Guest Rian Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 The other day, met someone who said they seen me around before, but was just too nervous to email. And I get alot of guys tell me this! I have met several guys who are nearly trembling nervous when they open the door. Usually once they realize Im not going to burglarize or handcuff them on the spot, they usually get comfortable. Im pretty good at getting them to realize Im just there for fun like they are...but then there's some guys who are well into it who are still mentioning the word 'nervous/scared'. I always am at first too, but at the same time want to go about doing it. Just whenevr I hear it just want to say, dont be! Quote
Members TampaYankee Posted April 27, 2009 Members Posted April 27, 2009 The other day, met someone who said they seen me around before, but was just too nervous to email. And I get alot of guys tell me this! I have met several guys who are nearly trembling nervous when they open the door. Usually once they realize Im not going to burglarize or handcuff them on the spot, they usually get comfortable. Im pretty good at getting them to realize Im just there for fun like they are...but then there's some guys who are well into it who are still mentioning the word 'nervous/scared'. I always am at first too, but at the same time want to go about doing it. Just whenevr I hear it just want to say, dont be! Don't take it personally. It's just part of being a newbie client. Insecurity and uncertainty gives flight to sterotypes and paranoia. Just the act of going through with meeting a stranger for an intimate encounter is daunting to many of us. Uncertainty about who we are meeting, what is expected of the client, what should the client expect. Then there is the insecurity issue based on rare stories of reported past incidents. In anticipation of my first time, it crossed my mind more than once if I might be mugged or robbed. It motivated me go online to discover the original HooBoy review site. In fact this does essentially happen in some instances where the newbie gets ripped off by a scammer or worse an aggressive personality which has no intent to follow through on the agreement. Happens to experienced clients too. Fortunately, it is the exception rather than the rule. And to be fair the rare client does rip off the escort and more frequently wastes the escort's time with appointments never intended to be kept or no-showed because of a case of last minute cold feet. All part of the business. Don't take it personally. Quote
AdamSmith Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Everything TY said. handcuff them on the spot We can talk about this. Quote
Guest Rian Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 lol...I just knew Adam liked it like that, But no I dont take it in the wrong way that they're scared, just that sometimes I feel like they've probably put off meeting me because of it, but of course I'm ready when they are. iT definently seems more that the guys here (TX) are nervous than it was in Miami, for whatever reason. I would have thought guys down there would be more nervous to meet someone random... but I havent actually been told by someone that they were "scared" to meet me until I moved here. Then again, Floridians like to 'let you see' their guns...had it happen a few times where a guy just pulls out a gun and wants to tell you about it, what kind it is and feel how heavy it is, wtf.... havent had a client pull anything like that but I can guarantee that most of them have one somewhere and Im not trying to find out! Im not bothered by someone being nervous though...actually makes me more comfortable because then it lets me get them into it Quote
