Experience

[BiBottomBoy]

What's the most non-vanilla thing you've ever done with an escort and how much did it cost you?

[AdamSmith]

You first!

[Guest voke]

How about what it cost you and the experience didn't even rate a vanilla level?

[BiBottomBoy]

I had a dude piss on my ass in the shower while calling me a "little bitch" and assorted other key phrases.

It was in Paris a few years ago and I paid 250 euro.

Your turn!

You first!

[AdamSmith]

I had a dude piss on my ass in the shower while calling me a "little bitch" and assorted other key phrases.

It was in Paris a few years ago and I paid 250 euro.

Your turn!

OK, one of mine: Being bound, pissed on, then fucked by a (highly functional) Thai ladyboy. Couple years ago in NYC. $350 for the 2-hour gig.

...Water sports seem to be a theme.

[BiBottomBoy]

Sometimes piss you can't resist!

I didn't realize that ladyboys were capable of topping.

I so need to go to Thailand some day.

OK, one of mine: Being bound, pissed on, then fucked by a (highly functional) Thai ladyboy. Couple years ago in NYC. $350 for the 2-hour gig.

...Water sports seem to be a theme.

[Guest RodDallas]

What a great question. I don't intend this to be off topic, but it may be construed to be so. I appreciate any comments and / or suggestions for my future posts. I can't tell, but it doesn't seem like the escorts on this site spend any time really getting to know the prospective clients by sharing their thoughts here. It seems more like an opportunity for an ad to be placed. So I thought I would offer my thoughts on engaging an escort for a kink session.

Before I started escorting, I tried hiring several escorts during my travels around the world so that I would have a sense of the range of abilities and how well they met my expectations. Depending on whether one considers a Dom/sub role play engagement as kinky, I may or may not have engaged the services of an escort for kinky sex. I have been a player in that field of kink sex for many years. Frankly I was surprised at the range of abilities but more importantly range of mindsets. Even negotiating expectations in advance and repeating them when we met, did not always ensure a satisfactory outcome. After an unsatisfactory engagement, withholding a tip never seemed like enough to help my bruised libido.

The one thing that I have come to conclude and offer here is that if I was looking for an escort more dominant than I, the phone conversation was going to be critical in terms of making sure I got what I wanted from the experience. The words the escort used, the tone of his voice, the questions he asked about my needs were all going to be indicators of my satisfaction. Yes, attitude can be seductive, but if the conversation is all attitude and no real attempt at understanding my needs, or desires, then I realized that there would be no real attempt to please me even though I was offering cash. Should you get wind of this, I would suggest ending the conversation without formally engaging an escort's services. Oh and please don't show or not call if you said you would. You expect professionalism and courtesy and discretion from a hire, but I have been contacted from my post on this site and arrangements made and then had a no show or no follow up call that was scheduled.

I offered this because it seemed that the responses, at least thus far, were about individuals who sought a more dominant partner. However, I also know that it can work the other way. That if you prefer the dominant role in kink and engage an escort for a sub role and all you get is attitude I can't imagine how a satisfactory outcome will occur.

If this was in appropriate or out of line in any way, please forgive my forwardness.

And yes, I will provide services on both sides of a Dom/sub type of engagement, but adivse my clients not to expect to change roles in a given engagement. Someone who is truly working to be in character for you will find it hard if not impossible to shift roles and still deliver a satisfactory experience. My kink services do not end with a Dom/sub role play, but that is better left for individual discussion or a different thread.