Crossing The Sexual Line

[BiBottomBoy]

Hitoallusa brought up an interesting point in another thread. He finds the entire idea of sex with a woman to be "weird" and could never go through with it. I know a lot of guys feel that way. I also know that I have several friends who identify as gay, but who also fuck girls every so often if the situation is right or they are bored or if they haven't gotten cock lately.They are not bisexual, because they vastly prefer sex with dudes, but just find that girls can get them off in the right context. Yet, I also have other friends who are completely horrified at the idea of dealing with pussy in any way shape or form.

So, I'm curious about the guys here - is pussy a take it or leave it thing with you, or something you hate or something you are happy to deal with when you get bored of your right hand?

[TotallyOz]

I think most people are in the grey area of sexuality. I prefer men and love to have sex with them. But, if a beautiful woman throws herself at me, I am most likely to say what the hell and give it a go.

I was totally straight until I was 28. Well, at least in public. I was a closet case who still dated women for show and men on the downlow. I got over that and now date men mostly. I do have one lady I dated in the last 10 years and still enjoy her company from time to time but she wants something more monogamous. That is not a word I am good at especially when I now that I'd be attracted to her brother.

[Guest hitoallusa]

I could have gotten through with numerous arranged marriages if I could have sex with a girl. Just couldn't and stepped out of it at the last moment.

[Guest Anton]

Hey BiBottomBoy,

Interesting question. When I started escorting I had never had sex with a female and I always wondered how things would go if I got a request from a woman or from a m/f couple. LOL, most of all I wondered if "my thing" would go up. When I had my first m/f request the solution was simple: just concentrate on the male first. FUN, because this was what the females preferred anyway.

I think I had 4 m/f requests. In one case the female also wanted a good fuck. LOL, at first I thought "okay, so how do I do this?" That solution was also simple: if I'm with a guy I explore his butt with my fingers first, so with the female I first explored her pussy with my fingers.

I must say that I liked to fuck a pussy. It feels very different from fucking a butt, but variation is always nice!

What I like less is that most females take more time before actually wanting sex. I'm not really into doing an effort for it, but apart from that I don't mind the variation.

In short, happy to deal with it.

Best, Anton.

[Lucky]

The physical act of fucking a woman is pleasurable enough, but I gave it up once I learned the joys of gay sex. I have no desire to return to it, but once in awhile I have wondered about some of those Thai women- they seem pretty sexy. Then I usually wonder if they have a brother.

[BiBottomBoy]

The main problem with fucking girls is that it can take them fucking forever to cum. That, and many of them seem to think their pussies are made of gold.

[caeron]

Did pussy a few times before I came out - about 30 years ago. No interest now. I'd rather just masturbate to get off if pussy was the only option.

It doesn't gross me out, just doesn't do anything for me. I managed it back then because back then I could rub up against a streetlamp and get horned up...

[Guest hitoallusa]

Thanks guys it's good to know that I'm normal. I thought from time to time that I should have born as a girl because of this. It's good to know that I'm not alone.

Did pussy a few times before I came out - about 30 years ago. No interest now. I'd rather just masturbate to get off if pussy was the only option.

It doesn't gross me out, just doesn't do anything for me. I managed it back then because back then I could rub up against a streetlamp and get horned up...

[BiBottomBoy]

The whole point of this website is that we are not alone and that we are here to support ourselves no matter what bullshit society throws at us.

Every post on this site is a big hug to every other person who posts and reads here.

[caeron]

We're all across the spectrum. I'm just a kinsey 6 in inclination. Guys do it for me, girls don't. I'm a bit envious of those who have wider tastes than mine.

But oh well, we're wired how we are.

[BiBottomBoy]

I figure as long as there is a light switch a mouth on my cock has no gender. And also, anal doggy style with a girl and anal doggy style with a twink, is there that much difference in the dark (particularly if you own ear plugs?)

[caeron]

Well, for me, the stimulation is as much mental, if not more so, so knowing it was a girl would be a turn off, even if the lights are out.

YMMV.

[Guest epigonos]

This is really an interesting question. I have known since I was a teenager that guys turned me on sexually and gals didn’t. I played the straight game throughout my twenties. I fucked a number of women and was really bad at it. I could only get off thinking about some guy. Starting in my thirties I simply stopped even trying to fuck women. I started relying on my right hand and gay porn. I have never come out as I taught for thirty plus years in a very conservative Southern Californian school district. Once I retired I began hiring escorts and have never looked back. I have not bothered to come out simply because I’m comfortable with my life as it is. It is really difficult to explain to guys who have been having gay sex all their lives what it is like for someone who hasn’t. I am still thrilled by the pure joy of being able to erotically touch another man body. The joy of kissing another man, of holding his soft or hard cock in my hand or mouth is still trilling almost beyond description. Just the sight of a well build near naked male body can send me into rapture. No I definitely DO NOT intend to return to fucking women.

[BiBottomBoy]

If you'd been good at fucking women do you think you would have ended up doing both dudes and babes?

[Guest epigonos]

In answer to your question Bibottomboy I would have to say absolutely NOT. I have NEVER found female bodies a turn on -- too soft and curved. I have ALWAYS been turned on by the hard angular bodies of men. In fact NOT, even, all male bodies turn me on. I have ALWAYS been attracted to the bodybuilder look. I lust after huge male chests, biceps/triceps, lats, abs, thighs and tiny waists. In my eyes there is no such thing as too big. I am aware that many guys are turned off by the steroid bodybuilder look – NOT ME – I love it.

[BiBottomBoy]

Nothing wrong with that. Gym bunnies need love too!