TotallyOz Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 I went with a guy to night that was adorable. He was early 20's, very Emo looking and for a Thai guy, very light skinned. I like someone on a bit of the rough side so the first month he ignored me, peaked my interest. The next month, we smiled and this month we have chatted a little. Tonight, (after 3 months of hard work to get him to notice me) he went home with me. I was so excited and could not wait to have fun with him. But, he had the smallest dick I have ever seen. Well, not the smallest but I didn't know what to do with it. While I was not planning on him fucking me tonight, it would have been nice to be an option. For such a handsome, masculine young man, who told me he had a big dick, when it came to show and tell..... Is dick size really important to you? I see some escorts that are really ugly but have a great dick and know how to use it and are always busy. I have never seen this guy go off with anyone. But, I really like him even after tonight and will see him again. What is more important to you? dick or face? Both? Quote
Members Lucky Posted December 27, 2010 Members Posted December 27, 2010 Dick size is not important to me. While we all might enjoy looking at a big one, it's function that matters most. An average size cock works fine for me, and a small one can be dealt with. The main thing is that it gets hard and can stay hard. Quote
Guest zipperzone Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Size is not important - it's what it is attached to that matters........ Quote
TotallyOz Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 Size is not important - it's what it is attached to that matters........ I have always agreed. But, I had an ex BF, Brazilian for 5 years. He always said, the biggest dick is the top. He was about 8 inches. So, when we had 3 ways, if the guy was longer than 8, he topped the BF. If not, he got fucked. I never understood the mentality but he said it was a Brazilian thing. Quote
Guest CharliePS Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Anything between 3 inches and 9 inches is fine with me. But if he's really ugly, it had better be at the larger end. Quote
Members RA1 Posted December 27, 2010 Members Posted December 27, 2010 Anything between 3 inches and 9 inches is fine with me. But if he's really ugly, it had better be at the larger end. LOL. Best regards, RA1 Quote
Guest epigonos Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 A friend of mine once said that as far a cock size was concerned he would rather play with one that he could move up on rather than one he had to back away from. I am not now nor have I ever been a size queen. Quote
Members TampaYankee Posted December 27, 2010 Members Posted December 27, 2010 I went with a guy to night that was adorable. He was early 20's, very Emo looking and for a Thai guy, very light skinned. I like someone on a bit of the rough side so the first month he ignored me, peaked my interest. The next month, we smiled and this month we have chatted a little. ... Is dick size really important to you? I see some escorts that are really ugly but have a great dick and know how to use it and are always busy. I have never seen this guy go off with anyone. But, I really like him even after tonight and will see him again. What is more important to you? dick or face? Both? I've never dismissed anyone for having a dick too big, but then I am not a bottom. I do appreciate hefty meat for sure but not nearly as important has a nice phsyique and face. I do not require Michael Angelo's David either although I knew one in the past. I have a range of body types I like but outside that range is a bit too far. For me, faces very nice, but again I have a range from rough to beautiful that works for me. That said, more important than all of that is attitude and personality. Oz, your guy sounds perfectly, delightfully hot to me. I'm sure he would pique my lust. Quote
Guest Conway Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 For those of you that are bottoms exclusively, is there a dick that's too big for you? I am um, shall we say, gifted in the fat and thick way due to my Polish heritage, and have often been met by "holy shit|" and sometimes even flat out refused by smaller guys who didn't think they could handle it. I just hate the fact that I never realized how big it was while I was young enough to make porn. Quote
Guest Daddy Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 I've never dismissed anyone for having a dick too big, but then I am not a bottom. I do appreciate hefty meat for sure but not nearly as important has a nice phsyique and face. I do not require Michael Angelo's David either although I knew one in the past. I have a range of body types I like but outside that range is a bit too far. For me, faces very nice, but again I have a range from rough to beautiful that works for me. That said, more important than all of that is attitude and personality. Oz, your guy sounds perfectly, delightfully hot to me. I'm sure he would pique my lust. Leave it to Tampa Yankee to turn a simple question of dick size into a three paragraph rambling history of his past. Thank God ass-tightness and hole-size wasn't part of the OP's question. See you all in Palm Springs! My special guest will amaze you all. From a distance of course. Quote
