Guest hitoallusa Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I've decided to go with a post on the other forum unless Daddy is against it. I want to respect his site and don't want to disturb its peace there so I emailed him whether I can post something that could possibly lead to some disputes among members. I don't know how it will pan out but my purpose is to prevent a similar thing from happening again. I surely don't understand why it has to be like this and want to hear what other people have to say about it. I am not trying to damage someone else's image or reputation. Just want to know why and what could I have done differently. If Daddy doesn't want my post there then will Oz or Tampa will accept my post here? What about others? Should I just drop the whole thing? Please let me know. At least I want to give my side of the story. I think that's fair. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Daddy just said no. I respect his decision so I guess I will get the same response from here too. I am a bit relieved though that somehow I don't have to feel guilty about not going forward with it. Quote
TotallyOz Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 If Daddy doesn't want my post there then will Oz or Tampa will accept my post here? What about others? Should I just drop the whole thing? We allow any post that doesn't violate our rules. My suggestion is to make your post and let us see it. Quote
Members alanalt Posted October 27, 2011 Members Posted October 27, 2011 Two things, hitoallusa, 1) I'm extremely confused. Are you talking about a continuation of this thread? Because I thought you had come to the conclusion (and the correct conclusion, IMO) to let it go. And If you're talking about something else, then please explain what... 2) Of Course Daddy said no. How could you expect otherwise??? He's a control freak who can't stand the thought that someone else's freedom of expression might cause his board the slightest bit of upset. That's one of the reasons I don't post there any more... Alan Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 It's someone else. Not that person in that thread. I know who that person is now. Well I don't want to blame Daddy for it. I really don't know how it will pan out at that site and I don't want to cause a big fight here or there. I am not saying it will do that but you never know how things will end up even though you start with a good intention. I hope it can go away. I hope misunderstandings can be resolved. But I want to know what really happened too. That's my intention. Two things, hitoallusa, 1) I'm extremely confused. Are you talking about a continuation of this thread? Because I thought you had come to the conclusion (and the correct conclusion, IMO) to let it go. And If you're talking about something else, then please explain what... 2) Of Course Daddy said no. How could you expect otherwise??? He's a control freak who can't stand the thought that someone else's freedom of expression might cause his board the slightest bit of upset. That's one of the reasons I don't post there any more... Alan Quote
TotallyOz Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I don't want to cause a big fight here or there. A big fight? Why? I doubt that will happen. Quote
Members alanalt Posted October 27, 2011 Members Posted October 27, 2011 The problem with talking in code is that while you know exactly what you're talking about, other people have no clue... I'm sorry, hitoallusa, but I'm definitely in the latter category in this case, so it's impossible for me to give you any advice, as requested in your OP. And my other point was that to request Daddy to pre-approve anything that remotely sniffs of controversy is pre-doomed to failure... Alan Quote
Members BigK Posted October 27, 2011 Members Posted October 27, 2011 I'd welcome any post you wish to make. Quote
TotallyOz Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I'd welcome any post you wish to make. Me too. I stood my friends up for dinner tonight waiting. Quote
Members marcanthony Posted October 27, 2011 Members Posted October 27, 2011 Me too. I stood my friends up for dinner tonight waiting. LOL. I hope they weren't cute Quote
Members MsGuy Posted October 27, 2011 Members Posted October 27, 2011 We allow any post that doesn't violate our rules. My suggestion is to make your post and let us see it. A big fight? Why? I doubt that will happen. Me too. I stood my friends up for dinner tonight waiting. Hmmm....Storing up blessings in heaven again, are we Mr. OZ? Quote
TotallyOz Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Hmmm....Storing up blessings in heaven again, are we Mr. OZ? LOL Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Lol thank you MsGuy you made me laugh too. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Sorry Oz I am still writing and getting advice from several people. I will send it to you first when I'm ready. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 lol.. That guy a bit looks like me.. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I always tell escorts not to stay In this business too long. The things that have been going on are sad and unfortunate. I wonder if one truly cares about other people whether these things can be perpetrated. Thank you all for your support in the process. If I did some thing wrong then I cared about other people too much and trusting people I should not trust. As I have said that time will care of things and truth will come out no matter how hard one tries to hide it. I am sending a manuscript to a writer and a journalist so they can write a book about it. I think it's a better approach since I want to help to improve the business. It's not to bring it down or damage other people's reputations. It's sad and depressing to witness what i have seen in the business and things have been going on the other forum. I can see why so many people fall in the business if you are not strong enough to handle them. I am not angry or mad at anyone. Just sad that I can't do more to help. I guess that's my limit. Quote
