he will do with another sauna guy in the room because he doesn’t want to appear gay! I learned a long time ago to ask the first guy I was interested in to tell me who he would like to do a 3 way with and if I also was attracted to then we would go up to a room. They will always pick someone they are comfortable blowing you or getting fucked in front of, and you will have a fun time. I bring this up because today I got a message from the huge dicked twink I posted a pic of recently. He asked me when in January I was coming back to Rio because he is looking for guys that we would want to do 3 ways with! He than sent me links to the Orkut or facebook profiles of guys with comments like “really nice ass” or ”I heard he’s really a good fuck” or “ I want him”. Sauna guys don’t hook up with each other..because they are not gay! Lol so the only acceptable way for them to have sex with a guy they are attracted to is to say the Customer wants to have sex with the two of them! A distinct minority of sauna guys are self described as gay! Maybe 10%. But the 90% who are self described as straight will usually always bttm…maybe not the first time with you but definitely by the 2nd or 3rd encounter, if they are convinced you will not tell that to the other sauna boys! Quote
Members ihpguy Posted December 1, 2011 Members Posted December 1, 2011 I have mentioned in previous posts about Brazil that the gay/straight lines are kind of blurred with sauna guys. The majority of sauna guys I have been with have either girlfriends or wives and yet do everything your gay boyfriend will do sexually! A simple explaination given to me years ago was that they don’t consider themselves gay if they are having sex with girls. I used to caution first timers to Brazil that if they have a great time to a guy one night and another guy the next night, don’t assume on the third night you can do a 3 way and it will be great ! What a guy will do with you alone in a room is not what he will do with another sauna guy in the room because he doesn’t want to appear gay! I learned a long time ago to ask the first guy I was interested in to tell me who he would like to do a 3 way with and if I also was attracted to then we would go up to a room. They will always pick someone they are comfortable blowing you or getting fucked in front of, and you will have a fun time. I bring this up because today I got a message from the huge dicked twink I posted a pic of recently. He asked me when in January I was coming back to Rio because he is looking for guys that we would want to do 3 ways with! He than sent me links to the Orkut or facebook profiles of guys with comments like “really nice ass” or ”I heard he’s really a good fuck” or “ I want him”. Sauna guys don’t hook up with each other..because they are not gay! Lol so the only acceptable way for them to have sex with a guy they are attracted to is to say the Customer wants to have sex with the two of them! A distinct minority of sauna guys are self described as gay! Maybe 10%. But the 90% who are self described as straight will usually always bttm…maybe not the first time with you but definitely by the 2nd or 3rd encounter, if they are convinced you will not tell that to the other sauna boys! I have a different view. But then my boyfriend is not a sauna guy. Or a few from the past were not either. So I am coming(as it were) from a another point of view. Quote
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Personally, I don't care how the sauna boys classify themselves. As long as they are attractive, interactive, and able to "perform" the required task, they can call themself anything they want and go home to whoever they want to go home to. Quote
Guest tomcal Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Personally, I don't care how the sauna boys classify themselves. As long as they are attractive, interactive, and able to "perform" the required task, they can call themself anything they want and go home to whoever they want to go home to. Lurker, I agree with you 110%!!!! Quote
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Lurker, I agree with you 110%!!!! I am a realist.. When in Rio, I am not expecting to enter into a long term relationship, I am simply enjoying the time and company of the friendly natives. I say, enjoy it for what it is. Quote
Guest Conway Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Good point. About a year ago at Lagoa, I tried to convince two athletic muscles boys, each of whom that I had had a great time with to come upstairs so that one could fuck the other for me. Both declined rather vociferously because neither wanted to bottom for the other despite the fact that both had bottomed for me the night before. Quote
Members axiom2001 Posted December 11, 2011 Members Posted December 11, 2011 Personally, I don't care how the sauna boys classify themselves. As long as they are attractive, interactive, and able to "perform" the required task, they can call themself anything they want and go home to whoever they want to go home to. I'm with you Lurker! As long as the guy can give me a stellar and memorable time, I could not give "a rat's ass" as to how he classifies his sexuality! Quote