Members RA1 Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 I've never dismissed anyone for having a dick too big, but then I am not a bottom. I do appreciate hefty meat for sure but not nearly as important has a nice phsyique and face. I do not require Michael Angelo's David either although I knew one in the past. I have a range of body types I like but outside that range is a bit too far. For me, faces very nice, but again I have a range from rough to beautiful that works for me. That said, more important than all of that is attitude and personality. Oz, your guy sounds perfectly, delightfully hot to me. I'm sure he would pique my lust. Most gentle spelling correction I have seen lately. Best regards, KMEM Quote
Members lookin Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 As a friend of mine said, I'm not a size queen but I can be impressed. Quote
Members MsGuy Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 Most gentle spelling correction I have seen lately. Best regards, KMEM KMEM, is that really you? Quote
Members TampaYankee Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 As a friend of mine said, I'm not a size queen but I can be impressed. Lookin, I'm very taken with your friend. Please let him know that he has a standing invitation for dinner at my place. Quote
TotallyOz Posted December 28, 2010 Author Posted December 28, 2010 Lookin, I'm very taken with your friend. Please let him know that he has a standing invitation for dinner at my place. Ty, I am sorry, but I don't even think you can handle an Oscar Myer hot dog. This boy is much more fit for my dinner. Quote
Guest NeedSome Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 I find that dick size is inversely related to the amount of time I spend with a guy. If I have him for an hour, size matters (especially if I am paying). If he's potential BF material, I don't really care as other attributes are more important. I also find that, being versatile, I get really turned on by fucking a guy who has a big dick. Quote
Members RA1 Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 KMEM, is that really you? Of course it is, as if you didn't know. I even had a full post some time back explaining that I have no idea why I thought I needed a different name here than there but that I am the same person. Best regards, RA1 aka KMEM Quote
Members MsGuy Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 Greatness?? Hahahahahaha...but please don't get that started over here! Quote
Members MsGuy Posted December 28, 2010 Members Posted December 28, 2010 Of course it is, as if you didn't know. No one ever lost money overestimating my ability to maintain a complete obliviousness to the obvious. I even remember thinking that it was a shame the two of you never posted in the same forum. LOL, I was sure you would be soul mates. I actually considered sending a PM to RA1 suggesting that he check out KMEM on the other site. I even had a full post some time back explaining that I have no idea why I thought I needed a different name here than there but that I am the same person. Either I missed the post or my brain was low on oxygen at the time and failed to store that admission in permanent memory. When I saw the errant signature I immediately checked out RA1's last few posts and, yep, the identity is indeed obvious. Quote
Members Lucky Posted December 29, 2010 Members Posted December 29, 2010 Lookin, I'm very taken with your friend. Please let him know that he has a standing invitation for dinner at my place. ...and a standing invitation to the Palm Springs Weekend! Quote
Members lookin Posted December 29, 2010 Members Posted December 29, 2010 I should have been clear that my friend is the one who said, 'I'm not a size queen but I can be impressed.', and not the guy in the picture. If my friend were the guy in the picture, do you think that I would be here posting at MER day and night? But he isn't and I am so maybe I'll go put some more of his pictures over in the Potluck thread. PS: My real friend is some years older and some inches less well-endowed than the guy in the picture. I know he'll be delighted when I forward all your kind invitations over to him. Quote
Guest Hoover42 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 [...] What is more important to you? dick or face? Both? Given the choice only between a cute guy with a small dick (under 5") or an ugly guy with something larger, I'll take the cute guy without hesitation. However, for me, a winning (sexy, fascinating, charming) personality can easily trump even the hottest looks. In general, I can't reliably predict who will turn me on. Quote
Members seattlebottom Posted January 2, 2011 Members Posted January 2, 2011 Don't like extra thick dicks. Quote
Guest lurkerspeaks Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 My motto is "big enough to feel--not big enough to hurt" Quote