12is12 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Went to Hero Massage on a weekday afternoon. Found it as welcoming as described on various forums: two English-speaking proprietors who put me at ease; clean and comfortable place; fixed prices at 600 Baht for the house and 1000 tip for the boy; had a drink while viewing the boys behind the glassed pane. There were about thirty of them, most of which surprisingly did next to nothing to attract customers. I asked who was really gay, and the owner told three boys to stand; then asked who has a big cock, and again three were made to stand up. Unfortunately there was no overlap between the two threesomes, so I opted for one of the latter group. The room was spacious, with a good shower and a wide massage bed. We showered together before and after, and the massage plus the extra were between ok and good. Which brings me to my question: The boy (who really had a big cock which I enjoyed) wouldn't suck me without a condom. When I later asked one of the owners about it, he confirmed that that's the way it is. Is this really so in Hero? At other Bangkok venues? Do they really think this is necessary to avoid AIDS? Quote
Members Lucky Posted November 21, 2010 Members Posted November 21, 2010 Your question is one of those that cannot rally be answered with certainty, except perhaps by regular patrons of Thai massage parlors. Each escort/masseur must be allowed to decide for himself what risk he is willing to take in terms of disease when having sex with strangers. Face it- you walk in off the street, the guy knows nothing about you, he may have a family of his own dependent on him staying healthy and providing for them. Does he suck the client without a condom just because that's what the client wants? Or does he make the choice that sucking without a condom is a relatively safe activity, especially absent someone cuming in his mouth? I always let the masseur/escort make the decision as to what is safe, even if I think he is being too conservative. (Now, if I know he is being downright unsafe, I don't shut my mouth, I tell him. For example, he can believe that barebacking is safe, but we won't be doing it!)) So, I'd be interested in how others answer this, if they do. But I don't want to end without thanking you for your trip reports, which I enjoyed. Quote
TotallyOz Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 I have had over 100 massages in Hero and never once did they ask to wear a condom for oral. They will suck without out and then put one one for anal if that was what you were going for. I was a bit surprised to see this. I'll give Hero a try on my next trip to Bangkok and report back here as the rules may have changed. And, personally, I don't care if they use condoms with oral as long as they are good at it. Quote
Members TampaYankee Posted November 21, 2010 Members Posted November 21, 2010 I don't care if they use condoms with oral as long as they are good at it. euwwwwww... it's like taking a shower with your socks on. Quote
Members Lucky Posted November 21, 2010 Members Posted November 21, 2010 euwwwwww... it's like taking a shower with your socks on. How do you know? Quote
Members TampaYankee Posted November 25, 2010 Members Posted November 25, 2010 How do you know? Experience is a great teacher, and sometimes, not so great, even if effective. Quote
Guest FourAces Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 euwwwwww... it's like taking a shower with your socks on. Its been a long time but once in a while I used to run into a escort who insisted I wear a condom for him to suck me. These were usually guys from CL. Quote