Guest gcursor Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 So here's a question Some years back (probably 5 or more now) , I used to go to strip clubs a lot. Typically when I would go, I would tip the dancer usually about 20 dollars each time when they were dancing. Now I'm big on "customer satisfaction" and "great customer service" in all aspects of life SO I was a little upset if I did this and the stripper would never come over afterwards to say hi or anything. I'm very shy and this was my way of saying, "Hi...you're hot! Could I meet you?" Honestly this is the only way I could show attention to the strippers...sometimes I would be so fearful of talking to them that I would have the bartender give the stripper a tip for me....honestly I'm still very much like that today when I see guys too. So was I expecting too much by hoping that they would come over and say Hi? One time I gave a stripper 100 dollars. Unfortunately when I did that, I immediately got paged. Now I didn't show the stripper how much I gave him (I NEVER made it a point of showing the strippers how much I was giving them. I figured they could puzzle it out on their own by looking at their tips and through process of elimination. ) but I had to respond to my page. So I rushed out the bar to the valet and drove in to the office. A few months later, the bartender told me that that guy was always looking for me whenever he would dance but I rarely showed up at the strip club and when I did, it would never be on the same night as he did. I never did find out what happened to him or where he went. I just consider it as something in life that was never meant to be because of circumstances. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Not really sure what your question is, but here is my answer anyways.. If you want to get a stripper's attention, it is better to tip him many smaller bills than one large bill. Most strippers/dancers/drag performers do not look at each and every bill they receive so they do not know the denomination..but if someone is tipping them many bills (even if they are all singles), that person will normally get the performer's attention. One "trick" I have done is if you want to tip a larger bill, like a 20, take it and fold it up to make a ring, then go to the dancer and slip the "ring" on his finger. A good dancer will remember who gave him the ring.. even if he does not look at the denomination immediately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KYTOP Posted July 5, 2011 Members Share Posted July 5, 2011 So here's a question Some years back (probably 5 or more now) , I used to go to strip clubs a lot. Typically when I would go, I would tip the dancer usually about 20 dollars each time when they were dancing. Now I'm big on "customer satisfaction" and "great customer service" in all aspects of life SO I was a little upset if I did this and the stripper would never come over afterwards to say hi or anything. I'm very shy and this was my way of saying, "Hi...you're hot! Could I meet you?" Honestly this is the only way I could show attention to the strippers...sometimes I would be so fearful of talking to them that I would have the bartender give the stripper a tip for me....honestly I'm still very much like that today when I see guys too. So was I expecting too much by hoping that they would come over and say Hi? Since the US changed their currency some years ago, the $5 bill and up have the denomination in LARGE BOLD print in one corner on the back side of the bill. When tipping a larger denomination I will fold the bill long ways with the bold amount showing up toward the dancer as he bends down to get the tip. The dancer will almost always then come to say hi after they leave the stage. Also sometimes I will give the dancer 2-$5 dollar bills instead of a ten, or 4-$5 bills instead of a Twenty. Placing each bill seperately, and getting more of his time on stage and attention. It worked again very well at Swinging Richards/ Atlanta when I was there in May. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TotallyOz Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I tend to agree that giving small bills is better than giving larger ones. It all depends on the club though. In Montreal, at Taboo years ago, you could lay the bill on the stage and they would collect it at the end. They always took notice of the amount and if a good time, you bet your ass they would get dressed and come over for a drink. Like you, I have tipped 100 bucks before. I am not sure it got me anywhere that several 5's or 10's would not have gotten. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members eeyore Posted July 5, 2011 Members Share Posted July 5, 2011 Not really sure what your question is, but here is my answer anyways.. If you want to get a stripper's attention, it is better to tip him many smaller bills than one large bill. Most strippers/dancers/drag performers do not look at each and every bill they receive so they do not know the denomination..but if someone is tipping them many bills (even if they are all singles), that person will normally get the performer's attention. One "trick" I have done is if you want to tip a larger bill, like a 20, take it and fold it up to make a ring, then go to the dancer and slip the "ring" on his finger. A good dancer will remember who gave him the ring.. even if he does not look at the denomination immediately. I really like this approach. Now I just have to learn how to fold a bill into a ring. I've been working at it all morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gcursor Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Yeah..talking about it as a ring Eeyore. I wonder how impressed somebody would be if a 1000$ bill was used as a cock ring? What a new and novel idea! Gcursor I really like this approach. Now I just have to learn how to fold a bill into a ring. I've been working at it all morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members stripfan Posted July 6, 2011 Members Share Posted July 6, 2011 One time there was this dancer who was stunning and totally my type. He was very popular and appeared to have a sugar daddy at the bar so he always seemed to be occupied and of course on those rare occasions when he did walk around to see other customers, I would usually be busy or someone would scoop him up for a lap dance before he made his way around to me.... After a couple of visits with not really any contact, I decided to do something I have done a couple times in the past. I took a $100.00 up to the stage and when he bent down to get it, I ripped in half and told him to come see me after his dance to get the other half. He did come see me and we became very friendly with each other during the course of his time working (this was at Boardwalk when it was much better than it is now). Unfortunately he is now back in Brazil but he just emailed me the other day asking if I remembered how I got his attention. I have used that trick a couple of other times to get a lap dance and also for a private...but it has been a while. I saw it originally in a movie and it worked. The first time I used it was with an escort for a private. Not sure if all dancers would like that type of approach but I was so damn frustrated and really wanted to meet this guy! The advice on here by the other posters is great advice. I have also found that dancers respond to multiple tips (even in smaller denominations) rather than a larger bill. Also, if you are spending time with a dancer at the bar or whatever, if he already has your large bill he will move on to make more money. I haven't yet made a ring out of money but I will certainly try to do that! Stripfan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