TotallyOz Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I always tell escorts not to stay In this business too long. I am not sure why it is a bad thing to stay in the business. I don't get it. Some people are great at their job and if an escort is good at it, why would anyone tell them to get out of the business? Would you do the same for a lawyer? doctor? web designer? I had an ex who was a hooker in Brazil. He came to the USA and was a hooker in USA. He is now almost 45 years old. He is still a hooker. I asked him once was that all he wanted to do with his life? I told him I'd pay for him to go to cooking school or photography school or anything else he wanted. His response was, "some people are born to be hookers. I love it. I like the hours and I like the money and I'll do it as long as I can." It is not my place or anyone elses place to recommend he get out of the business. IMHO Quote
Guest CharliePS Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Although I consider myself reasonably knowledgable about these two websites, I still don't have a clue what this thread is all about. Hitoallusa seems to be writing in a code of allusions intended not to to be understood by most of us, so I wonder why the thread is here in the first place, and not limited to a private communication between those who would understand the point. Quote
Members Lucky Posted November 12, 2011 Members Posted November 12, 2011 Although I consider myself reasonably knowledgable about these two websites, I still don't have a clue what this thread is all about. Hitoallusa seems to be writing in a code of allusions intended not to to be understood by most of us, so I wonder why the thread is here in the first place, and not limited to a private communication between those who would understand the point. And going over to Daddy's for insight is no help either. I think what we have to expect is that certain people have saintly qualities, and thus they can speak in language that only other saints can understand. Insofar as most of us are not saints, then we cannot understand it, but those who are, such as Totally Oz, have no problem understanding it. Apparently Daddy is not a saint either as he didn't get it. And, if you are wondering, I don't get it either, which will disappoint my mother if she were still alive because she was certain that I was a saint. Quote
Guest gcursor Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 i have been following it just fine Charlie. i mean we dont want Hi to come out and name names and all that as he would fear repercussions by escort/board admins/clients. Im not sure what he did to make somebody upset PERHAPS he peeved one of the "golden elite" and they decided to conduct some type of cloak and dagger smear campaign on him. That is just what I got so far from keeping up with all the posting so far. Although I consider myself reasonably knowledgable about these two websites, I still don't have a clue what this thread is all about. Hitoallusa seems to be writing in a code of allusions intended not to to be understood by most of us, so I wonder why the thread is here in the first place, and not limited to a private communication between those who would understand the point. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I'm not being judgmental about the profession but have seen too many things go wrong. Smart ones I don't have to worry about. They do well and become very successful. They take good care of themselves and stay healthy! They eventually make enough money one way or another. I have seen some escorts who are really smart that can out smart exceptionally talented clients and other escorts too. So I agree with you Oz in that sense some are born to be escorts and some good things can cone out of it too. But they can't stay in the business forever. They have to think about after they retirement. I know it's none of my business but That's my point. I am not sure why it is a bad thing to stay in the business. I don't get it. Some people are great at their job and if an escort is good at it, why would anyone tell them to get out of the business? Would you do the same for a lawyer? doctor? web designer? I had an ex who was a hooker in Brazil. He came to the USA and was a hooker in USA. He is now almost 45 years old. He is still a hooker. I asked him once was that all he wanted to do with his life? I told him I'd pay for him to go to cooking school or photography school or anything else he wanted. His response was, "some people are born to be hookers. I love it. I like the hours and I like the money and I'll do it as long as I can." It is not my place or anyone elses place to recommend he get out of the business. IMHO Quote
