Guest JamesIvory Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 note: By same type relationship I am referring to two tops or two bottoms in love with each other. I was at a dinner party this weekend and the subject of same type relationships came up. Some felt that they would be able to live happily in one while the other side did not feel it could work over all. The latter group felt that after a while the lack of sexual satisfaction would crumble the couples bond. Personally I think it would be hard to make this type of relationship work. I'm wondering what others think? Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 If there is true love then I think it will work. note: By same type relationship I am referring to two tops or two bottoms in love with each other. I was at a dinner party this weekend and the subject of same type relationships came up. Some felt that they would be able to live happily in one while the other side did not feel it could work over all. The latter group felt that after a while the lack of sexual satisfaction would crumble the couples bond. Personally I think it would be hard to make this type of relationship work. I'm wondering what others think? Quote
Guest Allessio77 Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 I am optimistic about two tops....two bottoms might be a little tougher. Quote
BiBottomBoy Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 For me it would fail miserably. I don't find other bottoms sexy at all and have no desire to fuck them or get head from them. I want a man who is the one who fucks me and orders me to blow him. Quote
Guest CharliePS Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Love is not dependent on sexual position. Despite romantic bullshit to the contrary, what is most important in a long-lasting relationship is not sexual compatibility, but similar values, tastes, interests, community property, and agreement about who is responsible for walking the dog. Preferred sexual position IS important, however, when hiring an escort or having an affair. Quote
Guest hitoallusa Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Aww that is so sweet. Love is not dependent on sexual position. Despite romantic bullshit to the contrary, what is most important in a long-lasting relationship is not sexual compatibility, but similar values, tastes, interests, community property, and agreement about who is responsible for walking the dog. Preferred sexual position IS important, however, when hiring an escort or having an affair. Quote
BiBottomBoy Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Love isn't dependent on sexual position, but it would pretty hard for me to have a long term monogamous relationship with a guy who didn't top me and I'm not sure I could get it up to penetrate him because topping doesn't turn me on at all. Quote
Guest CharliePS Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Love isn't dependent on sexual position, but it would pretty hard for me to have a long term monogamous relationship with a guy who didn't top me and I'm not sure I could get it up to penetrate him because topping doesn't turn me on at all. What does monogamy have to do with a longterm love relationship? Quote
Members RA1 Posted September 8, 2011 Members Posted September 8, 2011 Whatever the two of you want it to. Best regards, RA1 Quote
caeron Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 Love isn't sex. I'm married to my best friend, a woman. I could not live without her, she is my soul mate. We just don't fuck. Quote
TotallyOz Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 I think it is possible to work if sex is not your primary target. Or, let me clarify penetration is not your primary interest. I know of many men who only love oral sex and that is enough for them. Whether top or bottom, they should be able to suck dick. If not, there is a problem. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship but it sure does help. My first LTR was with a Brazilian in NYC. He was the top and I was the bottom for about 6 months. When I found out he had lied to me about something, I never let him top me again. I then became the top and he the bottom. That lasted another 4 years. It was possible for both of us and it became my preference in relationships. But, if the switch had not happened, I don't think either of us would have lasted another 3 months. Quote
BiBottomBoy Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 I like that you turned the tables on him and made him your bitch after you caught him lying. Quote
TotallyOz Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 I like that you turned the tables on him and made him your bitch after you caught him lying. Well, I am versatile. I can fuck any cute guy. But, I can only get fucked by someone I really like and trust. It ain't easy for me. So, it is usually only reserved for guys I really like and know well. Quote
BiBottomBoy Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 Interesting. I can fuck women, but with men I can only be the bitch because the whole point for me of being with men is doing things having things done to me that I can't do with women. Hence why I really don't get into guys blowing me, but am more than happy to blow them. Quote
